FabSwingers.com forum: New meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do ya get a meet if no1 will meet ya because you dont have a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the bouncers approach

“Sorry regulars only” - “but how can I become a regular if you won’t let me in”

- “just move along there your blocking the entrance”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty people that will meet non verified people for a social as well as meet and greets.

If you search the forums for tips for newbies you might pick up some helpful ideas

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

In 3 words..

"Make an effort"

...that means an enticing profile, pics & ice breaker...

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

You've actually spent more time writing this post whingeing than you did writing your profile, cock blocking yourself there.

Add a variety of pics to your profile. Take the time to write something that might catch someone's eye.

DO NOT SEND COCK PICS

Chat in the forum, the chat room etc.

We all climbed over the stumbling blocks your meeting, dust yourself off, get up and try again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met plenty of unverified people to give them first verify and advice over over coffee. People were kind to me when I started off. For the most part they were polite well mannered and respectful of the fact it was just coffee. But unfortunately couple of males put me off. They misunderstood my kind offer of just coffee and thought they were getting a blowjob in the car after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont have time for coffee

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By *tefanCoolMan
over a year ago

Monaghan

Well best of luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont have time for coffee "
so u expect someone to just meet ya for a ride good luck with that

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Dont have time for coffee "

What do you have time for then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sex site not coffee site

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Sex site not coffee site"

Dial-a-ride.com.....try there

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin

"Sex site not coffee site"

Have you tried the local escort services in your area? Must have a special offer this time of year for people like yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex site not coffee site"

Ah sure all the ladies are queuing up with their legs spread waiting for you. Good luck with that.

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

"Sex site not coffee site

Have you tried the local escort services in your area? Must have a special offer this time of year for people like yourself"

Newry escorts possibly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have wife for coffee shop

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Sex site not coffee site"

Casual sex doesn't mean instant sex. People are still allowed to have standards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah but you no if you want to have sex with some1 without coffee

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin

"Have wife for coffee shop "

Isn't she a lucky girl, well spoilt

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

We don't have Tools R Us in newry so you'll have to try Screwfix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex site not coffee site

Casual sex doesn't mean instant sex. People are still allowed to have standards. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct me if I'm wrong but short version seems to be that you want to meet and fuck without putting any effort in at all cos when you know, you know.

Question then is, how are either party gonna know without you putting the effort in, you know?

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

Well at least he's owned up he's married and he don't do coffee so any takers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have wife for coffee shop "

Your wife is a coffee shop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No time for coffee?

I'm envious of the lucky woman already!! It'll be the fuck of her life if he's got the time!!

Daisy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex site not coffee site"

Why are all the good ones so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't have Tools R Us in newry so you'll have to try Screwfix. "

Very good

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Well at least he's owned up he's married and he don't do coffee so any takers "

He doesn't really have the art of conversation though

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

"Well at least he's owned up he's married and he don't do coffee so any takers

He doesn't really have the art of conversation though

Yes and I think this is why he will get no meets but if he changes his mind about going for coffee he might win this back

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

[Removed by poster at 09/12/19 18:14:04]

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yeah but you no if you want to have sex with some1 without coffee"

You're obviously very discerning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So who wants to be licky nunber 1

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'd close this profile and start again if I were you OP. This profile is not gonna get you laid.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Well at least he's owned up he's married and he don't do coffee so any takers

He doesn't really have the art of conversation though

Yes and I think this is why he will get no meets but if he changes his mind about going for coffee he might win this back "

You reckon? Married, no time for getting to know someone, wants a quick ride, lacking sentence structure....hmmmmmm, let me think??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok il fit you on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear jaysus this is a recurring problem with alot of the messages i receive put some god damn effort in can guarentee no woman is going to meet open her legs and give you the ride we aint prostitutes here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont have time for coffee "

So you don't have time for coffee... Which means you don't have time to give a lady a chance to meet and verify you which is what your post is about in the first place......kinda hard to fathom that one but anyway hope things work out for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Playin hard to get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Playin hard to get

Ain't that the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Playin hard to get

You really won't have to after this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wouldn go down on you anyway

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Maybe it’s the messages you’re sending

yes I know you just sent me one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn go down on you anyway"

That's not what you said when you messaged us lol. But hey, any hole's a goal, right buddy? Thankfully we're a little more discerning

Good luck in your quest for that elusive meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously, this thread is still going,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must be good

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Dont talk I'm on it longer then I can think off and Ive put effort in and still no luck on it I e more men msging me looking fun then women not easy for us guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like OP is what makes fab horrible.

Finding genuine single men, who are brave enough not to chicken out is hard enough. Finding Men, who are willing to put some effort in is almost impossible.

Personally I would absolutely hate meeting a married man. Why?

Because I know he'll put more effort into seducing me than seducing his own wife, who he's busy complaining about for not having a sex drive and I would absolutely hate my own man to pay more attention to some random bimbo who may spread her legs for him than me.

Also many more other reasons.

Don't have time for a coffee?? Don't have time to get to know someone enough to have chemistry? Delete your profile now. This is not a dial a ride.

Swinging is based on respecting others preferences. Swinging is about making ALL parties happy.

You, OP seem to be one entitled and rude person, I genuinely wish there was less of your type on this site.

P.S. I had your profile blocked before, I'm certain it's for a good reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im glad u blocked me

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

"People like OP is what makes fab horrible.

Finding genuine single men, who are brave enough not to chicken out is hard enough. Finding Men, who are willing to put some effort in is almost impossible.

Personally I would absolutely hate meeting a married man. Why?

Also many more other reasons.

Don't have time for a coffee?? Don't have time to get to know someone enough to have chemistry? Delete your profile now. This is not a dial a ride.

Swinging is based on respecting others preferences. Swinging is about making ALL parties happy.

You, OP seem to be one entitled and rude person, I genuinely wish there was less of your type on this site.

P.S. I had your profile blocked before, I'm certain it's for a good reason. "

Yes this is about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im glad u blocked me"

Me too

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Hey missus what your saying is dead right but I'd like to think I'm a genuine guy and wont chicken out to meet up even for a coffee but still no luck on here so weather your nice are not and your still not guaranteed a meet I'm not agree with the way he going on and with his remarks but u dont blame guys that get fed up with not getting meets are even s social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People like OP is what makes fab horrible.

Finding genuine single men, who are brave enough not to chicken out is hard enough. Finding Men, who are willing to put some effort in is almost impossible.

Personally I would absolutely hate meeting a married man. Why?

Also many more other reasons.

Don't have time for a coffee?? Don't have time to get to know someone enough to have chemistry? Delete your profile now. This is not a dial a ride.

Swinging is based on respecting others preferences. Swinging is about making ALL parties happy.

You, OP seem to be one entitled and rude person, I genuinely wish there was less of your type on this site.

P.S. I had your profile blocked before, I'm certain it's for a good reason. "
100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Playin hard to get

Doing a good job. Please keep it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey missus what your saying is dead right but I'd like to think I'm a genuine guy and wont chicken out to meet up even for a coffee but still no luck on here so weather your nice are not and your still not guaranteed a meet I'm not agree with the way he going on and with his remarks but u dont blame guys that get fed up with not getting meets are even s social "

Altough I have met many unverified guys and couples (my personal preference). I do find it the biggest problem to be no shows.

I am one of them people who are against having any pressure of having sex with.

I offer someone to meet for a drink and get to know each other and still end up with more no shows than anything else (even when arranged meet is with a well verified fab member).

People don't want to meet unverified fabbers as veris act as some kind of insurance that the person or people will show up, but it's not true. I had way more no shows from married or well verified people than I had from newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People like OP is what makes fab horrible.

Finding genuine single men, who are brave enough not to chicken out is hard enough. Finding Men, who are willing to put some effort in is almost impossible.

Personally I would absolutely hate meeting a married man. Why?

Also many more other reasons.

Don't have time for a coffee?? Don't have time to get to know someone enough to have chemistry? Delete your profile now. This is not a dial a ride.

Swinging is based on respecting others preferences. Swinging is about making ALL parties happy.

You, OP seem to be one entitled and rude person, I genuinely wish there was less of your type on this site.

P.S. I had your profile blocked before, I'm certain it's for a good reason. "

Jeez..Missus ..are you a Carpenter ?...cause you really hit that nail on the head ....well said lady ...well said

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

"Dont have time for coffee "

Is it because you only drink tea

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By *isnameismargaretMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Another thread from men with completely generic profiles complaining no women will meet them after they went to all the trouble of logging on.

Why isn't this site like some kind of Shebay with a "ride it now" option?

Cannot travel? I suppose that's "does not deliver to your address."

Cannot accommodate? Ah that's for the creeps, doesn't apply to a ride like me.

They're offering constructive criticism in the forum's, better insult them. That'll strengthen my case.

Meet for a coffee? Clearly code for sex. Sure they owe me the ride if I'm forking out 7 quid for coffee and a muffin. Here ya go love, cup a java and a side of stud muffin.

All these women telling me to spruce up my profile, have a bit of respect and patience?

Lesbian's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex site not coffee site"

You'll do well here

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

"I have met plenty of unverified people to give them first verify and advice over over coffee. People were kind to me when I started off. For the most part they were polite well mannered and respectful of the fact it was just coffee. But unfortunately couple of males put me off. They misunderstood my kind offer of just coffee and thought they were getting a blowjob in the car after."
there is always a few dopes

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

Op, unfortunately for the sex workers in Ireland they meet and have sex

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

So missus would u fancy meeting up for s coffee then and I can show that all us men arnt thst bad thst I will show up and gave s chat and s coffee and nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So missus would u fancy meeting up for s coffee then and I can show that all us men arnt thst bad thst I will show up and gave s chat and s coffee and nothing else "

I genuinely don't need any random people to "prove me wrong" and "show me how there's some decent men about".

I never said there wasn't any good men, there's just very far and few compared with dial a ride brigade.

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Oh right I didnt mean it like that I'd just like to meet up for a coffee and chat but if u dont wsnt to four enough I asked anyhow thsts all a person can do

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Well at least he's owned up he's married and he don't do coffee so any takers

He doesn't really have the art of conversation though

I think he is doing a great job, he should be encouraged to talk more... as the more he talks the better the rest of us single guys look without even saying a word. Guys who would actually like a coffee.

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