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By *tiffler400 OP   Man
over a year ago

belfast

How many people on here have organised a meet only to be told you have to pay for their services? Fucking joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people on here have organised a meet only to be told you have to pay for their services? Fucking joke "

Not on this site but was on AFF before and had lined up a meet and when l reached the hotel,the lady texted to say she'd like a contribution towards buying a new pair of shoes that she had seen ...so l turned around and 40 mins later she texted again to ask where l was ..l just replied.." Elvis has left the building " ..so l don't know about stuff like that happening here but an sure a few replies will flow in here

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Hasn't happened to me personally (although I have been offered money in the past), but judging by a recent surge in status updates and threads about this kind of thing it seems to be on the increase. Money or dr*gs usually... Although I have seen some offer services for phone credit, or even just a bottle of wine.

The thing is, there are people on here who are willing to pay for services, and that, naturally, attracts those who will sell.

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

I've been offered money plenty of times. Also meets seem to be more drug fueled now to which is a shame. "but the sex will be amazing!" no thanks id rather keep my septum

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By *hesexaddictMan
over a year ago

Dublin 24

I was asked for money in the past a couple of times, they put it as a contribution for text credit or something like that, my reply is always I will contribute to hotel but nothing else, I asked how much credit they needed as always wonder how much they charge by never got a reply I reported 1 of the users but was still active a couple of weeks later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been offered money plenty of times. Also meets seem to be more drug fueled now to which is a shame. "but the sex will be amazing!" no thanks id rather keep my septum"
Totally agree around drugs. It’s mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hasn't happened to me personally (although I have been offered money in the past), but judging by a recent surge in status updates and threads about this kind of thing it seems to be on the increase. Money or dr*gs usually... Although I have seen some offer services for phone credit, or even just a bottle of wine.

The thing is, there are people on here who are willing to pay for services, and that, naturally, attracts those who will sell. "

Speaking from the perspective of my time as a single guy in the lifestyle

I've been asked would it be possible to pick up some wine on my way to meet couples. Never once did I think I was being asked to pay for services.

Honestly, if someone asked you to pick up a bottle of wine on your way to meet them, would you really consider that person to be a sex worker and is asking you to pay for services

On the contrary, I personally would put the shoe firmly on the other foot and call the person a bit cheap for saying no.

What next?

"She asked me to pay for the hotel room, she's defo a hooker"

"You wouldn't believe it, she said I had to buy my own condoms!!"

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I think if what they ask you to bring is directly related to the meet (drinks, food) or pay half of the hotel room, it can be acceptable.

But I won't condone if they ask for other things, shoes or list of things from amazons.com.

Each to their own, but my advice is to report it.

Even if you see profile asking for contributions,you can always report and let the admin decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasnt happened me, but it normally takes me a long time to arrange an actual meet so any escorts I may have spoken to probably lost interest.

Report block and move on more carefully

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I read on a couples profile yesterday that you had to pay for the hotel room if you wanted to play with them.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Hasn't happened to me personally (although I have been offered money in the past), but judging by a recent surge in status updates and threads about this kind of thing it seems to be on the increase. Money or dr*gs usually... Although I have seen some offer services for phone credit, or even just a bottle of wine.

The thing is, there are people on here who are willing to pay for services, and that, naturally, attracts those who will sell.

Speaking from the perspective of my time as a single guy in the lifestyle

I've been asked would it be possible to pick up some wine on my way to meet couples. Never once did I think I was being asked to pay for services.

Honestly, if someone asked you to pick up a bottle of wine on your way to meet them, would you really consider that person to be a sex worker and is asking you to pay for services

On the contrary, I personally would put the shoe firmly on the other foot and call the person a bit cheap for saying no.

What next?

"She asked me to pay for the hotel room, she's defo a hooker"

"You wouldn't believe it, she said I had to buy my own condoms!!""

Splitting costs for a hotel room, food, drink, or even condoms (although I always brought my own) is something I always thought was perfectly acceptable... Is splitting costs not simply good swinging etiquette? But I wouldn't dream of asking anyone to bring something, unless I was contributing towards the expense. Regardless of whether it's a regular Fab meet, or a night in with friends, if I ask someone to 'pick up' something on the way, the first thing I'd ask when they arrive is what I owe them for it... And doesn't matter how well I know someone, if they don't allow me to at least contribute it would annoy me. To me (as a reasonably intelligent, mature, financially independent woman), asking a virtual stranger (someone you've maybe only ever chatted with online, or had a coffee with once), to meet up for sex and also ask them supply you with alcohol, dr*gs, or whatever.. that implies an obligation.. It's an implied exchange. You say it never occurred to you as a single male that there was anything unsavoury about this, but ask your wife would she be comfortable asking someone to buy something for you and bring it to a sex meet without at least contributing towards the cost? You might find that most women have a different perspective on this.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Hasn't happened to me personally (although I have been offered money in the past), but judging by a recent surge in status updates and threads about this kind of thing it seems to be on the increase. Money or dr*gs usually... Although I have seen some offer services for phone credit, or even just a bottle of wine.

The thing is, there are people on here who are willing to pay for services, and that, naturally, attracts those who will sell.

Speaking from the perspective of my time as a single guy in the lifestyle

I've been asked would it be possible to pick up some wine on my way to meet couples. Never once did I think I was being asked to pay for services.

Honestly, if someone asked you to pick up a bottle of wine on your way to meet them, would you really consider that person to be a sex worker and is asking you to pay for services

On the contrary, I personally would put the shoe firmly on the other foot and call the person a bit cheap for saying no.

What next?

"She asked me to pay for the hotel room, she's defo a hooker"

"You wouldn't believe it, she said I had to buy my own condoms!!"

Splitting costs for a hotel room, food, drink, or even condoms (although I always brought my own) is something I always thought was perfectly acceptable... Is splitting costs not simply good swinging etiquette? But I wouldn't dream of asking anyone to bring something, unless I was contributing towards the expense. Regardless of whether it's a regular Fab meet, or a night in with friends, if I ask someone to 'pick up' something on the way, the first thing I'd ask when they arrive is what I owe them for it... And doesn't matter how well I know someone, if they don't allow me to at least contribute it would annoy me. To me (as a reasonably intelligent, mature, financially independent woman), asking a virtual stranger (someone you've maybe only ever chatted with online, or had a coffee with once), to meet up for sex and also ask them supply you with alcohol, dr*gs, or whatever.. that implies an obligation.. It's an implied exchange. You say it never occurred to you as a single male that there was anything unsavoury about this, but ask your wife would she be comfortable asking someone to buy something for you and bring it to a sex meet without at least contributing towards the cost? You might find that most women have a different perspective on this. "

Many of my meets invited me for dinner. Does that make me a hooker?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Hasn't happened to me personally (although I have been offered money in the past), but judging by a recent surge in status updates and threads about this kind of thing it seems to be on the increase. Money or dr*gs usually... Although I have seen some offer services for phone credit, or even just a bottle of wine.

The thing is, there are people on here who are willing to pay for services, and that, naturally, attracts those who will sell.

Speaking from the perspective of my time as a single guy in the lifestyle

I've been asked would it be possible to pick up some wine on my way to meet couples. Never once did I think I was being asked to pay for services.

Honestly, if someone asked you to pick up a bottle of wine on your way to meet them, would you really consider that person to be a sex worker and is asking you to pay for services

On the contrary, I personally would put the shoe firmly on the other foot and call the person a bit cheap for saying no.

What next?

"She asked me to pay for the hotel room, she's defo a hooker"

"You wouldn't believe it, she said I had to buy my own condoms!!"

Splitting costs for a hotel room, food, drink, or even condoms (although I always brought my own) is something I always thought was perfectly acceptable... Is splitting costs not simply good swinging etiquette? But I wouldn't dream of asking anyone to bring something, unless I was contributing towards the expense. Regardless of whether it's a regular Fab meet, or a night in with friends, if I ask someone to 'pick up' something on the way, the first thing I'd ask when they arrive is what I owe them for it... And doesn't matter how well I know someone, if they don't allow me to at least contribute it would annoy me. To me (as a reasonably intelligent, mature, financially independent woman), asking a virtual stranger (someone you've maybe only ever chatted with online, or had a coffee with once), to meet up for sex and also ask them supply you with alcohol, dr*gs, or whatever.. that implies an obligation.. It's an implied exchange. You say it never occurred to you as a single male that there was anything unsavoury about this, but ask your wife would she be comfortable asking someone to buy something for you and bring it to a sex meet without at least contributing towards the cost? You might find that most women have a different perspective on this.

Many of my meets invited me for dinner. Does that make me a hooker? "

Did they offer to take you to dinner or did you ask them to supply your dinner?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a couple asking me to buy snow.

No thanks.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

She gets asked to sell her worn panties quite a lot. I see no harm in it.

Nothing against prostitution, but here isn’t the place

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"How many people on here have organised a meet only to be told you have to pay for their services? Fucking joke "

Report please

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