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Guys under 30 ruin it for the genuine guys

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By *utterwouldntmelt OP   Woman
over a year ago

belfast

There really should be an age limit on who gets accepted to this site ( not necessarily 18 year olds +) as there are far too many pretenders, young idiots and guys who ruin it for the genuine swingers. This site isn't for young men to get heir rocks off , it's actually for those who want to do somethi g different! I propose fab relooks at the criteria for accepting single men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone is over 30 doesnt necessarily exclude them from being an asshole on here, as I have encountered manys a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There really should be an age limit on who gets accepted to this site ( not necessarily 18 year olds +) as there are far too many pretenders, young idiots and guys who ruin it for the genuine swingers. This site isn't for young men to get heir rocks off , it's actually for those who want to do somethi g different! I propose fab relooks at the criteria for accepting single men! "

If you use the age filters there shouldn't be an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love that expression "genuine swinger" lol,cracks me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and i forgot ageist too. Im sure if i made a comment now about a lady id be the worst in the world. Double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry don't agree at all!!!! Most of our meets

Under 30 & I find msg wise more respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set your filters so as they cant contact you and you wont be bothered again - simples

However there are eejits of all ages on here and not just guys. The filter and block button are there to be used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Set your filters so as they cant contact you and you wont be bothered again - simples

However there are eejits of all ages on here and not just guys. The filter and block button are there to be used"

Totally aree with you on this Nippy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Set your filters so as they cant contact you and you wont be bothered again - simples

However there are eejits of all ages on here and not just guys. The filter and block button are there to be used"

here here nippy the number of eejits i,ve blocked for stupid talk and being nasty is unreal and some of them are over 40 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said nippy graduates of the college of gobshite come from all sexes and all ages . And I still reckon that the block button sorts most of them . Pity we don't have for day to day life !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... I'm trying to count the numbers of 30+ guys who messed me about! There are plenty of them!

This has really nothing to do with age but with being an edjit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep tellin yas.. sites full of wankers.. I should know.. Im One

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep tellin yas.. sites full of wankers.. I should know.. Im One

x"

Yes and Abbeys - acceptance of that fact is the first step of recovery

Welcome to WA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we know that this site is full of wankers... literally

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By *ebracouCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

ther some balls talk about on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know, you cannot label everyone within a certain age group black sheep for the actions of one twerp.

I may be single, but I came on this site to experience now things. I enjoy the chat and banter, and coming across threesomes when going out downtown on the pull is not something that is very likely to happen.

So perhaps just do as people have said and change your age filters, rather than say the "Under 30 ruin swinging".

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"There really should be an age limit on who gets accepted to this site ( not necessarily 18 year olds +) as there are far too many pretenders, young idiots and guys who ruin it for the genuine swingers. This site isn't for young men to get heir rocks off , it's actually for those who want to do somethi g different! I propose fab relooks at the criteria for accepting single men! "

An idiot is an idiot whatever their age.As adults I am sure we all know that one idiot won't spoil it for everyone else.

We don't mind single men being on the site to get their "rocks off" as we are on the site for the same thing and the people we look for are the men who are looking for the same fun as us. We like to call it mutual fun though between consenting adults.

Use your filters to filter out what age you want mails from.

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age really isn't important it's the person that can be immature no matter what the age .. but YES i have to agree if you're after a certain age just set the limits ...

funny thing is sometimes that then we can't mail you back if you make a comment to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of idiots on this site, and age has no bearing....

one of my favourite sayings:

Never argue with an Idiot... they'll drag you down to their level then beat you with experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty of idiots on this site, and age has no bearing....

one of my favourite sayings:

Never argue with an Idiot... they'll drag you down to their level then beat you with experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I Also agree that age doesn't rally have that much if a bearing but yes, there are lots of time wasting 'gentlemen' to be polite, on the site.

Unfortunately they do ruin it for the genuine people who enjoy and partake in the lifestyle. In retrospect , I guess that as great as the internet has been for the increased communication and friendships formed between people in the lifestyle, the downside is that it is of course, easily accessible to the time wasters also- goes with the territory and is the first thing I warn any newbies, not to be put off by the time wasters.

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

GRRRR This annoys the bejesus out of me. I (the femme) am 22 and have had a woman tell me that I am too young to be doing this and that it disgusts her that someone younger than her kids are swingers.

I could easily have told her she was old and craggy and I found it disgusting that people older than my parents were swingers. Instead, I politely told her that my age should not bother her as I had no intention of wanting to sleep with her.

People will trot out a mantra that they are not going to swing with just anyone and being on a site like this does not mean they will drop their trousers but they forget that not everyone wants to swing with them either!

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By *HandDNCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *HandDNCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"GRRRR This annoys the bejesus out of me. I (the femme) am 22 and have had a woman tell me that I am too young to be doing this and that it disgusts her that someone younger than her kids are swingers.

I could easily have told her she was old and craggy and I found it disgusting that people older than my parents were swingers. Instead, I politely told her that my age should not bother her as I had no intention of wanting to sleep with her.

People will trot out a mantra that they are not going to swing with just anyone and being on a site like this does not mean they will drop their trousers but they forget that not everyone wants to swing with them either!

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Well said Curious.

I can see how someone may feel uneasy about meeting someone that is younger or in and around the age of their children and the same can be said about meeting someone who's the same age as your parents. I've come across both these situations but while I won't search out cpls that fall into either category if I come across them and I get on with them I won't say no just because of their age... And I certainly wouldn't be rude to younger or older people just because they don't fit my "aged between criteria"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GRRRR This annoys the bejesus out of me. I (the femme) am 22 and have had a woman tell me that I am too young to be doing this and that it disgusts her that someone younger than her kids are swingers.

I could easily have told her she was old and craggy and I found it disgusting that people older than my parents were swingers. Instead, I politely told her that my age should not bother her as I had no intention of wanting to sleep with her.

People will trot out a mantra that they are not going to swing with just anyone and being on a site like this does not mean they will drop their trousers but they forget that not everyone wants to swing with them either!

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Perfectly said _uriouspear, try not to make ill informed generalisations _utterwouldntmelt

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We have had great meets with guys and girls under 30, Age is no limit to being messed around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive only ever met 2 men over 30 lol, the rest were under 30 and i had a great time with them all!! so dont aggree at all with yur statement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There really should be an age limit on who gets accepted to this site ( not necessarily 18 year olds +) as there are far too many pretenders, young idiots and guys who ruin it for the genuine swingers. This site isn't for young men to get heir rocks off , it's actually for those who want to do somethi g different! I propose fab relooks at the criteria for accepting single men! "

Nonsense. I have played with a 25 year old a couple times and he is MUCH more mature than some of the 30 & 40 somethings I have encountered on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im nearly 30 but no quite. Means i can still contrabute to this topic. Any one fancy a meet. My profile is for all to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that seems fairly narrow minded to be honest just because someone is under 30 doesn't mean that they're not genuine and looking to enjoy themselves by trying something different and why assume that being young means they're idiots. besides as was already suggested use the age filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first joined the site a few years ago I only wanted to meet older men but we've found younger guys make much more of an effort and some of the older guys we've chatted too have been disgusting to say the least!!

I do however agree with Greenie in thinking under 25's should be out getting experience in the real world!

In saying all that age is merely a number and trolls come in all sizes

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By *ets get it on!!Man
over a year ago

west of ireland

Guys under 30 ruin it for the genuine guys!!! totally disagree whats wrong with us guys under 30... Ok i must admit from talking to couples they say some guys young and OLD are very imature, but dont paint all guys with the one brush please, ya have to be fair and everyone a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To respond to Usee above, eeeewww ... All meets should make an effort, regardless of age !!

If not then ditch them in the bar LOL

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