FabSwingers.com forum: Mmf scenario

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So , after recently chatting about the subject with a lovely fab lady and the recent 'fucklicking' post.

I got to thinking.

What do ladies prefer?

What do guys prefer?

Bi guys or straight guys?

I dont fear the cock, I'm a liberal enough guy who has experienced a straight mmf with a bi couple.

So do straight guys fear the inevitability of body contact with the other male.?

Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys we meet are straight but comfortable with accidental contact with another man. Let's be realistic, it's going to be pretty awkward if he's not. We don't really care about the man's orientation so long as boundaries are respected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do excuse me and the fact that I omitted asking for the opinion of couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most guys we meet are straight but comfortable with accidental contact with another man. Let's be realistic, it's going to be pretty awkward if he's not. We don't really care about the man's orientation so long as boundaries are respected. "

Top points. Realistic , respectful with boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No different to all the ass slapping and willy wanging in the showers after rugby and we are all so straight!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No different to all the ass slapping and willy wanging in the showers after rugby and we are all so straight!

Yes, to the lads who are completely comfortable with it. But what about the lad in the dressing room that wouldn't be comfortable and wouldn't be confident enough to say it?

Wouldn't be me. Gotta be aware of it these days is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys? "

Definitely wouldn't be my reasoning.. It's because I would love to watch 2 guys kiss,suck,fuck.....and then join in

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By *umpkinnMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I dont fear the cock

That's a good way to put it. The moaning, groaning, involuntary movements and struggling/grinning facial expressions of the woman is what I'd be looking at and being turned on by. The additional cock is required but its not the focus for the guys.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'd prefer the guys to fully concentrate on me rather than each other. So as long as they do that I really don't mind if they're bi or straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys?

Definitely wouldn't be my reasoning.. It's because I would love to watch 2 guys kiss,suck,fuck.....and then join in

Yes ,there is this too. So for you a bi mmf would be more fulfilling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd prefer the guys to fully concentrate on me rather than each other. So as long as they do that I really don't mind if they're bi or straight.

Yes, it should be all about the lady. Indulge her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys?

Definitely wouldn't be my reasoning.. It's because I would love to watch 2 guys kiss,suck,fuck.....and then join in

Yes ,there is this too. So for you a bi mmf would be more fulfilling "

And filling..

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

Does the touching of cocks have to accidental if both guys are straight? A DVP they are touching on purpose and can still be straight? It for the females pleasure and such a turn on to se the woman so turned in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys?

Definitely wouldn't be my reasoning.. It's because I would love to watch 2 guys kiss,suck,fuck.....and then join in

Yes ,there is this too. So for you a bi mmf would be more fulfilling

And filling.. "

I did chose the way I phrased that.

very filling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does the touching of cocks have to accidental if both guys are straight? A DVP they are touching on purpose and can still be straight? It for the females pleasure and such a turn on to se the woman so turned in. "

Yes I agree. There could be intentional contact of straight cocks. DVP. A dream so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Incidental" as opposed to "accidental" then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Incidental" as opposed to "accidental" then

Could say inevitable as opposed to 'incidental' or 'accidental'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Incidental" as opposed to "accidental" then

Could say inevitable as opposed to 'incidental' or 'accidental'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I know is I want one... Soon.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

As long as the female in the mmf has as much of a good time as the 2 men I dont see what the problem would be.

My biggest fear would be a ffm when I as the male am not satisfying the 2 females like Ross in the episode of friends with his gay wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

Let's send out a search party.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

2 tasty tiny's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

Let's send out a search party.

Available

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

Let's send out a search party.

I wouldn’t say you would have to cast your net too far get a few lads to plan that with

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I think both scenarios would be good fun. One where I an center of attention and the other where everyone is. Yep I'm being greedy and saying both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think both scenarios would be good fun. One where I an center of attention and the other where everyone is. Yep I'm being greedy and saying both

Best of both worlds.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

"I think both scenarios would be good fun. One where I an center of attention and the other where everyone is. Yep I'm being greedy and saying both

Lol I don’t think anyone will be giving out to you Bo for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

Let's send out a search party.

We should

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I think both scenarios would be good fun. One where I an center of attention and the other where everyone is. Yep I'm being greedy and saying both

Best of both worlds.

Yep

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I think both scenarios would be good fun. One where I an center of attention and the other where everyone is. Yep I'm being greedy and saying both

Lol I don’t think anyone will be giving out to you Bo for this

Well I hope not anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as everyone enjoys who cares? 3sums are amazing, mmf mfm ffm fmf, some of the best experiences I’ve had have been 3sums and as long as everyone’s comfortable the fun is incredible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Incidental" as opposed to "accidental" then

Could say inevitable as opposed to 'incidental' or 'accidental'

Whether it's accidental, incidental or inevitable, if a man has any issues the touch of another male then I expect the experience might not be as "fulfilling" as the lady would like it to be.

Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

Let's send out a search party.

We should

Should be no problem getting volunteers... getting them to show up is another issue

Lee

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

So it should be like the scenario in The film "Field of Dreams"

Book a room and they will cum or something like that

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Never had a problem in a mmf meet with anyone touching or feeling my cock it is always about satisfying the girl

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

Let's send out a search party.

We should

Should be no problem getting volunteers... getting them to show up is another issue

Lee"

If it’s a complete stranger that you have being chatting in here and never met then that is all ways a risk for every meet on here!

I was more talking about that ground work be done, the coffee meet, teasing and may be the first kissing and touchy feely session out of the way so that every one knows they are comfortable with each other!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sign me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

Let's send out a search party.

We should

Should be no problem getting volunteers... getting them to show up is another issue

Lee"

I'm unfortunately all too aware that fellow fabbers here don't show up and don't contribute either. It's just Dickish behavior.

Happens in many scenarios here not just mmf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

Same here

Let's send out a search party.

We should

Should be no problem getting volunteers... getting them to show up is another issue

Lee

I'm unfortunately all too aware that fellow fabbers here don't show up and don't contribute either. It's just Dickish behavior.

Happens in many scenarios here not just mmf."

Yeah unfortunately it does, they don’t know what their missing out on tho when they don’t show up.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

If youre not okay with your cock being held against his, or the tips of the head of your cocks touching as she licks them, then you shouldnt be in a 3some.

As for more stuff, it just makes you experimental, not bi, not gay, not bi curious.

Bi guys will meet either a guy or girl.

Someone who will hold another guys cock in a 3some wont run home and join gaydar and hook up with all the men he can find. He can still have zero, even less than zero interest in dating or meeting guys on his own.

Same applies to women, women being adventerous in a 3some does not make them bi, meeting women on their own, or guys on their own does.

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By *lectric cockMan
over a year ago

local

As it happens myself and a mf couple are looking to explore a little further at the moment and on the lookout for an extra female to add to the mix. The female partner want to finally tick that bi curious box. If any of ye ladies fancy joining us for fun just give a shout.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mind throwing my name out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t mind throwing my name out there "

Apologies if I come across rude. Opinions is what the post sought , not names in a hat

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By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

"If youre not okay with your cock being held against his, or the tips of the head of your cocks touching as she licks them, then you shouldnt be in a 3some.

As for more stuff, it just makes you experimental, not bi, not gay, not bi curious.

Bi guys will meet either a guy or girl.

Same applies to women, women being adventerous in a 3some does not make them bi, meeting women on their own, or guys on their own does."

Spot on mate!!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If youre not okay with your cock being held against his, or the tips of the head of your cocks touching as she licks them, then you shouldnt be in a 3some.

As for more stuff, it just makes you experimental, not bi, not gay, not bi curious.

Bi guys will meet either a guy or girl.

Same applies to women, women being adventerous in a 3some does not make them bi, meeting women on their own, or guys on their own does.

It doesn't happen often on here but I completely agree with you this time. Just because people experiment at times doesn't mean they are bi.

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By *lectric cockMan
over a year ago

local

"Don’t mind throwing my name out there

Apologies if I come across rude. Opinions is what the post sought , not names in a hat"

Sorry about that man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when its come to mmf for us we treat it as good fun, its all about trust and respect, I am straight and it does not bother me if the guy brushes of me, threesomes do lead to some fun positions for my wife, same as mff, my wife is bi curious and when she plays with another woman we end up in all sorts of positions

no point in over thinking it as long as everyone knows the boundries before they start

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t mind throwing my name out there

Apologies if I come across rude. Opinions is what the post sought , not names in a hat

Sorry about that man"

No worries. Just a topic with varying views. Or so I thought. Most seem to be comfortable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"when its come to mmf for us we treat it as good fun, its all about trust and respect, I am straight and it does not bother me if the guy brushes of me, threesomes do lead to some fun positions for my wife, same as mff, my wife is bi curious and when she plays with another woman we end up in all sorts of positions

no point in over thinking it as long as everyone knows the boundries before they start

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By *nicumCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"If youre not okay with your cock being held against his, or the tips of the head of your cocks touching as she licks them, then you shouldnt be in a 3some.

As for more stuff, it just makes you experimental, not bi, not gay, not bi curious.

Bi guys will meet either a guy or girl.

Same applies to women, women being adventerous in a 3some does not make them bi, meeting women on their own, or guys on their own does.

It doesn't happen often on here but I completely agree with you this time. Just because people experiment at times doesn't mean they are bi. "

Could not agree more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t mind throwing my name out there

Apologies if I come across rude. Opinions is what the post sought , not names in a hat"

Really ? I was watching this thread closely ,should probably start my own thread so

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t mind throwing my name out there

Apologies if I come across rude. Opinions is what the post sought , not names in a hat

Really ? I was watching this thread closely ,should probably start my own thread so "

I may respond to that thread if posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind the orientation of the guy joining us but we're very clear that if the thought of being up close and personal with E freaks you out then you're probably not the man for us. We enjoy frotting and fucklicking and double BJs as part of an MMF, and a little soft bi play between the men is a huge turn on if everyone is cool with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesn't really matter as long as whatever boundaries discussed aren't crossed. i think respect those and your in for a good time for all involved

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

We generally only consider guys who have been verified for mfm meets. Some guys like the idea of it but then in the heat of battle they realise just how up close and personal they are going to be with another guy's raging hard on and it it all goes bad.. You don't need to be bi, you don't need to be attracted to dudes, just confident and openminded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We generally only consider guys who have been verified for mfm meets. Some guys like the idea of it but then in the heat of battle they realise just how up close and personal they are going to be with another guy's raging hard on and it it all goes bad.. You don't need to be bi, you don't need to be attracted to dudes, just confident and openminded"
Spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll have to get cracking on a couple verification

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

"All I know is I want one... Soon.

I'm with you on that point.

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

One of my best meets was a bi mmf so I'm all for it

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being open minded includes bi contact as well: as ;; crossing swords o touching whit another man while having a mfm , if none of this then u can call yoursel open minded ..

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

When I started swinging, my ex and I were looking for an MFM, and included both straight and bi guys in our search (my ex was straight) as we felt bi guys might actually be more comfortable.

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

"When I started swinging, my ex and I were looking for an MFM, and included both straight and bi guys in our search (my ex was straight) as we felt bi guys might actually be more comfortable.

And how’d that work out?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Some ladies luv to see 2 guysin action just like guys want to watch 2 ladies in action . I thouroughly enjoyed a few mmfs. They are very horny .

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

The mmf's I've had have been with couples and the guys have been straight. Some haven't minded cocks touching during the lady giving oral and DVD, others have been dead against it which limited what we could do.

The dream is a bi mmf

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