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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’m trying to convince my wife to sleep with another guy or guys , looking for any bit of advice from those in the know , her fantasy is an mmf , loves watching it when we watch porn but that’s it .

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By *isnameismargaretMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So I’m trying to convince my wife to sleep with another guy or guys , looking for any bit of advice from those in the know , her fantasy is an mmf , loves watching it when we watch porn but that’s it . "

If she's not comfortable there isn't much convincing to do.

Big difference between watching porn and acting it out.

If her fantasy was to drive a nail through your foot how would she go about convincing you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the kind of thing sje needs to decide herself rather than being rushed into

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I agree , but I haven’t really said how much I want to try it , that’s the thing, not sure if she would say no . I’d never pressure her .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely, and I haven’t even properly asked her would she tbh.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Like others said there's a difference between fantasies and actually acting on them. You need to talk to her and see how she really feels. When she is horny and watching porn etc things always seem like a great idea but in the cold light of day she may realise that it's not for her. So all you can do is talk to her and respect her decision. You never know until you ask and it may be something she is willing to do. Good luck either way.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

well maybe you should have a conversation with your wife about what she would like. It could be that it may be just a fantasy and not something she would act on. I like watching gangbang porn but ive no interest in acting out in real life. And if its something she absolutely does not want to do then i wouldnt push it. I would hate to be pushed into something i really didnt want to do. The resentment would be immense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Just , it’s a huge turn on for me tbh , would love to see her with another guy . It’s just such a hard situation to bring up , and not make a complete balls of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys , would never push her , but I can’t even bring up the whole thing properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys , would never push her , but I can’t even bring up the whole thing properly. "

Does she know that you're on here?

L

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No being 100% honest .. I haven’t even met anyone off here yet , keep saying I must delete it , but never do . :-0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No being 100% honest .. I haven’t even met anyone off here yet , keep saying I must delete it , but never do . :-0"

Its a bit of a quandry you find yourself in really isn't it?

I guess you have to identify what is the priority for your relationship, to keep it or possibly destroy it? It's your choice. We all have choices.

L

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t think il destroy it by suggesting it , but it could go wrong , I have mentioned it after drink etc. So I think she suspects .. plus after all she’s the winner here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think il destroy it by suggesting it , but it could go wrong , I have mentioned it after drink etc. So I think she suspects .. plus after all she’s the winner here "
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She doesn't know that you're here and somehow She's the winner?

You haven't met anyone, that's something. My advice, close the account and talk to your wife about what she wants. If your desires are not mutual well from my experience it goes one way from there and it's back to that word, choices

L

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You’re probably right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to have a conversation with her about it all. But it sounds like it may not get far. Could you show her the site and use that as a way to open the conversation. It might intrigue her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I have thought about that , il delete my profile obviously if I do , we actually chatted a few years back with guys on another site , and it was brilliant, don’t know why it stopped and I can’t remember being honest .

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By *lik UrgeeMan
over a year ago

mallow

Stumble into Brief encounters with her, and see if she takes the bait !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have thought about that , but I’ve been told it’s invite only . ? :-0

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

talk to your wife and ask her what she would like. Communication is key in a marriage i like to think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv tried and bottled it so many times , I have done so after drink , it’s so hard to explain

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Iv tried and bottled it so many times , I have done so after drink , it’s so hard to explain "

well all i can say is i dont think bringing her to a club to see if she likes it without actually talking to her first about she wants to do would be the way to go. if my husband did that i would freak

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By *amDaveCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

I was very lucky with my partner. She's become very open and we try alot of things together. It's really about trust. I mean if it works you both have alot to gain from it. It'll take your relationship to a whole new level. Keep complimenting her and telling her how sexy she is. Maybe suggest introducing new toys etc and gradually work your way up to MFM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that’s probably true x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s brilliant, and you are lucky , that sounds a proper plan .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry lad but I think you’re living in cloud cuckoo land. You’ve been on this site for over a year without your wifes knowledge, you’re asking advice on having a mmf with a wife who thinks she might like something she apparently watches on porn, you’re agreeing with people advising you to talk to your wife about it yet only 6 hours ago your status asks if anyone wants to chat to you..... this thread only involves 3 people ..... you, you and you.... here Enders the lesson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry lad but I think you’re living in cloud cuckoo land. You’ve been on this site for over a year without your wifes knowledge, you’re asking advice on having a mmf with a wife who thinks she might like something she apparently watches on porn, you’re agreeing with people advising you to talk to your wife about it yet only 6 hours ago your status asks if anyone wants to chat to you..... this thread only involves 3 people ..... you, you and you.... here Enders the lesson "
Nice tits for a man.

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By *ivagoTV/TS
over a year ago

Leixlip

Great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry lad but I think you’re living in cloud cuckoo land. You’ve been on this site for over a year without your wifes knowledge, you’re asking advice on having a mmf with a wife who thinks she might like something she apparently watches on porn, you’re agreeing with people advising you to talk to your wife about it yet only 6 hours ago your status asks if anyone wants to chat to you..... this thread only involves 3 people ..... you, you and you.... here Enders the lesson Nice tits for a man."

Thanks Keith Lemon

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

Tell her about your Fab profile. That will definitely convince her to sleep with other men.

After she kicks you out

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