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"Did a post recently enough about how to avoid time wasters, surprisingly enough there was a horrible response. Had a very successful meet last night, but also very nearly didn't have one at all. Originally we were meant to meet an account, don't know of i can use his name on here? Long story short the morning of yesterday he stopped replying, typical. But we had 2 back ups in place. Our second back up also bailed last minute. For the record both of these guys were meet verified. Just when we'd given up hope our third option came through, on time, and we had an absolute blast. So the question is would you approve of having back up options, or is there a more concrete way of avoiding timewasters? " Fair play to you for not being afraid to say what you did in case it upset the little creatures on fab. | |||
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"Maybe you were the backup options of the guys that bailed on you ![]() Fab women always think it’s one rule for them & different rules for men??????? | |||
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"Time wasting is time wasting. You are doing the very thing that annoys you. If you were getting ready for a meet, and last minute the guy cancels saying his first choice arrived, i don't think you would be overjoyed. You say the last thread didnt go down well. Was everyone wrong, or is it possible you were being a bit disrespectful??? " what are you on about | |||
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"Did a post recently enough about how to avoid time wasters, surprisingly enough there was a horrible response. Had a very successful meet last night, but also very nearly didn't have one at all. Originally we were meant to meet an account, don't know of i can use his name on here? Long story short the morning of yesterday he stopped replying, typical. But we had 2 back ups in place. Our second back up also bailed last minute. For the record both of these guys were meet verified. Just when we'd given up hope our third option came through, on time, and we had an absolute blast. So the question is would you approve of having back up options, or is there a more concrete way of avoiding timewasters? Fair play to you for not being afraid to say what you did in case it upset the little creatures on fab. " That's just it half the people who reply in these forums are exactly that | |||
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"Use the site as you see fit yourself....everyone does the same. Be polite and straight up and if you are I see no issue with backups." I agree with this. The thing here is that the OP hasn't said if they were being polite and straight up with the 2 backup guys. They were willing to stand 2 guys up without telling them anything, giving no reason, if their first choice had arrived | |||
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"Exactly this mate. The fairies are flocking to this post looking for drama lol" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"As for having to bail on 2 of them, they knew what they were getting into and we could smell something fishy about one of them. " I was just curious about it is all. You hadn't explained that. That's why I asked. It's far from me to tell anyone else how they should use this site. If it works for you OP then what do other's opinions matter? | |||
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"As for having to bail on 2 of them, they knew what they were getting into and we could smell something fishy about one of them. I was just curious about it is all. You hadn't explained that. That's why I asked. It's far from me to tell anyone else how they should use this site. If it works for you OP then what do other's opinions matter?" It was OP that asked for the approval of strangers in a public forum in the first place! | |||
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"Did a post recently enough about how to avoid time wasters, surprisingly enough there was a horrible response. Had a very successful meet last night, but also very nearly didn't have one at all. Originally we were meant to meet an account, don't know of i can use his name on here? Long story short the morning of yesterday he stopped replying, typical. But we had 2 back ups in place. Our second back up also bailed last minute. For the record both of these guys were meet verified. Just when we'd given up hope our third option came through, on time, and we had an absolute blast. So the question is would you approve of having back up options, or is there a more concrete way of avoiding timewasters? " Best way to avoid timewasters is to have sex with me!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Exactly this mate. The fairies are flocking to this post looking for drama lol " It's more when you don't get the reply you are looking for everyone's a fairy for not agreeing with you. I think you are missing the point that that people are making. Have all the back up plans, all you want, just remember if you are not up front with those that are your back up plan. Then you are the time wasters. And for those that missed it here's the original thrend to go with this https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/941979 | |||
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"Did a post recently enough about how to avoid time wasters, surprisingly enough there was a horrible response. Sorry but don’t agree that the response to your previous thread was ‘horrible’. You posted in a public forum and simply didn’t like the majority of comments you received. So the question is would you approve of having back up options, or is there a more concrete way of avoiding timewasters? " In answer to your question I think having backups obviously works for you, but it’s not something we would ever even consider. To avoid time wasters we always have a social first. We get turned on by the chemistry between all three, four or more and don’t treat people like interchangeable, breathing sex toys. I suppose that makes me a ‘fairy’ in your eyes ![]() | |||
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"Tbh I don't like the idea of backs ups because - you say it's to protect against having your time wasted, but if option no. 1 had showed you'd have wasted the time of 2 others. Seems kinda hypocritical to me. " Yeah but if they were informed in advance that they were backups, it's up to them to decide if they were happy with that situation. If they weren't informed in advance, that's ignorant and would block the original couple. | |||
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"Sounds like any old cock will do for you, we tend to be a wee bit more choosy. Wouldn't want a track suit, and baseball cap back to front wearing guy. If it works for you, go ahead but I suspect a lot of people reading this post will give you a wide berth in future knowing your M.O. and they're on a list!" I was thinking the same thing, and for a guy to be happy to be back up then he's got the same standards imo, doesn't care where he puts it or what they think of him. Why bother putting them in order? Just do a first come first served approach? That way noone would be let down, everyone's a winner ![]() | |||
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"Did a post recently enough about how to avoid time wasters, surprisingly enough there was a horrible response. Had a very successful meet last night, but also very nearly didn't have one at all. Originally we were meant to meet an account, don't know of i can use his name on here? Long story short the morning of yesterday he stopped replying, typical. But we had 2 back ups in place. Our second back up also bailed last minute. For the record both of these guys were meet verified. Just when we'd given up hope our third option came through, on time, and we had an absolute blast. So the question is would you approve of having back up options, or is there a more concrete way of avoiding timewasters? " If their verifications are in public view or displayed just contact any of the others that verified them.. | |||
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"Jesus do we really need to do the same fucking thread again!" It's like RTE... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Always have 2 or 3 couples lined up... once we had 4 or 5 couples lined up and none of them turned up.. Had a couple massaging us saying no we can't meet tonight so we would be chatting another couple and they would say to us the first couple who said they were busy are meeting them lol " Wow. 5 meets cancelling in a night. Thats awful!. Would you tell these couples that they were backups? What if more than 1 couple arrived? (To be fair to the couple who were meeting the other couple.. they WERE busy hehe) | |||
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"Always have 2 or 3 couples lined up... once we had 4 or 5 couples lined up and none of them turned up.. Had a couple massaging us saying no we can't meet tonight so we would be chatting another couple and they would say to us the first couple who said they were busy are meeting them lol Wow. 5 meets cancelling in a night. Thats awful!. Would you tell these couples that they were backups? What if more than 1 couple arrived? (To be fair to the couple who were meeting the other couple.. they WERE busy hehe)" They told us they were at a wedding lol we don't care it's ok but tell us we are grown ups.. We like meeting groups lol Last time we were chatting to 4 couples and 4 turned up and they had a brilliant night ![]() | |||
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"Always have 2 or 3 couples lined up... once we had 4 or 5 couples lined up and none of them turned up.. Had a couple massaging us saying no we can't meet tonight so we would be chatting another couple and they would say to us the first couple who said they were busy are meeting them lol " Their loss.... ![]() | |||
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