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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so seen as ive mailed nearly every women and couple on here and still cant get a reply off most was wondering what do people want to see in there message's mabey ill have to turn gay lol na not sexy women all the way for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you sound desperate maybe thats why no one has replied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax. Woman/couples must be inundated with messages from single guys so our chances are pretty slim. I haven't had much luck but I'm sure that'll change some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well for 1 thing i know for sure your username is putting me off straight away,its all in the name i say..first impressions and that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having said that, I remember some years ago a guy on another site who was called Bloodfart who was pretty popular....

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

FHS,u have only been on here 4 7 weeks wot did u expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its true dude, someone mentioned it up above that women are plagued by a lot of arseholes here so they are so its understandable they don't (can't reply) back to every one! Esp new ones with no verifications!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u havnt gone on cam do so.... Gud way 4 ppl

2 check u out.. We wer here a year b4 we met any1 verified 2 veri us! Happy hunting!

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

You need to relax alot ! You are only here a very short while, bombarding the whole site with messages will def not get you anywhere at all, its a small commmunity.

Use the chatrooms, forums to get started and build up some contacts,it will never be easy as a single guy so be patient.

Work on your profile also.

Hope this helps.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

maybe try a different species?

dublin zoo has some VERY attractive llama, so im told. lol

on a serious note, its been said before.

loads of men, not as many coules/single women, do the math (and possibly they have had a look at your posts on here and not liked what they have read? you never know)

maybe be prepared to travel to the UK for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the advice guys will take it all in hand i cant cam as i dont have the internet at home online useing phone might travel to the uk as im talking to a few women and couples from there they seem more prepared and open to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

patient's is the key john i verifyed u after we meet a couple off weeks ago but it did not come up on ur page yet as for ur name hun dont know what some people think but i for one think ur name is quite good as i love big balls and big balls u have cant wait to feel them slapping off my sexy ass again lol later babe

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By *yronecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Near Omagh

the name makes u sound like ur in love with urself...u better to use something catchy...patience is also a must..cpls women do not just come on here to fuck the first guy who sends them a message...people like to chat/know each other first..

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By *ebracouCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

you must understand what swinging is about first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr bigballs as a few peeps say, look at your user name its rotten! and as bernbabe say its about 1st impressions, you get out of this what you put in to it, we keep gettin asked by single lads where are they going wrong, its all about 1st impressions good profile tell us a little about what you like and your self, you keep fit ect and a few nice pics, you have neither untill you do you'l be just wasting your time on her you have to be different stand out from the crowd

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By *amollieCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

well mr bigB... - your user name is not good enough,mollie ran away from the computer when she seen it.Your profile also needs tidying up,maybe have it done professionly !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigballs ill have to take you under my wing, BUT if any of those balls touch/rub me we're finished!

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

Some of these responses are a little patronising. I have seen worse usernames and while it might not have been the greatest choice, it's not the end of the world.

If anything, flesh out the profile a little more, more pictures would do no harm. A bit more imaginative with the text and let people know what you like to do and have done to you.

If you are messaging 'everyone' on the site then try to make it obvious they are copy and pasta messages. People can spot a generic mail from a distance and it is certainly off putting for us.

But more importantly than any of that....READ THE PROFILE. We are stunned at how many people do not read our profile and it would be insulting if it weren't so pathetic. Make sure you can offer them something they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Santry I read your profile!!! Ye love pizza too....... Did we just become best friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Santry I read your profile!!! Ye love pizza too....... Did we just become best friends?"

He offered to become my best friend yesterday. I'm feeling betrayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't take my test though!! Who's up for the best friend test ?? All you have to do is like at least 3/7 things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3/7? I wonder what the 7 things are!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you like 3/ of these well then we just became best friends

*Ray Lamontagne

*James Vincent McMorrow

*Pizza

*Tea Cakes

*Galway

*Foot Rubs

*Roadtrips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know 3 of them

I hate one of them

I like 3 of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

which 3do you not know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I looked up 2 of them and I actually really like!

So it's only tea cakes... not really sure what they are? Any specific ones? Excuse my ignorance haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tea Cakes are you serious oh jesus they are like a biscuity cake........tea cakes like ...theyre tea cakes! do you live in a cave? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right, at least I'm honest! well we're definitely not best friends now!!!!

ps. since when have men stopped fantasising about cave women?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cave women used to only have anal sex and nothing else! they rule?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now if that were true wouldn't we have died out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now if that were true wouldn't we have died out?"

oh, I like logical men.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

north west nothern ireland

we get a lot of mail and used to answer everyone however, we have now stopped due to some rude relpies when we point out the the messages seem as said before, generic or cut and paste from profiles, so now we only reply to interesting messages, or at the very least those that seem to have took the time to read our profile, prob is most people dont bother to read, and it is very clear those that do, and those that dont hope this is in some way helpful xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why hello bbw

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