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By *razySexyCoolCork OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cork

Just wondering how much notice people take of someone's body shape when getting intimate. I have a bit of a belly, which I'm conscious of, but it wouldn't stop me meeting someone and enjoying the fun.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Most people are self conscious for one reason or another. I'm more interested in a person's mind and their desire to explore than I am in their body shape.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Just wondering how much notice people take of someone's body shape when getting intimate. I have a bit of a belly, which I'm conscious of, but it wouldn't stop me meeting someone and enjoying the fun."

Ye I'm the same as you I have a belly and I am self conscious of it but it hasn't stopped me having fun. I don't take much notice of anyone else's body either as long as we get on and have good chemistry and fun then that is what matters more than them having a perfect body.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Just wondering how much notice people take of someone's body shape when getting intimate. I have a bit of a belly, which I'm conscious of, but it wouldn't stop me meeting someone and enjoying the fun.

Ye I'm the same as you I have a belly and I am self conscious of it but it hasn't stopped me having fun. I don't take much notice of anyone else's body either as long as we get on and have good chemistry and fun then that is what matters more than them having a perfect body. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've all got body insecurities at some level, but it would be very silly to let them interfere with our enjoyment of life. If someone wants to get naked with me, I'm assuming they find me attractive, far be it from me to disrespect their opinion

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I much prefer a woman who owns her body rather than allowing her body to own them

The way I look at it, I’m not going to change my own body shape over night, so I accept it as it is and find people who have the same attitude

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Body 'shape' generally doesn't enter my mind, but other physical attributes such as height, teeth, grooming, etc., would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how much notice people take of someone's body shape when getting intimate. I have a bit of a belly, which I'm conscious of, but it wouldn't stop me meeting someone and enjoying the fun."

Funny enough I was probably more conscious of my belly pre fab than I am now. Go and enjoy yourself no one when playing will go nope I don't like your belly. I call mine a soft landing

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Some of the best sex Ive had has been with women what have had lumps, bumps, mummy tummies, call it what you want. My own body isn't flawless either.

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Everyone has at least one part of there body that they fixate on for one reason or another, some times we could change it sometimes we cant, but the most important thing in life is to just be happy with what we have as there are so many people that have it a lot worse than we do, as for the female body every woman is beautiful in there own way.

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By *nowy007Woman
over a year ago

Near Enough

I jiggle all over and I have never felt more sexy or confident in my life. I like a little something to hold on to, but a connection and a great personality are more important than any buffed body.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Sex appeal has far more to do with just looks. The fickle may only be interested in the superficial but we all have our flaws. It’s about connecting with a person and sparking their imagination, having that connection. A glint in the eye and a smile are the things to look for and a wicked imagination.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

I'm a chubby girl. I am of course self conscious but not one person has ever complained. I get the impression that the extra cushion was appreciated tbh. I like my body a million times more than I did before fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All we have samething what we no liked in our body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies never let it bother you

Just say “Built for Comfort not Speed”

Can’t beat a bit of wibbly wobbly wonder especially when there’s a horny guy down under

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be on the cuddly side but that wouldn't bother me sure we're all different shapes and sizes fun is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how much notice people take of someone's body shape when getting intimate. I have a bit of a belly, which I'm conscious of, but it wouldn't stop me meeting someone and enjoying the fun.

Ye I'm the same as you I have a belly and I am self conscious of it but it hasn't stopped me having fun. I don't take much notice of anyone else's body either as long as we get on and have good chemistry and fun then that is what matters more than them having a perfect body. "

Same here, hate my belly, but when I'm having naked fun, I've no thoughts of how my belly looks, sure if I'm on my back gravity does its job lol and if I'm on all fours whoever is behind me can't see it

Win Win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfection is impossible. Being the perfect partner for someone on an evening of passion, well that is an entirely different proposition but oh so much fun??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was married I had crippling body insecurities which lead to very little sex mainly in the dark. But since becoming single and joining Fab I am the total opposite. I have learnt to embrace my imperfections. Confidence in one's self is way sexier than having the perfect body. I don't even notice my jiggly belly when I look in the mirror.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was married I had crippling body insecurities which lead to very little sex mainly in the dark. But since becoming single and joining Fab I am the total opposite. I have learnt to embrace my imperfections. Confidence in one's self is way sexier than having the perfect body. I don't even notice my jiggly belly when I look in the mirror."

Rosey they’re not imperfections or jiggly bits .

They’re you and thats what makes you unique.

Voluptuous,Curvaceous or Bubblicious whatever you wanna call it

Your Fabulicious

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"When I was married I had crippling body insecurities which lead to very little sex mainly in the dark. But since becoming single and joining Fab I am the total opposite. I have learnt to embrace my imperfections. Confidence in one's self is way sexier than having the perfect body. I don't even notice my jiggly belly when I look in the mirror."

Insecurity about body issues, I think not.

After looking at your pics I think you must have cataracts and can't see yourself properly. Gorgeous you are. X

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By *andyman11Man
over a year ago

dublin

Self confidence is the hottest thing a woman can have. It doesn’t matter what your shape or size happens to be, it’s all about how you carry yourself and how you work with what you’ve got. So, work that “belly” that you don’t have and stand up tall. No ones perfect...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was married I had crippling body insecurities which lead to very little sex mainly in the dark. But since becoming single and joining Fab I am the total opposite. I have learnt to embrace my imperfections. Confidence in one's self is way sexier than having the perfect body. I don't even notice my jiggly belly when I look in the mirror."

Bring in a relationship with the wrong person is incredibly detrimental to one's self-esteem, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how much notice people take of someone's body shape when getting intimate. I have a bit of a belly, which I'm conscious of, but it wouldn't stop me meeting someone and enjoying the fun."

OP, you have an amazing figure! I take complete notice but not in a negative way, once I click and hVe attraction with the person then my whole body and mind is involved. Yes we all have different bodies but once the spark and chemistry is there then I fully embrace it. More important to take notice of for me is attitude, confidence and the feeling in that moment

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like a body that has not hn neglected and smells good.

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By *ickalotapusMan
over a year ago

BANGOR

A woman's body is beautiful in all shapes and sizes. Nothing better than curves though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If Carlsberg did surprisingly big bellies....

But in the moment, I'm having fun. Sometimes with a top/babydoll left on, sometimes not but that's ok...can still let go and feel confident

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

This is not a catwalk audition, I love curves, I dont notice a belly if it's there,I had one myself for long enough, I'm judging the personality and not the body more often than not, I dont believe it makes that much of a difference to most people, social media and magazines have set unrealistic expectations for people, 95% of people are unlike what is put in front of us in magazines.

I had a look at your pics before writing this and there A1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience i think we all have few desires regards our bodies when playing with a new partner . These insecurities ease when your comfortable and relaxed with your play partner.

The mental spark/connection sends the lustful hormones to the brain faster than the physical appearance .

Maybe others differ but thats what fabs all about eh..

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

have a belly also (4 kids did a bit of damage there lol) while i was comfortable with the guy we had our meet with i had some lingerie on covering my stomach. i barely let my hubs see my stomach never mind anyone else but its a work in progress and im not getting any younger and ill prob never have my flatboard of my 20's so feck it, be grand. but i still wont let anyone see it ha ha

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

be yourself'' funny chatty' down to earth do it for me'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As some have said the perfect body is the one you own. I personally prefer a girl with a belly but everyone has they’re own preferences. But the main thing is never feel uncomfortable in your own body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone have some image of body they like but we should be conscious every body have imperfections or for ourselves or for the others ... but the right minds with sexy attitude can make them invisible or even use as advantage women who knows how to use her/his body is the sexiest thing ever

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By *otsureaboutMan
over a year ago

south

Straight lines are boring

Imagine spooning a stick insect

Motorway drive u could doze off

Country lanes with bends and curves to explore much more pleasant drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wish I was not so good looking and and my cock was a little bit smaller.

But I guess we all have our flaws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight lines are boring

Imagine spooning a stick insect

Motorway drive u could doze off

Country lanes with bends and curves to explore much more pleasant drive "

I do love when people on these threads start bodyshaming thin people

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

Ohhh I think the majority of people in the world have hang ups/insecurities about themselves OP. In an ideal world, I wouldn't have to hem/turn up every single pair of jeans I buy, my tummy would be slightly less rounder and there would be a cream to just magic away my bingo wings. Oh and something to stop me snorty laugh. But like you, I don't let these hang ups stop me. And that's the key thing there. So you do you OP

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Straight lines are boring

Imagine spooning a stick insect

Motorway drive u could doze off

Country lanes with bends and curves to explore much more pleasant drive

I do love when people on these threads start bodyshaming thin people "

Yes. No need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a reason I won't post a body pic is cause in shy about my weight I think we all have some hang up about our bodies

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

5'10" and 17st.

Yes I'm very conscious about what I look like.

Does it stop me meeting? Definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off you have a stunning figure, now to answer your question do people noitce the persons figure while getting allhot and heavy. I would say yes, but for me and i woukd say for alot of others the persons figure was part of what attracted them to said person

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

Big people think they are too big and thin people think they are too thin. We all have hang ups about our bodies. Fab has a lot wrong with it but I will always be grateful to here for letting me know that there are people genuinely into me for me some for my shape and some don’t care what my shape is as long as we click. Self confidence is the sexiest thing anyone can have and it will always attract people. I know it’s easier said than done. But it’s the truest thing I’ve learned in my years here.

PS I’ve had a bottle of wine so sorry if this sounds like crap. But we truly are all beautiful in our own way. Merry Christmas. xx

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By *nrealfeelMan
over a year ago

cork

Attraction in it’s natural form is not for someone’s body figure but cute smile or funny comment..... in modern days people are under the microscope before they’ve even meet.... I prefer comfortable mutual attraction to false fake senseless actions which aren’t beneficial for who’s involved but when the sparks spark let them light up the room till the early morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take any notice of people's body shape when it comes to sexy fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here, hate my belly, but when I'm having naked fun, I've no thoughts of how my belly looks, sure if I'm on my back gravity does its job lol and if I'm on all fours whoever is behind me can't see it

Win Win "

I like your style

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Body shape doesn't matter if the spark is there. Very few people don't have something about themselves that they'd like to change. But passion rules and that's the way it should be.

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By *elfastreal8Man
over a year ago

belfast


"Just wondering how much notice people take of someone's body shape when getting intimate. I have a bit of a belly, which I'm conscious of, but it wouldn't stop me meeting someone and enjoying the fun.

Ye I'm the same as you I have a belly and I am self conscious of it but it hasn't stopped me having fun. I don't take much notice of anyone else's body either as long as we get on and have good chemistry and fun then that is what matters more than them having a perfect body.

Same here, hate my belly, but when I'm having naked fun, I've no thoughts of how my belly looks, sure if I'm on my back gravity does its job lol and if I'm on all fours whoever is behind me can't see it

Win Win "

Think we all have our insecurities. If the sex doesn’t distract you from yours or other insecurities then the sex isn’t good enough

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By *elfastreal8Man
over a year ago

belfast


"The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!"

The “gym guys” take a bit of a pasting in here. The term “gym guys” I don’t care for. That’s like me saying “the non gym goers” or “the fat girls/guys”. The gym guys are doing what they enjoy and not bothering anyone. The gym guys also like women who aren’t possessing perfect bodies. We are shallow, we just like the way our bodies look and put the work in to achieve that. Prob best to say “well done”, not label them along with “dead kippers”.

Regards,

Gym going guy x

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By *elfastreal8Man
over a year ago

belfast


"The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!"

The “gym guys” take a bit of a pasting in here. The term “gym guys” I don’t care for. That’s like me saying “the non gym goers” or “the fat girls/guys”. The gym guys are doing what they enjoy and not bothering anyone. The gym guys also like women who aren’t possessing perfect bodies. We arent shallow, we just like the way our bodies look and put the work in to achieve that. Prob best to say “well done”, not label them along with “dead kippers”.

Regards,

Gym going guy x

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By *niffs VerbottenMan
over a year ago

Blue Town by the Rolling Breakers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!

The “gym guys” take a bit of a pasting in here. The term “gym guys” I don’t care for. That’s like me saying “the non gym goers” or “the fat girls/guys”. The gym guys are doing what they enjoy and not bothering anyone. The gym guys also like women who aren’t possessing perfect bodies. We arent shallow, we just like the way our bodies look and put the work in to achieve that. Prob best to say “well done”, not label them along with “dead kippers”.

Regards,

Gym going guy x"

Well said lots of fit people bashing goes on here it's very judgemental

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!

The “gym guys” take a bit of a pasting in here. The term “gym guys” I don’t care for. That’s like me saying “the non gym goers” or “the fat girls/guys”. The gym guys are doing what they enjoy and not bothering anyone. The gym guys also like women who aren’t possessing perfect bodies. We arent shallow, we just like the way our bodies look and put the work in to achieve that. Prob best to say “well done”, not label them along with “dead kippers”.

Regards,

Gym going guy x

Well said lots of fit people bashing goes on here it's very judgemental "

I wasn't bashing gym guys per day, it was gym guys who are shit at sex or pandas! The same as my miss world comment. Sorry if I gave that impression. Hope that clarifies that.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!

The “gym guys” take a bit of a pasting in here. The term “gym guys” I don’t care for. That’s like me saying “the non gym goers” or “the fat girls/guys”. The gym guys are doing what they enjoy and not bothering anyone. The gym guys also like women who aren’t possessing perfect bodies. We arent shallow, we just like the way our bodies look and put the work in to achieve that. Prob best to say “well done”, not label them along with “dead kippers”.

Regards,

Gym going guy x

Well said lots of fit people bashing goes on here it's very judgemental

I wasn't bashing gym guys per day, it was gym guys who are shit at sex or pandas! The same as my miss world comment. Sorry if I gave that impression. Hope that clarifies that.x"

It certainly came across like that , we are all much more then our bodies and shouldn't be judged for them

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Just wondering how much notice people take of someone's body shape when getting intimate. I have a bit of a belly, which I'm conscious of, but it wouldn't stop me meeting someone and enjoying the fun.

Ye I'm the same as you I have a belly and I am self conscious of it but it hasn't stopped me having fun. I don't take much notice of anyone else's body either as long as we get on and have good chemistry and fun then that is what matters more than them having a perfect body. "

Yes, I agree with this Bo, well said.

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!

The “gym guys” take a bit of a pasting in here. The term “gym guys” I don’t care for. That’s like me saying “the non gym goers” or “the fat girls/guys”. The gym guys are doing what they enjoy and not bothering anyone. The gym guys also like women who aren’t possessing perfect bodies. We arent shallow, we just like the way our bodies look and put the work in to achieve that. Prob best to say “well done”, not label them along with “dead kippers”.

Regards,

Gym going guy x"

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

When people look in the mirror all they see is the spot on their chin, or the imperfections. Even people with awesome bodies find a bit of skin somewhere to pinch and look at and not like.

Some people wont have the confidence to get naked infront of someone they liked, so none of it matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a chubby girl. I am of course self conscious but not one person has ever complained. I get the impression that the extra cushion was appreciated tbh. I like my body a million times more than I did before fab."

Same. Fab has made me much more body positive and appreciative of my curves (lumps and bumps ) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Body shape doesn't matter if the spark is there. Very few people don't have something about themselves that they'd like to change. But passion rules and that's the way it should be."

Well said. A naughty, intelligent, humorous mind body, for me.

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

some people like yoga' some run up or climb mountains' some people go to gyms ' I don't think im better then the next one' I do as it something i like doing' as far as i see on the profiles on here' ladies are all hot'' ladies' just be yourselfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!

The “gym guys” take a bit of a pasting in here. The term “gym guys” I don’t care for. That’s like me saying “the non gym goers” or “the fat girls/guys”. The gym guys are doing what they enjoy and not bothering anyone. The gym guys also like women who aren’t possessing perfect bodies. We arent shallow, we just like the way our bodies look and put the work in to achieve that. Prob best to say “well done”, not label them along with “dead kippers”.

Regards,

Gym going guy x

Well said lots of fit people bashing goes on here it's very judgemental

I wasn't bashing gym guys per day, it was gym guys who are shit at sex or pandas! The same as my miss world comment. Sorry if I gave that impression. Hope that clarifies that.x"

These threads do often go to the other extreme and start stereotyping "gym fit" people or insulting "stick insects" but tbf the above posters comment was very clearly stating they dont care about body type if the sex is good they were obbiously not insulting gym going people or the current or former Miss World

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Just wondering how much notice people take of someone's body shape when getting intimate. I have a bit of a belly, which I'm conscious of, but it wouldn't stop me meeting someone and enjoying the fun."

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Am naturally athletic, healthy & okay with my body. Don't look the same as when I had more hair, was ripped, eating 6 meals a day & drinking protein shakes (who was that obsessive nutter anyway? ) ...but am okay now with my lot.

Have no problem being intimate with a partner carrying some pounds & curves as am turned on more by a woman's smile & mind more that just aesthetics.

I always say and honestly believe that

"Sexy is a state of mind, not numbers on a scale"

...so think, feel & be sassy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's interesting that a "good fit body" or "good looks" seem to equate to great sex.

sex is a learnt experience, we have to 1st learn how to do it, how to enjoy it & importantly how to make it a shared fun experience.

practice makes perfect the body may enjoy sex but it's the mind that really derives the pleasure.

size, shape or looks are no guarantee of good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's interesting that a "good fit body" or "good looks" seem to equate to great sex.

sex is a learnt experience, we have to 1st learn how to do it, how to enjoy it & importantly how to make it a shared fun experience.

practice makes perfect the body may enjoy sex but it's the mind that really derives the pleasure.

size, shape or looks are no guarantee of good sex"

I dont think anyone above said good shape or looks equate to great sex.

However what does is a mix of high levels of desire and attraction ( which varies forveveryone but can include certain physical appearances) along with some baisc knowledge and skill.

Sex its rocket science to be fair.

As much as we would all like to profess some rockstar levels of know how it really boils down to the desire to please the other person or not. Young or old experianced or not

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

My tummy has stretch marks and a scare going from tummy button to pubes. I do worry at times about it but, I'm just thankful to be here and enjoying life.

Only had one hateful man who was desparate to fuck me, I wasn't sure after meeting for a social. He pestered and pestered, then came the message - " you are very fat" lol

This after chomping at the bit to meet me...oh how I laughed, plus I told him " you are way to old".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the muscle Mary gym bods does wonders for my confidence lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's interesting that a "good fit body" or "good looks" seem to equate to great sex.

sex is a learnt experience, we have to 1st learn how to do it, how to enjoy it & importantly how to make it a shared fun experience.

practice makes perfect the body may enjoy sex but it's the mind that really derives the pleasure.

size, shape or looks are no guarantee of good sex

I dont think anyone above said good shape or looks equate to great sex.

However what does is a mix of high levels of desire and attraction ( which varies forveveryone but can include certain physical appearances) along with some baisc knowledge and skill.

Sex its rocket science to be fair.

As much as we would all like to profess some rockstar levels of know how it really boils down to the desire to please the other person or not. Young or old experianced or not"

we are visual creatures and initial physical attraction is certainly what sparks an interest for the majority if we are honest

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By *hesheik80Man
over a year ago

ctroy

Hey OP,I had to check your profile and was expecting ‘Big Mommas House’ but no,IMO you have v.sexy curves and carry them well. Fair play on asking question,I wouldn’t be brave enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it’s all about connection ,chemistry and personality with me

Saying that I would reject any really fit gym going six pack displaying guy as I would feel body shamed due to my own insecurities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in Fab at least, men are much more forgiving towards the body flaws of ladies, where a lot of Fab ladies and couples , for the most part, tend to look for a specific body type.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!

The “gym guys” take a bit of a pasting in here. The term “gym guys” I don’t care for. That’s like me saying “the non gym goers” or “the fat girls/guys”. The gym guys are doing what they enjoy and not bothering anyone. The gym guys also like women who aren’t possessing perfect bodies. We arent shallow, we just like the way our bodies look and put the work in to achieve that. Prob best to say “well done”, not label them along with “dead kippers”.

Regards,

Gym going guy x

Well said lots of fit people bashing goes on here it's very judgemental

I wasn't bashing gym guys per day, it was gym guys who are shit at sex or pandas! The same as my miss world comment. Sorry if I gave that impression. Hope that clarifies that.x

It certainly came across like that , we are all much more then our bodies and shouldn't be judged for them "

As an example of what I said, we met a gym goer, very proud of his body and we have no problem with that. Except he had the smallest cock either of us had ever seen and I'm talking thumb size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more mature you get and the more fun you have on fab makes you realise body shape is more or less inconsequential. Already alluded to is the mind and attitude towards sex. Miss world might have the perfect body but if she can't do a blow job for shit or lies like a dead kipper, well, we don't want to know, same goes for gym going guys, enough said!

The “gym guys” take a bit of a pasting in here. The term “gym guys” I don’t care for. That’s like me saying “the non gym goers” or “the fat girls/guys”. The gym guys are doing what they enjoy and not bothering anyone. The gym guys also like women who aren’t possessing perfect bodies. We arent shallow, we just like the way our bodies look and put the work in to achieve that. Prob best to say “well done”, not label them along with “dead kippers”.

Regards,

Gym going guy x

Well said lots of fit people bashing goes on here it's very judgemental

I wasn't bashing gym guys per day, it was gym guys who are shit at sex or pandas! The same as my miss world comment. Sorry if I gave that impression. Hope that clarifies that.x

It certainly came across like that , we are all much more then our bodies and shouldn't be judged for them

As an example of what I said, we met a gym goer, very proud of his body and we have no problem with that. Except he had the smallest cock either of us had ever seen and I'm talking thumb size."

So now you're judging him for what is essentially an accident of birth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all definitely have body insecurities but I think women let it get in their own heads too much. I actually love when a girl has a bit of a belly some really sexy about it to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve really no interest in the so called perfect body.... ( we can tell we seen yours i hear you shout!)

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