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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity..... If (or maybe you already have) you received a mail from someone and the grammar and spelling was very bad, would it immediately put you of the person and make you think they are as thick as champ?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No half the time I send messages and haven't checked them only to find my phone has changed half the words before I sent it. And some people has dyslexia etc so no I wouldn't judge anyone on their spelling or grammar. I do judge them on rude and abusive messages tho even if they are spelt wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My spelling and grammer are for the most part horrendous. But spell check is readily available so there isnt really an excuse for a lazy first message.

I have difficulty spotting my own mistakes and typos when I am texting in a hurry, so kik messages or forum posts might have a few more, for a first message I take more time to proof read, if I have taken the time to send a mail might as well make sure it makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's usually possible to distinguish between laziness, lack of intelligence and poor written communication skills, whether they latter are caused by dyslexia or other difficulties. I only dismiss someone on the first mail if the content is rude or ignorant, not how it's typed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*the, not they = typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm absolutely turned off if a first message is full of mistakes tbh. Can't stand it. But once I know the person, I couldn't care less. I actually find it endearing in men I know well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can usually tell in a message whether it’s a typo or whether its just lazy/poor writing

A bigger pet hate is they’re/their/there and you’re/your mistakes

Proper pet hate

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Not at all,English may not be their first language or as above said lots of people have issues with putting pen to paper or in this case fingers to keys !

Rude ,ignorant, abusive messages on the other hand will lead to the person being blocked !

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

And here I was thinking a lot of ladies liked a thick one

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I’m not bothered about spelling mistakes but text speak/spelling does my head in. You’re an adult, type like one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not bothered about spelling mistakes but text speak/spelling does my head in. You’re an adult, type like one. "

U mean u dnt lk dis

Oh it does my head!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No half the time I send messages and haven't checked them only to find my phone has changed half the words before I sent it. And some people has dyslexia etc so no I wouldn't judge anyone on their spelling or grammar. I do judge them on rude and abusive messages tho even if they are spelt wrong "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..... tho even if they are spelt wrong "

Shiver me timbers Bomont

Spelled

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By *adinLouthMan
over a year ago

dundalk


"Just out of curiosity..... If (or maybe you already have) you received a mail from someone and the grammar and spelling was very bad, would it immediately put you of the person and make you think they are as thick as champ?

"

Sorry OP, just wondering if you meant "off the person" instead of "of the person".

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

I wouldn't think anybody is thick because of grammar mistakes,most of us are typing on small phones with thick fingers. then spell check changes the words sometimes. but as you know there are people here that do judge. so I say fuck them and no ragrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can usually tell in a message whether it’s a typo or whether its just lazy/poor writing

A bigger pet hate is they’re/their/there and you’re/your mistakes

Proper pet hate

Can understand that ok ...but l would never mind if that was the way twas written...my pet hate...BIG TIME.... is when someone would say the word " Enjoy " to me on its own..drives me up the fucking wall...add something with it ..like. " Enjoy the movie ". Enjoy your meal " etc etc ...no problems...but the eyes " Enjoy " on it own. ??? ..detest it

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford

To me anyone who gives out about how some people text is just stupid. I didn't realise this was school hahahahahaha what is the world coming to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me anyone who gives out about how some people text is just stupid. I didn't realise this was school hahahahahaha what is the world coming to "

You learned how to text in school?

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Plus what has it to do with meeting people? Are we all that sad that we judge people now on how they text or write? So if you spell wrong you're not worth talking to? Haha

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"To me anyone who gives out about how some people text is just stupid. I didn't realise this was school hahahahahaha what is the world coming to

You learned how to text in school?"

Are you for real with that troll question? haha well I never had a phone when I was I school but I'm sure everyone has on today

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I am the world's worst. I'm not thick, but my eyesight fails me and I hardly wear my glasses so my messages can be arse about face at times but those that do know me can sometimes get a right giggle out of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not bothered about spelling mistakes but text speak/spelling does my head in. You’re an adult, type like one.

U mean u dnt lk dis

Oh it does my head!!! "

Nope! I aint a teacher but have sometimes a problem to read what that person is trying to tell me. Y n wt im gna sy rght?

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"I’m not bothered about spelling mistakes but text speak/spelling does my head in. You’re an adult, type like one.

U mean u dnt lk dis

Oh it does my head!!!

Nope! I aint a teacher but have sometimes a problem to read what that person is trying to tell me. Y n wt im gna sy rght? "

You know what I'm gonna say right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just out of curiosity..... If (or maybe you already have) you received a mail from someone and the grammar and spelling was very bad, would it immediately put you of the person and make you think they are as thick as champ?

Sorry OP, just wondering if you meant "off the person" instead of "of the person".

Apologies inspector Clueso, I meant off but spellcheck converted it to of.... or maybe I’m officially thick as champ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not bothered about spelling mistakes but text speak/spelling does my head in. You’re an adult, type like one.

U mean u dnt lk dis

Oh it does my head!!!

Nope! I aint a teacher but have sometimes a problem to read what that person is trying to tell me. Y n wt im gna sy rght?

You know what I'm gonna say right "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it quite easily to distinguish between someone whom English is not their first language, to routine, run of the mill grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes and the truly stupid, who have no grasp of the English language, their total lack of punctuaction, their over relience on text talk, make their emails barely legible.

So yes, we are willing to forgive genuine grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes, but refuse to except laziness and stupity.

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"We find it quite easily to distinguish between someone whom English is not their first language, to routine, run of the mill grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes and the truly stupid, who have no grasp of the English language, their total lack of punctuaction, their over relience on text talk, make their emails barely legible.

So yes, we are willing to forgive genuine grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes, but refuse to except laziness and stupity. "

I get what you are saying and you have every right to say so and do so but that doesn't mean those people ain't worth talking to or meeting just because they text a certain way. Sorry I just think it's crazy to judge people over something so small

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"I’m not bothered about spelling mistakes but text speak/spelling does my head in. You’re an adult, type like one.

U mean u dnt lk dis

Oh it does my head!!!

Nope! I aint a teacher but have sometimes a problem to read what that person is trying to tell me. Y n wt im gna sy rght?

You know what I'm gonna say right

"

Hahaha :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it quite easily to distinguish between someone whom English is not their first language, to routine, run of the mill grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes and the truly stupid, who have no grasp of the English language, their total lack of punctuaction, their over relience on text talk, make their emails barely legible.

So yes, we are willing to forgive genuine grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes, but refuse to except laziness and stupity.

I get what you are saying and you have every right to say so and do so but that doesn't mean those people ain't worth talking to or meeting just because they text a certain way. Sorry I just think it's crazy to judge people over something so small "

Laziness, perceived lack of intelligence and lack of imagination are not qualities we search for in potential play partners.

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"We find it quite easily to distinguish between someone whom English is not their first language, to routine, run of the mill grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes and the truly stupid, who have no grasp of the English language, their total lack of punctuaction, their over relience on text talk, make their emails barely legible.

So yes, we are willing to forgive genuine grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes, but refuse to except laziness and stupity.

I get what you are saying and you have every right to say so and do so but that doesn't mean those people ain't worth talking to or meeting just because they text a certain way. Sorry I just think it's crazy to judge people over something so small

Laziness, perceived lack of intelligence and lack of imagination are not qualities we search for in potential play partners. "

Really you can judge all that from just a text... well fair play to ya haha Why not try and get to know people better before making that call you might be surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it quite easily to distinguish between someone whom English is not their first language, to routine, run of the mill grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes and the truly stupid, who have no grasp of the English language, their total lack of punctuaction, their over relience on text talk, make their emails barely legible.

So yes, we are willing to forgive genuine grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes, but refuse to except laziness and stupity.

I get what you are saying and you have every right to say so and do so but that doesn't mean those people ain't worth talking to or meeting just because they text a certain way. Sorry I just think it's crazy to judge people over something so small

Laziness, perceived lack of intelligence and lack of imagination are not qualities we search for in potential play partners.

Really you can judge all that from just a text... well fair play to ya haha Why not try and get to know people better before making that call you might be surprised "

The thing is, when people are getting hundreds of messages, that first message better catch their attention in some positive way - nobody here owes anyone a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it quite easily to distinguish between someone whom English is not their first language, to routine, run of the mill grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes and the truly stupid, who have no grasp of the English language, their total lack of punctuaction, their over relience on text talk, make their emails barely legible.

So yes, we are willing to forgive genuine grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes, but refuse to except laziness and stupity.

I get what you are saying and you have every right to say so and do so but that doesn't mean those people ain't worth talking to or meeting just because they text a certain way. Sorry I just think it's crazy to judge people over something so small

Laziness, perceived lack of intelligence and lack of imagination are not qualities we search for in potential play partners.

Really you can judge all that from just a text... well fair play to ya haha Why not try and get to know people better before making that call you might be surprised "

I've been in and out of the lifestyle since 2006, mainly as a single guy. I've had profiles on Spainish, UK, Irish and French sites, also the big international one too . I've had meets, attended parties and clubs in all those countries mentioned and also in Croatia, Greece, Italy, Malta and Turkey.

It's my opinion that, as a single guy, due to the the staggering lob sided ratios, you have to make an effort, with not just your messages but also your profile and pics.

This isn't dial a ride, we are not obliged to fuck everyone who messages us on here, there has to be an attraction, and for us that comes not just from physical attributes, but also personality, charm, humour, respect, imagination, etc, etc. So yes, if you send a one line message with little or now care, we will probably over look you without a second thought.

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"We find it quite easily to distinguish between someone whom English is not their first language, to routine, run of the mill grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes and the truly stupid, who have no grasp of the English language, their total lack of punctuaction, their over relience on text talk, make their emails barely legible.

So yes, we are willing to forgive genuine grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes, but refuse to except laziness and stupity.

I get what you are saying and you have every right to say so and do so but that doesn't mean those people ain't worth talking to or meeting just because they text a certain way. Sorry I just think it's crazy to judge people over something so small

Laziness, perceived lack of intelligence and lack of imagination are not qualities we search for in potential play partners.

Really you can judge all that from just a text... well fair play to ya haha Why not try and get to know people better before making that call you might be surprised

I've been in and out of the lifestyle since 2006, mainly as a single guy. I've had profiles on Spainish, UK, Irish and French sites, also the big international one too . I've had meets, attended parties and clubs in all those countries mentioned and also in Croatia, Greece, Italy, Malta and Turkey.

It's my opinion that, as a single guy, due to the the staggering lob sided ratios, you have to make an effort, with not just your messages but also your profile and pics.

This isn't dial a ride, we are not obliged to fuck everyone who messages us on here, there has to be an attraction, and for us that comes not just from physical attributes, but also personality, charm, humour, respect, imagination, etc, etc. So yes, if you send a one line message with little or now care, we will probably over look you without a second thought.

"

Well I wasn't saying that this is dial a ride that was you're assumption and assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups.

All I'm saying is just because people can't make a effort or just ain't good at it when sending a text doesn't mean lack of intelligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it quite easily to distinguish between someone whom English is not their first language, to routine, run of the mill grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes and the truly stupid, who have no grasp of the English language, their total lack of punctuaction, their over relience on text talk, make their emails barely legible.

So yes, we are willing to forgive genuine grammar, spelling and autocorrect mistakes, but refuse to except laziness and stupity.

I get what you are saying and you have every right to say so and do so but that doesn't mean those people ain't worth talking to or meeting just because they text a certain way. Sorry I just think it's crazy to judge people over something so small

Laziness, perceived lack of intelligence and lack of imagination are not qualities we search for in potential play partners. "
What a load of bull.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I am the world's worst. I'm not thick, but my eyesight fails me and I hardly wear my glasses so my messages can be arse about face at times but those that do know me can sometimes get a right giggle out of me. "

Ah its like speaking in code with you Letme

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"You can usually tell in a message whether it’s a typo or whether its just lazy/poor writing

A bigger pet hate is they’re/their/there and you’re/your mistakes

Proper pet hate

"

It can't be that big or proper a pet hate, because you have no full stops after your sentences.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Just out of curiosity..... If (or maybe you already have) you received a mail from someone and the grammar and spelling was very bad, would it immediately put you of the person and make you think they are as thick as champ?

"

Lots of people are well educated and talk good. They even sound posh like and might even look down their nose at others, yet they are as thick as champ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can usually tell in a message whether it’s a typo or whether its just lazy/poor writing

A bigger pet hate is they’re/their/there and you’re/your mistakes

Proper pet hate

"
Ah their,there now everything will be ok after a good night's sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would all depend on how big her tits are

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Just out of curiosity..... If (or maybe you already have) you received a mail from someone and the grammar and spelling was very bad, would it immediately put you of the person and make you think they are as thick as champ?

Lots of people are well educated and talk good. They even sound posh like and might even look down their nose at others, yet they are as thick as champ."

This is the the best quote here.

people that hate the mistakes made in grammar are exactly the type that look down their nose at others. They are the most Narcissistic people I have had the pleasure to meet.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"I am the world's worst. I'm not thick, but my eyesight fails me and I hardly wear my glasses so my messages can be arse about face at times but those that do know me can sometimes get a right giggle out of me.

Ah its like speaking in code with you Letme exactly yoss

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am the world's worst. I'm not thick, but my eyesight fails me and I hardly wear my glasses so my messages can be arse about face at times but those that do know me can sometimes get a right giggle out of me.

Ah its like speaking in code with you Letme exactly yoss

"

We do get a great laugh trying to figure out what you are trying to say

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