FabSwingers.com forum: Message turnoffs

By *Sparkie. OP Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

In the recent past I've got a couple of messages from strangers, there were instant turn offs in some of the messages.

E.g One couple simply wrote "send Face pic" I thought I thought it lacked effort and a bit demanding or rude, what instantly turns you off someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally its their penis.....

If I get a message from a couple about a meet in general as they havent read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men that clearly have read our profile.

Send face pic is indeed very very rude!!!!

At least I’d ask you to send a face pic please.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry fat builder fingers here!!

I meant to write HAVE NOT read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the meet me now messages that annoy me the most. Men are confusing me as an employee from Escorts Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest not messsging is probably worse than any messages..it takes a second or two to type thanks but no thanks...haven't really received any nasty messages though

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I get turned off by the ones that are in a hotel for the night and do I want to join them. Clearly not reading profile. Though one today sent the "great profile" which is not even a question. But sent me a "go fuck yourself" 3 mins later for not replying. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet me now messages as I'm in a hotel near by. Like seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get turned off by the ones that are in a hotel for the night and do I want to join them. Clearly not reading profile. Though one today sent the "great profile" which is not even a question. But sent me a "go fuck yourself" 3 mins later for not replying. Lol

Sounds like he had the brains of a kipper. It's pure laziness when someone does that..you need to put a bit of effort in.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

A pic of his penis and only aiming message to female as if mr wasnt part of our profile

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"To be honest not messsging is probably worse than any messages..it takes a second or two to type thanks but no thanks...haven't really received any nasty messages though"

Tony you know better than to moan about not responding. We might have words. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest not messsging is probably worse than any messages..it takes a second or two to type thanks but no thanks...haven't really received any nasty messages though

Tony you know better than to moan about not responding. We might have words. Lol"

*finds the nearest foxhole*

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By *Sparkie. OP Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I get a few from guys offering discreet BJ's, they clearly havent read my profile.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

The ones who randomly send you fancy a fuck now messages. I mean does that ever work when you're complete strangers?

But it's fab and people are still going to keep sending those messages so I don't let me bother me I just delete them with no reply.

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By *Sparkie. OP Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Dont forget all the women sending pussy pics staying I'll be passing you in an hour driving to Dublin...fancy a quickie in the back of the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate messages that just say hi. males and couples are really guilty of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont forget all the women sending pussy pics staying I'll be passing you in an hour driving to Dublin...fancy a quickie in the back of the car

Yeah, that happens to me all the time...

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I get messages from guys(single profile), who want me to write an essay on all the things I'll do to his wife during a massage.

I reply, get her to contact me herself.

Silence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pic of his penis and only aiming message to female as if mr wasnt part of our profile "

Plenty of them about

Making out like he doesn't exist is a quick way to have us block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is so many. But these I don't even reply:

*Hi

*so horny

*Fancy join us? (empty profile or one dick pic up)

*What you think of me/would I be your type? (0 photos and/or info)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actually got "punch bag" in a message and a pic of a guys balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet me now messages as I'm in a hotel near by. Like seriously

"
Tjonk sum men on here do think were escorts. Get it alt as I'm in kilkenny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that ignore that Ed exists rankle.

And the ones at 5/6am on a weekend that say "U partying?" Aye certainly we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pic of his penis and only aiming message to female as if mr wasnt part of our profile "

get those as well

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

Oh so many, the I'm in your area, peeps that don't read your profile. Guys that only address the female when messaging and the "Hi" message

strangely some are from experienced fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh so many, the I'm in your area, peeps that don't read your profile. Guys that only address the female when messaging and the "Hi" message

strangely some are from experienced fabbers"

Lol chic glad you responded to my heah hun in the area wanna fuck line

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Try put effort into it there a lot of ppl missing out because some maybe shy to start and others do reply...simple be nice respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of respect goes a long way

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

"Oh so many, the I'm in your area, peeps that don't read your profile. Guys that only address the female when messaging and the "Hi" message

strangely some are from experienced fabbers

Lol chic glad you responded to my heah hun in the area wanna fuck line"

now couldn't resist that line with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the "your lucky.. I'm in your area.. Pop in for a fuck" ones are really annoying

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Have had a few with just "Hi". Unreal. Or when we try to engage and keep getting one or two word replies. And of course, " Any more pics ? ".

And have seen a few profiles, with no poics, saying "no pic no reply." Lmao

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

"Have had a few with just "Hi". Unreal. Or when we try to engage and keep getting one or two word replies. And of course, " Any more pics ? ".

And have seen a few profiles, with no poics, saying "no pic no reply." Lmao"

no pics no reply even. Lucky messages with the occasional misspelling doesn't bother us,lol. ( is it ironic that I'm not sure if I spelled misspelled correctly ? }

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Where to begin

Fancy a fuck!!

2 guys here in hotel waiting to please you,

We just delete

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"Dont forget all the women sending pussy pics staying I'll be passing you in an hour driving to Dublin...fancy a quickie in the back of the car

If only they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that suggests joining you and your girlfriend/Friend with benifits anywhere, be it short notice or not, from a single male profile.

You know the messages.

"Hey, I'm in a hotel now/this weekend with a lady friend care to join us?"

Do we fuck!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few of my personal turn offs:

1. People stating the obvious like

"Let's chat and see how we get on"

"I'm 6.2, dark hair, people say I'm handsome" (uuùuuugh hate when people describe their appearance. It's 2019, just add a photo).

"I'm here to meet women and couples" (I KNOW! Unlike you, I have actually read your profile).

2. Couples profiles with only women's photos on them. Literally any message from them if they don't attach a photo of both of them.

3. Entitled, good looking couples and women "we're hot, so you and your man must fancy us with little to no interaction and must arrange a play date, here's extra photo of my tits".

Nope.

4. Give me your kik, I'll send you a video of me fucking someone.

Nope.

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By *taylor122Man
over a year ago

dublin

Men looking to blow me or run their fingers through my chest hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking for my kik in a first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest not messsging is probably worse than any messages..it takes a second or two to type thanks but no thanks...haven't really received any nasty messages though"

While I agree with this I have been shown screenshots of the massive amount of mail some people get.

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By *isnameismargaretMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'd love some kind of survey to the amount of meets that have happened when the first message sent was "Hi."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love some kind of survey to the amount of meets that have happened when the first message sent was "Hi.""

Nobody would read it just like they don't read anything else...

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By *isnameismargaretMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'd love some kind of survey to the amount of meets that have happened when the first message sent was "Hi."

Nobody would read it just like they don't read anything else..."

Maybe Fab could set up some kind of adult literacy classes so people can read profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe Fab could set up some kind of adult literacy classes so people can read profiles?"

I think the profile layout has a lot to do with the not reading the bio part..the pics are first so most dont get any further..they just fire a message at this stage and ignore the rest of the profile..Also think that laziness and 'can't be arsed' has a lot to do with it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Absolutely pure blank profile that demands ...yes .demands ..a face pic ..as in it just says " Face pic "...no other words accompany it...plus tbh, monosyllabic answers do my head in ..like HTF are you to conduct a conversation with anyone if their every reply is a ya...no...maybe ...might... sometimes...it's just so headwrecking...but l must say l have also got some extremely wonderful and Brilliant Messages from ladies here too ...

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin

Getting messages from lads, who attempt to try and convince me to let them suck my cock when it states I'm straight on my profile

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By *tefanCoolMan
over a year ago

Monaghan

If u meet someone in public is it not usually hi, hello, how are you.. Is that not manners.. And youse give out if we ask to fuck.. Make up your minds. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u meet someone in public is it not usually hi, hello, how are you.. Is that not manners.. And youse give out if we ask to fuck.. Make up your minds. Lol"

Imagine walking on a busy street and every stranger says "Hi, how are you". In some cases 800+ strangers in a day say "Hi, how are you?"

Would you be willing to have 800 conversations at once?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u meet someone in public is it not usually hi, hello, how are you.. Is that not manners.. And youse give out if we ask to fuck.. Make up your minds. Lol

Imagine walking on a busy street and every stranger says "Hi, how are you". In some cases 800+ strangers in a day say "Hi, how are you?"

Would you be willing to have 800 conversations at once? "

How many of the 800 would suck my cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u meet someone in public is it not usually hi, hello, how are you.. Is that not manners.. And youse give out if we ask to fuck.. Make up your minds. Lol

Imagine walking on a busy street and every stranger says "Hi, how are you". In some cases 800+ strangers in a day say "Hi, how are you?"

Would you be willing to have 800 conversations at once?

How many of the 800 would suck my cock?"

From a females perspective out of them 800 conversations only about 2 would ever end up being potential meets and most likely 0.36% of them two would ever end up being a sexual encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u meet someone in public is it not usually hi, hello, how are you.. Is that not manners.. And youse give out if we ask to fuck.. Make up your minds. Lol

Imagine walking on a busy street and every stranger says "Hi, how are you". In some cases 800+ strangers in a day say "Hi, how are you?"

Would you be willing to have 800 conversations at once?

How many of the 800 would suck my cock?

From a females perspective out of them 800 conversations only about 2 would ever end up being potential meets and most likely 0.36% of them two would ever end up being a sexual encounter "

So your saying theres a chance.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u meet someone in public is it not usually hi, hello, how are you.. Is that not manners.. And youse give out if we ask to fuck.. Make up your minds. Lol

Imagine walking on a busy street and every stranger says "Hi, how are you". In some cases 800+ strangers in a day say "Hi, how are you?"

Would you be willing to have 800 conversations at once?

How many of the 800 would suck my cock?

From a females perspective out of them 800 conversations only about 2 would ever end up being potential meets and most likely 0.36% of them two would ever end up being a sexual encounter

So your saying theres a chance....."

If you play your cards right and... ummm.... show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u meet someone in public is it not usually hi, hello, how are you.. Is that not manners.. And youse give out if we ask to fuck.. Make up your minds. Lol

Imagine walking on a busy street and every stranger says "Hi, how are you". In some cases 800+ strangers in a day say "Hi, how are you?"

Would you be willing to have 800 conversations at once?

How many of the 800 would suck my cock?

From a females perspective out of them 800 conversations only about 2 would ever end up being potential meets and most likely 0.36% of them two would ever end up being a sexual encounter

So your saying theres a chance.....

If you play your cards right and... ummm.... show up "

Aways so demanding.... say more than high... show up...

Fuck that Ima have a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u meet someone in public is it not usually hi, hello, how are you.. Is that not manners.. And youse give out if we ask to fuck.. Make up your minds. Lol

Imagine walking on a busy street and every stranger says "Hi, how are you". In some cases 800+ strangers in a day say "Hi, how are you?"

Would you be willing to have 800 conversations at once?

How many of the 800 would suck my cock?

From a females perspective out of them 800 conversations only about 2 would ever end up being potential meets and most likely 0.36% of them two would ever end up being a sexual encounter

So your saying theres a chance.....

If you play your cards right and... ummm.... show up

Aways so demanding.... say more than high... show up...

Fuck that Ima have a wank"

I know, right. So stuck up.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I find the word "no" to be very off-putting, or at least I might if I ever heard it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who copy & paste their generic 1st mail they send to everyone..it's an instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u meet someone in public is it not usually hi, hello, how are you.. Is that not manners.. And youse give out if we ask to fuck.. Make up your minds. Lol

Imagine walking on a busy street and every stranger says "Hi, how are you". In some cases 800+ strangers in a day say "Hi, how are you?"

Would you be willing to have 800 conversations at once? "

God No Missus ..800 a day would totally fry my head ...but l suppose thats what you get for being so damn sexy ...so how do you cope ?? What's your process of elimination ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages that use the words ‘Are you being naughty’ or even worse ‘nawty hehe’. Makes me cringe and an instant delete... Im a Woman ffs, I don’t do naughty, I do erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual want to get banged hard tonight

I travel your way all the time we could fuck in my van

And the best if i travel to you will you make it worth my while

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