FabSwingers.com forum: Multiple profiles

By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

First of all I know everyone has different reasons for being on here but you hope someone that you meet is mostly honest and genuine.

However being new I spent a bit of time just looking at profiles and learning the correct etiquette.

I have noticed men as part of a couple on here as straight but also on the other fab site as gay with completely different details with the same pics

Or men changing their profile every 2 weeks and claiming to be new again.

Is it all part of the game that some people play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *iwh01Man
over a year ago

mullingar

One local lady to me openly admits to having 2 profiles

I’m back now as single but was previously here for 2 years as a couple. But she got fed up of timewasters and no shows , and it got to the stage the negative was outweighting the fun

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I dont understand the gay/straight/bi thing with guys,I get the odd message from guys, profile says straight yet want to meet, they would probably do so much better being honest,instead they lurk in the shadows messaging straight guys believing they may be the same, wasting everyone's time.

I am straight and it clearly states that on my profile, mind you they probably dont read much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont understand the gay/straight/bi thing with guys,I get the odd message from guys, profile says straight yet want to meet, they would probably do so much better being honest,instead they lurk in the shadows messaging straight guys believing they may be the same, wasting everyone's time.

I am straight and it clearly states that on my profile, mind you they probably dont read much"
you dont understand the gay/bi thing whats kind of statement is that towards us????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly different point to the OP, sorry, but how can people with multiple profiles verify their own various profiles?

I'm sure we've all seen a 'new' user being verified within minutes of signing up

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

FFS! Too much trouble with the one profile to have time for that !!!

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I am straight and it clearly states that on my profile, mind you they probably dont read much you dont understand the gay/bi thing whats kind of statement is that towards us????"

Like it states, I dont understand a guy having "Straight" on his profile, yet at 3am messaging every guy online asking to swallow his load.

I have no issue with anybody's sexual orientation but putting down straight and looking to suck off guys at 3am is confusing me, if your bit say bit, if your gay say gay but you cant be all 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight and it clearly states that on my profile, mind you they probably dont read much you dont understand the gay/bi thing whats kind of statement is that towards us????

Like it states, I dont understand a guy having "Straight" on his profile, yet at 3am messaging every guy online asking to swallow his load.

I have no issue with anybody's sexual orientation but putting down straight and looking to suck off guys at 3am is confusing me, if your bit say bit, if your gay say gay but you cant be all 3"
your first statements makes no sense whatsoever and rude ask me!! Secondly yes half the site is like that 60% of messsages I get are from straight guys trying it out. Others hiding because of others not meeting them. Half the site is bisexual. 90% of couples have a bi sex be it male or female. I even have straight couples mailing me looking for bi fun unfortunately thats the site on here theres tons of hiding going on.. going back to ops question yes it doesn't make sense in having multiple profiles unless they meet separately each to their own but personally I dont see the need for it especially the ones where it says I'm part of a couple and I dont meet alone thats the one that doesn't make sense..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight and it clearly states that on my profile, mind you they probably dont read much you dont understand the gay/bi thing whats kind of statement is that towards us????

Like it states, I dont understand a guy having "Straight" on his profile, yet at 3am messaging every guy online asking to swallow his load.

I have no issue with anybody's sexual orientation but putting down straight and looking to suck off guys at 3am is confusing me, if your bit say bit, if your gay say gay but you cant be all 3 your first statements makes no sense whatsoever and rude ask me!! Secondly yes half the site is like that 60% of messsages I get are from straight guys trying it out. Others hiding because of others not meeting them. Half the site is bisexual. 90% of couples have a bi sex be it male or female. I even have straight couples mailing me looking for bi fun unfortunately thats the site on here theres tons of hiding going on.. going back to ops question yes it doesn't make sense in having multiple profiles unless they meet separately each to their own but personally I dont see the need for it especially the ones where it says I'm part of a couple and I dont meet alone thats the one that doesn't make sense.."

Guys are terrified of getting "outed"

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

There is no rule against it.

I think a troll on the forum is less to worry about than someone uploading face pics on the feed over and over harassing someone.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

FFS! Too much trouble with the one profile to have time for that !!!

I agree with this one is more than enough for me I don't have time or energy for more than 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IF *ahem* you are straight and you have such a problem with receiving messages from straight/bi/gay fellas then why not change your account to "not looking for single guys".

Seems to me if you don't select this option then you would consider it and therefore you'll recieve(Oeerrrrr) messages from everyone.

I've never received a message from a fella because I'm not interested in fellas and have set my profile up to that effect.

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I am straight and it clearly states that on my profile, mind you they probably dont read much you dont understand the gay/bi thing whats kind of statement is that towards us????

Like it states, I dont understand a guy having "Straight" on his profile, yet at 3am messaging every guy online asking to swallow his load.

I have no issue with anybody's sexual orientation but putting down straight and looking to suck off guys at 3am is confusing me, if your bit say bit, if your gay say gay but you cant be all 3 your first statements makes no sense whatsoever and rude ask me!! Secondly yes half the site is like that 60% of messsages I get are from straight guys trying it out. Others hiding because of others not meeting them. Half the site is bisexual. 90% of couples have a bi sex be it male or female. I even have straight couples mailing me looking for bi fun unfortunately thats the site on here theres tons of hiding going on.. going back to ops question yes it doesn't make sense in having multiple profiles unless they meet separately each to their own but personally I dont see the need for it especially the ones where it says I'm part of a couple and I dont meet alone thats the one that doesn't make sense.."

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"IF *ahem* you are straight and you have such a problem with receiving messages from straight/bi/gay fellas then why not change your account to "not looking for single guys".

Seems to me if you don't select this option then you would consider it and therefore you'll recieve(Oeerrrrr) messages from everyone.

I've never received a message from a fella because I'm not interested in fellas and have set my profile up to that effect."

That’s a valid point

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"I've never received a message from a fella because I'm not interested in fellas and have set my profile up to that effect."

Yeah but if you're looking to attend events you need to be able to talk to men, women, tv/ts, couples, mm, ff.

I have mine set up like that, but also men trying it on when I am not interested does not bother me. Its just the same as a girl trying it on when I am not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight and it clearly states that on my profile, mind you they probably dont read much you dont understand the gay/bi thing whats kind of statement is that towards us????

Like it states, I dont understand a guy having "Straight" on his profile, yet at 3am messaging every guy online asking to swallow his load.

I have no issue with anybody's sexual orientation but putting down straight and looking to suck off guys at 3am is confusing me, if your bit say bit, if your gay say gay but you cant be all 3 your first statements makes no sense whatsoever and rude ask me!! Secondly yes half the site is like that 60% of messsages I get are from straight guys trying it out. Others hiding because of others not meeting them. Half the site is bisexual. 90% of couples have a bi sex be it male or female. I even have straight couples mailing me looking for bi fun unfortunately thats the site on here theres tons of hiding going on.. going back to ops question yes it doesn't make sense in having multiple profiles unless they meet separately each to their own but personally I dont see the need for it especially the ones where it says I'm part of a couple and I dont meet alone thats the one that doesn't make sense..

I'm not being rude, I just cant figure out a Bi Guy putting down straight, it would be like me putting down Gay when I'm straight, what woman would message me then, does it not make perfect sense to put down bi if your that way inclined? Surely the success rate would be a lot higher?"
well I found your first line rude it sounds homophobic to me. Gay and straight is completely different to being bisexual. Going back on my reply some guys hide it because some girls dont like bi guys just they way you dont like them. I dont care who knows my sexuality thats how am and always have bin I'm an honest person and being honest I've had straight guys mailing me saying my pics/profile is amazing. I wouldn't take offence to guys mailing you if its that bad an your getting mails from them block all males in your message filters.. anyway this is a completely different topic.. best of lick my friend

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I am straight and it clearly states that on my profile, mind you they probably dont read much you dont understand the gay/bi thing whats kind of statement is that towards us????

Like it states, I dont understand a guy having "Straight" on his profile, yet at 3am messaging every guy online asking to swallow his load.

I have no issue with anybody's sexual orientation but putting down straight and looking to suck off guys at 3am is confusing me, if your bit say bit, if your gay say gay but you cant be all 3 your first statements makes no sense whatsoever and rude ask me!! Secondly yes half the site is like that 60% of messsages I get are from straight guys trying it out. Others hiding because of others not meeting them. Half the site is bisexual. 90% of couples have a bi sex be it male or female. I even have straight couples mailing me looking for bi fun unfortunately thats the site on here theres tons of hiding going on.. going back to ops question yes it doesn't make sense in having multiple profiles unless they meet separately each to their own but personally I dont see the need for it especially the ones where it says I'm part of a couple and I dont meet alone thats the one that doesn't make sense..

I'm not being rude, I just cant figure out a Bi Guy putting down straight, it would be like me putting down Gay when I'm straight, what woman would message me then, does it not make perfect sense to put down bi if your that way inclined? Surely the success rate would be a lot higher? well I found your first line rude it sounds homophobic to me. Gay and straight is completely different to being bisexual. Going back on my reply some guys hide it because some girls dont like bi guys just they way you dont like them. I dont care who knows my sexuality thats how am and always have bin I'm an honest person and being honest I've had straight guys mailing me saying my pics/profile is amazing. I wouldn't take offence to guys mailing you if its that bad an your getting mails from them block all males in your message filters.. anyway this is a completely different topic.. best of lick my friend

I'm not taking any offence to guys mailing me, I just cant figure out people not telling their true sexual orientation, they would get a much better response from similar oriented people by displaying their true orientation I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but if you're looking to attend events you need to be able to talk to men, women, tv/ts, couples, mm, ff.

I have mine set up like that, but also men trying it on when I am not interested does not bother me. Its just the same as a girl trying it on when I am not interested."

Please correct me if I'm wrong but if you select "not interest in single guys" that should only rule out 1 of the 6 groups you mentioned?

I agree with the 2nd part and feel the same myself. It doesn't, or wouldn't bother me, but I've it selected so not to build anyone's hopes up

joke!

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By *rishgstarMan
over a year ago

the neighbourhood

Not everyone knows themselves well enough to commit to puttin down Straight, Gay or Bi, some are hiding because they believe it impacts their chances with their target partner(s), the rules are all imaginary and can be found in the invisible rule book chapter 1 under "this is all a construct of human interaction" so basically who gives a f**k how many profiles anyone has or what they do, manage your own profile and get on with it,dont like the messages you receive?- then delete em and carry on touchin yourself..

I wanted to make another profile to lie and portray myself as macho and straight, to see if it helped attract females into my sphere but it was so not who I am and I couldnt he arsed like others already mentioned above, bottom line is the lucky people I meet will get a euro lottery size gift invaluble sexperience and those that pass me up have missed theyr chance at brief happiness, sharing in something amazing and gaining insight into how to get the most out of sexuality

*Mic drop*

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

"Not everyone knows themselves well enough to commit to puttin down Straight, Gay or Bi, some are hiding because they believe it impacts their chances with their target partner(s), the rules are all imaginary and can be found in the invisible rule book chapter 1 under "this is all a construct of human interaction" so basically who gives a f**k how many profiles anyone has or what they do, manage your own profile and get on with it,dont like the messages you receive?- then delete em and carry on touchin yourself..

*Mic drop*"

I think you might need that mic again, I'll help you a little, you dont need to know yourself well to know that being male and wanting cock immediately rules you out of being straight, it's now a question of bit or gay.

Putting down straight so as not to impact your chance with others who only want straight is simply lying and a breach of trust do you not think?

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By *rishgstarMan
over a year ago

the neighbourhood

*Mic drop*

Putting down straight so as not to impact your chance with others who only want straight is simply lying and a breach of trust do you not think?"

Thanks for the help pointing out what I said, next time help yourself, being male and wanting cock at one point in your life doesnt make you gay or even bi, people change and life isnt black and white, that was the point you missed, there ya go now I helped you back

and I do think that lying is a breach of trust which is why, like I had mentioned, I didnt make a second profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wanting cock at one point in your life doesnt make you gay or even bi"

are you trying to convince yourself or the rest of us?

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"wanting cock at one point in your life doesnt make you gay or even bi

are you trying to convince yourself or the rest of us?"

His point is very valid. If its so black and white as you say well then if a woman took cock once in her life 50 years ago but decided it wasn't for her and has only been with women since she is bi. If it was a previous experiment the 'label' hardly follows one to the grave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Mic drop*

Putting down straight so as not to impact your chance with others who only want straight is simply lying and a breach of trust do you not think?

and I do think that lying is a breach of trust which is why, like I had mentioned, I didnt make a second profile

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I can understand teenagers been confused about their sexuality.But men or women from their mid twenties upwards should know if their straight or not.I don't think you can be not straight today but be straight tomorrow.

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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Just found a profile on this from soneone close by.Hes straight and he lists everything he wants to do with a woman and doesn't accept messages from men.

On fab guys he's gay and loves been naked with men

including verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMO, people are only kidding themselves, who could be doing with the stress of all the deceit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wanting cock at one point in your life doesnt make you gay or even bi

are you trying to convince yourself or the rest of us?

Did you hurt yourself stretching to make that example? So this woman, who "took cock once in her life 50 years ago" which would make her 65 years old minimum, back in the days when society told her that was normal....you think it is the same to a man wanting a cock?

I'm failing to see how the two really compare when you didn't mention the woman wanted a cock 50 years ago, but back in those days she was maybe feeling forced to comform to society.

I like how you reached from me asking the poster who he was trying to convince to me apparently stating it was completely black and white

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By *rishgstarMan
over a year ago

the neighbourhood

I think many people miss the point due to lack of education, sexual orientation is a construct and as such I can decide to it be what I want when I want since its my orientation and your opinions fall by the way side since they are ill informed and come from dogma surrounding choose or lose, which is narrow sighted and just silly really..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"due to lack of education"

Was that last comment a riddle or something?

Your comments don't backup that you had any education.

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By *rishgstarMan
over a year ago

the neighbourhood

"due to lack of education

Was that last comment a riddle or something?

Your comments don't backup that you had any education. "

Some dont understand the big words is all

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