FabSwingers.com forum: Not in the spirit of the site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a very brief chat with a couple from the North last night where they suggested that men have offered cash to have a meet. The implication was that if I did the same they would meet...........not what this place is about I would have thought. Has anybody else experienced this, because if it’s the case it’s certainly not a good path for the site to go down.

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards

It's getting that way , between that and people selling used panties lol. Really don't get it but what ever floats there boat. Have been asked for a gift also before , block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I’ve reported them so hopefully they get kicked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block every time

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Apparently its quite common altho we ve never encounterd it ourselves.Report and block !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just men, ladies offer cash too

It's quite unbecoming of a lady

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

We've been offered a restaurant voucher...does that count

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Ive had the same from 2 diffrent cpls in past few weeks thanks fab for the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been offered a restaurant voucher...does that count

Good question...suppose it depends on what they think is on the menu

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

They don’t know me obviously!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to report and then block them.

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Was asked to bring a bag of coal one day when meeting

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's not sunny against the spirit of the site.. it's against the site rules and therefore admin should act upon it if its reported

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

haven't experienced it, but have seen the odd profile update "will offer reward for meet". which I am sure everybody knows what that means

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By *iscreetbuddyMan
over a year ago

Kilmainham

I always bring a bottle of wine

Have I been unknowingly doing it

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I'll accept a bottle of good French red wine!

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By *taylor122Man
over a year ago

dublin

I’ve seen it a lot lately unfortunately. Block, report and move on

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By *lurrynfeeCouple
over a year ago

donegal

Haven't encountered this but know off a couple who has disgraceful id block and report ...

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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago

Dublin or anywhere

A lot of girls / couples on here offering me cash to meet them..of coarse i take the cash and run /

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

"Haven't encountered this but know off a couple who has disgraceful id block and report ..."

there is a couple on this that are prostitutes I've seen them on other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/12/19 16:29:41]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was asked to bring a bag of coal one day when meeting"

lol class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was asked to bring a bag of coal one day when meeting

lol class"

Was there a red suit and big white beard involved.... some kinky shit happens around this time of year....

Who's been a naughty girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just putting it out there but we accept luncheon vouchers

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

The last time I was offered something it was butter vouchers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a very very very small percentage of users,very small that are asking for or offering money for sex on this site.

If you see it,block report n move on,let admin do their thing

It's not worth getting in a flap over

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Most of the men openly admit they wouldnt share their girlfriend on here, so what do you expect?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, since I’ve reported it something seems to have happened. The profile is still live and active. I’d love to name and shame them, but probably against the rules to do so!

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"Well, since I’ve reported it something seems to have happened. The profile is still live and active. I’d love to name and shame them, but probably against the rules to do so!"

It is against the rules to name and shame, its also against the rules to complain that the moderators did nothing about a report, for example... even if someone calls you a name openly on the forum, you have the proof, everyone on the site sees the proof, and you report it and they do nothing, you cant complain or you will be the one banned.

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By *ellafemmeWoman
over a year ago

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"Was asked to bring a bag of coal one day when meeting"

Was offered €50 for a meet. Bag of coal would seem more appropriate...

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We got offered money to come meet a man before, well saying for us to meet I think he just wanted me to drive wife up to him and just wait for him to have fun with her. Was a swift no and blocked lol

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Was asked to bring chips and a burger one night to a first meet

5 FECKIN EURO TOO!!!

Anyway, she let me stay the night so fair exchange I suppose

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Cant see what the problem is ..its good etiquette to bring a sweetener ..it how the world works..people are more inclined to cooperate if conditions are fabourable and money makes most peoples heads turn..some people bring a bottle of wine or some other gift others bring 100 quid some even bring drugs

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Never been offered money. Would always pay half a hotel. Would regularly bring a bottle or something out of politeness.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Never been offered money. Would always pay half a hotel. Would regularly bring a bottle or something out of politeness."

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Touch of class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a very brief chat with a couple from the North last night where they suggested that men have offered cash to have a meet. The implication was that if I did the same they would meet...........not what this place is about I would have thought. Has anybody else experienced this, because if it’s the case it’s certainly not a good path for the site to go down."

Guys offer money all the time, that and drugs, nights out, weekends away etc

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

We have newbies and unverifieds blocked which probably cuts down these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

house gift to a house party... wine, champagne this time of year, with couples i split hotel, meals 50/50. With a lady i'm happy to pay but also open to splitting the bills if she offers.

never money.. Jeeze, that's just crass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once offered 150euro a week to meet a guy regularly

Blocked him obviously..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Just putting it out there but we accept luncheon vouchers

Aye buts what's for lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just putting it out there but we accept luncheon vouchers

Aye buts what's for lunch

We have HUGE appetites!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just putting it out there but we accept luncheon vouchers

Aye buts what's for lunch

Trust you to want to know what you would be getting for your money CJ lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a message from a guy recently saying he'd pay good money to see my boobs in person... we sent a ridiculously high cost price list, in fun of course, and he said he had cash waiting!!

It's not only people asking for money it's also people offering it!!

May be some people on here a bit strapped for cash at this time of year who this would help immensely.

What I'm saying is, don't always judge those asking, some are offering first!

We will not be taking or asking for payment!! We are here for fun, good times with like minded men.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

"Had a message from a guy recently saying he'd pay good money to see my boobs in person... we sent a ridiculously high cost price list, in fun of course, and he said he had cash waiting!!

It's not only people asking for money it's also people offering it!!

May be some people on here a bit strapped for cash at this time of year who this would help immensely.

What I'm saying is, don't always judge those asking, some are offering first!

We will not be taking or asking for payment!! We are here for fun, good times with like minded men."

I can't help wondering what you spent the money on lol

Just kidding

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By *oathangerMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Its a load of shit. People on their high horses...

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Yeah it's happening alot more now.

I've been offered money for sex, money for my work underwear too.

More worrying is the amount of drug references in status updates that aren't filtered out

Block and move on

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Someone asked me to bring £420 to a meet. Thought that was a bit steep ( or was it £4.20 - can’t quite remember). Anyway, normally it’s rounded up to 50 or 100 etc

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