FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *anta38 OP Man
over a year ago

Tyrone Omagh

if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's down to overall tone of your profile.... i have been on here a fairly long time and not been successful as yet to get verified ... think I'm un-meetable.. lol

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By *eankaren88Couple
over a year ago

By the sea

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?"

I remember not being allowed into our local disco because it was only for regulars. So we use to just drink in the bar and chat. Then suddenly we were regulars and allowed into the disco.

Strange really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

I remember not being allowed into our local disco because it was only for regulars. So we use to just drink in the bar and chat. Then suddenly we were regulars and allowed into the disco.

Strange really.

...... can't even get to the bar, never mind a drink and a chat ... lol

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By *anta38 OP Man
over a year ago

Tyrone Omagh

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

I remember not being allowed into our local disco because it was only for regulars. So we use to just drink in the bar and chat. Then suddenly we were regulars and allowed into the disco.

Strange really.

I'd love to invite anyone for a drink, but everyone says no. because i no have verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to invite anyone for a drink, but everyone says no. because i no have verifications

When i send an ice breaker message I'm always polite and never straight in with the sex talk... I suggest grabbing a coffee or tea, but very rarely get a reply.

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By *anta38 OP Man
over a year ago

Tyrone Omagh

I'd love to invite anyone for a drink, but everyone says no. because i no have verifications

When i send an ice breaker message I'm always polite and never straight in with the sex talk... I suggest grabbing a coffee or tea, but very rarely get a reply."

exactly. I just want to meet new people, make new friends. I just want to have a drink and talk somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?"

Think it’s a pure sausage fest. And maybe fakes too. Not allowing the genuine to have a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience patwan....

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

I remember not being allowed into our local disco because it was only for regulars. So we use to just drink in the bar and chat. Then suddenly we were regulars and allowed into the disco.

Strange really.

...... can't even get to the bar, never mind a drink and a chat ... lol"

Consider that perhaps you're at the bar right now... and you're not making a good impression

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'd love to invite anyone for a drink, but everyone says no. because i no have verifications

When i send an ice breaker message I'm always polite and never straight in with the sex talk... I suggest grabbing a coffee or tea, but very rarely get a reply.

exactly. I just want to meet new people, make new friends. I just want to have a drink and talk somewhere.

Just a thought guys, but maybe don't suggest grabbing a coffee in your 'icebreaker'? Chat a little, see if you click at least... From a female perspective, some random guy mailing you asking to meet up sounds like the kind of guy who uses a scattershot approach, ie, is mailing every woman in a 20 mile radius asking to meet in the hope that one will say yes. A bit like the days of the disco slow set, when there would always be one guy who just went from table to table asking each girl in turn to dance.

Asking someone to coffee without even getting to know if they like coffee first just sounds like you're desperate to have 'coffee' ... with anyone, and that's not terribly flattering

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By *rgasmo87Man
over a year ago

Ballynahinch Area

I'd love to invite anyone for a drink, but everyone says no. because i no have verifications

When i send an ice breaker message I'm always polite and never straight in with the sex talk... I suggest grabbing a coffee or tea, but very rarely get a reply.

exactly. I just want to meet new people, make new friends. I just want to have a drink and talk somewhere.

Asking someone to coffee without even getting to know if they like coffee first just sounds like you're desperate to have 'coffee' ... with anyone, and that's not terribly flattering

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20 miles those are rookie numbers has to be 50 miles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

I remember not being allowed into our local disco because it was only for regulars. So we use to just drink in the bar and chat. Then suddenly we were regulars and allowed into the disco.

Strange really.

...... can't even get to the bar, never mind a drink and a chat ... lol

Consider that perhaps you're at the bar right now... and you're not making a good impression "
What you mean not making a good impression?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

I remember not being allowed into our local disco because it was only for regulars. So we use to just drink in the bar and chat. Then suddenly we were regulars and allowed into the disco.

Strange really.

...... can't even get to the bar, never mind a drink and a chat ... lol

Consider that perhaps you're at the bar right now... and you're not making a good impression What you mean not making a good impression?"

I wasnr relying to you. The point is people should see interactions here in the forum as if they are mingling at a bar and trying to attract positive attention from people they fancy. Walking into a bar and shouting thag they arent getting any success getting anyone to fuck them isn't gonna be terribly effective.

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By *anta38 OP Man
over a year ago

Tyrone Omagh

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

I remember not being allowed into our local disco because it was only for regulars. So we use to just drink in the bar and chat. Then suddenly we were regulars and allowed into the disco.

Strange really.

...... can't even get to the bar, never mind a drink and a chat ... lol

Consider that perhaps you're at the bar right now... and you're not making a good impression What you mean not making a good impression?

you're right. but it is a little shitty to not even read the message but to delete it immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

I remember not being allowed into our local disco because it was only for regulars. So we use to just drink in the bar and chat. Then suddenly we were regulars and allowed into the disco.

Strange really.

...... can't even get to the bar, never mind a drink and a chat ... lol

Consider that perhaps you're at the bar right now... and you're not making a good impression What you mean not making a good impression?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

I remember not being allowed into our local disco because it was only for regulars. So we use to just drink in the bar and chat. Then suddenly we were regulars and allowed into the disco.

Strange really.

Good analogy. I've been coming to the bar and enjoying the craic and banter and one day I hope I'll be in a round instead of just ordering a pint for myself

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

No reply means no interest. It's in the site rules.

Shouting is when you talk loudly so that whole bar can hear (or creating forum threads or replies complaining they arent getting laid here). Neither will be effective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No reply means no interest. It's in the site rules.

Shouting is when you talk loudly so that whole bar can hear (or creating forum threads or replies complaining they arent getting laid here). Neither will be effective."
But surely the guy just give his opinion he wasn't shouting.

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By *rgasmo87Man
over a year ago

Ballynahinch Area

"No reply means no interest. It's in the site rules.

Shouting is when you talk loudly so that whole bar can hear (or creating forum threads or replies complaining they arent getting laid here). Neither will be effective."
but but im a man and youre a women. AND THIS IS A SEX SITE.ALL THE WOMEN MUST BE GAGGING FOR IT. s/

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"No reply means no interest. It's in the site rules.

Shouting is when you talk loudly so that whole bar can hear (or creating forum threads or replies complaining they arent getting laid here). Neither will be effective. But surely the guy just give his opinion he wasn't shouting."

It's on a public forum for all to see. It's not a private conversation.. it's a broadcast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No reply means no interest. It's in the site rules.

It's on a public forum for all to see. It's not a private conversation.. it's a broadcast"
When did asking a question become shouting.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Follow the analogy harry, it's not that hard. Talking in a bar = 1 on 1 = a pm. Shouting in a bar = 1 to many = a forum post.

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

I'd love to invite anyone for a drink, but everyone says no. because i no have verifications

When i send an ice breaker message I'm always polite and never straight in with the sex talk... I suggest grabbing a coffee or tea, but very rarely get a reply.

exactly. I just want to meet new people, make new friends. I just want to have a drink and talk somewhere.

Asking someone to coffee without even getting to know if they like coffee first just sounds like you're desperate to have 'coffee' ... with anyone, and that's not terribly flattering

Can't beat the oul slow sets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Follow the analogy harry, it's not that hard. Talking in a bar = 1 on 1 = a pm. Shouting in a bar = 1 to many = a forum post."
But this isn't a bar so he is asking a question not shouting.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Urgh. It's an analogy harry. Take off the dunce hat for a second harry and concentrate.. and dont mean an ACTUAL hat harry. Thats an analogy too.

There is no helping some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urgh. It's an analogy harry. Take off the dunce hat for a second harry and concentrate.. and dont mean an ACTUAL hat harry. Thats an analogy too.

There is no helping some people. "
So it's not a real bar just a make believe.But if it were a real bar imagine what would be going on for starters you would be in the corner with your tits out taking a picture.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Lol good effort harry. B÷

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol good effort harry. B÷"
Oh but it's only make believe effort didn't actually happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urgh. It's an analogy harry. Take off the dunce hat for a second harry and concentrate.. and dont mean an ACTUAL hat harry. Thats an analogy too.

There is no helping some people. So it's not a real bar just a make believe.But if it were a real bar imagine what would be going on for starters you would be in the corner with your tits out taking a picture."

To be fair that sounds like a decent bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urgh. It's an analogy harry. Take off the dunce hat for a second harry and concentrate.. and dont mean an ACTUAL hat harry. Thats an analogy too.

To be fair that sounds like a decent bar"
Yes but would do your head in with all the shouting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads the only advice I can give you here is forget your here for sex.

If you chat and act like sex isnt the ultimite andd only goal ots amazing how conversation develop and actually end up leading to.....well you know.

As for the unread messages not much you can do, but interacting on forums first deffo leads to more opened messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lads the only advice I can give you here is forget your here for sex.

If you chat and act like sex isnt the ultimite andd only goal ots amazing how conversation develop and actually end up leading to.....well you know.

As for the unread messages not much you can do, but interacting on forums first deffo leads to more opened messages"
It's ok opening messages but the tricky bit is getting the legs opening.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"Urgh. It's an analogy harry. Take off the dunce hat for a second harry and concentrate.. and dont mean an ACTUAL hat harry. Thats an analogy too.

Well look at that. Harry what happened no more broken English impressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong in meeting up for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urgh. It's an analogy harry. Take off the dunce hat for a second harry and concentrate.. and dont mean an ACTUAL hat harry. Thats an analogy too.

Well look at that. Harry what happened no more broken English impressive

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I get superglue and fix it.

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"..... interacting on forums first deffo leads to more opened messages"

Depending on how you interact on the forum, it gets your profile blocked by a lot of people too, without knowing.

Going public on the forum, is always a double edge sword.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..... interacting on forums first deffo leads to more opened messages

Depending on how you interact on the forum, it gets your profile blocked by a lot of people too, without knowing.

Going public on the forum, is always a double edge sword. "

Ya but they are people that wpuld decide your not for them after chatting anyway so happy days

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Urgh. It's an analogy harry. Take off the dunce hat for a second harry and concentrate.. and dont mean an ACTUAL hat harry. Thats an analogy too.

There is no helping some people. "

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"..... interacting on forums first deffo leads to more opened messages

Depending on how you interact on the forum, it gets your profile blocked by a lot of people too, without knowing.

Going public on the forum, is always a double edge sword. "

Only if you're an asshole

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"..... interacting on forums first deffo leads to more opened messages

Depending on how you interact on the forum, it gets your profile blocked by a lot of people too, without knowing.

Going public on the forum, is always a double edge sword.

Only if you're an asshole

Not necessarily, as I've randomly discovered my profile being blocked by certain profiles, without me ever interacting with them.

The reason they've blocked me, must have been related to my views and opinions on some topic on the forum, as I don't remember being an "asshole" to anyone on the forum.

Well each to their own, I am not losing sleep over it

, but it is worth mentioning to others just in case.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Some are clearly assholes, some people folks just know they wouldnt click with because of certain views they might hold. Some they might just not fancy.

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Some sound advice there from the ladies to be honest op there’s way to many men to women on here 50-1 I’d say but just mingle in on forums get involved people think they are going to get sucked and fucked just for been on this site not everybody but lots do,as the ladies said you need to go to social and meet some ppl I’ve given up like lots of men I’m just here for the banter and laughs and if I am lucky enough to meet someone and have some fun along the way it’s a bonus

if not there’s plenty out there doing it the old fashioned way in pub or club

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Some people just don’t ever get to have sex here. Others have a lot of luck and then there are those that will be lucky to get a reply!

She has randomly met unverified guys for a bit of a kiss and grope that we would never otherwise consider so keep your eye out, log on several times a day to read updates and keep messaging!

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?"

Go to hedonism club in l/Derry or a club in the mainland, mingle, talk, don't be shy and with a bit of luck you'll get verified.

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By *anta38 OP Man
over a year ago

Tyrone Omagh

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

Go to hedonism club in l/Derry or a club in the mainland, mingle, talk, don't be shy and with a bit of luck you'll get verified."

Thank u

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By *anta38 OP Man
over a year ago

Tyrone Omagh

"if no one wants to meet because i no have Verifications.

how can i get it Verifications?

Go to hedonism club in l/Derry or a club in the mainland, mingle, talk, don't be shy and with a bit of luck you'll get verified.

Thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to invite anyone for a drink, but everyone says no. because i no have verifications

When i send an ice breaker message I'm always polite and never straight in with the sex talk... I suggest grabbing a coffee or tea, but very rarely get a reply."

Lot of guys on that train...

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