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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The amount of fake profiles even with pics on here would wreck your head. One minute they wanna meet the next their profile is deleted

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

It's just like a used car, you need to see the service history, if your the first to service I'd be worried, verifications are a necessary requirement, obviously you have to start here without them but I wont be meeting any non verified people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of fake profiles even with pics on here would wreck your head. One minute they wanna meet the next their profile is deleted "

They are normally pretty easy to spot to be fair...

Avoid the obvious ones and newbies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ya just ive had this profile ages but only starting to use it now so have no verifications so can’t judge others lol

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

Verifications should be taken with a pinch of salt. So many verifications out there are blatant lies and can put individuals into a precarious position.

I’ve seen people leaving verifications which are wholly inaccurate of the persons involved and could lead to a dangerous situation developing someday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just like a used car, you need to see the service history, if your the first to service I'd be worried, verifications are a necessary requirement, obviously you have to start here without them but I wont be meeting any non verified people"

To be fair I would quicker meet unverified newbie (have done many times in a past) than someone who's verifications are from people I dislike and avoid for any reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of fake profiles even with pics on here would wreck your head. One minute they wanna meet the next their profile is deleted

They are normally pretty easy to spot to be fair...

Avoid the obvious ones and newbies"

We were all a " newbie " at one stage ... shouldn't tar all " newbies " with the one brush ..aren't you glad not all fabbers here took the advice you're now giving...

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By *osskennyMan
over a year ago

finglas

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By *osskennyMan
over a year ago

finglas

A group meet with name tag ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just like a used car, you need to see the service history, if your the first to service I'd be worried, verifications are a necessary requirement, obviously you have to start here without them but I wont be meeting any non verified people

To be fair I would quicker meet unverified newbie (have done many times in a past) than someone who's verifications are from people I dislike and avoid for any reason. "

Yes !!! Fair play to ya Missus...not all " newbies " are timewasters or fakers ..huge Salute to you ,as a lady here ,for giving " newbies " a shot at the title...you ROCK !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of fake profiles even with pics on here would wreck your head. One minute they wanna meet the next their profile is deleted

They are normally pretty easy to spot to be fair...

Avoid the obvious ones and newbies

We were all a " newbie " at one stage ... shouldn't tar all " newbies " with the one brush ..aren't you glad not all fabbers here took the advice you're now giving..."

Actually its pretty solid advise... but maybe I should expand.

Wait until someone has beem here at least a few weeks to engage with them.

Loads of profiles pop up just for the weekend or a Sunday hangover horn for a nosey around or a wank.

If you have having troubke with accounts that keep dissapearing as the OP stated he did profiles here a week or less are good ones to avoid.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"The amount of fake profiles even with pics on here would wreck your head. One minute they wanna meet the next their profile is deleted

They are normally pretty easy to spot to be fair...

Avoid the obvious ones and newbies

We were all a " newbie " at one stage ... shouldn't tar all " newbies " with the one brush ..aren't you glad not all fabbers here took the advice you're now giving...

Actually its pretty solid advise... but maybe I should expand.

Wait until someone has beem here at least a few weeks to engage with them.

Loads of profiles pop up just for the weekend or a Sunday hangover horn for a nosey around or a wank.

If you have having troubke with accounts that keep dissapearing as the OP stated he did profiles here a week or less are good ones to avoid."

But if everybody avoids them for the first few weeks then anyone genuine will have left and not hang about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of fake profiles even with pics on here would wreck your head. One minute they wanna meet the next their profile is deleted

They are normally pretty easy to spot to be fair...

Avoid the obvious ones and newbies

We were all a " newbie " at one stage ... shouldn't tar all " newbies " with the one brush ..aren't you glad not all fabbers here took the advice you're now giving...

Actually its pretty solid advise... but maybe I should expand.

Wait until someone has beem here at least a few weeks to engage with them.

Loads of profiles pop up just for the weekend or a Sunday hangover horn for a nosey around or a wank.

If you have having troubke with accounts that keep dissapearing as the OP stated he did profiles here a week or less are good ones to avoid.

But if everybody avoids them for the first few weeks then anyone genuine will have left and not hang about."

Well most of the lads will be ignored anyway, and the women are not going to be short of of attention.

It was a solution to the OP's specific problem. Plenty of etablished profiles for him to choose from.

And there is nothing wrong with new members having to show a little perseverance anyway

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"The amount of fake profiles even with pics on here would wreck your head. One minute they wanna meet the next their profile is deleted

They are normally pretty easy to spot to be fair...

Avoid the obvious ones and newbies

We were all a " newbie " at one stage ... shouldn't tar all " newbies " with the one brush ..aren't you glad not all fabbers here took the advice you're now giving...

Actually its pretty solid advise... but maybe I should expand.

Wait until someone has beem here at least a few weeks to engage with them.

Loads of profiles pop up just for the weekend or a Sunday hangover horn for a nosey around or a wank.

If you have having troubke with accounts that keep dissapearing as the OP stated he did profiles here a week or less are good ones to avoid.

But if everybody avoids them for the first few weeks then anyone genuine will have left and not hang about.

Well most of the lads will be ignored anyway, and the women are not going to be short of of attention.

It was a solution to the OP's specific problem. Plenty of etablished profiles for him to choose from.

And there is nothing wrong with new members having to show a little perseverance anyway"

Your missing my point.

If a genuine person is being ignored they will delete their profile.

A fake will hang around to look at pics etc and be a nuisance.

I know personally I wouldn't hang about if nobody was interacting with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your missing my point.

If a genuine person is being ignored they will delete their profile.

A fake will hang around to look at pics etc and be a nuisance.

I know personally I wouldn't hang about if nobody was interacting with me."

Point taken.

I just disagree with it.

If anything I think there should be a 2 week period where new profiles cant send or recieve mails. But thats another point altogether.

I would say the vast majority of new profiles I see are deleted within the first week. Genuine or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just like a used car, you need to see the service history, if your the first to service I'd be worried, verifications are a necessary requirement, obviously you have to start here without them but I wont be meeting any non verified people

To be fair I would quicker meet unverified newbie (have done many times in a past) than someone who's verifications are from people I dislike and avoid for any reason. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your missing my point.

If a genuine person is being ignored they will delete their profile.

A fake will hang around to look at pics etc and be a nuisance.

I know personally I wouldn't hang about if nobody was interacting with me.

Point taken.

I just disagree with it.

If anything I think there should be a 2 week period where new profiles cant send or recieve mails. But thats another point altogether.

I would say the vast majority of new profiles I see are deleted within the first week. Genuine or not"

Isn't a week that you can't mail people or is that just a selection that some profile has enabled? You can't post on the forum if your a newb for a while anyway.

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

I have spotted one or two fakes.....just block them i have aske a question or two and the there gone

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"

Your missing my point.

If a genuine person is being ignored they will delete their profile.

A fake will hang around to look at pics etc and be a nuisance.

I know personally I wouldn't hang about if nobody was interacting with me.

Point taken.

I just disagree with it.

If anything I think there should be a 2 week period where new profiles cant send or recieve mails. But thats another point altogether.

I would say the vast majority of new profiles I see are deleted within the first week. Genuine or not"

Maybe alot of them are deleted because of a lack of interaction.

I just don't like the idea of advising people to ignore others. Genuine people could be leaving here because of it.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your missing my point.

If a genuine person is being ignored they will delete their profile.

A fake will hang around to look at pics etc and be a nuisance.

I know personally I wouldn't hang about if nobody was interacting with me.

Point taken.

I just disagree with it.

If anything I think there should be a 2 week period where new profiles cant send or recieve mails. But thats another point altogether.

I would say the vast majority of new profiles I see are deleted within the first week. Genuine or not

Isn't a week that you can't mail people or is that just a selection that some profile has enabled? You can't post on the forum if your a newb for a while anyway.

"

Ya you can filter out new profiles is it a week? Defo 1 week for the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a profile fake because someone decides the site isn't for them and maybe they are not ready to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe alot of them are deleted because of a lack of interaction.

I just don't like the idea of advising people to ignore others. Genuine people could be leaving here because of it.

Just saying "

Fair enough, just think it might be a solution for our OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well calling someone fake in this situation OP isn't right..someone who deleted profile call them Fake isn't fair.

I have deleted lots times. And not meeting newbies well I was many times Newbie so I don't mind meet them if I think they genuine.

But yet again what can seem fake for one can be totally good for other.

I recently met guy (twice for coffee) and of course left verification as thought he was extremely nice.(profile gone now) Turns out he had some stolen pics on profile.. Instand dislike from me as its unacceptable for me! Can I call him fake?! Not really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well calling someone fake in this situation OP isn't right..someone who deleted profile call them Fake isn't fair.

I have deleted lots times. And not meeting newbies well I was many times Newbie so I don't mind meet them if I think they genuine.

But yet again what can seem fake for one can be totally good for other.

I recently met guy (twice for coffee) and of course left verification as thought he was extremely nice.(profile gone now) Turns out he had some stolen pics on profile.. Instand dislike from me as its unacceptable for me! Can I call him fake?! Not really... "
This lady speaks a lot of sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your missing my point.

If a genuine person is being ignored they will delete their profile.

A fake will hang around to look at pics etc and be a nuisance.

I know personally I wouldn't hang about if nobody was interacting with me.

Point taken.

I just disagree with it.

If anything I think there should be a 2 week period where new profiles cant send or recieve mails. But thats another point altogether.

I would say the vast majority of new profiles I see are deleted within the first week. Genuine or not"

But then they would just hang around for 2 weeks, reading all the "sucks like a dyson", "tip top fabber, gets a hard on request" and assume that it's okay to treat people like spare sex toys and after them 2 weeks run out - they'll just start bombarding all semi attractive profiles with "wanna fuck now" messages which brings us back to square one.

So imo that 2 week period is kind of pointless

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Define fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well calling someone fake in this situation OP isn't right..someone who deleted profile call them Fake isn't fair.

I have deleted lots times. And not meeting newbies well I was many times Newbie so I don't mind meet them if I think they genuine.

But yet again what can seem fake for one can be totally good for other.

I recently met guy (twice for coffee) and of course left verification as thought he was extremely nice.(profile gone now) Turns out he had some stolen pics on profile.. Instand dislike from me as its unacceptable for me! Can I call him fake?! Not really... "

Stolen pics, I just don't get the point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf is this fake profile thing? Like, how is it fake? Somebody not wanting to meet you doesn't make them somehow make believe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your missing my point.

If a genuine person is being ignored they will delete their profile.

A fake will hang around to look at pics etc and be a nuisance.

I know personally I wouldn't hang about if nobody was interacting with me.

Point taken.

I just disagree with it.

If anything I think there should be a 2 week period where new profiles cant send or recieve mails. But thats another point altogether.

I would say the vast majority of new profiles I see are deleted within the first week. Genuine or not

But then they would just hang around for 2 weeks, reading all the "sucks like a dyson", "tip top fabber, gets a hard on request" and assume that it's okay to treat people like spare sex toys and after them 2 weeks run out - they'll just start bombarding all semi attractive profiles with "wanna fuck now" messages which brings us back to square one.

So imo that 2 week period is kind of pointless "

Ya I dont think alot would last the 2 week period though hence less wanna fuck now messages, which they would have sent in their first hour on the site anyway

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

To stop the wanna fuck messages just block newbies. It’s a 3 day thing where they can wank themselves inside out, get it out of their system and maybe, just maybe come back with something coherent..

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"To stop the wanna fuck messages just block newbies. It’s a 3 day thing where they can wank themselves inside out, get it out of their system and maybe, just maybe come back with something coherent.. "

3 days of wanking yourself inside out sounds very painful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pics don’t match up them all of a sudden profile is gone

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Never consider anyone genuine until you pulling their clothes off. And even then be ready for a surprise !!

shame but thats fab

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