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A look back (Our final fantasy)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've been discussing wrapping up the lifestyle and settling down for the foreseeable and it had us looking over our whole fab experience and our original motivations to take the step.

When we decided to start our Fab journey, we did it just to see if it would be hot to put pics out there for strangers to see and we randomly chatted to someone visitng from the states that clicked and we took the leap.

A couple of years later and we've gone on to live out our wildest sexual fantasies, bar the elusive MFF with a female (still looking).

So this thread is for two things I guess, 1 is to put it out into the universe that we're looking for a lady.

2 we'd love to hear what brought to you Fab, Did it live up to it or was it completely different ect..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been discussing wrapping up the lifestyle and settling down for the foreseeable and it had us looking over our whole fab experience and our original motivations to take the step.

When we decided to start our Fab journey, we did it just to see if it would be hot to put pics out there for strangers to see and we randomly chatted to someone visitng from the states that clicked and we took the leap.

A couple of years later and we've gone on to live out our wildest sexual fantasies, bar the elusive MFF with a female (still looking).

So this thread is for two things I guess, 1 is to put it out into the universe that we're looking for a lady.

2 we'd love to hear what brought to you Fab, Did it live up to it or was it completely different ect.. "

Best Wishes to you both in everyway in whatever ye do after your fab adventure and l do hope you find the lady ye wish to before ye choose your next path in life ,..

...my own fab experience was just that ...Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been discussing wrapping up the lifestyle and settling down for the foreseeable and it had us looking over our whole fab experience and our original motivations to take the step.

When we decided to start our Fab journey, we did it just to see if it would be hot to put pics out there for strangers to see and we randomly chatted to someone visitng from the states that clicked and we took the leap.

A couple of years later and we've gone on to live out our wildest sexual fantasies, bar the elusive MFF with a female (still looking).

So this thread is for two things I guess, 1 is to put it out into the universe that we're looking for a lady.

2 we'd love to hear what brought to you Fab, Did it live up to it or was it completely different ect.. "

What brought us hear was wanting to expand on an already great sex life. We're together over 10 years and we were really unsure when we started. We had doubts of would it ruin what we had or change how we seen each other after sleeping with other people.

It began with a guy joining us then a woman. It's progressed to us meeting solo, this is something we thought we would NEVER do. We've loved the experience so far but it won't be forever. We could be bowing out soon ourselves, we want to start a family in the near future. We don't regret deciding to do this, it's been an amazing experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We feel the exact same, No regrets and it has added to something that was already amazing. Funny how stuff that hadn't even cross your mind can before become such great experiences once you're in.

We love hearing peoples stories, particularly the positive ones and so many people don't seem to get it. Thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We came late to the scene, having both had long marriages with people with whom we were essentially incompatible, not just on a sexual level. We had the advantage of our relationship starting out with complete honesty and openness, and while I (fem) feared he might see me differently after our first foray into mmf which Lee suggested, it in fact deepened our intimacy and level of trust. Basically, as we see it, if you are to be successful in the lifestyle, you have to be prepared to let down all your barriers with your partner and discuss all your feelings, positive and negative. This in turn creates a whole new level of intimacy between you, not just on a sexual level.

At this point, I would say it has been an entirely positive development for us, but I would approach each new situation carefully,I don't think there's any room for complacency when you open up your relationship.

And as an afterthought, I wonder how successful anyone can be at closing Pandora's box once opened?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We came late to the scene, having both had long marriages with people with whom we were essentially incompatible, not just on a sexual level. We had the advantage of our relationship starting out with complete honesty and openness, and while I (fem) feared he might see me differently after our first foray into mmf which Lee suggested, it in fact deepened our intimacy and level of trust. Basically, as we see it, if you are to be successful in the lifestyle, you have to be prepared to let down all your barriers with your partner and discuss all your feelings, positive and negative. This in turn creates a whole new level of intimacy between you, not just on a sexual level.

At this point, I would say it has been an entirely positive development for us, but I would approach each new situation carefully,I don't think there's any room for complacency when you open up your relationship.

And as an afterthought, I wonder how successful anyone can be at closing Pandora's box once opened? "

Great read, thanks for the reply. We think you'll never really close it. However, we think we'll keep in touch with a select few and maybe do a club visit every once in a while. But it'll will definitely become alot less present in our lives and more so a yearly treat lol

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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago

Near Carryduff

These positive stories are just great to see.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

How i ended up herë was . I was dating this lady who wanted to explore with me . But unfortunatly she dumped me and look her ex back . I would never have been herë .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How i ended up herë was . I was dating this lady who wanted to explore with me . But unfortunatly she dumped me and look her ex back . I would never have been herë . "

Worked out the best for you then in the end, That's great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was brought keep because I travel Europe with work,I'm finding it extremely difficult to do d a partner I was hope I g to find someone in a similar situation to myself but as off yet I have had no success,I'm very open minded tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All very interesting. I often wonder if i did meet someone and settled down would i ever bring up fab and the experiences ive had here(mostly on my old profile) and how my then partner would react!

It fascinates me how couples take such a big leap

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I discovered the swinging lifestyle in 2003,after a long dry period of no sex, no fun. So, I set about having as many adventures as I could, and after a busy year of sampling everything that the Dublin swinging scene had to offer I was burnt out, and sexually exhausted. So, family responsibilities, housebuilding, and job took my attention up to two years ago, when I found Fab. Now, a bit older, I'm no longer interested in parties, orgies, group sex, etc but prefer one to one meets with interesting attractive people. I'm enjoying my fab experiences, and have never had a bad experience. But I am looking to the future, and wondering how can I make it even better, so perhaps meet less people, but with closer connections,building a small circle of libertine friends. I wish you guys well, wherever your journey takes you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All very interesting. I often wonder if i did meet someone and settled down would i ever bring up fab and the experiences ive had here(mostly on my old profile) and how my then partner would react!

It fascinates me how couples take such a big leap "

It would either destroy your relationship or enhance it ..l know it's stating the obvious but l don't think there would be any middle ground..unless of course the lady you met was here herself which l do think then it would be unreal between the two of ye ...pure amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All very interesting. I often wonder if i did meet someone and settled down would i ever bring up fab and the experiences ive had here(mostly on my old profile) and how my then partner would react!

It fascinates me how couples take such a big leap

It would either destroy your relationship or enhance it ..l know it's stating the obvious but l don't think there would be any middle ground..unless of course the lady you met was here herself which l do think then it would be unreal between the two of ye ...pure amazing."

We actually know of a couple that met on tinder and after a few dates relised they were both on here

They're are gone from fab now, funny thing is they have no idea we're on here either.

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