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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any one ever been recognized in public ?

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Yup loads of times

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

Every day I meet people who know me

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Once in the local Dunnes stores by someone who id briefly spoke to at a private party....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few time's it's no big deal sure they're on fab too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lee got re-introduced to a past meet by the man's mother-in-law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though, we're all grown-ups surely, and can cope with bumping into someone we've had sex with, maybe even be able to have a conversation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I must be the only one that hasn’t been lol I’m not sure if that’s a good thing lol .

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Seriously though, we're all grown-ups surely, and can cope with bumping into someone we've had sex with, maybe even be able to have a conversation? "

Conversation? You're looking for jam on it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though, we're all grown-ups surely, and can cope with bumping into someone we've had sex with, maybe even be able to have a conversation?

Conversation? You're looking for jam on it now. "

Ah go on outa that, sure it's impossible to shut you up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be the only one that hasn’t been lol I’m not sure if that’s a good thing lol . "

They saw you first!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must be the only one that hasn’t been lol I’m not sure if that’s a good thing lol .

They saw you first!!! "

Ohhh now that’s a burn . Tanx

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing "

Same here ,can't wear same jammies twice running anymore Busty lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be the only one that hasn’t been lol I’m not sure if that’s a good thing lol .

They saw you first!!!

Ohhh now that’s a burn . Tanx "

Only messing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha solid burn returned lol

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing

Same here ,can't wear same jammies twice running anymore Busty lol!"

Haha it’s happened three times now and he’s never spoke to me ever just messages me tell me what I’m wearing I’m waiting on him telling me I forgot to buy milk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure I was served in a shop by a fabber the other day who I’ve chatted to before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well if I seen some one I recognize from here I’d say hello as I pass and send them a message on here

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Always best to just pretend you don’t know them and walk on by...they could be with a relative/child/co worker and you could make life very awkward for them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh if there with some one I keep quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any one ever been recognized in public ? "

Not when l keep meets 50/60 miles away...

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

We've discovered that folk we're social with nearly everyday frequent this place... Lol. Slightly different conversation with them now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing

Same here ,can't wear same jammies twice running anymore Busty lol!

Haha it’s happened three times now and he’s never spoke to me ever just messages me tell me what I’m wearing I’m waiting on him telling me I forgot to buy milk "

If he was any good he'd save you the trip and ask you can get pic you up anything while he's there and drop it off too you....could end up killing 2 birds with 1 stone

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing

Same here ,can't wear same jammies twice running anymore Busty lol!

Haha it’s happened three times now and he’s never spoke to me ever just messages me tell me what I’m wearing I’m waiting on him telling me I forgot to buy milk

If he was any good he'd save you the trip and ask you can get pic you up anything while he's there and drop it off too you....could end up killing 2 birds with 1 stone "

I obviously look a little scary he can’t even say hi it might be worth his while

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"A few time's it's no big deal sure they're on fab too"

This.

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Lady i meet at school gate sent me her pic here she doesnt know its me .she bit too close to home to play with lol

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

No, and I put my face pic up.

Although I can understand the people not approaching me, or not telling me if they did. Better to not poke a bear etc.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.

The one and only time I almost shat myself

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.

The one and only time I almost shat myself "

What a fuckin psycho! What is wrong with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.

The one and only time I almost shat myself "

I have noticed myself that some men give away a surprising amount of information about themselves, I think men in general are not as cautious of strangers as women are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.

The one and only time I almost shat myself

What a fuckin psycho! What is wrong with people "

They're fuckin psychos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Come to think of it I do recall going into a restaurant and ordering a coffe and asking to to use the toilet and this waitress that was comeing my direction. ( whom I never seen before )

Sarcastically says no you can’t and called me by my name . I could laugh it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I passed a guy I had a social meet with in a petrol station. He just said hello and kept going thankfully.

He messaged later on to say hi again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.

The one and only time I almost shat myself

I have noticed myself that some men give away a surprising amount of information about themselves, I think men in general are not as cautious of strangers as women are. "

" She was practised at the art of deception "...

Shur isn't that a line in the Rolling Stones song...you can't always get what you want...that just didn't fall outta the tree...

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By *jdubliMan
over a year ago

Perth

I’ve saw some when I usually to live in town xxx

I smile for some and met one after msg

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

Brilliant

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By *oisyoctopusWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda

I've been spotted a lot in public by people I've met. Most of the time I don't realise unless they message me later! I'm not rude, I just don't expect to see people I know so I'm not looking out for them. That, or I don't recognise them with their clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work in retail so bump into people all the time it's funny serving them and the cheeky looks xxx

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

Ya a few times, I actually like it, ye both knowing and all that's give is a knowing smile or a wink.

On other occasions we had coffee together.

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

Yes, In the local supermarket, a coffee shop and a pub.No big deal, cheeky smiles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.

The one and only time I almost shat myself "

Maybe she came in to tell you she's pregnant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in a very public place, have my face up in public on my profile, yet only once someone recognized me and messaged me later asking if it was me.

One person in 2 years. Am I a master of disguise or do people have better things to do than go looking for strangers who may be on fab?

Hear a lot of stories going like "God forbid someone would recognize me down the street and assume people I'm with are on fab"

Come on... we're not celebrities. Nobody cares who you're with down the street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods "

Oh that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods "

Shushh and get back under that table before someone sees ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods

Shushh and get back under that table before someone sees ya"

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I'd just be happy they came.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

A good few times then again I've my Face in my pics so that why..lol..

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I had someone message me saying I've no respect for my self and that women I know see me on this. I just said well if they do there obviously on here too... haven't heard from him since..

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin

****HIJACK **** Aapols!

Sorta the same topic...

Met a dude from here a few years ago, fucked twice but not really my kinda guy - always testing to go without a Johnny! (No ta)

Fast forward, 2 years I find out he's dating my real life friend (not on fab) and shes getting kinda serious about him...so I message him, for him to may be say it to her? He warns me off, but I said if we meet out and she susses, I wont lie to her. I was giving him a chance to discuss the lifestyle with her which he had not as yet!

Now they're exclusive, going on holidays together & that prick is still logging in on here!

Dont want to be a bitch or loose a friend but I think she should know, for her sexual health alone if nothing else!!!!

#headwrecked

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I wouldn't know what to do in that situation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town


"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.

The one and only time I almost shat myself

Maybe she came in to tell you she's pregnant! "

Oh shit, never thought of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us"

I'd second that, stay out of other people's relationships.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town


"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods "
I have no problem acknowledging, but i draw the line at stalkers that's just weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods I have no problem acknowledging, but i draw the line at stalkers that's just weird "

Oh I absolutely agree there

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By *r zipsMan
over a year ago

City centre


"Seriously though, we're all grown-ups surely, and can cope with bumping into someone we've had sex with, maybe even be able to have a conversation? "

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

Have spotted people I recognize or know but I would never draw attention to it.

I would message them later. You just never know if they are with someone or meeting someone so I would never risk outing them in public

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin

Trust me, I'd rather not get involved but I keep thinking shoe on the other foot she would tell me! Was hoping after giving him ample chances, he would have fessed up, but no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust me, I'd rather not get involved but I keep thinking shoe on the other foot she would tell me! Was hoping after giving him ample chances, he would have fessed up, but no."
keep your mouth shut you'll only embarrass her and end your friendship people always say they want to know do they fook

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

Do what your gut is telling you.

It might not be what she wants to hear but if you think she would tell you then and you want to tell her then tell her.

But be prepared it could go either way.

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin

Cheers folks - good and bad I appreciate your opinion x

I've been stewing on it for far too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another

girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us

I'd second that, stay out of other people's relationships. "

It's one of those situations were ' you're dammed if you do and dammed if you dont'

My advice ...dont get involved x

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us"

I'd rather things were akward because of the truth than easy because of lies.

In fact if they never want to talk to me again, thats okay.

I have told a girl that 3 or 4 guys she dated are assholes, and she never believes me, but always agrees with me in the end when they break up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have once by a regular meet when i was here as a single guy. she nodded as did i. dee has been as well by people she hadn't met. they were just being creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers folks - good and bad I appreciate your opinion x

I've been stewing on it for far too long. "

I know most people have said stay out of it but honestly if they were a close friend I'd tell them I know I'd want to be told and your loyalty should be to her not him or some unwritten fab code of silence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers folks - good and bad I appreciate your opinion x

I've been stewing on it for far too long.

I know most people have said stay out of it but honestly if they were a close friend I'd tell them I know I'd want to be told and your loyalty should be to her not him or some unwritten fab code of silence"

It's not a "fab code" for me, it's a life lesson learned

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Yes last Saturday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us

I'd rather things were akward because of the truth than easy because of lies.

In fact if they never want to talk to me again, thats okay.

I have told a girl that 3 or 4 guys she dated are assholes, and she never believes me, but always agrees with me in the end when they break up."

It wasn't easy I told a friend and they chose to believe the story he told and is still with him. As i said unless she know's he is actively putting her friend at risk. At the moment all he is guilty of is previously meeting on fab and logging in. Maybe the friend know's about this site and is getting involved. I just think it might cause more hassle than it's worth. Also the fact she has been with him before..that might not sit well with her friend. Especially if it is getting serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once in the local Dunnes stores by someone who id briefly spoke to at a private party.... "
.i know the dunnes stores il be goin to now to see can i see ya there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once in the local Dunnes stores by someone who id briefly spoke to at a private party.... .i know the dunnes stores il be goin to now to see can i see ya there lol "

Thats not creepy at all.... not even a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've discovered that folk we're social with nearly everyday frequent this place... Lol. Slightly different conversation with them now.... "

Much more open fun conversations?

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By *exybabe1Woman
over a year ago

xxx

Yes at least once a week we’re both in same sports club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many times to be comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing "

Oh my fucken god what a realy odd thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya by girl I work with after wanking for her on cam!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup by two that I was like wtf.

One my old work boss! that was awkward on the following Monday morning.

Another old gym teacher wonder if he's still here. He was a fine piece of stuff hehe..

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira

Mmmm ...... appreciative for the fleeting glimpses

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira


"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing

Same here ,can't wear same jammies twice running anymore Busty lol!"

Mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weird

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin

News flash, friends first always works! She understands everyone has a past but as the saying goes - honesty is the best policy!!!!

But sadly, he wasnt honest !

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath


"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing "

What Tesco does that person shop in Busty

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Only by people I've met or know... some are friends I'll stop and chat with, others may be working or in company, so I'll just say hi in passing or we'll give each other a nod of acknowledgement. Despite having public face pics from time to time, I've never had a complete stranger say 'hey aren't you on Fab?' or mail me saying they'd seen me out and about... I've seen lots of people's face pics on here, either in FPF swaps, or on their profiles, but unless they're someone I'm chatting with regularly and forming a rapport with, I'm unlikely to remember a face I've seen just once or twice in a photo.

It's a bit like running into someone when they're not in their work uniform... You might see a face and feel a vague sense of recognition, but not be able to place it.

Now if I started wearing my lingerie or 'Fab' ensembles in public... That might trigger some people's recollection alright

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.

The one and only time I almost shat myself "

Not cool

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods I have no problem acknowledging, but i draw the line at stalkers that's just weird

Oh I absolutely agree there "

100%

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"Always best to just pretend you don’t know them and walk on by...they could be with a relative/child/co worker and you could make life very awkward for them!"

This exactly.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My late partner, the couple profile we had, she used to get recognised all the time even when we didn't have face pics. They usually recognised her from certain dresses she wore or whatever (so ladies take note).

Often it would be after we'd come out of a store or shopping centre and then we would have a message from someone asking if she had just been in such and such a place because they think they had recognised her but wasn't sure. Nobody ever actually approached her though as they respected that she would be in company.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Always best to just pretend you don’t know them and walk on by...they could be with a relative/child/co worker and you could make life very awkward for them!"

Nearly all of my peeps know I'm on here. They wouldn't care because I don't care.

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By *exybitch123455Woman
over a year ago

carlow

I was recognized by a barman one night that was a bit weird lol lol but I'm a talker so it didn't matter

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing "

Was it clothes? I bet it was clothes.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Bumped into a few. Someone even called me Thor in front of others. And my mates were like "why did they call you thor".

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