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By *ongun OP   Man
over a year ago

Diblin

I know this has probably been posted before but is there anyone else who thinks that webcam verification don't really count as?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the type of veri thats important really but more who gives it.

It'd take a webcam veri from a fabber I trusted over a meet one from someone I didnt know of.

Saying that the whole system is open to abuse.

People with multiple accounts vering themselves, women can get any desperate Dan to give them one with the hint of some action etc.....

Best thing to do is use them as one small part of your over all vetting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't see the point of them, I'd rather see coffee meet veris that indicate someone left the safety of their basement to actually meet a person in the flesh. Too many fantasists on here stringing people along with no intention of ever meeting.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Webcam veri is as useless as a coffee veri imo.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"Webcam veri is as useless as a coffee veri imo. "

Coffee Veri’s useless? Do you think so? Are you including coffee meets in that also?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Webcam veri is as useless as a coffee veri imo.

Coffee Veri’s useless? Do you think so? Are you including coffee meets in that also? "

Yes, the coffee veri is a result of a coffee meet. Actually you could throw in the party veris too, useless as well.

Only proper play veris allow to extract some bits of information.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"Webcam veri is as useless as a coffee veri imo.

Coffee Veri’s useless? Do you think so? Are you including coffee meets in that also?

Yes, the coffee veri is a result of a coffee meet. Actually you could throw in the party veris too, useless as well.

Only proper play veris allow to extract some bits of information. "

Jeasus you must have the leather gear on and the whip out this morning.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Webcam veri is as useless as a coffee veri imo.

Coffee Veri’s useless? Do you think so? Are you including coffee meets in that also?

Yes, the coffee veri is a result of a coffee meet. Actually you could throw in the party veris too, useless as well.

Only proper play veris allow to extract some bits of information.

Jeasus you must have the leather gear on and the whip out this morning. "

Maybe you watch too much porn if that's the image you associate by me simply expressing my opinion.

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By *ongun OP   Man
over a year ago

Diblin

Well now that you say that about coffee meets, but on the other hand you get to see if you click with the coffee meet and also have an out if you don't

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"Webcam veri is as useless as a coffee veri imo.

Coffee Veri’s useless? Do you think so? Are you including coffee meets in that also?

Yes, the coffee veri is a result of a coffee meet. Actually you could throw in the party veris too, useless as well.

Only proper play veris allow to extract some bits of information.

Jeasus you must have the leather gear on and the whip out this morning.

Maybe you watch too much porn if that's the image you associate by me simply expressing my opinion. "

Oh no everyone is allowed express their opinion, hmmmm I must start watching porn again actually. The fun had gone out of it, may be there is some new material out there worth watching.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

We are aware of how ‘difficult’ it can be for some people but it’s not impossible (interact, make an effort, be noticed).

Webcam verifications mean zilch to us as there are so many fake webcam clips on the internet that can be used...

Everyone has their own preferences but, for us, it’s meet verifications only!

(Safety first)

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"We are aware of how ‘difficult’ it can be for some people but it’s not impossible (interact, make an effort, be noticed).

Webcam verifications mean zilch to us as there are so many fake webcam clips on the internet that can be used...

Everyone has their own preferences but, for us, it’s meet verifications only!

(Safety first) "

100% correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the advantage of a coffee or party meet is that it proves the ptofile is real, that the people turn up & are in reality like minded.

As for play veris ... personally i would not be going into blow by blow details, so DH there would be little garnered re likes/dislikes...but over coffee or drinks it is possible to discuss types of fun & boundries.

Coffee is often the 1st step to progress or depart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first verification came by way of cam. If the good lady that veried me had not done so I would not have gotten to a group social so soon or had my first play meet when I did. Surely cam veri's aren't everyone's cup of tea but I'd have properly struggled early on without mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first verification came by way of cam. If the good lady that veried me had not done so I would not have gotten to a group social so soon or had my first play meet when I did. Surely cam veri's aren't everyone's cup of tea but I'd have properly struggled early on without mine "

And that's fine if it's your first, but when you see people who have 4 or 5 veris, all cam, it's not unreasonable to draw the inference that they don't intend to progress beyond the safety of their home,despite what their profile may say about looking for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if camming is someone's thing, or just their comfort zone, that's fine too, but they should be honest about it and not waste people's time pretending they're interested in meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first verification came by way of cam. If the good lady that veried me had not done so I would not have gotten to a group social so soon or had my first play meet when I did. Surely cam veri's aren't everyone's cup of tea but I'd have properly struggled early on without mine

And that's fine if it's your first, but when you see people who have 4 or 5 veris, all cam, it's not unreasonable to draw the inference that they don't intend to progress beyond the safety of their home,despite what their profile may say about looking for meets. "

That's a perfectly reasonable inference and I see your point, only cam veri's us a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first verification came by way of cam. If the good lady that veried me had not done so I would not have gotten to a group social so soon or had my first play meet when I did. Surely cam veri's aren't everyone's cup of tea but I'd have properly struggled early on without mine

And that's fine if it's your first, but when you see people who have 4 or 5 veris, all cam, it's not unreasonable to draw the inference that they don't intend to progress beyond the safety of their home,despite what their profile may say about looking for meets.

That's a perfectly reasonable inference and I see your point, only cam veri's us a bad thing."

Nice pics btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first verification came by way of cam. If the good lady that veried me had not done so I would not have gotten to a group social so soon or had my first play meet when I did. Surely cam veri's aren't everyone's cup of tea but I'd have properly struggled early on without mine

And that's fine if it's your first, but when you see people who have 4 or 5 veris, all cam, it's not unreasonable to draw the inference that they don't intend to progress beyond the safety of their home,despite what their profile may say about looking for meets.

That's a perfectly reasonable inference and I see your point, only cam veri's us a bad thing.

Nice pics btw"

Well thank you, yours are pretty darn good also

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"the advantage of a coffee or party meet is that it proves the ptofile is real, that the people turn up & are in reality like minded.

As for play veris ... personally i would not be going into blow by blow details, so DH there would be little garnered re likes/dislikes...but over coffee or drinks it is possible to discuss types of fun & boundries.

Coffee is often the 1st step to progress or depart."

?

We all have different approaches how we go about arranging meets. I do understand why people choose the coffee meet approach, but it wouldn't me my cup of tea.

I also do understand that a web veri or a coffee veri is a good one to start with as it often leads to more.

And sure the coffee/social/party veris proves exactly what you're saying but does one really need 20 to 100 of them to prove that they're existing and turn up? Or is this more of a Facebook thing.

As for the graphic play meet details, who said I'm looking for such? The info I'm retrieving is way more subtle.

It's funny every time the veri topic comes up and I express my opinion, people start jumping to conclusions ie that I choose my meets based on veris only, that I put too much focuse on them, that I take them to seriously etc. etc. Do I come across rather thick??? Ahh maybe I should drop that last question on the other thread...

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"the advantage of a coffee or party meet is that it proves the ptofile is real, that the people turn up & are in reality like minded.

As for play veris ... personally i would not be going into blow by blow details, so DH there would be little garnered re likes/dislikes...but over coffee or drinks it is possible to discuss types of fun & boundries.

Coffee is often the 1st step to progress or depart.

?

We all have different approaches how we go about arranging meets. I do understand why people choose the coffee meet approach, but it wouldn't me my cup of tea.

I also do understand that a web veri or a coffee veri is a good one to start with as it often leads to more.

And sure the coffee/social/party veris proves exactly what you're saying but does one really need 20 to 100 of them to prove that they're existing and turn up? Or is this more of a Facebook thing.

As for the graphic play meet details, who said I'm looking for such? The info I'm retrieving is way more subtle.

It's funny every time the veri topic comes up and I express my opinion, people start jumping to conclusions ie that I choose my meets based on veris only, that I put too much focuse on them, that I take them to seriously etc. etc. Do I come across rather thick??? Ahh maybe I should drop that last question on the other thread...

"

I would say you Come across as an intelligent woman Dh. at least from what I am reading here. (forums) I find the only way to judge anyone is belly to belly.. eye to eye.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"the advantage of a coffee or party meet is that it proves the ptofile is real, that the people turn up & are in reality like minded.

As for play veris ... personally i would not be going into blow by blow details, so DH there would be little garnered re likes/dislikes...but over coffee or drinks it is possible to discuss types of fun & boundries.

Coffee is often the 1st step to progress or depart.

?

We all have different approaches how we go about arranging meets. I do understand why people choose the coffee meet approach, but it wouldn't me my cup of tea.

I also do understand that a web veri or a coffee veri is a good one to start with as it often leads to more.

And sure the coffee/social/party veris proves exactly what you're saying but does one really need 20 to 100 of them to prove that they're existing and turn up? Or is this more of a Facebook thing.

As for the graphic play meet details, who said I'm looking for such? The info I'm retrieving is way more subtle.

It's funny every time the veri topic comes up and I express my opinion, people start jumping to conclusions ie that I choose my meets based on veris only, that I put too much focuse on them, that I take them to seriously etc. etc. Do I come across rather thick??? Ahh maybe I should drop that last question on the other thread...

I would say you Come across as an intelligent woman Dh. at least from what I am reading here. (forums) I find the only way to judge anyone is belly to belly.. eye to eye. "

thanks. Yes, ultimate proof is always in the pudding.

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"the advantage of a coffee or party meet is that it proves the ptofile is real, that the people turn up & are in reality like minded.

As for play veris ... personally i would not be going into blow by blow details, so DH there would be little garnered re likes/dislikes...but over coffee or drinks it is possible to discuss types of fun & boundries.

Coffee is often the 1st step to progress or depart.

?

We all have different approaches how we go about arranging meets. I do understand why people choose the coffee meet approach, but it wouldn't me my cup of tea.

I also do understand that a web veri or a coffee veri is a good one to start with as it often leads to more.

And sure the coffee/social/party veris proves exactly what you're saying but does one really need 20 to 100 of them to prove that they're existing and turn up? Or is this more of a Facebook thing.

As for the graphic play meet details, who said I'm looking for such? The info I'm retrieving is way more subtle.

It's funny every time the veri topic comes up and I express my opinion, people start jumping to conclusions ie that I choose my meets based on veris only, that I put too much focuse on them, that I take them to seriously etc. etc. Do I come across rather thick??? Ahh maybe I should drop that last question on the other thread...

I would say you Come across as an intelligent woman Dh. at least from what I am reading here. (forums) I find the only way to judge anyone is belly to belly.. eye to eye.

thanks. Yes, ultimate proof is always in the pudding. "
or going by your likes is how far the balls hang ..... jkn

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