FabSwingers.com forum: Are chat groups killing fab Ireland forums

By *ommando4 OP Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Forums have been quiet recently due me thinks to the proliferation of chat groups. Most of the witty banter and meet arrangements seem to happen there. Is that a good thing ? Discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never seen a successful meet organised on the forums, I've only ever noticed the "I have a free house tonight" type of threads looking meets.

Personally I dip in and out of the forums but the proliferation of trolls is off putting.

Eros

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I think they serve different purposes but also appeal to different folks, some like the forum, some don't, same with chat groups. I've been on the latter once, with 5 people, I found it mental. As for meet arrangements, I prefer to keep them privately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they serve different purposes but also appeal to different folks, some like the forum, some don't, same with chat groups. I've been on the latter once, with 5 people, I found it mental. As for meet arrangements, I prefer to keep them privately."

This for us also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never seen a successful meet organised on the forums, I've only ever noticed the "I have a free house tonight" type of threads looking meets.

Personally I dip in and out of the forums but the proliferation of trolls is off putting.

Eros "
this

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Group chats do my head in, 20 plus people talking at the same time just gives me a headache

Though I've never posted a famous

"I've got a hard cock and a free house" post, all my meets have come from the threads.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Group chats do my head in, 20 plus people talking at the same time just gives me a headache

Though I've never posted a famous

"I've got a hard cock and a free house" post, all my meets have come from the threads.

So there’s no point is us posting “I’ve a wet pussy and he’s a hard cock, we have a free house, now come and get us” ....

Damn it, so that’s where we’re going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat rooms are real time talking..a get to know you exercise which lead to meets or friendships..forums encourage debate..differing views on different topics..its a bit like the difference between reading a newspaper and taking part in a live phone in...each has their place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Group chats do my head in, 20 plus people talking at the same time just gives me a headache

Though I've never posted a famous

"I've got a hard cock and a free house" post, all my meets have come from the threads.

So there’s no point is us posting “I’ve a wet pussy and he’s a hard cock, we have a free house, now come and get us” ....

Damn it, so that’s where we’re going wrong

No, no point at all

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Havent some of the best social meets this site has had in Ireland started on the forum?

Sure they might eventually move to chat groups, and some might have long standing chat groups by now, but I assume this would still be among the first places to vote if youre serious about starting a new social or meet.

But i dont actually use any of the chat groups, or know what goes on in them.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"Group chats do my head in, 20 plus people talking at the same time just gives me a headache

Though I've never posted a famous

"I've got a hard cock and a free house" post, all my meets have come from the threads.

So there’s no point is us posting “I’ve a wet pussy and he’s a hard cock, we have a free house, now come and get us” ....

Damn it, so that’s where we’re going wrong

Haha, i didnt say there was anything wrong with it

though in the history of fab, and i could be wrong, i don't thing a couple or a female has ever posted such a thread.

You guys could make fab history today

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Group chats do my head in, 20 plus people talking at the same time just gives me a headache

Though I've never posted a famous

"I've got a hard cock and a free house" post, all my meets have come from the threads.

So there’s no point is us posting “I’ve a wet pussy and he’s a hard cock, we have a free house, now come and get us” ....

Damn it, so that’s where we’re going wrong

Haha, i didnt say there was anything wrong with it

though in the history of fab, and i could be wrong, i don't thing a couple or a female has ever posted such a thread.

You guys could make fab history today

We shall see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forums have been quiet recently due me thinks to the proliferation of chat groups. Most of the witty banter and meet arrangements seem to happen there. Is that a good thing ? Discuss."

Was in a chat group once...had to leave it...it was just head wrecking...as in ,nearly everyday twas the same everyday stuff being repeated.. so not for me ...l only joined To see what it was like and suss things out at the time and my mind was made up not to be in one again ... anything l do regards meets etc here l keep private ...very private ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a group going if any singles wanna join in

There's plenty of fun an banter in them an meets do come from them..private or other...

I'm in said groups but I always have fun on forum too

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

the forums are just for a giggle arent they? a get to know folk. But as with most things fab with the forum and the groups you need to be in the clique

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

A few of my meets come from the forums. I may not post publicly but sometimes I will start to chat to someone due to something posted on the forums especially if I have seen them posting before. You get to get some idea of who they are by what is said in forums.

I also tend to be in the Ireland chat room a lot of nights the more you join in there the more people chat to you. As for other apps I've never had a meet from them.

So ye for me anyhow the forums are a handy place to meet and interact with people.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Forums have been quiet recently due me thinks to the proliferation of chat groups. Most of the witty banter and meet arrangements seem to happen there. Is that a good thing ? Discuss."

I'd never join a group that would have me as a member.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

The forums are a little quieter lately and the chat room is a hell of a lot quieter than it used to be. It's a shame, while I am in a Kik group, I do miss the novelty of chatting to a new person in the chat room or discovering their profile on the forum.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"We have a group going if any singles wanna join in

There's plenty of fun an banter in them an meets do come from them..private or other...

I'm in said groups but I always have fun on forum too

Now what’s this Dark Rose?!? Why haven’t I been invited?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity and horse shite are what's killing the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a group going if any singles wanna join in

There's plenty of fun an banter in them an meets do come from them..private or other...

I'm in said groups but I always have fun on forum too

Now what’s this Dark Rose?!? Why haven’t I been invited?

I've not got around to you lol

Just pm me, it's open to all singles/cpls/ etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Negativity and horse shite are what's killing the forums!

Couldn't agree more with ya

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By *orkhotshotMan
over a year ago

youghal east cork

Id love to join

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"Negativity and horse shite are what's killing the forums!

Well said. As always.

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By *ountrygent90Man
over a year ago

Dublin

There’s a fab singles dating group if anyone wants to join. First social is on in Dublin on 16th November.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Negativity and horse shite are what's killing the forums!

Agreed, petty personal sniping is really fucking tedious, we're supposed to be adults here, if users can't play nicely with certain others, they should ignore them instead of dragging the place down with puerile behaviour.

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

"Negativity and horse shite are what's killing the forums!

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as well as trolls and people taking offence too easily

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By *ommando4 OP Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Forums have been quiet recently due me thinks to the proliferation of chat groups. Most of the witty banter and meet arrangements seem to happen there. Is that a good thing ? Discuss."
totally agree with you commando

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Negativity and horse shite are what's killing the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with the forums if people got down of there highhorse and stop looking down there nose at others.

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

I agree with most comments made here,treads should be a bit of banter good fun not getting personal with people about there kinks or the subject they post on treads,I think some people think there shit don’t smell and they are better than other people have FUN people and get down of your high horse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Group chats do my head in, 20 plus people talking at the same time just gives me a headache

Though I've never posted a famous

"I've got a hard cock and a free house" post, all my meets have come from the threads.

Me too

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By *abraham_LincolnWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

"There's nothing wrong with the forums if people got down of there highhorse and stop looking down there nose at others."

Their*

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By *abraham_LincolnWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

"Group chats do my head in, 20 plus people talking at the same time just gives me a headache

Though I've never posted a famous

"I've got a hard cock and a free house" post, all my meets have come from the threads.

I have a wet pussy. My cat was out in the rain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong with the forums if people got down of there highhorse and stop looking down there nose at others.

Their*"
Where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Havent some of the best social meets this site has had in Ireland started on the forum?

But i dont actually use any of the chat groups, or know what goes on in them."

I have found my FwBs because of the discussions on the forum

Happy Smokeyyyy

And with many people from forums I have a good relationship as friends

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By *engthxgirthMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The topics on the forum are 99% pathetic. Any wonder no-one uses them

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Both forum and groups have their merit, both have their downside, both have their trolls.

Its not hurting the forum, the topics on the forum are the issue. Theres only so many things you can chat about!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I have never seen a successful meet organised on the forums, I've only ever noticed the "I have a free house tonight" type of threads looking meets.

Personally I dip in and out of the forums but the proliferation of trolls is off putting.

Eros "

The bulk of my meets come from the forums over the years

one was arranged on a thread a troll had posted about the women here posing and posturing and not meeting the thread went on fairly fast, i think it filled up in a matter of four hrs and in the 175 posts i managed to pull a meet with a local woman that i would not have chatted to before that thread but would have seen posting on other threads

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"the forums are just for a giggle arent they? a get to know folk. But as with most things fab with the forum and the groups you need to be in the clique "

Which clique

the see u next tuesday clique or the i own the place clique maybe its the anti clique clique ur talking about

These cliques have me confused

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"The topics on the forum are 99% pathetic. Any wonder no-one uses them"

U should post more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forums have been quiet recently due me thinks to the proliferation of chat groups. Most of the witty banter and meet arrangements seem to happen there. Is that a good thing ? Discuss."

I think You might be right.

I met lots of people, including my FwBs with whom have discussed on forums, not on the group chats.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Its that time of year again dark wintery nights people busy sorting kids and homework, its a seasonal thing this time of year the forum goes quiet also around easter again it happens.

I don't know why it does but it does and this thread is resurrected again on a bi annual basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its that time of year again dark wintery nights people busy sorting kids and homework, its a seasonal thing this time of year the forum goes quiet also around easter again it happens.

I don't know why it does but it does and this thread is resurrected again on a bi annual basis

I dont really know CJ

Im here a year and didn't notice it. May be your right.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Its that time of year again dark wintery nights people busy sorting kids and homework, its a seasonal thing this time of year the forum goes quiet also around easter again it happens.

I don't know why it does but it does and this thread is resurrected again on a bi annual basis

I dont really know CJ

Im here a year and didn't notice it. May be your right."

I am sure some thread researcher may oblige us by resurrecting last years thread,

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I enjoy both groups and forums but as of late more the group's as the forums don't seem to interest me..I don't like all these rate People and hottest pic etc threads

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