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By *elfastSteamWhistle OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

So I'm of the opinion always that no-one should ever feel the need to box themselves. There's a million threads on here "oh you've sucked a dick you're not straight.." I'm always of the who cares camp.

I ticked the bi curious box on here cause I guess it best describes me, I'm try-sexual I'll try anything. I'm not afraid of cock or cum getting on in or around me lol. I don't wanna date men or get into a relationship with them but also sometimes a bit of masculine relief is what the doctor orders.

Until now. Over the last few days (and realistically further back than that) I've been considering my whole lifestyle and what changes I'm going to make going forward. I've realised I get little or no satisfaction from my encounters with men anymore and I'm not going to meet any single men anymore, although I'll still play with couples when it comes up. I'm no longer curious.

*IF* I change my preferences on here to say "straight," with the little verifications I have, are people gonna be like, lying cunt, and disregard me. Should I leave it? There are people who flat out refuse to meet bi or bicurious, or should I start a totally new profile? I no longer feel bi curious describes me.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

You do you, either way there will be some who won’t be interested. To answer your question though, yes many couples and women won’t meet a bi man. Many will, but many won’t too.

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By *elfastSteamWhistle OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

Tbh at the moment I'm considering closing this chapter of my life all together

Maybe I'm just in a mood who knows.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Same sex , sex means your bi or gay none of this fab straight bollox

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Been so long now I'm nearly straight curious

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By *ona MonaTV/TS
over a year ago

Meath

Guess do with what one wants journies one is on in Fab.At 48 i realised i wanted dress glam and sexy and love it.My dresser give me great advise and awesome clothes.As Dublin so TV friendly i love clubbing too.I play with TVs.But had my best nights as mona clubbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm of the opinion always that no-one should ever feel the need to box themselves. There's a million threads on here "oh you've sucked a dick you're not straight.." I'm always of the who cares camp.

I ticked the bi curious box on here cause I guess it best describes me, I'm try-sexual I'll try anything. I'm not afraid of cock or cum getting on in or around me lol. I don't wanna date men or get into a relationship with them but also sometimes a bit of masculine relief is what the doctor orders.

Until now. Over the last few days (and realistically further back than that) I've been considering my whole lifestyle and what changes I'm going to make going forward. I've realised I get little or no satisfaction from my encounters with men anymore and I'm not going to meet any single men anymore, although I'll still play with couples when it comes up. I'm no longer curious.

*IF* I change my preferences on here to say "straight," with the little verifications I have, are people gonna be like, lying cunt, and disregard me. Should I leave it? There are people who flat out refuse to meet bi or bicurious, or should I start a totally new profile? I no longer feel bi curious describes me. "
u could always be honest and say it on ur profile yes u were curious u tried it got verifications from those times but u dont wanna meet men anymore so would therefore now class urself as straight going forward

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over a year ago

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Jay do what’s best for you and sod everyone else they will always find something to judge you on no matter what you do you could maybe say in you bio that you tried and it wasn’t for you hope you are well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm of the opinion always that no-one should ever feel the need to box themselves. There's a million threads on here "oh you've sucked a dick you're not straight.." I'm always of the who cares camp.

I ticked the bi curious box on here cause I guess it best describes me, I'm try-sexual I'll try anything. I'm not afraid of cock or cum getting on in or around me lol. I don't wanna date men or get into a relationship with them but also sometimes a bit of masculine relief is what the doctor orders.

Until now. Over the last few days (and realistically further back than that) I've been considering my whole lifestyle and what changes I'm going to make going forward. I've realised I get little or no satisfaction from my encounters with men anymore and I'm not going to meet any single men anymore, although I'll still play with couples when it comes up. I'm no longer curious.

*IF* I change my preferences on here to say "straight," with the little verifications I have, are people gonna be like, lying cunt, and disregard me. Should I leave it? There are people who flat out refuse to meet bi or bicurious, or should I start a totally new profile? I no longer feel bi curious describes me. "

Be honest, OP in your bio. Update that you have experimenting for a while but it isn't for you anymore.

There always will be someone who will judge us or put a sticker. Ignore them and live your life as you want!

Good luck!

PS PM me please

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Fair play OP for being honest on your profile, but I think if you change your status to straight and explain that you did have bi experiences in the past, some would judge you. I struggled for a while and changed a few times from straight to bi on my profile because I knew it would limit me to couples or females that are alright meeting bi guys, but sure that's the risk you take. Also profiles out there stating that a guy has to have bi on their profile, so that's why I have it on my profile.

If it ain't because of a guys sexuality, it could also be some thing like age, body shape, penis size or smoking habit. You just have to respect people's preferences, know it is that little bit harder for us single blokes and hope some people notice of you for the right reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same sex , sex means your bi or gay none of this fab straight bollox"

Did you read the same post as everyone else?

OP is saying that he's not interested in same sex any more full stop.

How does that make him gay or bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP honestly who cares, your profile your preferences , if they do care that's their preference , plenty of people to meet

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