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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cock pic as a profile pic or in your public pics.....

Is it ok or not ok.

Thoughts please.

Why is it ok for the girls to show their flesh?

Does it ruin the imagination or excitement of what to expect????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pic as a profile pic or in your public pics.....

Is it ok or not ok.

Thoughts please.

Why is it ok for the girls to show their flesh?

Does it ruin the imagination or excitement of what to expect????"

This depends. Work out who your target group

is and what their general feeling about dick pics is. Personally, if I see a message with a dick pic as the user’s profile pic, it’s an instant delete. However I do make this clear in my profile text.

That’s just me though...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Would put us off. A nice teasing torso or full body would be ideal

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I prefer teasing pics but in saying that it wouldn't stop me chatting to someone either. It's the messages they send would be a bigger influence on that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A lot of women are like you. Well my target is women. So I guess your right. Women dont like cock pics yet they enjoy sharing their xxx rated pics. It's a hard one to call, so there double standards. I've never been to a swinging party I am a newbie.. so I'm just learning the ropes. Hoping to meet someone soon for my first steamy adventure, so I'm trying everything. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tried that with my sexy next boxers. Lol. That was so far the best pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer teasing pics but in saying that it wouldn't stop me chatting to someone either. It's the messages they send would be a bigger influence on that. "

Totally agree. Sometimes messages are lost. The tone of your language can be lost text.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"A lot of women are like you. Well my target is women. So I guess your right. Women dont like cock pics yet they enjoy sharing their xxx rated pics. It's a hard one to call, so there double standards. I've never been to a swinging party I am a newbie.. so I'm just learning the ropes. Hoping to meet someone soon for my first steamy adventure, so I'm trying everything. Lol

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I didnt say that I didnt like cock pics. I just dont want to see one as my first introduction to a profile. Personally we dont have explicit pics on our profile even let alone our profile pic.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

That's WAY better!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback!! Hopefully it will swing me in the right direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pic as a profile pic or in your public pics.....

Is it ok or not ok.

Thoughts please.

Why is it ok for the girls to show their flesh?

Does it ruin the imagination or excitement of what to expect????"
It's your profile you show and say what every you want not what others want.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Cock pic as a profile pic or in your public pics.....

Is it ok or not ok.

Thoughts please.

Why is it ok for the girls to show their flesh?

Does it ruin the imagination or excitement of what to expect???? It's your profile you show and say what every you want not what others want. "

Well that's easy to say as a super desirable 21yr old athletic woman who's inbox imploded with hundreds of messages... a 34yr old unverified male has to try a lot harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pic as a profile pic or in your public pics.....

Is it ok or not ok.

Thoughts please.

Why is it ok for the girls to show their flesh?

Does it ruin the imagination or excitement of what to expect???? It's your profile you show and say what every you want not what others want.

Well that's easy to say as a super desirable 21yr old athletic woman who's inbox imploded with hundreds of messages... a 34yr old unverified male has to try a lot harder."
Why so? you can't ride a profile.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Because you dont even have to try. An unverified male has to work very hard to be noticed amongst the other 50,000 unverified males.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's very hard to meet. Its impossible to get verified then8.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"It's very hard to meet. Its impossible to get verified then8."

It's not impossible. Aim for a coffee meet. Use your wit and charm and bring your a-game. If you cant convince a female to have a coffee with you then you might as well give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very hard to meet. Its impossible to get verified then8.

It's not impossible. Aim for a coffee meet. Use your wit and charm and bring your a-game. If you cant convince a female to have a coffee with you then you might as well give up."

Ahhh..come on ... you can't tell a guy if he can't convince a female to have a coffee he might as well give up ..if that was the case there would be very few guys here ..l've sent loads of messages to ladies ..loads Never replied ..but just because they don't reply or chat you can't throw in the towel,ladies that don't reply to a guy shouldnt spoil or dishearten a guys time here .

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Dont blame the messenger.. but if you cant pull a female for a coffee then you may as well not bother being here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It does feel disheartening! A reply would be nice, or even a reason to why they blocked you. Some will block you calling them hun babe etc in the first message, really?!!! Does that deserve a block. It's really like walking in eggshells with some profiles it would make you nervous composing and sending a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does feel disheartening! A reply would be nice, or even a reason to why they blocked you. Some will block you calling them hun babe etc in the first message, really?!!! Does that deserve a block. It's really like walking in eggshells with some profiles it would make you nervous composing and sending a message "

It might be any number of reasons hey block you, but it boils down to one: they dont want to fuck you.

A block saves you and them time. Dont see it as a bad thing, its not like being unfriended on facebook, ye were never friends they are just narrowing down potential sexual partners

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

As shallow as it sounds, I like a nice cock pic, don't even mind them in the first message...Mr. Date.....I mean Mrs Datenite

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Not really a fan of cock pics, mainly because few can do them tastefully... They're usually just an 'in your face' close-up either over a toilet, poking out of their underwear/pants, or they've just pushed down the duvet in the dark... Whereas a tastefully taken photo makes all the difference, particularly if it's part of a full body pic.

Most guys attitude to photos is 'my dick is out, might as well take a pic'... and it shows! But it's the ones who's photos show some taste, thought and effort that get our attention, because that often translates into putting thought and effort into other things too

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Think of it this way... by blocking you they are saving you the wasted time messaging.. when they know they arent gonna fuck you. They are saving you time and allowing you to concentrate on more viable options.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think of it this way... by blocking you they are saving you the wasted time messaging.. when they know they arent gonna fuck you. They are saving you time and allowing you to concentrate on more viable options."

Just wondering would you meet me in lismore for a coffee? Maybe you could verify me?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

If you were local I probably would.. but sorry am in Dublin at the mo

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

Its the ones with the cock sticking out of the top of the sweat pants ... Boke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its the ones with the cock sticking out of the top of the sweat pants ... Boke"

Lol

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