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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, it's very very hard to get the first date without verification! I'm here for a few months and still couldn't get my first verification because many women here are afraid to go out with someone without a verification. I don't judge, I think it's way safer to go with someone that has some review lol. Anyway, I'm here to say that I'm not a weird or creep man, I'm very normal and I have experience. If you are a woman or couple and could give a chance I will not disappoint you drop a pm if so! Cheers people!

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Just a question, do you think any of the guys who disappointed or let down people said anything different to you??

You may work a little harder, get your ass to a MnG is probably the faster route to March in the Pussy Parade lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool! Thanks for your very good and helpful advice! Cheers mate!

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"Hi all, it's very very hard to get the first date without verification!"

I had my first meet within a week of signing up but didn't get a verification out of it. That was a real pisser

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely not cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a tip Op maybe fill out your profile a bit more you may have some success. Also try and get a social meet even if it is with another guy for a pint just to prove that you are real and genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a tip Op maybe fill out your profile a bit more you may have some success. Also try and get a social meet even if it is with another guy for a pint just to prove that you are real and genuine "

Cool, thank you very much for your advice! Never thought about that, maybe have a pint with another guy helps to get this verification! Cheers

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"Hi all, it's very very hard to get the first date without verification! I'm here for a few months and still couldn't get my first verification because many women here are afraid to go out with someone without a verification. I don't judge, I think it's way safer to go with someone that has some review lol. Anyway, I'm here to say that I'm not a weird or creep man, I'm very normal and I have experience. If you are a woman or couple and could give a chance I will not disappoint you drop a pm if so! Cheers people! "

Ok then we will meet you for a social drink , we are away this weekend but any night after bank holiday Monday, plus it will have to be in Kildare

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I meet people without verfiys..I go by how I get on with them not by if they have verifications..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I've been on here a good bit longer than you Op ... Have only discovered this forum last few days .. lol ... To be honest, I always assumed the M&Gs were by invite only and you kinda needed to be in the know to be invited... So, must get my ass to one at some stage too .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to say I've been on here a good bit longer than you Op ... Have only discovered this forum last few days .. lol ... To be honest, I always assumed the M&Gs were by invite only and you kinda needed to be in the know to be invited... So, must get my ass to one at some stage too .. lol"

That is a very fair assumption. The majority of hosts will not invite unverified profiles to meet and greets, and similar guidelines can apply for club invites. Some events are even using a stricter vouching system.

Every blue moon a social might be advertised for non verified members, but they are very few and far between. So I'm not convinced it's a sure fire way to secure that first verification.

Nothing wrong with a quick coffee to start with. I think that would be the easier route if the will is there.

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By *rgasmo87Man
over a year ago

Ballynahinch Area


"Have to say I've been on here a good bit longer than you Op ... Have only discovered this forum last few days .. lol ... To be honest, I always assumed the M&Gs were by invite only and you kinda needed to be in the know to be invited... So, must get my ass to one at some stage too .. lol

That is a very fair assumption. The majority of hosts will not invite unverified profiles to meet and greets, and similar guidelines can apply for club invites. Some events are even using a stricter vouching system.

Every blue moon a social might be advertised for non verified members, but they are very few and far between. So I'm not convinced it's a sure fire way to secure that first verification.

Nothing wrong with a quick coffee to start with. I think that would be the easier route if the will is there."
this

I got my first veri by meeting a guy in a pub. Not ideal but it shows im genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, it's very very hard to get the first date without verification! I'm here for a few months and still couldn't get my first verification because many women here are afraid to go out with someone without a verification. I don't judge, I think it's way safer to go with someone that has some review lol. Anyway, I'm here to say that I'm not a weird or creep man, I'm very normal and I have experience. If you are a woman or couple and could give a chance I will not disappoint you drop a pm if so! Cheers people! "

You've come across as very articulate here but that needs to be more evident on your profile me thinks.

It states 'exhibitionism purposes only'. To me it reads like you enjoy cam fun only or public sex. Not everyone is into rocking out with the cock out but maybe I've misinterpreted it. Maybe write a little more about you.

As you can see from replies, some members are happy to help with that first verification. It's there for the taking if you put the effort in.

Best of luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys, thank you all very much for the help and support! Hopefully know I can go for a coffee and get this first verification! I really appreciate! Cheers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all, it's very very hard to get the first date without verification! I'm here for a few months and still couldn't get my first verification because many women here are afraid to go out with someone without a verification. I don't judge, I think it's way safer to go with someone that has some review lol. Anyway, I'm here to say that I'm not a weird or creep man, I'm very normal and I have experience. If you are a woman or couple and could give a chance I will not disappoint you drop a pm if so! Cheers people!

Ok then we will meet you for a social drink , we are away this weekend but any night after bank holiday Monday, plus it will have to be in Kildare"

I appreciate guys! Let's do it! Let me know when you guys can go for a drink and I can meet you in Kildare! Cheers!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

If your every near Carlow and still not verfied ill let ye buy me a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, it's very very hard to get the first date without verification! I'm here for a few months and still couldn't get my first verification because many women here are afraid to go out with someone without a verification. I don't judge, I think it's way safer to go with someone that has some review lol. Anyway, I'm here to say that I'm not a weird or creep man, I'm very normal and I have experience. If you are a woman or couple and could give a chance I will not disappoint you drop a pm if so! Cheers people! "

"Very normal", definitely not for us,

Sexual deviants with equally preverse inclinations only please

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"Hi all, it's very very hard to get the first date without verification! I'm here for a few months and still couldn't get my first verification because many women here are afraid to go out with someone without a verification. I don't judge, I think it's way safer to go with someone that has some review lol. Anyway, I'm here to say that I'm not a weird or creep man, I'm very normal and I have experience. If you are a woman or couple and could give a chance I will not disappoint you drop a pm if so! Cheers people!

Ok then we will meet you for a social drink , we are away this weekend but any night after bank holiday Monday, plus it will have to be in Kildare

I appreciate guys! Let's do it! Let me know when you guys can go for a drink and I can meet you in Kildare! Cheers! "

We only land home afternoon and will be in no fettle for anything that day. But we can do Tuesday or Wednesday but would have to be around 9pm due to our work schedule, if you can make any of those evenings, let us know and we will PM the location

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"Hi all, it's very very hard to get the first date without verification! I'm here for a few months and still couldn't get my first verification because many women here are afraid to go out with someone without a verification. I don't judge, I think it's way safer to go with someone that has some review lol. Anyway, I'm here to say that I'm not a weird or creep man, I'm very normal and I have experience. If you are a woman or couple and could give a chance I will not disappoint you drop a pm if so! Cheers people!

Ok then we will meet you for a social drink , we are away this weekend but any night after bank holiday Monday, plus it will have to be in Kildare

I appreciate guys! Let's do it! Let me know when you guys can go for a drink and I can meet you in Kildare! Cheers!

We only land home afternoon and will be in no fettle for anything that day. But we can do Tuesday or Wednesday but would have to be around 9pm due to our work schedule, if you can make any of those evenings, let us know and we will PM the location "

Looks like we are getting turned down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah here. If I knew I could get a social by posting on the forum. I wouldn't have put as much effort in. You can post on forum after a week. Would of been quicker

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