FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckolding

By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

Any couple or woman looking for a cuckold to experiment with i have some great ideas a little experience and an abundance of enthusiasm for it lol its proving very very difficult to find loads show interest then they disappear etc

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

The cuckold is the male half of the couple. If they are looking for a 3rd then they are looking for the bull not the cuck.

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

I understand the concept just fine i realise this.....i want to be a pretend cuckold for a couple or a random womans cuckold help her get loads of big cock and do whatever she says is that a bit more clear i apologise lol

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By *argus12Man
over a year ago

meath dublin / london

Cuckold specialist at your service

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

More or less the while point of this scenario is the "taking" of the female partner from him which humiliates him. If she isn't a real partner it's not the same thing. Thay may be why you're struggling to get any takers. If it's the humiliation part that appeals to you than there are better ways to achieve this.

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

Im all ears tell me...its more of a fantacy than a reality for me as im quite dominant by nature and have a big penis its the mental stimulation gets me goin

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Now I'm even more confused... you're Dominant, but you want to meet a female to pretend to be your partner, while you watch her fuck someone else? Have I got that right?

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

Thats it give or take i suppose i am baffled by ur attitude towards what im into lol its strange this is a sex site for strange fantacies yes?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I wasnt judging.. I was just checking as it's a very unusual request. Good luck in your search!

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Do you want the degradation part?

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

Yes that is a big part of it for me

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"The cuckold is the male half of the couple. If they are looking for a 3rd then they are looking for the bull not the cuck. "

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Classic!

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By *elicatedelicateCouple
over a year ago

Southside

I don’t know who this couple filthy nights is but they have major argumentative red flags

Everyone has their kinks. Maybe some are confusing or unusual to you and that’s......... perfectly fine.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I don’t know who this couple filthy nights is but they have major argumentative red flags

Everyone has their kinks. Maybe some are confusing or unusual to you and that’s......... perfectly fine."

Go back and read the first post. What OP is looking for was clear as mud. I was clarifying. Hes not going to find what hes loking for if he is unclear. The VAST majority of people here are looking to have sex themselves, rather than what this guys is loking for, which is why I was questioning in order to clarify. What he is looking for is more akin to roleplay than cuckolding.

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

So basically you want to play the role of a sub with a dominant couple. Referring to yourself as a cuckold is going to cause some confusion as indicated above but your fantasy isn't unusual it very common.

Finding a single woman to cuckold you may be the harder of the two because there is no shortage of guys that want this. You just have to be patient and find ways to stand out from the crowd.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'll add that as a couple,,, bringing in a Dominant man who is roleplaying a submissive cuck hubby with the female part of the couple, isnt something we wouldnt agree to. I would be too concerned that he would come out of the role and be looking for actual sex himself, contrary to what he is claiming to be loking for.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"So basically you want to play the role of a sub with a dominant couple. Referring to yourself as a cuckold is going to cause some confusion as indicated above but your fantasy isn't unusual it very common.

Finding a single woman to cuckold you may be the harder of the two because there is no shortage of guys that want this. You just have to be patient and find ways to stand out from the crowd.

Yes I think you have it. He is looking to Sub for a Dom couple I think. Which IS unususl for a Dominant no?

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

Finding a single woman to cuckold you may be the harder of the two because there is no shortage of guys that want this. You just have to be patient and find ways to stand out from the crowd.

Yes I think you have it. He is looking to Sub for a Dom couple I think. Which IS unususl for a Dominant no?"

I think he is still finding his way but he could potentially grow into what is referred to as a switch which is what I am.

I am predominantly either confident and/or dominant sexually but in certain circumstances I would be happy to explore my submissive side.....only with a woman though, I'm just not wired to be submissive when meeting a couple lol

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

"I'll add that as a couple,,, bringing in a Dominant man who is roleplaying a submissive cuck hubby with the female part of the couple, isnt something we wouldnt agree to. I would be too concerned that he would come out of the role and be looking for actual sex himself, contrary to what he is claiming to be loking for. "

U are dead right after it was all lets say over i would need sexual play to bring me back to my normal self in a sense so u are intelligent u just come across as a pig lol

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

If you look back I didnt make any personal comments about you at all, so I'd say the name calling is uncalled for. Perhaps next time try and explain fully and clearly what yoh are looking for, so this questioning isnt needed.

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

I never said u were anything just said its the way u come across i apologise

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin

"Now I'm even more confused... you're Dominant, but you want to meet a female to pretend to be your partner, while you watch her fuck someone else? Have I got that right?"

You know there are such things as a switch? No need to come across as so argumentative, at least that's how you come across by those messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know if im allowed mention this here .you might be better of trying fet...life ,all one word you seem to be leaning more to kink .

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Now I'm even more confused... you're Dominant, but you want to meet a female to pretend to be your partner, while you watch her fuck someone else? Have I got that right?

You know there are such things as a switch? No need to come across as so argumentative, at least that's how you come across by those messages."

Yes I am well aware what a switch is.. I was just asking questions and trying to build a picture of what OP was looking for as it was very unclear. Had I not done so then most people would probably still be as confused as I was.

If anyone is into his scenario then they are now able to get in touch with him.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Don't know if im allowed mention this here .you might be better of trying fet...life ,all one word you seem to be leaning more to kink ."

100%

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By *my4bbcWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Cuckold can take on many forms some not just a humiliation for the husband sometimes it's a empowering thing for the man that he trust his partner so much he is comfortable with her having fun but it takes a strong man to not feel threatened by the situation there has to be ultimate trust between the couple

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Cuckolding isnt cuckolding without some kind of humiliation aspect. Otherwise it's just a threesome (or exhibitionism/voyeurism if the partner doesnt join in)

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By *exy duo500Couple
over a year ago

wexford

"Cuckolding isnt cuckolding without some kind of humiliation aspect. Otherwise it's just a threesome (or exhibitionism/voyeurism if the partner doesnt join in)"

So very true

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Cuckolding isnt cuckolding without some kind of humiliation aspect. Otherwise it's just a threesome (or exhibitionism/voyeurism if the partner doesnt join in)"
Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok my head hurts lol

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

". . . this is a sex site for strange fantacies yes?"

No, at least not primarily. This is a swinging site.

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

"Cuckold can take on many forms some not just a humiliation for the husband sometimes it's a empowering thing for the man that he trust his partner so much he is comfortable with her having fun but it takes a strong man to not feel threatened by the situation there has to be ultimate trust between the couple "

I know the term get used on this site for different scenarios but it's being used incorrectly. Cuckolding is all about the humiliation. It would be equivalent to saying threesom when there's only two people present

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By *my4bbcWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Funny thing is if you look up cuckold humiliation isn't mentioned anywhere I suppose sex kinks are seen differently by different people

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By *my4bbcWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Like small minded people who block you because of a different opinion how sad

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Your husband is a voyeur, not a cuck... and I will block anyone i like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey everyone on this thread, I have read this thread with interest as it is something I am passionate about. I have loads of experience in this niche of the lifestyle and consider my sexuality as a BULL, not straight, bi, gay or anything else. I really feel I can make a judgement on this arguement between _ilthynights and OP.

Filthynights initially misunderstood what OP is seeking, this is becuase of her perception of the concept of cuckolding in its traditional meaning only, and not as a fetish. What OP is seeking is very common, more common than you can imagine if you are not in the lifestyle. The fact that he is naturally dominant and have a big cock as he claims is also not unusual at all. There are many couples where the male is naturally dominant with her, have a decent cuck and is still very happy to be cuckold.

As per he wanting to be cuckolded as a single guy is nothing but a fetish. There are couples seeking a guy to play the role of a cuck, that is exactly what OP is seeking, he would watch, do as he is told, clean up etc depending on their mutual kinks. Alternatively a single woman that would cuckold him, have sex with another man while he plays the role of the cuck. All three dont have to be in a relationship, they could even be meeting for the first time in a club or something.

But like someone already mentioned, there are loads of single cuck wannabes seeking this, so OP will really need to stand out as there are fewer couples and single females seeking cuck. His best bet is to attend cuckold themed events at clubs and parties.

Filthynights thought on OP having a big cock and being naturally dominant might imply that he is looking for actual sex himself might be valid, but if OP actually has a big cock and is naturally dominant, then he stands a much more better chance of scoring by seeking to play the role of a bull. This is why I would dismiss the concern.

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

Almost perfectly spot on

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"Hey everyone on this thread, I have read this thread with interest as it is something I am passionate about. I have loads of experience in this niche of the lifestyle and consider my sexuality as a BULL, not straight, bi, gay or anything else. I really feel I can make a judgement on this arguement between _ilthynights and OP.

The basic flaw in this post is not understanding that cuckolding an only be between partners in an actual relationship, anything else is not cuckolding, it's simply roleplay. The main motivation for the cuck is to experience the sensation of having his partner with whom he has a deep connection with, taken by another, that cannot be replicated outside of a relationship

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I understand the Op completely as i desire the same thing.

Maybe better described as a slave to a couple or to a promiscuous lady with cuckold aspects.

Chasitiy tease and deniel serving them both in many different ways

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"I understand the Op completely as i desire the same thing.

Maybe better described as a slave to a couple or to a promiscuous lady with cuckold aspects.

Chasitiy tease and deniel serving them both in many different ways "

Yes, but it's not cuckolding, it's simply a D/s rolepky scenario

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

"I understand the Op completely as i desire the same thing.

Maybe better described as a slave to a couple or to a promiscuous lady with cuckold aspects.

Chasitiy tease and deniel serving them both in many different ways

Yes, but it's not cuckolding, it's simply a D/s rolepky scenario "

You are 100% right but I understand where he is coming from

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

Don’t think cuckold role playing in this setup will work in my humble opinion . The cuck must be deeply emotionally attached to the hotwife to get his kick . It’s the angst , fear of loss of his precious that makes him aroused . The setup of the OP just serves a voyeurs crave but not a cuckold , not even a stag /hotwife game , but it’s only our opinion.

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By *ippcplCouple
over a year ago

Munstrer IRE

"Don’t think cuckold role playing in this setup will work in my humble opinion . The cuck must be deeply emotionally attached to the hotwife to get his kick . It’s the angst , fear of loss of his precious that makes him aroused . The setup of the OP just serves a voyeurs crave but not a cuckold , not even a stag /hotwife game , but it’s only our opinion.

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

Ok then hear goes any couple or single woman like to ROLEPLAY a cuckold scenario lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry posted last reply before I was able to say, goodluck OP

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Ok then hear goes any couple or single woman like to ROLEPLAY a cuckold scenario lol"

You're close. I would say something like...

Sub male looking for a Dominant couple to roleplay that I am a cuck. Afterwards I would like to have sex with the female too.

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

U make me laugh lol u write the add there so for me altogether cause u no what i want better than i do lol

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"U make me laugh lol u write the add there so for me altogether cause u no what i want better than i do lol"

Believe it or not we have met sub guys before as a couple and will I'm sure again. Folks need to know what you're looking for though or noone will be able to agree to it. Being concise and being able to communicate what you want is important. I hope you find what youre looking for.

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By *lltypesofsex OP Man
over a year ago

raheen

I appreciate that thank you if u ever want to hear any ideas of mine etc pm me if not have fun doin what ur doin best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"U make me laugh lol u write the add there so for me altogether cause u no what i want better than i do lol"

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