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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Messaged a girl that i was interested in to see would she like my pic and hopefully respond..The message I got back was "You Don't look athletic" and then she blocked me...OK first off I'm not exactly wobbling around the place and there was no description that best suited me like well built or few extra lbs.. I was probably being generous but not too generous but is such a response warranted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did youessage her to see would she lime your pic or did you message her with a pic?

Not that it really matters, no of course there is never a need to be rude. Just ignore it and find someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did youessage her to see would she lime your pic or did you message her with a pic?

Not that it really matters, no of course there is never a need to be rude. Just ignore it and find someone else "

That should have been a sorry

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

No need to be rude at all she was obviously a goddess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn`t worry about it big man, I`ve messaged a few Ladies and didn`t even get a reply, so whatever the problem was....it`s her problem, treat it like gravity and don`t let it get you down

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

You hoped for a reply and you got one. What's the problem? A lot of guys would sell their granny for that on here

Seriously though, there's no point getting hung up on it. It happens, and it will most likely happen again.

With 2 meets in only 9 weeks here, i think you are doing well here bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately you have to take the good with the bad here. I got called a flabby ugly whore during the week. I just roll my eyes in block and move on. There is lots of great genuine people here that make up for the fuckwits. So don't let the idiots ruin it for you.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Unfortunately you have to take the good with the bad here. I got called a flabby ugly whore during the week. I just roll my eyes in block and move on. There is lots of great genuine people here that make up for the fuckwits. So don't let the idiots ruin it for you."

Totally with you on this one I used to get upset now I just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately you have to take the good with the bad here. I got called a flabby ugly whore during the week. I just roll my eyes in block and move on. There is lots of great genuine people here that make up for the fuckwits. So don't let the idiots ruin it for you."
I think whoever called you a blah blah blah during the week needs to have their eyes tested

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By *adylover321Man
over a year ago

navan

That's my regular feedback

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK suggesting being grateful someone replied to my message despite how rude she was in don't get...I value myself higher than that and basically believe there is no need for it..just ignore me

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

It could be worse... We (I) regularly get told that she's hot, and I'm not... LOL

Well, I've obviously been doing something right for the past eleven years...

It's a good use for something I learned in Work,

SWSWSWN!

(Some Will, Some Won't, So What? NEXT!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately you have to take the good with the bad here. I got called a flabby ugly whore during the week. I just roll my eyes in block and move on. There is lots of great genuine people here that make up for the fuckwits. So don't let the idiots ruin it for you.

Totally with you on this one I used to get upset now I just block them "

TBH my self esteem is good but I'm aware other men would possibly be effected hugely for such comments but find it hard to admit..not saying ladies wouldn't but men can be a lot less inclined to admit upset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could be worse... We (I) regularly get told that she's hot, and I'm not... LOL

Well, I've obviously been doing something right for the past eleven years...

It's a good use for something I learned in Work,

SWSWSWN!

(Some Will, Some Won't, So What? NEXT!) "

That looks like you tried to read a compass while pissed

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge


"It could be worse... We (I) regularly get told that she's hot, and I'm not... LOL

Well, I've obviously been doing something right for the past eleven years...

It's a good use for something I learned in Work,

SWSWSWN!

(Some Will, Some Won't, So What? NEXT!)

That looks like you tried to read a compass while pissed "

That's Never Eat Shredded Wheat, is it not?

The first success, being that pished is finding the compass...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could be worse... We (I) regularly get told that she's hot, and I'm not... LOL

Well, I've obviously been doing something right for the past eleven years...

It's a good use for something I learned in Work,

SWSWSWN!

(Some Will, Some Won't, So What? NEXT!)

That looks like you tried to read a compass while pissed

That's Never Eat Shredded Wheat, is it not?

The first success, being that pished is finding the compass... "

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

There's no need for it but it happens. Sure a while back I got a mail randomly telling me I should delete my account as I'm too fat to be on fab.

It says more about them as a person. Rise above it although people shouldn't have to, but I'd rather be me than a shallow piece of shit.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Why give these people the attention they crave? Block, delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is so up their own ass that they think its fine to be rude and insult others...well its them that have the issues not you.

Not everyone is stunning and slim etc but personality counts for much more than looks so see it as your lucky escape

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I agree with some of the others see it as a lucky escape Al. There's nothing wrong with your body at all and anyone who resorts to insults is not really someone you want to be with anyhow I'd say

Just try and ignore it and move on people like that aren't worth your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messaged a girl that i was interested in to see would she like my pic and hopefully respond..The message I got back was "You Don't look athletic" and then she blocked me...OK first off I'm not exactly wobbling around the place and there was no description that best suited me like well built or few extra lbs.. I was probably being generous but not too generous but is such a response warranted? "

You asked a question...dont ask if you only want good news as an answer...can you handle the truth

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Messaged a girl that i was interested in to see would she like my pic and hopefully respond..The message I got back was "You Don't look athletic" and then she blocked me...OK first off I'm not exactly wobbling around the place and there was no description that best suited me like well built or few extra lbs.. I was probably being generous but not too generous but is such a response warranted? "

Not at all, but people hate fat people. Just look for the weekly thread from some dude who's mad about fat women calling themselves curvy. Fatphobia is everywhere.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town


"OK suggesting being grateful someone replied to my message despite how rude she was in don't get...I value myself higher than that and basically believe there is no need for it..just ignore me"

Sorry, i thought it was clear that part of the message was a joke. and the rest was the serious part. I complimented you on how well you are doing happy hunting

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

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By *obotherMan
over a year ago

crokepark


"Unfortunately you have to take the good with the bad here. I got called a flabby ugly whore during the week. I just roll my eyes in block and move on. There is lots of great genuine people here that make up for the fuckwits. So don't let the idiots ruin it for you.

Fuck wits ...pmsl"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messaged a girl that i was interested in to see would she like my pic and hopefully respond..The message I got back was "You Don't look athletic" and then she blocked me...OK first off I'm not exactly wobbling around the place and there was no description that best suited me like well built or few extra lbs.. I was probably being generous but not too generous but is such a response warranted?

Not at all, but people hate fat people. Just look for the weekly thread from some dude who's mad about fat women calling themselves curvy. Fatphobia is everywhere. "

Yeah, I think fatphobia/fatism(is that a word?) is possibly one of the last 'acceptable' -isms/phobias. There do seem to be quite a lot of d*ckheads out there. Give me a curvy BBW with a soft squishy tummy and wobbly bits anyday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Messaged a girl that i was interested in to see would she like my pic and hopefully respond..The message I got back was "You Don't look athletic" and then she blocked me...OK first off I'm not exactly wobbling around the place and there was no description that best suited me like well built or few extra lbs.. I was probably being generous but not too generous but is such a response warranted?

You asked a question...dont ask if you only want good news as an answer...can you handle the truth"

I'm not sure if you're trying to suggest I'm some kind of snowflake Which is funny (well to me...obviously you don't know me) ...I get how questions and answers go..suggesting I have a set response to all answers would probably mean I'm a robot but thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Messaged a girl that i was interested in to see would she like my pic and hopefully respond..The message I got back was "You Don't look athletic" and then she blocked me...OK first off I'm not exactly wobbling around the place and there was no description that best suited me like well built or few extra lbs.. I was probably being generous but not too generous but is such a response warranted?

You asked a question...dont ask if you only want good news as an answer...can you handle the truth"

I'm not sure if you're trying to suggest I'm some kind of snowflake Which is funny (well to me...obviously you don't know me) ...I get how questions and answers go..suggesting I have a set response to all answers would probably mean I'm a robot but thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messaged a girl that i was interested in to see would she like my pic and hopefully respond..The message I got back was "You Don't look athletic" and then she blocked me...OK first off I'm not exactly wobbling around the place and there was no description that best suited me like well built or few extra lbs.. I was probably being generous but not too generous but is such a response warranted? "

She probably faces a yellow wall of messages every day and that was here way of sorting through them , do not under any circumstances let it affect your confidence.

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