FabSwingers.com forum: Looking for the impossible

By *uttercupsix OP Couple
over a year ago

Roscommon

Hi all, first time posting so please be nice

We are looking for a lady to join us for nsa fun, which isn't proving easy, but at least we can say we are having fun along the way

We are reluctant to meet couples as I Buttercup have no interest in been with another man. Are we looking for the impossible or is it a case of perseverance

Any advice appreciated... XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very brave of you to post first time so well done and welcome

You are only here six months so you just need to be patient and persevere. Even well established couples struggle to find the elusive unicorn. So it's not just you having trouble.

Get yourselves to a social or one of the clubs here. Networking and meeting new people is a good way to find someone to play with.

You get out of Fab what you put in. I put a lot of effort into my profile and photos and just getting out and meeting people for coffees or socials. It's paid off and I am very lucky to have met some incredible friends through here.

Get involved in the forums and let your personality shine through.

I also tell couples to put some work into your profile and pictures. Give potential playmates a chance to figure out what you are looking for. I highly recommend putting in photos of your partner. Ladies do want to know what they look like as well.

PM me if you need a few pointers on your profile

I hope you and your partner enjoy your Fab adventure x

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Hi all, first time posting so please be nice

We are looking for a lady to join us for nsa fun, which isn't proving easy, but at least we can say we are having fun along the way

We are reluctant to meet couples as I Buttercup have no interest in been with another man. Are we looking for the impossible or is it a case of perseverance

Any advice appreciated... XX"

Good luck - you’re being clear on your preferences and that’s a great start

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By *uttercupsix OP Couple
over a year ago

Roscommon

"Very brave of you to post first time so well done and welcome

You are only here six months so you just need to be patient and persevere. Even well established couples struggle to find the elusive unicorn. So it's not just you having trouble.

Get yourselves to a social or one of the clubs here. Networking and meeting new people is a good way to find someone to play with.

Get involved in the forums and let your personality shine through.

PM me if you need a few pointers on your profile

I hope you and your partner enjoy your Fab adventure x

Thank you for taking the time to reply to us. We do appreciate it. We have been to a social, but missed the meet and greet before hand. As it was our first time we were both a bit nervous, so found it a little hard to break the ice. On saying that we'd definitely go again but be more organised next time & get to know people in a smaller group. I guess it's hard work & perseverance, but we've met a few nice people on our adventures so we will stick with it... xxx

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By *uttercupsix OP Couple
over a year ago

Roscommon

"Hi all, first time posting so please be nice

We are looking for a lady to join us for nsa fun, which isn't proving easy, but at least we can say we are having fun along the way

We are reluctant to meet couples as I Buttercup have no interest in been with another man. Are we looking for the impossible or is it a case of perseverance

Any advice appreciated... XX

Good luck - you’re being clear on your preferences and that’s a great start

Thank you for taking the time to reply to us, we do appreciate it. All advice & tips are great to get. I suppose we are fairly new to Fab, but so far we have met new people & we are enjoying our adventure so we will stick with it... xxx

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over a year ago

It takes time and a degree of luck to meet the right people at the right time

As some suggested get to meet and greets and club (no pressure to play) they are a great place to meet up and get to know others

A lot of single bi girls on here would be nervous to meet a couple on there own so meeting them at meet and greets or clubs first is a great way to get to know them

Good luck in year search guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, first time posting so please be nice

We are looking for a lady to join us for nsa fun, which isn't proving easy, but at least we can say we are having fun along the way

We are reluctant to meet couples as I Buttercup have no interest in been with another man. Are we looking for the impossible or is it a case of perseverance

Any advice appreciated... XX"

As Rosy said - consider adding photos of both of you to your profile as a lots of ladies are put off by not seeing both parts of a couple.

Also you may want to consider another couples too as full swap (being with each other's men) isn't necessary. You're in charge of your own limits and boundaries.

May meet a couple and ladies only have fun together then go back to their own partners.

Options are limitless really.

And yes, socials, socials, socials... even if you don't meet anyone you fancy - it's still a lot of fun to network and make new friends

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