FabSwingers.com forum: Where are I going wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Open to more suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need more pics and verifications.. Need to get to a social if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion is very important because of my job"

You do realize we all have jobs and real lives right?

Not having a go, just get kinda triggered sometimes when people state the obvious

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Firstly start by reading posts in the forums, there has been enough advice here already, you shouldn't have to ask this question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly start by reading posts in the forums, there has been enough advice here already, you shouldn't have to ask this question"

Hey everyone wants some personal touch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've tried joining in wit forms. General chats.. what's up wit profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My honest opinion

You need to put up a couple of pics they don’t have to be dick pics check out some of the other male profiles to get a feel for what others do and then keep the saucier ones for friends only

Your bio reads fine

I do check to see if a person in chatting to is a site supporter that way I know they are somewhat invested in this as opposed to an alternative to tinder

Try and get a verification even just from a coffee meet

And keep trying, there’s more men than women here so you kinda have to be patient

Best of luck xx

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

"Firstly start by reading posts in the forums, there has been enough advice here already, you shouldn't have to ask this question

Hey everyone wants some personal touch

I guess,great pics btw, and if you need a personal touch

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I think first and foremost jazz up your profile, describe yourself and what your looking for, add a few pictures, try to avoid having 40 different angles of your cock. Get to a MnG, dont send a second mail if you dont get a reply to the first, have face pics to send with a mail as opposed to cock pics, be polite and mannerly in emails, dont not ask anyone why your not their type if they reply with a polite rejection, thank them and move swiftly along, if all that fails, a can of lynx Africa and a Sky Remote

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think first and foremost jazz up your profile, describe yourself and what your looking for, add a few pictures, try to avoid having 40 different angles of your cock. Get to a MnG, dont send a second mail if you dont get a reply to the first, have face pics to send with a mail as opposed to cock pics, be polite and mannerly in emails, dont not ask anyone why your not their type if they reply with a polite rejection, thank them and move swiftly along, if all that fails, a can of lynx Africa and a Sky Remote

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LOL

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Profile reads OK... Lack of public photos might put some off though, and as others have previously said, job/discretion is just an excuse... Who is going to look at a photo of your torso or bum and recognise you??? Your photos don't even need to be nudes... Lots of ladies love a photo of a man in a suit

From a purely personal pov, your height would be a

for me, as I'm 5'4, and other ladies of similarly small stature may feel the same. That doesn't mean you should lie about your height by the way... Just to be aware that it may be a reason why some choose not to respond

Finally... Although your profile is reasonably well written, I've noticed your posts on this thread are primarily in text-speak. If you're mailing in text-speak too, that's probably going to explain why you're not having much success. Most of us associate text-speak with teenagers and immaturity... It's a short-hand acceptable between friends and family who know we are capable of more, but not something you'd rely on to make a good first impression with a stranger. It 'feels' lazy.

Good luck OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it have to be Lynx Africa ??? are you on a back hander to promote Lynx Africa ???

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Can i ask you , how willing are you to shafe face pics?, ideally they should be in your opening message to another profile , as lets be honest most girls/couples get a ridiculous amount of messages on here from guys , . Also...(and i am guilty of this also

so not having a go) your spelling is not great( not sure if english is your first language) but that defo needs to be cleaned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open to more suggestions

Who says you're going wrong ?...just because ladies here may not be tripping over themselves to meet you does not mean you're going wrong...there's a train that flies down the tracks in this joint and it's full to the roof of guys that ladies don't reply to .. block..not interested in ..not their cup of tea etc etc..so while it may seem to you that you're going wrong somewhere along the line it may not be the case either ,but as you've seen fabbers here have given you a few pointers ,in their opinion, which may help you big time..which one should always take on board ...hope everything works out Brilliant for you here

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Can i ask you , how willing are you to shafe face pics?, ideally they should be in your opening message to another profile , as lets be honest most girls/couples get a ridiculous amount of messages on here from guys , . Also...(and i am guilty of this also

so not having a go) your spelling is not great( not sure if english is your first language) but that defo needs to be cleaned up

I wouldn't necessarily agree on the face pic thing. If someone's profile specifies that they expect a face pic with the first message, then yeah... sure... if you're happy with sending one, do. But as someone who doesn't expect or ask for face pics from someone I've barely spoken to, I don't actually like people sending their face pics to me randomly, any more than I like receiving random cock pics.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

“Where are I going wrong” ?

Mebbe start with basic English lessons

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"“Where are I going wrong” ?

Mebbe start with basic English lessons "

Mebbe??

perhaps you should too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As people said above more photos of the goods, yours are all friends only. People wont always add as a friend u til you are already chatting or meeting.

Profile reads alright, the only thing I would change is when you say your new but have dabbled and had fun, if you mean on fab but have no veri that might raise a flag, and if it wasnt on fab maybe just clarify that.

Get involved on here the forums will always open up some chats.

Good luck

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

"“Where are I going wrong” ?

Mebbe start with basic English lessons

Mebbe??

perhaps you should too?

Fallen on his own Sword

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

so not having a go) your spelling is not great( not sure if english is your first language) but that defo needs to be cleaned up

I dont agree with the face pic in an opening message. If a profile stands out to me it won't have anything to do with me receiving a face pic or not. I've met plenty over coffee not knowing what their face is like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open to more suggestions

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Don't take any advice here because it's just the same few spouting the same crap about cock picture's and profile.A picture or profile can't satisfy any woman or man.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"Open to more suggestions

Don't take any advice here because it's just the same few spouting the same crap about cock picture's and profile.A picture or profile can't satisfy any woman or man."

Yeah..... don't take this advice

I took advice from the forums when I started. Worked for me

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Depends what you view as right, like where do you want to be.

You're probably unable to reach my view of right.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

"“Where are I going wrong” ?

Mebbe start with basic English lessons

Mebbe??

perhaps you should too?

Fallen on his own Sword"

Totally different context. That’s not bad grammar - duh . What next??!... lol. Hey you- can’t you spell - it’s laugh out loud - not “lol”. Same for mebbe . ( maybe )

Duh. Oh hang on, can I say “Duh” ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open to more suggestions

Don't take any advice here because it's just the same few spouting the same crap about cock picture's and profile.A picture or profile can't satisfy any woman or man.

Yeah..... don't take this advice

I took advice from the forums when I started. Worked for me "
It worked for you in what way.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Open to more suggestions

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You've 20 friends so you're obviously talking to people

Did you ask any of them out for a coffee or drink?

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Open to more suggestions

Don't take any advice here because it's just the same few spouting the same crap about cock picture's and profile.A picture or profile can't satisfy any woman or man."

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Saw sign at the zoo yesterday...

"DON"T FEED THE TROLLS"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open to more suggestions

Don't take any advice here because it's just the same few spouting the same crap about cock picture's and profile.A picture or profile can't satisfy any woman or man.

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Saw sign at the zoo yesterday...

"DON"T FEED THE TROLLS"

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Did anyone feed you.

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