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"What do people think, should no shows be named & shamed plenty guys cant get meets then u have ones that do dont turn up with no communication???? Thoughts and comments please" ----------------- Says you're only looking for women  on your profile
so great to see you're thinking "outside the box"!  
Now, no shows are unfortunately a part of Fab life 
and with experience, it gets easier to out
most of the time wasters, spoofers and no-show merchants
from the fun people ...
Anyone named and shamed can easily delete their
profile and rejoin, so one phone number per account
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"No, it would be just one person's word against another's. Chalk it down, move on, if it's happening a lot take a look at how you pick potential meets. "
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"This is a no strings attached casual sex site. Nsa means there is no sense of obligation. Casual means you're not a priority. You get what you sign up for. " This | |||
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"This is a no strings attached casual sex site. Nsa means there is no sense of obligation. Casual means you're not a priority. You get what you sign up for. " S³ aka the oracle is correct again  | |||
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"Dont name and shame... but report to admin. " Report to admin for a no show? How would that work? | |||
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"I'd had some good meets, some bad meets, some who didnt turn up and some I wished hadn't turned up, you may have had a lucky escape. However its happens on a regular basis, well verified people tend to turn up, it's rare a well verified profile fails to turn up. Taking a risk on a newbie or unverified profile increases this risk dramatically " Sadly this person was very well verified and knew we had traveled to him but then didnt answer as to house number knowing we were in estate a polite cancel message would hace sufficed | |||
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"Dont name and shame... but report to admin. Report to admin for a no show? How would that work?" Select their profile, use the Reprt option and it gives you an option of Didn't Show Up or something along those lines. I believe if they get 2 or more of those, Admin take some form of action. | |||
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"Dont name and shame... but report to admin. Report to admin for a no show? How would that work? Select their profile, use the Reprt option and it gives you an option of Didn't Show Up or something along those lines. I believe if they get 2 or more of those, Admin take some form of action. " It's in the Menu option when looking at a profile | |||
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"Dont name and shame... but report to admin. Report to admin for a no show? How would that work?" As above... that's the system the site has in place for dealing with no shows. It's not a perfect system, but it's harder than you might think to fix because its impossible for the site to know what happens offline. They can and do take action where there are multiple instances of verified noshows. | |||
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"What do people think, should no shows be named & shamed plenty guys cant get meets then u have ones that do dont turn up with no communication???? Thoughts and comments please" Tbh it is of course the worst thing on fab ..the timewasters..the no shows ..the string a longers ..the bread crumbers ...but l do think reporting them is a waste of time..as others have said ,they'll just delete their account and open a new one...maybe the only way of letting others know is if one puts it up on their status ie " was supposed to meet ***** last night but a no show without any notice or communication " or something along those lines but like anything you only discover all the timewasters..no shows ..string a longers when the time to actually meet arrives..l personally have taken time off work to drive to meets as it was the best time for the lady to meet during the morning ,drive for over an hour ,then .."poof ". . nothin'..no show..can't lie ,not a great feeling but there ya go ,some people do things like that ,and will continue to do it cause they think it's ok to do so...it's part of the jungle here and unfortunately there's not a lot one can do about it. | |||
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"I'd had some good meets, some bad meets, some who didnt turn up and some I wished hadn't turned up, you may have had a lucky escape. However its happens on a regular basis, well verified people tend to turn up, it's rare a well verified profile fails to turn up. Taking a risk on a newbie or unverified profile increases this risk dramatically Sadly this person was very well verified and knew we had traveled to him but then didnt answer as to house number knowing we were in estate a polite cancel message would hace sufficed " All I can say is there is nothing stranger than people and their behaviour, no point in trying to figure them out, best to block and move on | |||
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"Dont name and shame... but report to admin. Report to admin for a no show? How would that work? Select their profile, use the Reprt option and it gives you an option of Didn't Show Up or something along those lines. I believe if they get 2 or more of those, Admin take some form of action. It's in the Menu option when looking at a profile " But whats to stop me having a grudge against someone and doing this, then getting a friend to do it. Its not like an abusive message or forum post that can be seen. I didnt realise there was an option for it tbh but cant see admin being able to act on it to be fair | |||
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"All I can say is there is nothing stranger than people and their behaviour, no point in trying to figure them out, best to block and move on" This sums it up where a lot of fab situations are concerned, people tie themselves in knots getting offended and upset when it's the other party's issues, not theirs. | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab." Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. | |||
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"Dont name and shame... but report to admin. Report to admin for a no show? How would that work? Select their profile, use the Reprt option and it gives you an option of Didn't Show Up or something along those lines. I believe if they get 2 or more of those, Admin take some form of action. It's in the Menu option when looking at a profile But whats to stop me having a grudge against someone and doing this, then getting a friend to do it. Its not like an abusive message or forum post that can be seen. I didnt realise there was an option for it tbh but cant see admin being able to act on it to be fair They wont act on 1 persons report. There would need to be more than 1" I get that... but sure there are a few on here with multiple accoubts. And a few groups of people not above bitter trolling behaviour. | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. " Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV." ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex. | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex." You can have sex without riding the whole village.But to blame Catholic religion is a little childish on your part. | |||
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"Dont name and shame... but report to admin. Report to admin for a no show? How would that work?" If a profile is reported for a no show and admin see a pattern of the profile being reported for no shows on various occasions by different people then the account is suspended or deleted. | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex." Well said..... | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex. Well said..... " W.A.L.O.B.S | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex. Well said..... W.A.L.O.B.S" you do know she is actually correct in what she says about the Catholic church's stance on condoms and AIDS... They did tell the African population that condoms contain microscopic holes which left virus through.... FACT. | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex. Well said..... W.A.L.O.B.Syou do know she is actually correct in what she says about the Catholic church's stance on condoms and AIDS... They did tell the African population that condoms contain microscopic holes which left virus through.... FACT. " But did they tell them to shag everyone in the village. | |||
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"Was his name Joe? Cos there's no show like a Joe show
Apologies in advance but I couldn't resist... " | |||
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"Was his name Joe? Cos there's no show like a Joe show
Apologies in advance but I couldn't resist... "Hahaha  | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex. Well said..... W.A.L.O.B.Syou do know she is actually correct in what she says about the Catholic church's stance on condoms and AIDS... They did tell the African population that condoms contain microscopic holes which left virus through.... FACT. But did they tell them to shag everyone in the village." what do health professionals in developed countries tell people to do to avoid contracting hiv??? Do not have unprotected sex..... We are highly educated and know unprotected sex can cause hiv... Your trying to say under developed countries with little or no education should also know this.... And on top of this the church tells them that using protection will cause hiv infection.... Cmon buddy..... Get outa the clouds.... | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex. Well said..... W.A.L.O.B.Syou do know she is actually correct in what she says about the Catholic church's stance on condoms and AIDS... They did tell the African population that condoms contain microscopic holes which left virus through.... FACT. But did they tell them to shag everyone in the village.what do health professionals in developed countries tell people to do to avoid contracting hiv??? Do not have unprotected sex..... We are highly educated and know unprotected sex can cause hiv... Your trying to say under developed countries with little or no education should also know this.... And on top of this the church tells them that using protection will cause hiv infection.... Cmon buddy..... Get outa the clouds.... " Well you can have unprecedented sex if you're not riding everyone in the village buddy.Like I've already said I'm sure the church or the health professionals didn't tell them to ride anything that moves. | |||
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"Was his name Joe? Cos there's no show like a Joe show
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"Was his name Joe? Cos there's no show like a Joe show
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex. Well said..... W.A.L.O.B.Syou do know she is actually correct in what she says about the Catholic church's stance on condoms and AIDS... They did tell the African population that condoms contain microscopic holes which left virus through.... FACT. But did they tell them to shag everyone in the village.what do health professionals in developed countries tell people to do to avoid contracting hiv??? Do not have unprotected sex..... We are highly educated and know unprotected sex can cause hiv... Your trying to say under developed countries with little or no education should also know this.... And on top of this the church tells them that using protection will cause hiv infection.... Cmon buddy..... Get outa the clouds.... Well you can have unprecedented sex if you're not riding everyone in the village buddy.Like I've already said I'm sure the church or the health professionals didn't tell them to ride anything that moves." u can also get hiv from the first person u ever have sex with.... And why do u think there riding everything in the village... I'm sensing a troll here tbh.. Or else ur just stupid | |||
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"Or maybe both... a stupid troll" Oops someone is getting there knickers in a twist. | |||
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"Jesus people sick and lying on trolleys in hospital's think they have it bad but sure it's nothing compared to been stood up for a meet on fab. Millions of HIV infected people without medicine in Africa.. and your talking about people sitting on trolleys! Billions of planets in the universe and you just wanna talk about planet earth!! It's ok to talk small stuff too Harty. Ah yes small things matter. Well I suppose if they didn't ride everything in front or behind them they might not have HIV. ..well their catholic religious leaders telling them that condoms SPREAD HIV doesnt help. Plus poverty means access to contraception isn't easy either... but you carry on blaming them for having sex. Well said..... W.A.L.O.B.Syou do know she is actually correct in what she says about the Catholic church's stance on condoms and AIDS... They did tell the African population that condoms contain microscopic holes which left virus through.... FACT. But did they tell them to shag everyone in the village.what do health professionals in developed countries tell people to do to avoid contracting hiv??? Do not have unprotected sex..... We are highly educated and know unprotected sex can cause hiv... Your trying to say under developed countries with little or no education should also know this.... And on top of this the church tells them that using protection will cause hiv infection.... Cmon buddy..... Get outa the clouds.... Well you can have unprecedented sex if you're not riding everyone in the village buddy.Like I've already said I'm sure the church or the health professionals didn't tell them to ride anything that moves.u can also get hiv from the first person u ever have sex with.... And why do u think there riding everything in the village... I'm sensing a troll here tbh.. Or else ur just stupid " Lol it's funny how the troll thing crops up when people can't give another answer. | |||
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" Lol it's funny how the troll thing crops up when people can't give another answer. " No, The troll thing generally crops up when there's a troll | |||
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" Lol it's funny how the troll thing crops up when people can't give another answer. No, The troll thing generally crops up when there's a troll "Well you should know. Wink wink nudge nudge. | |||
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" Lol it's funny how the troll thing crops up when people can't give another answer. No, The troll thing generally crops up when there's a troll Well you should know. Wink wink nudge nudge."yeah I'm clever like that. A silhouetted unverified troll enters a thread, disagrees with everyone. Everyone calls him out on being the troll that he is....easy. definite troll. So yeah I do know, everyone does I just hope you never fall into that category harry cos I think you are great
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" Lol it's funny how the troll thing crops up when people can't give another answer. No, The troll thing generally crops up when there's a troll Well you should know. Wink wink nudge nudge. yeah I'm clever like that. A silhouetted unverified troll enters a thread, disagrees with everyone. Everyone calls him out on being the troll that he is....easy. definite troll. So yeah I do know, everyone does I just hope you never fall into that category harry cos I think you are great
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