FabSwingers.com forum: Catfish

By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've been made aware over recent months that people I knew from another site and who are now on Fab, and also people I have met through Fab, are being repeatedly catfished by a woman who has had multiple profiles with varying locations (most recently Carlow, currently Dublin). This woman is actually from the Wexford area and has now also approached my ex partner and his new gf in public on at least 2 occasions and made a scene. I can't name and shame, as forum rules prohibit me from doing so (and more than likely she'll just set up another new profile and start again). Her profiles are always verified and she has quite attractive public photos... So be on your toes folks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possible to pm us, we had our fair share of drama in the lifestyle, fortunately not for a long long time, and we'd like it to stay that way, and we're just a bit nosey and wanna have a peak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Catfished??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Catfished??"

lure (someone) into a relationship by means of a fictional online persona.

"he was being catfished by a cruel prankster"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Was wondering this myself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal thing on here...

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Happens a lot I reckon, I'm not sure why people put a lot of effort into this, they obviously have way too much time on their hands

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I thought catfishing was guys pretending to be girls, not girls pretending to be other girls.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Happens a lot I reckon, I'm not sure why people put a lot of effort into this, they obviously have way too much time on their hands"

Ironic considering the all the efforts you make typing on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens a lot I reckon, I'm not sure why people put a lot of effort into this, they obviously have way too much time on their hands

Ironic considering the all the efforts you make typing on the forum."

is there a story here?

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

"I thought catfishing was guys pretending to be girls, not girls pretending to be other girls."

Nope... Catfishing relates to anyone using a false online persona to fool someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that 'catfish' in question make an effort to stalk people in public or was it just by chance that she bumped into them in public?

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"I thought catfishing was guys pretending to be girls, not girls pretending to be other girls."

A catfish is somebody pretending to be somebody else like a man pretending to be a woman or vice versa..pretty much a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably safer to point her out in pm so everyone recognises her new profile

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Does that 'catfish' in question make an effort to stalk people in public or was it just by chance that she bumped into them in public?"

Honestly I couldn't say if it was just coincidental. But why approach someone in a vanilla setting when they're in company and make a scene? Why tell someone you've never met that the person they're with is or was a swinger and call them by their username? Luckily his gf was aware, but they were in a public place and it was a very embarrassing and uncomfortable situation to be put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real lack of class or decency in someone who does this shit. Thanks for the post OP, I can’t PM you as a filter is on, any chance you could message me to pass on details? Thanks.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It sounds like this person isn't well. So I'm not sure if getting the fab rumour kitchen going is of any help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do same rules apply if you put it up on your profile. Seen that been done before. Fuck the snake

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

"It sounds like this person isn't well. So I'm not sure if getting the fab rumour kitchen going is of any help. "

Perhaps not, only those who have been or are being affected by experiences like this can decide if it's worth a reminder that these things do happen, and to be aware of it.

It's one of those horrible situations anyone can find themselves in, not just on Fab, but in any aspect of life, where someone's behaviour is affecting friends or family. The difference with it being on Fab is that you have to struggle with the choice of remaining discreet, saying nothing about someone's behaviour, while knowing that it may continue and that more friends may be affected, or being loyal to those you know, respect, and admire, and making them aware that they are at risk. I didn't make the decision to post this thread lightly... It's not my style, and maybe there is a better way, but aside from individually contacting everyone I've ever met or spoken with, I didn't see one.

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"It sounds like this person isn't well. So I'm not sure if getting the fab rumour kitchen going is of any help.

Perhaps not, only those who have been or are being affected by experiences like this can decide if it's worth a reminder that these things do happen, and to be aware of it.

You did well to post it on the forum.

It goes well and smooth for a lot of people here, due to the way they pick the ones to interact with, but most of the time it is just due to pure luck.

I've only experienced ghosting on Fab.

I've yet to "taste" being stood up or even worst, be confronted in a public place about a previous Fab meet or chat, just because I was recognised from a face pic swap God knows how long ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sounds like this person isn't well. So I'm not sure if getting the fab rumour kitchen going is of any help. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a US TV series called Catfish. It's scary the lengthys some people go to to deceive others.

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

There’s only 1 reason people would cat fish to cause trouble,there’s lots around I’ve also watched that program mentioned above and it’s mind blowing the things they do to pretend to be someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sounds like this person isn't well. So I'm not sure if getting the fab rumour kitchen going is of any help. "

i'd have to agree. the rumour kitchen as you put it is likely one of the worst things about this site.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Too many on here pulling stunts like this. My best mate had to leave over a guy in here who was similar he hassled her for months after she met him. Gave her personal info to others and shared private pics as well. He Has multiple profiles and despite being reported is still on here so she left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens a lot I reckon, I'm not sure why people put a lot of effort into this, they obviously have way too much time on their hands

Ironic considering the all the efforts you make typing on the forum.

is there a story here?"

Grabs popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want to pm you op but can't, Iam almost sure of who you are talking about, as I may be right in the middle of being catfished now, I need to know, thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a pity name and shame isn't allowed when it's to protect others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Such a pity name and shame isn't allowed when it's to protect others.."

Ya but it is too open to abuse.

Those same people that catfish would have no issues spreading nasty rumors on the forums

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By *atience178Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Gets worse every week, I had to block 3 this morning alone. Got one mail from a well verified single profile - there was a photo attached of a very curvy woman in lingerie and the only words written were “would you?”

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I've been made aware over recent months that people I knew from another site and who are now on Fab, and also people I have met through Fab, are being repeatedly catfished by a woman who has had multiple profiles with varying locations (most recently Carlow, currently Dublin). This woman is actually from the Wexford area and has now also approached my ex partner and his new gf in public on at least 2 occasions and made a scene. I can't name and shame, as forum rules prohibit me from doing so (and more than likely she'll just set up another new profile and start again). Her profiles are always verified and she has quite attractive public photos... So be on your toes folks!

The Bully Bitch with the recognizable nipples back and being a bitch again old friend,

Can't name and shame but can leave clues,

Sounds like,,,,, small wild Irish dog or Poxy and add a darts score to it lol

Madra rua she gives ginger dogs a bad name,

And Folks I can verify from said other site that we are indeed dealing with a crazed individual,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Bully Bitch with the recognizable nipples back and being a bitch again old friend,

Can't name and shame but can leave clues,

Sounds like,,,,, small wild Irish dog or Poxy and add a darts score to it lol

Madra rua she gives ginger dogs a bad name,

And Folks I can verify from said other site that we are indeed dealing with a crazed individual, "

Profile still on the site??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit like a witch hunt going on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pm me please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pm me please... woukd like to avoid the profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile given, just saying someone else said this has happened. Still waiting.

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one as I told you...

Blocked but still...

Shes alive and stalking my profile...

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick

Alot of loose cannons on the site. Alot.

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