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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let’s say you are on a date. Met this person arranged a date and things are going swimmingly. He/She wants to show you something on his/her phone while searching they scroll through their apps and KIK comes up.

What’s your first thoughts?. Do you think this person has something to hide? Can you trust them?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Plenty of people use kik outside of fab for dating sites so that they don’t have to give their phone numbers to strangers.

Have you told her you’re on fab or are you hiding that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its used by a lot of people on here, it's nice and descreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let’s say you are on a date. Met this person arranged a date and things are going swimmingly. He/She wants to show you something on his/her phone while searching they scroll through their apps and KIK comes up.

What’s your first thoughts?. Do you think this person has something to hide? Can you trust them?"

It wouldn't cost me a thought..why should it ?...it's more important that things are going as you say " swimmingly "...you've only met her for the first time , l've heard unreal things and it didn't.. wouldn't ..put me off that person...not a bit ...and if l felt that there was a spark there unless she was a serial killer..druggie etc etc l couldn't really care who she was talking to in her own time ..l don't own or control her and she may well have former lovers ... boyfriends..fuck buddies etc etc that she still stays in touch with and l certainly wouldn't want her to suddenly stop or cease contact with them cause she was on a date with me and things moved somewhere...l honestly think if one was to squeeze someone like that it would end things way quicker...but just to reiterate ,it wouldn't bother me one bit if she scrolled and Kik came up ..not a bit ...I'd say go girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was someone I had just met, I'd think it was none of my business

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was just a thought really. Not that it occurred to me .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s true since you first met you can’t expect them to drop all communications with whoever the have. In saying that it’s more of what you would think there is no right or wrong answer it’s just boggling in my mind how would people react is all. Personally I would be curious. I wouldn’t know many people with kik unless they are on fab or trying to talk to someone without revealing their whole identity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s true since you first met you can’t expect them to drop all communications with whoever the have. In saying that it’s more of what you would think there is no right or wrong answer it’s just boggling in my mind how would people react is all. Personally I would be curious. I wouldn’t know many people with kik unless they are on fab or trying to talk to someone without revealing their whole identity. "

You're on fab, do you have something to hide?

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

It's none of my business what apps she has on her phone. Do you have kik? If so what are you hiding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For casual sex, it's probably best to keep communications separate from your other connections, and safety might also dictate caution when meeting strangers online. This doesn't mean a person will automatically be dishonest with a new partner, that's down to their character, we all have a past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not at all! It was just a thought I probably should have put that in for context. I’m currently not seeing anyone so it doesn’t apply to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all! It was just a thought I probably should have put that in for context. I’m currently not seeing anyone so it doesn’t apply to me. "

My point was that you might not appreciate being seen in the way you suggest by a first date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married myself so fab and Kik are good for staying descreet for both parties but everyone to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a first date

Secrets hidden, truths ,what apps on the persons phone arent a first priority to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a first date

Secrets hidden, truths ,what apps on the persons phone arent a first priority to know"

Correct and right

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