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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69,total passion killer in my book

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

That'd be "the scolding wife" position.

You know that one where she stands in front, fully clothed, bends over the table and picks up an envelope and begins moaning... "have you seen the size of this phone bill, and you didn't pay the car tax either! The grass needs cutting ffs and you didn't put the bin out yet with you lazy fucker. Christ, I don't what I ever saw in you..."

That one.

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By *abKenMan
over a year ago

Dundalk


"That'd be "the scolding wife" position.

You know that one where she stands in front, fully clothed, bends over the table and picks up an envelope and begins moaning... "have you seen the size of this phone bill, and you didn't pay the car tax either! The grass needs cutting ffs and you didn't put the bin out yet with you lazy fucker. Christ, I don't what I ever saw in you..."

That one. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think mine has to be missionary with my legs up. Like sorry, but how am I supposed to cum when my tits are asphixiating me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t cum during oral, wasn’t always so, just in the last few months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero chances of me reaching orgasm are 69 and face sitting (can't thing of more uncomfortable and useless positions than them two)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral is the most unsuccessful sexual activity cum rarely and I mean twice ever!!

69 tried in various configurations nope no use and haven't had any success in making any lady cum in that position.

And reverse cowgirl for some reason is one that actually I really enjoy but somehow my auld jingle gangles must have a flow restriction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with other posters here

I rarely come from Oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning usually makes it hard for me to get that rhythm and intensity going - a nice position for exploring your partners body with lots of skin on skin though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

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All of them... ...tbh,I use a controlled breathing technique to help delay climax..and when eventually it happens it's unreal with the pressure that had been built up ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

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I lived with a girl in London years ago. She shared a ‘council squat’ with several lesbians and a few rastafarians.

Her bed was made from a few pallets with a mattress on top.

In between the blasting ‘dub’ sounds, the pallets moving about and me wondering what the lesbians were getting up to, it could take several days before we managed to reach a respective climax.

It was great fun all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 even though I enjoy it

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

69 if I'm on top

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Think mine has to be missionary with my legs up. Like sorry, but how am I supposed to cum when my tits are asphixiating me? "

I am pissing myself laughing here !

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

For me it's doggy, although I enjoy it, especially when watching ourselves in a mirror, I don't cum in that position.

I agree with oral, if ever it takes forever to make me peak and I probably fall asleep before that, which cuts out 69 too.

Finally although I like finger play, if it's too rough, it fiddles the life out of my clit and my pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's doggy, although I enjoy it, especially when watching ourselves in a mirror, I don't cum in that position.

I agree with oral, if ever it takes forever to make me peak and I probably fall asleep before that, which cuts out 69 too.

Finally although I like finger play, if it's too rough, it fiddles the life out of my clit and my pussy. "

It’s all about the gentle touch then Ms DH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

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Doggy.

Never figured it out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doggy always makes me cum...doggy with that nasty ass crack dead air smell and I couldn't cum in a fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know about anyone else but I'm talking notes here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

All of them... ...tbh,I use a controlled breathing technique to help delay climax..and when eventually it happens it's unreal with the pressure that had been built up ..."

I would be interested in learning your techniques my friend! If your interested in sharing them!

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By *awkeye_30Man
over a year ago

Limerick


"Think mine has to be missionary with my legs up. Like sorry, but how am I supposed to cum when my tits are asphixiating me? "

To be fair after close inspection you have a fair point, duly noted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep 69 is just blah

I'm concentrating on what my mouth is doing not what his mouth is doing lol

And well I'm short and when you are with a tall man, they keep yanking you back by your hips as he is straining his neck and then I'm doing an impression of a giraffe as I can't quite reach his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cum during oral,or on my back!... You could ride me to exhaustion!..

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never cum during oral,or on my back!... You could ride me to exhaustion!.. "

I've been told that before by guys but I just think it's a myth

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Never cum during oral,or on my back!... You could ride me to exhaustion!..

I've been told that before by guys but I just think it's a myth "

Care tk explore the myth

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Never cum during oral,or on my back!... You could ride me to exhaustion!.. "

What's not to like about a long roide into the sunset?

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"For me it's doggy, although I enjoy it, especially when watching ourselves in a mirror, I don't cum in that position.

I agree with oral, if ever it takes forever to make me peak and I probably fall asleep before that, which cuts out 69 too.

Finally although I like finger play, if it's too rough, it fiddles the life out of my clit and my pussy.

It’s all about the gentle touch then Ms DH"

Gentle in touch but strong in shag, it's all about the right balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don always cums through oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at pictures does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a wheelchair broke my neck 3year ago which makes it very difficult to cum. I hv only came 4or 5time in the last 2years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my back takes longest to cum but omg the eventual orgasm when on my back is so strong and goes on for ages that it's just the best feeling ever.

Lee

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

I’m easy! Most sexual activities and positions will make me cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes me ages to cum but id say quickest way for me to cum is masonary her legs up around her head and me pounding with plenty of grabbhee buttox plenty of passionate kissing and looking into each others eyes. Think the postions is called (open book) maybe im wrong. Cant cum via bj unless hshe is extremely good at it and mostly when i do cum via bj nearly always in 69e her on top but she normally cums first so i be happy to move on to other positions after she cums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my back takes longest to cum but omg the eventual orgasm when on my back is so strong and goes on for ages that it's just the best feeling ever.

Lee"

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'm in a wheelchair broke my neck 3year ago which makes it very difficult to cum. I hv only came 4or 5time in the last 2years "

Sorry to hear that.Is it lack of partners or sensation holding u back from cumming.Hope i havent offened u asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

All of them... ...tbh,I use a controlled breathing technique to help delay climax..and when eventually it happens it's unreal with the pressure that had been built up ...

I would be interested in learning your techniques my friend! If your interested in sharing them!"

Hello my friend ..it's nothing complicated at all ,it's just that sperm moves at the speed of your breathing , you know when you're breathing heavily and hot you're gonna explode ,it's get hot ,hard to stop so l just take a deep breath in , controlled slow release ,a few times ,to slow down your breathing and you can actually feel yourself and more importantly the sperm flow slowing down ,the thing though is to get the breathing before it reaches the point of no return...it's all practice ...so get plenty ..PS..all l'm saying is that breathing thing works for me ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a wheelchair broke my neck 3year ago which makes it very difficult to cum. I hv only came 4or 5time in the last 2years

Sorry to hear that.Is it lack of partners or sensation holding u back from cumming.Hope i havent offened u asking

"

No not at all. Its sensation is the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's doggy, although I enjoy it, especially when watching ourselves in a mirror, I don't cum in that position.

I agree with oral, if ever it takes forever to make me peak and I probably fall asleep before that, which cuts out 69 too.

Finally although I like finger play, if it's too rough, it fiddles the life out of my clit and my pussy.

It’s all about the gentle touch then Ms DH

Gentle in touch but strong in shag, it's all about the right balance. "

And we all know there’s balance in the force Ms DH

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

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Out hunting DH

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"69,total passion killer in my book"

Not totally but I find it too distracting so this is my least favourite

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Doggy rarely makes me cum I enjoy it but it just doesn't make me orgasim. Oral was something that I had never cum from until I found someone who is pretty amazing at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The shower, the noises of squelching water while partaking doggy shower sex can be very distracting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never cum during oral,or on my back!... You could ride me to exhaustion!..

I've been told that before by guys but I just think it's a myth "
...you think,but you can't be sure!

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

Out hunting DH "

Hello Madame Butterfly, lovely to see you!

Na, I'm painting my master bedroom and the back porch ceiling and need some distraction in my painting breaks.

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By *heDevilxWoman
over a year ago

newry

Agreed!!! Its just awkward!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the best position to explode a woman is she up on the man behind you penetration is deep she takes as much as she wants and at the same time she masturbates !!!

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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago

Barrow in Furness


"Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

All of them... ...tbh,I use a controlled breathing technique to help delay climax..and when eventually it happens it's unreal with the pressure that had been built up ..."

Very interested in hearing more of this, if you are up for enlightening some of us in this technique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral. Will make me hard and ready but little more.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl

Impossible for me to cum in that position

...so I grin, bear and just make the most of it

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

Can't come from BJ. Learnt that in my teens. After a few attempts we went down an alleyway, she got to work on me with her hand and I ended up destroying the place......

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Would just like to also clarify that

any man who has commented

on this thread is merely stating fact

...& IS NOT looking to be challenged

or tested in any way here

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Would just like to also clarify that

any man who has commented

on this thread is merely stating fact

...& IS NOT looking to be challenged

or tested in any way here "

Hahaha nice try....

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By *og2018Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny


"I have to agree with other posters here

I rarely come from Oral "

Thank god im not the only one ??

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Which sex position or sexual activity takes longest to make you cum respectively dont make you peak?

Out hunting DH

Hello Madame Butterfly, lovely to see you!

Na, I'm painting my master bedroom and the back porch ceiling and need some distraction in my painting breaks. "

A pleasure to see you too DH

I imagine it could keep you occupied with every stroke

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