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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

You must be new here.

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Not at all buddy on and of over the years as a couple and a single

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Well then you'll know people will have their own personal preferences as to who they meet attached or not.

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Yes of course...but the question is why not go on tinder then where you can view there profile and pictures and move on if you dont fancy..why be on a swingers site...its just a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there "

got the first part of that right, it is indeed a swingers site..... not a cheaters site.....

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Ok good reply I see you are part of a couple....so what you are saying so if a woman wanted to meet you and your partner but she was attached or married ye would not meet her ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok good reply I see you are part of a couple....so what you are saying so if a woman wanted to meet you and your partner but she was attached or married ye would not meet her ???"

exactly. regardless of sex if they are attached we wouldn't meet them.

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Ok .well I think there is not to many couples like ye on here so fair play.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get this attitude at all.

I know that not everyone who cheats is a bad person, and nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors.

But as the child of a cheating patent I'm allowed to think cheating is a disgusting thing to do. That's my right. Doesn't make me less kinky or less of a parent. Doesn't make me a pride. Doesn't mean I shouldn't be here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

got the first part of that right, it is indeed a swingers site..... not a cheaters site..... "

And how do you know if they are married or single? majority are telling porkies anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

got the first part of that right, it is indeed a swingers site..... not a cheaters site.....

And how do you know if they are married or single? majority are telling porkies anyway... "

true but if ou get to know a person over time you can tell especially if they slip up. I'm not denoucing people who cheat, that's their business just don't bring it to our doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

got the first part of that right, it is indeed a swingers site..... not a cheaters site.....

And how do you know if they are married or single? majority are telling porkies anyway...

true but if ou get to know a person over time you can tell especially if they slip up. I'm not denoucing people who cheat, that's their business just don't bring it to our doorstep"

I know a few guys who say who can accommodate etc,and single...

But it's far from the truth...

There is only one purpose,if you will say you can't accommodate,you losing "customers"... I wouldn't care if guy is honest,we all have reasons .

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Yes that very true.....if every one here was telling the truth we would replace all the cock and tits/ass profile pictures with face picture..why hide if we have notting to hide ...so people swing to have naughty fun with naughty people ..thanks for all the the comments..dont want to start a row tho ..ha ha

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there "

Who says it's not a dating site? This site can be whatever you want it to be. If people chose to use it that way then that is their choice. Just as if they chose to not meet cheaters.

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Yes of course but you chose to use the word cheaters..so a guy or a woman who are in a sexless relationship who have a family and dont want to leave there kids ect...but also would like to have some sexual fun now and again dont deserve it ..are are just cheaters is that what you are saying

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

I think the problem is that you're trying to make a black and white issue where there's so much grey area.

I dont want to knowingly meet attached people. That doesn't mean I think all people who cheat are terrible people.i just dont want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem is that you're trying to make a black and white issue where there's so much grey area.

I dont want to knowingly meet attached people. That doesn't mean I think all people who cheat are terrible people.i just dont want to meet them. "

Agree with you.

OP, I won't meet attached or married people. It is my choice. And I dont judge them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge anyone attached on here. But personally I don't want to meet them. I was in a unhappy marriage a long time so I can totally understand why people are here.

But it's my profile and my choice who I do and do not want to meet. I don't need any unnecessary drama in my life these days.

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

So what ye saying so far its that there should be a swingers site for attached people and one for single people.?

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere


"So what ye saying so far its that there should be a swingers site for attached people and one for single people.?"

I don't believe that's what is being said. I think if you re-read the posts, the consensus seems to be that it's a personal preference. No difference to an age range. I don't see what the problem is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what ye saying so far its that there should be a swingers site for attached people and one for single people.?"

Plenty of people prefer to play with attached plenty of people don't want to and plenty of people don't mind either way. It's down to personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what ye saying so far its that there should be a swingers site for attached people and one for single people.?"

No. No need. All people have their own preferences and they should respect each other choices. I dont need drama in my life.

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By *xperimental CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Fab

Then again not all attached guys play without consent.

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards

I'm always very honest when chatting , one of the first things I say is I'm married. Some day sorry not for me some say they don't care. That's there choice don't get upset about it. Just accept and move on.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Yes of course but you chose to use the word cheaters..so a guy or a woman who are in a sexless relationship who have a family and dont want to leave there kids ect...but also would like to have some sexual fun now and again dont deserve it ..are are just cheaters is that what you are saying"

Does your wife know and agree to you fucking others? If yes then that is playing with consent. If no you are cheating. Ask your wife what her view is.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"So what ye saying so far its that there should be a swingers site for attached people and one for single people.?"

Literally nobody has said that. What people are saying is that it's their choice to decide their own standards for who they will sleep with. Many people, like me, do not want to knowingly facilitate cheating.

Swinging isn't just fucking literally anyone with no standards, boundaries or preferences.

Swinging is when BOTH partners in a couple decide TOGETHER to play with other people, together or individually, but always with the knowledge and consent of their partner.

You can't "swing" without your partner knowing. That's just cheating. Which people are absolutely free to do for their own personal reasons. I am free to not want to fuck those people.

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere


"I'm always very honest when chatting , one of the first things I say is I'm married. Some day sorry not for me some say they don't care. That's there choice don't get upset about it. Just accept and move on."
..accept what buddy I dont have a problem with it I was just asking a question...

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere


"Yes of course but you chose to use the word cheaters..so a guy or a woman who are in a sexless relationship who have a family and dont want to leave there kids ect...but also would like to have some sexual fun now and again dont deserve it ..are are just cheaters is that what you are saying

Does your wife know and agree to you fucking others? If yes then that is playing with consent. If no you are cheating. Ask your wife what her view is. "
...where did I say I was married ??

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there "

Because being attached can make people less available. Because some don't want it as is their preference. Because some people want to date but want to date someone into the lifestyle. Because swinging doesn't always mean blind/mindless fucking. Because the list is endless. The site is for like minded people to find other like minded people and that comes in a variety of options. Each to their own. The main thing is to respect everyones preferences and reasons for being here.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

Because being attached can make people less available. Because some don't want it as is their preference. Because some people want to date but want to date someone into the lifestyle. Because swinging doesn't always mean blind/mindless fucking. Because the list is endless. The site is for like minded people to find other like minded people and that comes in a variety of options. Each to their own. The main thing is to respect everyones preferences and reasons for being here. "

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

I don't really care about someone's status as it's really none of my business. Having met both singles and attached there is advantages to both.

People have their own preferences and that's their own business. Why people choose to be here and not tinder again is their own business.

As for me I'm single and can accommodate or travel so it makes life easier for those that choose to meet me..

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there "

It matters when the wife finds out and rings ya horrible fone call

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

It matters when the wife finds out and rings ya horrible fone call "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For many, especially those who have tried an attached person in the past, I think it's simpler than it appears.

An attached person will likely have less free time and consequently less flexibility.

It can work but the unattached person really has to be OK with a restrictive schedule. Often they arnt.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"For many, especially those who have tried an attached person in the past, I think it's simpler than it appears.

An attached person will likely have less free time and consequently less flexibility.

It can work but the unattached person really has to be OK with a restrictive schedule. Often they arnt.

"

Yes and too much cloak and dagger. Not usually worth the effort x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yes and too much cloak and dagger. Not usually worth the effort x"

Yea, but in fairness thats a huge turn on for some folks on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as dat

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


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Yes and too much cloak and dagger. Not usually worth the effort x

Yea, but in fairness thats a huge turn on for some folks on here. "

I understand but not to the detriment of the single x

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

it is my opinion... from being here awhile that most of the women on here are looking for the same emotional link that attached or married couples have. as soon as you say your in a relationship or married your almost blacklisted ignored call it what you will. alot of the time your not their type sometimes you are.

Op there are women here that are married looking for the same thing alot of married men are looking for and it is more accepted.

people have the right to choose whether we agree with their choice or not is irelivent.

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By *appytoadsCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin


"So what ye saying so far its that there should be a swingers site for attached people and one for single people.?

Literally nobody has said that. What people are saying is that it's their choice to decide their own standards for who they will sleep with. Many people, like me, do not want to knowingly facilitate cheating.

Swinging isn't just fucking literally anyone with no standards, boundaries or preferences.

Swinging is when BOTH partners in a couple decide TOGETHER to play with other people, together or individually, but always with the knowledge and consent of their partner.

You can't "swing" without your partner knowing. That's just cheating. Which people are absolutely free to do for their own personal reasons. I am free to not want to fuck those people.

"

This

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

All you have to do is look at peoples profiles when they show off their newest veri, before hiding it and you will see, nearly all the women are meeting married men cheating, ALL of them. Even the ones with "No married men" written in big letters on their profile, of course they wont be silly enough to display the veri, but the married men they meet cant help themselves but show it off for a day.

Married men cheating dont just do a little better than me on here, they do way way way way better than me.

I reckon its because they have to do better on here, they cant go to a bar and pick someone up from fear of being spotted, they cant go on a date with a local girl, they cant say to a girl if flirting is going well "wanna head back to mine?".

So they would be more desperate than me to do better on here, where I might write back "Grand and you?" when a message comes through from a woman, they might write back a bit more enthusiastically.

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Ok folks ..so who would meet a couple who have joined forces but are married or attached to different people...and yes there is a lot here like that ?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah that happens all the time, two cheating making a couple. Very common.

Id only meet them if i didnt know, or if I had been talking to one of them for ages, and ages and then it would be a social meet.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there "

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Tbh with random comments like that, that might be all you're putting out

If someone's own moral compass is "No married men /women" that's their own decision based on their own life circumstances. If a male Fabber has been cheated on by his ex girlfiend or ex wife and doesn't want to put someone else through what he's been through, that's his decision. Same with a woman...

You don't "give a feck" about someone's status and that's your decison.

However other people do and you have to respect that

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

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Tbh with random comments like that, that might be all you're putting out

If someone's own moral compass is "No married men /women" that's their own decision based on their own life circumstances. If a male Fabber has been cheated on by his ex girlfiend or ex wife and doesn't want to put someone else through what he's been through, that's his decision. Same with a woman...

You don't "give a feck" about someone's status and that's your decison.

However other people do and you have to respect that "
..all the comment in the forums are random tim that why this works ..you dont like dont reply ...and your comment about putting out ..lol..you look after yourself and I will look after me ..Stud.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

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Tbh with random comments like that, that might be all you're putting out

If someone's own moral compass is "No married men /women" that's their own decision based on their own life circumstances. If a male Fabber has been cheated on by his ex girlfiend or ex wife and doesn't want to put someone else through what he's been through, that's his decision. Same with a woman...

You don't "give a feck" about someone's status and that's your decison.

However other people do and you have to respect that ..all the comment in the forums are random tim that why this works ..you dont like dont reply ...and your comment about putting out ..lol..you look after yourself and I will look after me ..Stud. "

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Random as in not spontaneous and a little insight or thought has been put into the comment... instead of just launching comments out there in the hope of any or some attention. Big difference ...stud

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

I see alot of people on this site saying they won't meet married or attached people. but when you look at their veris there are a few married that they verified. the veris are people playing without their partners knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get this attitude at all.

I know that not everyone who cheats is a bad person, and nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors.

But as the child of a cheating patent I'm allowed to think cheating is a disgusting thing to do. That's my right. Doesn't make me less kinky or less of a parent. Doesn't make me a pride. Doesn't mean I shouldn't be here.

"
100% your right

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

I'm married an mostly play with married ladies and non of their hubbies aware .people make too much out of it we here for discreet fun

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By *athieMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

As a Polish female friend of mine once said same soup 25 years need to try new soup plus as that lady says who knows what's going on behind closed doors fck all sex anway lol

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

I think it might be the case of all the married women who replied to this comment saying us men who swing without there partners knowing are cheaters...or maybe they haven't found there own partners/husband single profile just yet ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way it is yes I'm attached I don't hide it. Yes I swing. I have met both singles, married and even the od cpl. For the poster of tread just blend into the way the site moves. Wink, message always fab picks. Just relax. I look at profiles and don't like what's written I just move on but will always fab a pick before I leave. It's personal choice is someone won't meet us married guys but lots do. Happy having everyone it's the weekend yea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes of course but you chose to use the word cheaters..so a guy or a woman who are in a sexless relationship who have a family and dont want to leave there kids ect...but also would like to have some sexual fun now and again dont deserve it ..are are just cheaters is that what you are saying"

That would be fully correct ...a swinger is a swinger ..a cheater is a cheater ...he or she is just cheating with a swinger...if that persons wife or husband knows about it ,it's swinging..if not . It's cheating...who it happens with is immaterial.. PS l'm NOT saying people should not have sexual fun ..course they should ,I'm just saying there is a difference between swinging and cheating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

It matters when the wife finds out and rings ya horrible fone call "

I met a married lady this one particular night in an hotel ,she said her sex life was totally non existent ,as we were getting to know each other ,her husband rang her ,l said if she wanted to leave there would be no problem..she didn't ,it happened , but it was THE ONE and ONLY time in my life l had sex with a married lady ,l swore after that it would never happen again ,it's just not for me,I just don't want to be any part of something that could potentially bring extra upheaval into anyone's life and who knows the next time one could be in a hotel room with a married person a knock on the door mightened be room service....there are those that can move in such water and good luck to them ,fair play and have fun ..but it's not a scenario for me

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Yes of course but you chose to use the word cheaters..so a guy or a woman who are in a sexless relationship who have a family and dont want to leave there kids ect...but also would like to have some sexual fun now and again dont deserve it ..are are just cheaters is that what you are saying

That would be fully correct ...a swinger is a swinger ..a cheater is a cheater ...he or she is just cheating with a swinger...if that persons wife or husband knows about it ,it's swinging..if not . It's cheating...who it happens with is immaterial.. PS l'm NOT saying people should not have sexual fun ..course they should ,I'm just saying there is a difference between swinging and cheating..."

That might be your definition of swinging but certainly not everyone's. If you look up definition for swinging there are no terms and conditions regarding your status or having to require the consent of your partner. Stop trying to glorify swinging as something that is only for the pure adulterer and the single ones. Everyone can be a swinger even a 'cheater'. It's your prerogative not to engage with the latter but it isn't yours to decide who's allowed in the swinger's community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is my opinion... from being here awhile that most of the women on here are looking for the same emotional link that attached or married couples have. as soon as you say your in a relationship or married your almost blacklisted ignored call it what you will. alot of the time your not their type sometimes you are.

Op there are women here that are married looking for the same thing alot of married men are looking for and it is more accepted.

people have the right to choose whether we agree with their choice or not is irelivent.

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Some great repiles...so is a attached person a cheaters or a swingers that is the question......as this is a swingers site I thought we be all swingers so we can have loads of naughty fun in our free time ...and then carry on in our private lifes ...cause I am sure all the attached people here who said they wouldn't meet a attached person are talking about there swinging life style at the dinner table.....so I take it the overall view is attached people who swing alone are cheaters and the happy attached couples or maybe not so happy are swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great repiles...so is a attached person a cheaters or a swingers that is the question......as this is a swingers site I thought we be all swingers so we can have loads of naughty fun in our free time ...and then carry on in our private lifes ...cause I am sure all the attached people here who said they wouldn't meet a attached person are talking about there swinging life style at the dinner table.....so I take it the overall view is attached people who swing alone are cheaters and the happy attached couples or maybe not so happy are swingers "

A cheater is a cheater.. they can still be a swinger too.

They are not connected activities other than both being sexual

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Attached/single wouldn't bother me. It's only a bit of no strings fun at the end of the day.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Yeah yeah yeah but what about Brexit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering when will it be unacceptable to say it's wrong to 'cheat'. Society has chiseled away at morals for decades but these past few years things have escalated in the name of liberalism and 'we're in the 21 century now'. It's only a matter of time I guess when someone will take offence that someone see it wrong to cheat, as it seems to become quite normal and acceptable at many levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering when will it be unacceptable to say it's wrong to 'cheat'. Society has chiseled away at morals for decades but these past few years things have escalated in the name of liberalism and 'we're in the 21 century now'. It's only a matter of time I guess when someone will take offence that someone see it wrong to cheat, as it seems to become quite normal and acceptable at many levels."

What other examples were you thinking of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there "

Simples... Because their time is very limited & also it's a line I'd never cross. I don't play with others toys... & I most certainly don't want a crazed Wife or GF on my back. Most importantly it's a moral ground for me as in I respect others marriage vows.

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By *heBeardandTheWonderfulCouple
over a year ago

L


"Some great repiles...so is a attached person a cheaters or a swingers that is the question......as this is a swingers site I thought we be all swingers so we can have loads of naughty fun in our free time ...and then carry on in our private lifes ...cause I am sure all the attached people here who said they wouldn't meet a attached person are talking about there swinging life style at the dinner table.....so I take it the overall view is attached people who swing alone are cheaters and the happy attached couples or maybe not so happy are swingers

A cheater is a cheater.. they can still be a swinger too.

They are not connected activities other than both being sexual"

This

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By *arry1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

anywhere


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

Simples... Because their time is very limited & also it's a line I'd never cross. I don't play with others toys... & I most certainly don't want a crazed Wife or GF on my back. Most importantly it's a moral ground for me as in I respect others marriage vows.

"
....oops moral grounds is a big word to use when one is on a swingers site..but sure your have your morals ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread OP, its great to see peoples opinions on this subject. Being a genuine single fella, I personally wouldnt meet a married lady on her own but do play with couples. Its all down to everyones own moral compass. I wouldnt like to be cheated on nor would most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there "

A lot of people feel quite strongly about the sanctuary of marriage which is why they state no attached. Its a preference like any other. Discussing the use of the site dating /cheating versus swinging doesn't matter. People will use it as they wish. Just respect people's preferences.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

A lot of people feel quite strongly about the sanctuary of marriage which is why they state no attached. Its a preference like any other. Discussing the use of the site dating /cheating versus swinging doesn't matter. People will use it as they wish. Just respect people's preferences. "

Agreed

Also, before posting, maybe search the forums for the same thread coming up week after week and save us all the repeated melodrama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

A lot of people feel quite strongly about the sanctuary of marriage which is why they state no attached. Its a preference like any other. Discussing the use of the site dating /cheating versus swinging doesn't matter. People will use it as they wish. Just respect people's preferences.

Agreed

Also, before posting, maybe search the forums for the same thread coming up week after week and save us all the repeated melodrama "

Sure it gives us something to give out about. What harm

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

A lot of people feel quite strongly about the sanctuary of marriage which is why they state no attached. Its a preference like any other. Discussing the use of the site dating /cheating versus swinging doesn't matter. People will use it as they wish. Just respect people's preferences.

Agreed

Also, before posting, maybe search the forums for the same thread coming up week after week and save us all the repeated melodrama

Sure it gives us something to give out about. What harm "

I just get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

A lot of people feel quite strongly about the sanctuary of marriage which is why they state no attached. Its a preference like any other. Discussing the use of the site dating /cheating versus swinging doesn't matter. People will use it as they wish. Just respect people's preferences.

Agreed

Also, before posting, maybe search the forums for the same thread coming up week after week and save us all the repeated melodrama

Sure it gives us something to give out about. What harm

I just get "

You need to release some tension

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

A lot of people feel quite strongly about the sanctuary of marriage which is why they state no attached. Its a preference like any other. Discussing the use of the site dating /cheating versus swinging doesn't matter. People will use it as they wish. Just respect people's preferences.

Agreed

Also, before posting, maybe search the forums for the same thread coming up week after week and save us all the repeated melodrama

Sure it gives us something to give out about. What harm

I just get

You need to release some tension "

You're not wrong.

Your video almost let me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so many women on here saying no attached men or married me...who gives a feck what your status is ..it is a swingers site after all ..not a dating site ...just thought I put that out there

A lot of people feel quite strongly about the sanctuary of marriage which is why they state no attached. Its a preference like any other. Discussing the use of the site dating /cheating versus swinging doesn't matter. People will use it as they wish. Just respect people's preferences.

Agreed

Also, before posting, maybe search the forums for the same thread coming up week after week and save us all the repeated melodrama

Sure it gives us something to give out about. What harm

I just get

You need to release some tension

You're not wrong.

Your video almost let me "

Glad to be of assistance

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"A lot of people feel quite strongly about the sanctuary of marriage which is why they state no attached. Its a preference like any other. Discussing the use of the site dating /cheating versus swinging doesn't matter. People will use it as they wish. Just respect people's preferences. "

The same people who voted for gay marriage are on here cheating on their wives, no one cares about the sanctity of marriage anymore, just want to look good.

I personally dont belive in marriage, dont believe people should get married, think marriage should be removed from the constitution and straight or gay people shouldnt be allowed.

But, I have never had sex with a married woman cheating, cause that woman and that man said they believe in it, and if I am not gonna lie to get sex for myself in a pub, then I wont lie so someone else can get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people feel quite strongly about the sanctuary of marriage which is why they state no attached. Its a preference like any other. Discussing the use of the site dating /cheating versus swinging doesn't matter. People will use it as they wish. Just respect people's preferences.

The same people who voted for gay marriage are on here cheating on their wives, no one cares about the sanctity of marriage anymore, just want to look good.

I personally dont belive in marriage, dont believe people should get married, think marriage should be removed from the constitution and straight or gay people shouldnt be allowed.

But, I have never had sex with a married woman cheating, cause that woman and that man said they believe in it, and if I am not gonna lie to get sex for myself in a pub, then I wont lie so someone else can get it."

Feck knew I was using the wrong word sanctity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me thinks OP is a little disgruntled with swingers preferences. A few refusals I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get this attitude at all.

I know that not everyone who cheats is a bad person, and nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors.

But as the child of a cheating patent I'm allowed to think cheating is a disgusting thing to do. That's my right. Doesn't make me less kinky or less of a parent. Doesn't make me a pride. Doesn't mean I shouldn't be here.

"
Well Said

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By *s24u!Couple
over a year ago

Limerick

I would assume people don't want the drama of a husband/wife calling round.

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