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By *hickerThanUrAverage OP Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Wouldn't it be great if we could review or survey users as they message or friend requests. Something like a star rating and the lower the stars, the more you know about that person than generic verifications.

This way we could see how many times that user had trolled messages over and over, been pushy or rude and ghost friend requests without chatting.

Another one I'd like is to filter users/messages more accurately, not just by sex but personal prefences and wants.

Tick the box sort of profile and then see what matches. Females could tick if they would meet couples, and if not they won't appear on couples search.

Everyone has a type and I would enjoy being able to search for BBW or curvy ladies, black males and selective kink's.

What does everyone else think? Would you prefer to save time sifting through endless profiles that don't match what you are searching for.

**These are just ideas, not ranting about this site, or desperate for a meet so no need to be concerned**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now with a star rating you and me would be zero stars only from turning down every John and Harry or not replying to their messages at all...

About accuracy in searches - big yes for particular kinks and likes.

Body shape and skin colour would be considered discrimination from the sites point of view

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Now with a star rating you and me would be zero stars only from turning down every John and Harry or not replying to their messages at all...

About accuracy in searches - big yes for particular kinks and likes.

Body shape and skin colour would be considered discrimination from the sites point of view"

Exactly a star rating wouldn't work as far as I can see at.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"Now with a star rating you and me would be zero stars only from turning down every John and Harry or not replying to their messages at all...

About accuracy in searches - big yes for particular kinks and likes.

Body shape and skin colour would be considered discrimination from the sites point of view"

Wouldn't that work both ways??

Someone who was a dick to you would get a low rating off you and therefore not in guys interest to get a low rating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now with a star rating you and me would be zero stars only from turning down every John and Harry or not replying to their messages at all...

About accuracy in searches - big yes for particular kinks and likes.

Body shape and skin colour would be considered discrimination from the sites point of view

Wouldn't that work both ways??

Someone who was a dick to you would get a low rating off you and therefore not in guys interest to get a low rating."

Most are only here for a week then lose hope and delete profile... to those who are passing by it wouldn't really matter

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"Now with a star rating you and me would be zero stars only from turning down every John and Harry or not replying to their messages at all...

About accuracy in searches - big yes for particular kinks and likes.

Body shape and skin colour would be considered discrimination from the sites point of view

Wouldn't that work both ways??

Someone who was a dick to you would get a low rating off you and therefore not in guys interest to get a low rating.

Most are only here for a week then lose hope and delete profile... to those who are passing by it wouldn't really matter "

Would the rating they give not disappear when they leave??

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By *hickerThanUrAverage OP Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Now with a star rating you and me would be zero stars only from turning down every John and Harry or not replying to their messages at all...

About accuracy in searches - big yes for particular kinks and likes.

Body shape and skin colour would be considered discrimination from the sites point of view"

Lol well it sort of reminded me of Uber, you only get to "rate" if say there was mutual contact, 10 or more messages just say and friend request accepted. Something that was offered to verified or payed users. Again, all just a thought.

I never thought of it that way, was more thinking of a filter for profiles than banning or bashing certain body types or races, similar to when you are on a porn site. The filtering is already done for you, just click your favourite genre and off ya go, everything you want in one click and always room to look through the search bar or open up your preferences as mine change from time to time.

Mainly frustrated as I recently opened my messaging to males in the hope to meet dark skinned handsome man, but unfortunately no males read my profile (or did and thought they would be cheeky anyways) and always bombarded me with messages and requests when it's not what I want. I just want to explore something I've never tried, and always wanted to as I find them hot af

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get your logic similar to porn, only behind profiles are real human beings. They are real people with emotions and their own likes.

They're not some fantasy boxes to tick.

You must understand that you yourself may be in many men's fantasy box and that's why they bombard you with unwanted mail?

Doesn't feel really nice now does it?

Yes, men don't read profiles and chance their arm anyway. Yes, it's beyond frustrating.

Keep blocking everyone who ignored your preferences and eventually you'll find what you're looking for.

Good ones require effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should Ave to be a site supporter to send messages.

As you said previously some are only here for a week and then there gone. If they had to pay before they would message then it would get rid of all the unwanted txts from blank profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get your logic similar to porn, only behind profiles are real human beings. They are real people with emotions and their own likes.

They're not some fantasy boxes to tick.

You must understand that you yourself may be in many men's fantasy box and that's why they bombard you with unwanted mail?

Doesn't feel really nice now does it?

Yes, men don't read profiles and chance their arm anyway. Yes, it's beyond frustrating.

Keep blocking everyone who ignored your preferences and eventually you'll find what you're looking for.

Good ones require effort."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps if it didnt appear on their profile publicly and just for themselves too see?

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