FabSwingers.com forum: Best way for a guy to stand out on FAB

By *r.S OP Man
over a year ago

Clonmel

As a sibgle guy on FAB i can probably vouch for the rest.. its very hard to stand out and get a girls attention. The numbers of males to females must 10 or 20 to 1. And every single female is hounded by hundreds of messages, alit of which are from creeps, married men, or time wasters.

How can a single genuine guy stand out amoungst them and meet some genuine girls on FAB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Running down other men as creeps,married and timewasters isn't a big help.

If anything just shows you as bitter and somewhat entitled

Concentrate or your own positives as opposed to the negatives in others

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Running down other men as creeps,married and timewasters isn't a big help.

If anything just shows you as bitter and somewhat entitled

Concentrate or your own positives as opposed to the negatives in others "

This.

Be positive. Show your best sides. Be a decent person. Understand that your potential meet is a person and fulfil what they are looking for. If you dont want the same things, dont force it. Dont sent unsolicited dick pics. Dont be an asshole. Accept a "no" gracefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And take rejection like a man. Have seen a lot of pussys on here who moan when a womanor a couple reject them.

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By *r.S OP Man
over a year ago

Clonmel

I suppose its getting the chance to show my best sides, or to even converse. Its like crazy bull run that you have to get to the front.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

To be honest, you are miles ahead of most lads on here. Pics, veris and a few lines of a bio to boot. So I'd say just continue what you are doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a sibgle guy on FAB i can probably vouch for the rest.. its very hard to stand out and get a girls attention. The numbers of males to females must 10 or 20 to 1. And every single female is hounded by hundreds of messages, alit of which are from creeps, married men, or time wasters.

How can a single genuine guy stand out amoungst them and meet some genuine girls on FAB "

Your profile is good it might be your fillers that are the issue

Your age filters are 18 to 40. So that puts me and a lot of other ladies on Fab outside your age limits. The swinging scene is for the slightly more mature person. You won't find many 18 years olds on here!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"And take rejection like a man. Have seen a lot of pussys on here who moan when a womanor a couple reject them. "

While your sentiment is spot on.. your choice of words is horrible.

Take it like a man?

Using the word "pussy" as a derogatory term?

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

How can a single genuine guy stand out amoungst them and meet some genuine girls on FAB

Your profile is good it might be your fillers that are the issue

Us over 45s hate them filters... Lol...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Do you really want to stand out from the crowd?

Go to events it really helps.

Be normal.

Read profiles.

Don't pretend to be someone you're not ( eg don't pretend you're loud and brash only or for a timid wall flower to turn up you see this so much at meet and greets)

In the first mail

Don't be creepy or vulgar

Don't be overly complementary

Try to be funny/interesting.

Show you've read their profile.

Treat the site like you would a pub/club you wouldn't walk up to a woman and flash your cock and you sure as hell wouldn't walk up to every woman in the place and try and chat them up so don't send dick pics and don't send 100s of mails a day. I very rarely send mails and even rarer I send one looking for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And take rejection like a man. Have seen a lot of pussys on here who moan when a womanor a couple reject them.

While your sentiment is spot on.. your choice of words is horrible.

Take it like a man?

Using the word "pussy" as a derogatory term?

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No I would never be Derogatory towards any woman. Guess, like a lot of things, it’s a matter of opinion

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"To be honest, you are miles ahead of most lads on here. Pics, veris and a few lines of a bio to boot. So I'd say just continue what you are doing

It's doing ok but it's not standing out isn't it? To stand out you've to be a bit different not just fitting in.

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By *r.S OP Man
over a year ago

Clonmel

sound advise.. I suppose the frustration is that I do all this, not pushy, understanding, don't send dick pics, not a time waster. basically try to do all the right things but it still seems to be tough to stand out.

with the events, are there any coming up?

I'd love to attend and actually talk to people in person.

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By *r.S OP Man
over a year ago

Clonmel

this is sort of what I'm on about. like most girls on here get hounded by messages.. so is it I can say that would make my message stand out and make you want to chat with me

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Your profile looks good,your verfied which is hard come by on here for single lads,your pics are hot more interaction on the forum page perhaps..Ive met more on the forum page than through messsge alone

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By *r.S OP Man
over a year ago

Clonmel

really! just from random chats on the forum??

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"To be honest, you are miles ahead of most lads on here. Pics, veris and a few lines of a bio to boot. So I'd say just continue what you are doing

It's doing ok but it's not standing out isn't it? To stand out you've to be a bit different not just fitting in. "
the sad thing is, unfortunately, by just putting in a bit of effort on their profile does make a single guy stand out

But there is only so much you can do with a profile. As others have said get to meet and greets and let people see who you really are.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"really! just from random chats on the forum??"

Weve both fucked more than 1 person we met here and in the chatroom. So yep

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

People interact on the forum page through diffrent threads let that be funny or serious ones you get to know them better more so than a couple of words in a message....

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"really! just from random chats on the forum??"
totally agree, you get to know people better on the forums. So much more than you could get from a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People interact on the forum page through diffrent threads let that be funny or serious ones you get to know them better more so than a couple of words in a message...."

Agree regarding forum....

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"really! just from random chats on the forum??totally agree, you get to know people better on the forums. So much more than you could get from a profile

This

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Just be yourself and have a bit of craic where you're able and allways carry your manners.

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By *r.S OP Man
over a year ago

Clonmel

that's interesting, I'll give the forums a go an hopefully get to some events and meetand greets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that's interesting, I'll give the forums a go an hopefully get to some events and meetand greets"

Check out South West meet and greet thread here on the forums and see if any places left..its going to be a big event at the end of this month..good luck

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

really! just from random chats on the forum??

Ye I agree with Lolly I've met from the forums as well.

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

A lot of its down to luck. You might just catch someone's eye and who knows where it could end up.

Just be yourself. It's easier than trying to be something you are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugo boss and talk shite real well smile alot steer clear of drama and for god sake dont ever say curvy lol any more advice just ask

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Hugo boss and talk shite real well smile alot steer clear of drama and for god sake dont ever say curvy lol any more advice just ask

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i like the word curvy

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

It’s pot luck

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I'd just be myself, tip away in the forums, I dont feel the need to stand out, I got messages from two different couples yesterday by doing nothing apart from being myself, sometimes less is more.

If that fails, reach for the Sky Remote and a can of Lynx

Seduce their mind and the body will follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And take rejection like a man. Have seen a lot of pussys on here who moan when a womanor a couple reject them.

While your sentiment is spot on.. your choice of words is horrible.

Take it like a man?

Using the word "pussy" as a derogatory term?

No I would never be Derogatory towards any woman. Guess, like a lot of things, it’s a matter of opinion

I always find people being called a pussy a funny one!

I mean you hit a guy between the legs and he goes down like a sack of spuds but a pussy can take a SERIOUS HAMMERING!!!

I'd be very happy to be called a pussy!

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Second the suggestion to get involved in the forums, you'll definitely catch people's eye

and I think it's a better way of getting your personality across!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd just be myself, tip away in the forums, I dont feel the need to stand out, I got messages from two different couples yesterday by doing nothing apart from being myself, sometimes less is more.

If that fails, reach for the Sky Remote and a can of Lynx

Seduce their mind and the body will follow

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Ah but not everyone has you're charm.You could charm the knickers of a Nun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can a single genuine guy stand out amoungst them and meet some genuine girls on FAB "

Every guy here on fab is " genuine " ..in their own opinion..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile stands out 100%. Just get rid of the disclaimer. It's not worth shit legally and makes profiles look silly. Otherwise, keep doing what you're doing.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

"Second the suggestion to get involved in the forums, you'll definitely catch people's eye

and I think it's a better way of getting your personality across! "

Yep... you can definitely get

Noticed in the forums and gets lots of messages . Unfortunately for me , they are always from women way down south and nothing comes from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To stand out wear a Hi Viz vest beside a Work in progress sign

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By *r.S OP Man
over a year ago

Clonmel

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By *r.S OP Man
over a year ago

Clonmel

"To stand out wear a Hi Viz vest beside a Work in progress sign

???? haha the hi vis i already have!!!

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Just had a look at your profile there, one point .. you have it set so single males cant message you , ironically i have had a good few meets from guys looking for mmf so dont hamstring yourself unnecessarilly ( just be prepared for messages from guys looking to give you head lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it all depends on what your looking for OP.

Personally I’d say if men are here for notches on the bed post or quick thrills they are probably going to struggle.

If your here to meet incredible people for memorable experiences then you will find them. Just not everyday haha.

Personally I have found the more specific I have become in what I’m looking for the more success I have had here.

The majority of women/couples worth meeting will read and reply to a well written interesting message with pictures (not your cock). Unless your not what they are looking for in which case they are saving you time by not replying haha

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Also apparently being Jason Momoa might help

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Have a 15 inch dick, they all know the big dick profiles.

Be black, black men are popular.

Ignore what women say on the

Forum, their veris often disagree with the face they try show on here.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"Also apparently being Jason Momoa might help

Yeah it's strange women like him, he styles himself after a teenage girl.

Which is ok if they are bi, but they make out that he is manly???

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

"To stand out wear a Hi Viz vest beside a Work in progress sign

Maybe a hard hat with a flashing beacon along with this

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By *r.S OP Man
over a year ago

Clonmel

"To stand out wear a Hi Viz vest beside a Work in progress sign

Maybe a hard hat with a flashing beacon along with this"

have you been perving in my house?

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