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By *hris toper OP   Man
over a year ago

roscommon sligo mayo

Is it better to send a wink as a first contact , they will get back if they fancy what’s on your profile, as I texted some people started chatting ect got on ok , few days later I sent a hi text no reply , so is it better to just send a wink ? If they fancy a text they will reply to wink ,

My question is do you prefer a wink than a hi ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at winks

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

My concern with a wink is they may just think I've something in my eye

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Not usually but in saying that winks have lead to some great chats and meets on here as well. So I'd never rule it out. But I think mostly a lot ignore them. I must admit nowadays I don't look at mine as often as I use to.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

To me a wink was always similar to a 'like' on any other social media.

Not necessarily an invitation to chat, but more of an acknowledgement that the sender liked your profile.

I think sending a wink as a means to open up a conversation is playing it too safe and could be seen as lazy.

While they're nice to get, I don't see them as being anything more than an appreciation of my profile.

Maybe I'm totally wrong in which case I've missed quite a few opportunities

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is it better to send a wink as a first contact , they will get back if they fancy what’s on your profile, as I texted some people started chatting ect got on ok , few days later I sent a hi text no reply , so is it better to just send a wink ? If they fancy a text they will reply to wink ,

My question is do you prefer a wink than a hi ?? "

Neither - I prefer an actual message

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I often wink.

If I get one, I usually say Thanks or open a conversation with the winker.

I think they're a nice, subtle form of I Fancy You

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By *ot so newCouple
over a year ago

limerick

We think by sending a wink shows we have looked and liked the profile and if they are interested they will send a wink back or message and then take it from there, nothing worse than sending a big long message to then just be ignored, we think a wink starts it off

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By *ot so newCouple
over a year ago

limerick


"I often wink.

If I get one, I usually say Thanks or open a conversation with the winker.

I think they're a nice, subtle form of I Fancy You "

Definitely agree

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I often wink.

If I get one, I usually say Thanks or open a conversation with the winker.

I think they're a nice, subtle form of I Fancy You

Definitely agree "

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I often wink.

If I get one, I usually say Thanks or open a conversation with the winker.

I think they're a nice, subtle form of I Fancy You

Definitely agree

"

Apologies, I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink has led to more than one friendship on here for me, so I’m in favour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing about the wink.... I genuinely wish there was a wink delete button.

Sometimes you see a wink from someone really nice looking, you wink back and then read their profile only to regret the fuck out of that wink and hope they never see you winking back..

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By *ot so newCouple
over a year ago

limerick


"One thing about the wink.... I genuinely wish there was a wink delete button.

Sometimes you see a wink from someone really nice looking, you wink back and then read their profile only to regret the fuck out of that wink and hope they never see you winking back.. "

We agree but then you just don't take it any further and leave it as that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing about the wink.... I genuinely wish there was a wink delete button.

Sometimes you see a wink from someone really nice looking, you wink back and then read their profile only to regret the fuck out of that wink and hope they never see you winking back..

We agree but then you just don't take it any further and leave it as that xx"

Hoping that they don't notice it and not message you.

Even worse - after messaging, you ignoring them and them going to put up a new forum thread about "why do people wink and never message back"

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By *ot so newCouple
over a year ago

limerick


"One thing about the wink.... I genuinely wish there was a wink delete button.

Sometimes you see a wink from someone really nice looking, you wink back and then read their profile only to regret the fuck out of that wink and hope they never see you winking back..

We agree but then you just don't take it any further and leave it as that xx

Hoping that they don't notice it and not message you.

Even worse - after messaging, you ignoring them and them going to put up a new forum thread about "why do people wink and never message back""

If we wink and they don't reply we would never wink again x the same with messages if we get no reply we leave it at that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to send a wink, but doubt they work....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its just "Hi" in msg than yes better wink as I rarely check them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at winks

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By *oesoappMan
over a year ago

kilquade,delgany

Couldn't agree more,I've sent lots of long messages,never got back even s acknowledgement

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