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By *aislean313 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tallaght

love the chatting and flirting and perving on Fab but sometimes I find thats enough - what might be horny and arousing late at night can sometimes seem not so interesting in daytime real life - any views ??

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By *rgasmo87Man
over a year ago

Ballynahinch Area


"love the chatting and flirting and perving on Fab but sometimes I find thats enough - what might be horny and arousing late at night can sometimes seem not so interesting in daytime real life - any views ??"
post nut clarity

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"love the chatting and flirting and perving on Fab but sometimes I find thats enough - what might be horny and arousing late at night can sometimes seem not so interesting in daytime real life - any views ??"

Definitely, I think that's very common and the main reason for a lot of the "time wasting" people complain about.

I'd actually go a bit further and say the reality is never really as interesting as the fantasy.

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

That's why I always suggest an early face to face for a cuppa..

You can only really see what someone is like when you are face to face.

Get the right person the reality can be even better than the fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't find this, maybe because we pick people with whom we have a connection, also we don't do one-to-one meets, so there's the excitement of the group dynamic, you never really know how it will pan out. One to one, can't beat sex with someone you love in our book.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Horn goggles

I think its something that afflicts men more so than women, which leads men into having sext sessions, phone sex, or even camming with people they wouldn't normally be interested in, and then in the cold light of day, or as someone else called it 'post nut', you admit to yourself that it was just for the wank and you probably won't even think of that person again until the next time you're home alone and horny.

Most of us know men do this, and for that reason choose not to indulge in sex chat, etc., because you soon find out if someone's just got their horn goggles on or is serious about actually meeting if they're not getting wank material from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Horn goggles

I think its something that afflicts men more so than women, which leads men into having sext sessions, phone sex, or even camming with people they wouldn't normally be interested in, and then in the cold light of day, or as someone else called it 'post nut', you admit to yourself that it was just for the wank and you probably won't even think of that person again until the next time you're home alone and horny.

Most of us know men do this, and for that reason choose not to indulge in sex chat, etc., because you soon find out if someone's just got their horn goggles on or is serious about actually meeting if they're not getting wank material from you. "

Ah yes or as I call it looking for "wank fodder"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Most of us know men do this, and for that reason choose not to indulge in sex chat, etc., because you soon find out if someone's just got their horn goggles on or is serious about actually meeting if they're not getting wank material from you. "

Bingo, unless of course, we're also wearing our horn goggles at the time - I've had great sexting sessions and exchange of literotica in the past with men based in the US, where its quite clear to all concerned that it's purely fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Most of us know men do this, and for that reason choose not to indulge in sex chat, etc., because you soon find out if someone's just got their horn goggles on or is serious about actually meeting if they're not getting wank material from you.

Bingo, unless of course, we're also wearing our horn goggles at the time - I've had great sexting sessions and exchange of literotica in the past with men based in the US, where its quite clear to all concerned that it's purely fantasy "

Im so fucking bad at sexting that reality can rarely but worse.....

But if course its only natural that someone sounds alot better late at night.with horniness levels through the roof than in the morning when work/family/partners start taking priority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Im so fucking bad at sexting that reality can rarely but worse.....

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Practice makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Late at night lying in bed alone your imagination takes over !..I'm very guilty of hot raunchy texting with the right lady,..and has led to some very exciting meets! ...but i do need to get the right vibes!...sometimes you just know you're wasting your time!

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By *taylor122Man
over a year ago

dublin

Some users on here aren’t up for the reality of a face to face meet. The virtual flirting is all they need.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I find that the virtual chatting and flirting makes the reality even better

The anticipation and build up let’s you know what you’re in for and then the reality meet is an explosion of built up sexual tension

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