FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And all I did was say hello. I could see into it if I was harassing her (I wasn’t)

Though to be fair, if she’s decided she’s not interested, I’m as good as blocked anyway.

Anyone any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And all I did was say hello. I could see into it if I was harassing her (I wasn’t)

Though to be fair, if she’s decided she’s not interested, I’m as good as blocked anyway.

Anyone any thoughts?"

Move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And all I did was say hello. I could see into it if I was harassing her (I wasn’t)

Though to be fair, if she’s decided she’s not interested, I’m as good as blocked anyway.

Anyone any thoughts?

Move on. "

I think that’s a given

but thank you for your input

I was thinking more along the lines of “look at it as a good thing. Better to be blocked immediately than strung along for weeks or months” ( which has happened to me before as well)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe some use the block button when they are not interested to avoid getting repeat texts.

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By *leanman01Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

Yes better off getting blocked straight away than getting your hopes built up

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

You can send the most courteous

& charming

ice-breaker and someone will

take grevious exception to you

She's not wasting any more of your time

so she's doing you a big favour

There's loads of great women

& cozy couples

here on Fab...

So best shout "Next" and move on!

Remember...

"Success is the greatest revenge"

So, go get 'em Tiger!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You can send the most courteous

& charming

ice-breaker and someone will

take grevious exception to you

She's not wasting any more of your time

so she's doing you a big favour

There's loads of great women

& cozy couples

here on Fab...

So best shout "Next" and move on!

Remember...

"Success is the greatest revenge"

So, go get 'em Tiger!

Really wasn’t expecting anything so supportive. Thank you.

The guys on Fab take a lot of flack, but you’re proof there are decent guys on here too

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Really wasn’t expecting anything so supportive. Thank you.

The guys on Fab take a lot of flack, but you’re proof there are decent guys on here too"

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Tbh Op...

Most of the men on the forums are too busy looking for approval by the women

and knocking each other as they have a scarcity mentality

...seeing each other as competition

However, the truth is very different

...There's actually more than enough meets here for everyone if we all focused on chatting and having the craic

("sure it's what us oirish do"

)

Also, lads need to be bigging each other up here too as most lads here

are decent and would have more fun if they changed tact a little & just focused on having fun

Go on da lads!!!

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Welcome to the club... I sometimes look at a profile for the first time only to find myself already blocked . Each to their own . I couldn’t give a fuck if I get blocked . Their loss I say. Nothing or no one surprises me on here any more.

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By *azmanMan
over a year ago

Vera Playa

its a bit harsh. the implication of being blocked is negative. but hey ho, what can you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just means they dont like somethig about you.

It could be your pics, your preferences, your message, a status update or a forum post. Hell they might nust not like your username.

Dont stress it just move onto the next one.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

In my opinion I just think she wasn't into you and blocked because sometimes when you turn men down here it gets treated like a negotiation.

You seem very nice and friendly and definitely give that impression through your profile and pics, so I wouldn't take it to heart.

Just see it as a time saver and move on to the next.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

"Just means they dont like somethig about you.

It could be your pics, your preferences, your message, a status update or a forum post. Hell they might nust not like your username.

Dont stress it just move onto the next one. "

Does that last one happen to you a lot? Seems a bit thrown in there

Tbh I can't say your username so it does annoy me a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just means they dont like somethig about you.

It could be your pics, your preferences, your message, a status update or a forum post. Hell they might nust not like your username.

Dont stress it just move onto the next one.

Does that last one happen to you a lot? Seems a bit thrown in there

Tbh I can't say your username so it does annoy me a bit.

Well I cant ask the people who have blocked me......

So yes lets say thats why, sure I'm far too loveable for itto be anything else

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

If they blocked you then they were never gonna fuck you anyway, so you havrny lost anything.. Plenty more fish etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And all I did was say hello. I could see into it if I was harassing her (I wasn’t)

Though to be fair, if she’s decided she’s not interested, I’m as good as blocked anyway.

Anyone any thoughts?"
Well I have no problem with people blocking me for obvious reasons. But I can't understand blocking for childish reasons like some do.

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

but once blocked you are blocked for ever..no way of ever getting back...

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

SWSWSWN!

Some Will, Some Won't, So What?

NEXT!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SWSWSWN!

Some Will, Some Won't, So What?

NEXT!! "
Some childish some not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible case this, I think this deserves 1 hell of an explanation here wtf is this sight coming too? How can a girl just rej and I have no clue wat I was going to say so who would be the honerable lady in emptying my scrotom this fine Sunday morn?

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

"SWSWSWN!

Some Will, Some Won't, So What?

NEXT!! Some childish some not."

Let it go, Elsa.....

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"but once blocked you are blocked for ever..no way of ever getting back..."

Sometimes I get randomly blocked and a few days/weeks later I get unblocked, without interaction whatsoever.

They are doing me a favour, as I won't waste my time messaging someone who does that.

The last thing I want is keep chatting and messaging someone, just to feed their ego, when they have no interest in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but once blocked you are blocked for ever..no way of ever getting back...

Sometimes I get randomly blocked and a few days/weeks later I get unblocked, without interaction whatsoever.

They are doing me a favour, as I won't waste my time messaging someone who does that.

The last thing I want is keep chatting and messaging someone, just to feed their ego, when they have no interest in meeting.

Glad to see it dosent get to you

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah, people who you never talked to once in your life follow you around the forum telling people all about you too, that youre a troll etc, place can be weird but oh well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"SWSWSWN!

Some Will, Some Won't, So What?

NEXT!! Some childish some not.

Let it go, Elsa..... "

Lol

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"but once blocked you are blocked for ever..no way of ever getting back...

Sometimes I get randomly blocked and a few days/weeks later I get unblocked, without interaction whatsoever.

They are doing me a favour, as I won't waste my time messaging someone who does that.

The last thing I want is keep chatting and messaging someone, just to feed their ego, when they have no interest in meeting.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"And all I did was say hello. I could see into it if I was harassing her (I wasn’t)

Though to be fair, if she’s decided she’s not interested, I’m as good as blocked anyway.

Anyone any thoughts?"

place is a sausage fest ..women are bombarded with mails all the time..think of what its like from their persepctive they dont have all day to be reading hey wanna fuck mails or even anything more elaborate..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block people often but Sometimes you are really left with no choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And all I did was say hello. I could see into it if I was harassing her (I wasn’t)

Though to be fair, if she’s decided she’s not interested, I’m as good as blocked anyway.

Anyone any thoughts?"

Dont worry about it, I didnt even say a thing and I got blocked for just looking at a photo, middle age couple old fashioned I guess

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

People block for all different reasons. I've been blocked I just block back and move on. Doesn't really bother me. You shouldn't let it bother you they obviously don't want to meet you so waste no time more wondering why just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SWSWSWN!

Some Will, Some Won't, So What?

NEXT!! Some childish some not.

Let it go, Elsa..... "

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"Welcome to the club... I sometimes look at a profile for the first time only to find myself already blocked . Each to their own . I couldn’t give a fuck if I get blocked . Their loss I say. Nothing or no one surprises me on here any more. "

"I couldn't give a fuck"... you sound like you really do

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

99.99% of the time you have lost nothing by them blocking you. I have never ever ever thought someone was awesome and clicked on their profile to see more and see I am blocked. It's usually when someone says something strange quoting me, and I click on, and they have me blocked. Someone I wouldn't have even had a conversation with, let alone met.

So dont worry about it. Maybe block back so they dont unblock you and strike up a conversation though.

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

To be fair, we were organising a meet with a lady and because it took us a day to respond with logistics (due to hours worked, we just didn't get a chance) we got a snotty message and blocked.

Very much not our loss... Lol. We had a great evening away, on our own!

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

No point in dissecting it, it is what it is, big boy pants on and move along

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

yes block back..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And all I did was say hello. I could see into it if I was harassing her (I wasn’t)

Though to be fair, if she’s decided she’s not interested, I’m as good as blocked anyway.

Anyone any thoughts?"

So obviously you " didn't have her at hello "...just used the Jerry Maguire movie quote with a twist. ... She just nipped it in the bud ..huge Salute to her for that my friend...NOT because it was you ...but believe me ..l've been on the end of the timewasting string a longers who just keep messaging and NEVER met simply because they NEVER had any intention of doing so in the first place...and it's not a nice place to be when that happens...so this lady did the correct and decent thing ...and you a huge favour..by not wanting to waste your time .

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