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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh.

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work???

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

What's that smell?

Oh it's Desperation for men By Calvin Klein .

I don't understand it myself. It's like Mrs Doyle in Fr. Ted. Ah go on, ah you will, ah go on go on go on go on go on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's that smell?

Oh it's Desperation for men By Calvin Klein .

I don't understand it myself. It's like Mrs Doyle in Fr. Ted. Ah go on, ah you will, ah go on go on go on go on go on."

Haha that's exactly what it's like. I dunno, but personally I don't think I could enjoy sex if I felt like I'd coerced the other person into it.

Having sex with people who want to have sex with you is much more my thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if it works once for them then its worth doing I imagine...

Giving up after one rejection isnt going to get them anywhere so they really have nothing to lose.

Its what the block button is for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even if it works once for them then its worth doing I imagine...

Giving up after one rejection isnt going to get them anywhere so they really have nothing to lose.

Its what the block button is for"

Speaking from experience by the sounds of it?

Plus, I often don't even see these messages til there's 5 or 6 of them cos womens inboxes are so busy that you don't see them straight away. That's when I block them. But by then I've already had to witness their shame. Or lack thereof.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

That's the trouble, womens inboxes are always fully and 90% of it is probably spam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's that smell?

Oh it's Desperation for men By Calvin Klein .

I don't understand it myself. It's like Mrs Doyle in Fr. Ted. Ah go on, ah you will, ah go on go on go on go on go on.

Haha that's exactly what it's like. I dunno, but personally I don't think I could enjoy sex if I felt like I'd coerced the other person into it.

Having sex with people who want to have sex with you is much more my thing..."

Absolutely...it's like anything ..even if this joint is about what it's about ...there has to be a mutual want between people to have sex with

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"What's that smell?

Oh it's Desperation for men By Calvin Klein .

I don't understand it myself. It's like Mrs Doyle in Fr. Ted. Ah go on, ah you will, ah go on go on go on go on go on.

Haha that's exactly what it's like. I dunno, but personally I don't think I could enjoy sex if I felt like I'd coerced the other person into it.

Having sex with people who want to have sex with you is much more my thing..."

Yeah I'd personally want it to be a mutual want. If I feel a person isn't into me I just don't try.

Another reason why I don't mail first as I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if it works once for them then its worth doing I imagine...

Giving up after one rejection isnt going to get them anywhere so they really have nothing to lose.

Its what the block button is for

Speaking from experience by the sounds of it?

Plus, I often don't even see these messages til there's 5 or 6 of them cos womens inboxes are so busy that you don't see them straight away. That's when I block them. But by then I've already had to witness their shame. Or lack thereof. "

There have beem plenty examoles written on the forum of people not seeing or replying to someones first message. Say you were a woman who only opened mails are random and someones 3rd message caught your eye that guy from then on will think there is always a chance.

Or the fool themselvea int9 thinking oh she missed my last one but she is online now Ill try again...

If your getting nowhere anyway on your popping on cause you have the horn whats a little shame compare to getting your rocks off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree some guys come across as not only being desperate but creepy. Thank God for the block button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even if it works once for them then its worth doing I imagine...

Giving up after one rejection isnt going to get them anywhere so they really have nothing to lose.

Its what the block button is for

Speaking from experience by the sounds of it?

Plus, I often don't even see these messages til there's 5 or 6 of them cos womens inboxes are so busy that you don't see them straight away. That's when I block them. But by then I've already had to witness their shame. Or lack thereof.

There have beem plenty examoles written on the forum of people not seeing or replying to someones first message. Say you were a woman who only opened mails are random and someones 3rd message caught your eye that guy from then on will think there is always a chance.

Or the fool themselvea int9 thinking oh she missed my last one but she is online now Ill try again...

If your getting nowhere anyway on your popping on cause you have the horn whats a little shame compare to getting your rocks off"

Jesus. That is a bleak description of the male mind.

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By *xperimental CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Fab

Sometimes the 63rd message works like a charm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the 63rd message works like a charm "

Usually the 69th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if it works once for them then its worth doing I imagine...

Giving up after one rejection isnt going to get them anywhere so they really have nothing to lose.

Its what the block button is for

Speaking from experience by the sounds of it?

Plus, I often don't even see these messages til there's 5 or 6 of them cos womens inboxes are so busy that you don't see them straight away. That's when I block them. But by then I've already had to witness their shame. Or lack thereof.

There have beem plenty examoles written on the forum of people not seeing or replying to someones first message. Say you were a woman who only opened mails are random and someones 3rd message caught your eye that guy from then on will think there is always a chance.

Or the fool themselvea int9 thinking oh she missed my last one but she is online now Ill try again...

If your getting nowhere anyway on your popping on cause you have the horn whats a little shame compare to getting your rocks off

Jesus. That is a bleak description of the male mind. "

It is a turnoff. As are guys sending messages ans saying how hard it us to meet the more attractive women as most are up their own ass and men never have a chance with the gorgeous one. Then ask if I would be free for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Jesus. That is a bleak description of the male mind. "

I dont think its a description of the male mind.

More the mind of someone who.will send 5 unanswered mails and resort to begging people for sex on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Jesus. That is a bleak description of the male mind.

I dont think its a description of the male mind.

More the mind of someone who.will send 5 unanswered mails and resort to begging people for sex on here"

Fair! I just haven't personally heard of any women going to those lengths. Happy to be proven wrong though!

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards

I typically send one mail , if it's someone I think I'd really like to meet and they don't reply I'll send a wink few days later. If still no reply then move on there loss .

But would it not be a lot easier to just mail back saying sorry not interested rather than ignore ? Or just block ? Genuinely asking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I typically send one mail , if it's someone I think I'd really like to meet and they don't reply I'll send a wink few days later. If still no reply then move on there loss .

But would it not be a lot easier to just mail back saying sorry not interested rather than ignore ? Or just block ? Genuinely asking "

I genuinely do try to respond saying "thanks for the message. I'm afraid you're not my type but happy tabbing though". And in my experience, guys are akways really grateful for the response and polite about it. But when you've 213 messages in your inbox, you don't get to even read them before he's on message number 6 badgering you for a full explanation. Once I see that, he can fuck off with any hope of a reply.

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards


"I typically send one mail , if it's someone I think I'd really like to meet and they don't reply I'll send a wink few days later. If still no reply then move on there loss .

But would it not be a lot easier to just mail back saying sorry not interested rather than ignore ? Or just block ? Genuinely asking

I genuinely do try to respond saying "thanks for the message. I'm afraid you're not my type but happy tabbing though". And in my experience, guys are akways really grateful for the response and polite about it. But when you've 213 messages in your inbox, you don't get to even read them before he's on message number 6 badgering you for a full explanation. Once I see that, he can fuck off with any hope of a reply. "

That's fair haha maybe just block then.

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"I typically send one mail , if it's someone I think I'd really like to meet and they don't reply I'll send a wink few days later. If still no reply then move on there loss .

But would it not be a lot easier to just mail back saying sorry not interested rather than ignore ? Or just block ? Genuinely asking "

Replying politely sometimes just encourages abuse. Or they think they can change your mind. A no thanks reply isn't an invitation for chat...but some think it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is empathy and understanding it from the females' perspective, due to the sheer volume of messages they receive. Obviously messages get lost and don't get a reply in the scramble. Status updates maybe prompt an extra message as guys try to start a conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Problem is empathy and understanding it from the females' perspective, due to the sheer volume of messages they receive. Obviously messages get lost and don't get a reply in the scramble. Status updates maybe prompt an extra message as guys try to start a conversation "

I really don't think that's what it is though. It's not really about how the woman feels that concerns me. We just roll our eyes, call them a fucking weirdo to our friends and move on. What I'm talking about is WHY they have zero self respect? I mean, it's so undignified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem is empathy and understanding it from the females' perspective, due to the sheer volume of messages they receive. Obviously messages get lost and don't get a reply in the scramble. Status updates maybe prompt an extra message as guys try to start a conversation

I really don't think that's what it is though. It's not really about how the woman feels that concerns me. We just roll our eyes, call them a fucking weirdo to our friends and move on. What I'm talking about is WHY they have zero self respect? I mean, it's so undignified! "

Unfortunately I don't have an answer for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I typically send one mail , if it's someone I think I'd really like to meet and they don't reply I'll send a wink few days later. If still no reply then move on there loss .

But would it not be a lot easier to just mail back saying sorry not interested rather than ignore ? Or just block ? Genuinely asking "

Done this plenty of times then asked to explain myself. Over and back I got fed up and started ignoring and blocking instead.

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards


"Problem is empathy and understanding it from the females' perspective, due to the sheer volume of messages they receive. Obviously messages get lost and don't get a reply in the scramble. Status updates maybe prompt an extra message as guys try to start a conversation

I really don't think that's what it is though. It's not really about how the woman feels that concerns me. We just roll our eyes, call them a fucking weirdo to our friends and move on. What I'm talking about is WHY they have zero self respect? I mean, it's so undignified! "

Yes to be fair I'd have to agree there. Not cool at all.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

If you have so many unread messages that you can’t get through them, would you not bulk delete and start again?

Personally, I’m a disaster for forgetting to reply especially if I don’t mark the message as unread so sometimes it’s no harm in sending another message.

If I’m not interested and the person keeps messaging, I’ll block them for both our sakes.

I honestly don’t understand why people give out above receiving lots of mail. The delete and block buttons are easily accessible and you’re under no obligation to reply.

I’m presuming some guys keep messaging because their first message wasn’t replied to and where’s the harm in trying again. If they’ve been told that you’re not interested and they still keep messaging, they’re annoying shites and should be blocked.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I find desperation in a woman to be extremely attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Jesus. That is a bleak description of the male mind.

I dont think its a description of the male mind.

More the mind of someone who.will send 5 unanswered mails and resort to begging people for sex on here

Fair! I just haven't personally heard of any women going to those lengths. Happy to be proven wrong though! "

No the times I have had those mails were from guys too.

Realistically a desperate female on here wont have to mail more than once to get a response though will they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have so many unread messages that you can’t get through them, would you not bulk delete and start again?

Personally, I’m a disaster for forgetting to reply especially if I don’t mark the message as unread so sometimes it’s no harm in sending another message.

If I’m not interested and the person keeps messaging, I’ll block them for both our sakes.

I honestly don’t understand why people give out above receiving lots of mail. The delete and block buttons are easily accessible and you’re under no obligation to reply.

I’m presuming some guys keep messaging because their first message wasn’t replied to and where’s the harm in trying again. If they’ve been told that you’re not interested and they still keep messaging, they’re annoying shites and should be blocked. "

Sure, I could bulk delete but I'm not here to ask for advice on how to handle lots of messages. And I doubt it'll make these weirdos and less weird.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

700% agree with this - perfectly nice seeming dudes ruin their first perfectly nice message by sending a follow up before any reasonable person would have a chance to reply.

Repeated messages after that are pure desperation or sometimes pure anger!

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"If you have so many unread messages that you can’t get through them, would you not bulk delete and start again?

Personally, I’m a disaster for forgetting to reply especially if I don’t mark the message as unread so sometimes it’s no harm in sending another message.

If I’m not interested and the person keeps messaging, I’ll block them for both our sakes.

I honestly don’t understand why people give out above receiving lots of mail. The delete and block buttons are easily accessible and you’re under no obligation to reply.

I’m presuming some guys keep messaging because their first message wasn’t replied to and where’s the harm in trying again. If they’ve been told that you’re not interested and they still keep messaging, they’re annoying shites and should be blocked.

Sure, I could bulk delete but I'm not here to ask for advice on how to handle lots of messages. And I doubt it'll make these weirdos and less weird. "

Ok, you’ve identified that they’re weird so why worry about it. Block and move on. There will always be weirdos

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By *ightower353Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Just don’t fuck up if you’d do get the reply lads, speaking from experience unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just don’t fuck up if you’d do get the reply lads, speaking from experience unfortunately "

Cos then you'd have to harass her until she literally blocked your number from her phone, and then start messaging her friends about her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have so many unread messages that you can’t get through them, would you not bulk delete and start again?

Personally, I’m a disaster for forgetting to reply especially if I don’t mark the message as unread so sometimes it’s no harm in sending another message.

If I’m not interested and the person keeps messaging, I’ll block them for both our sakes.

I honestly don’t understand why people give out above receiving lots of mail. The delete and block buttons are easily accessible and you’re under no obligation to reply.

I’m presuming some guys keep messaging because their first message wasn’t replied to and where’s the harm in trying again. If they’ve been told that you’re not interested and they still keep messaging, they’re annoying shites and should be blocked.

Sure, I could bulk delete but I'm not here to ask for advice on how to handle lots of messages. And I doubt it'll make these weirdos and less weird.

Ok, you’ve identified that they’re weird so why worry about it. Block and move on. There will always be weirdos"

Unfortunately too many of them just go ahead and set up new profiles once they've realised you've blocked them!

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just don’t fuck up if you’d do get the reply lads, speaking from experience unfortunately

Cos then you'd have to harass her until she literally blocked your number from her phone, and then start messaging her friends about her? "

Bro. Wow. The irony in posting this on a thread titled Desperation...

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Some of them are probably reading this thread right now

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh.

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work??? "
if your not happy about it use the tools the site offers you and block people from messaging you and do your own search for those you are seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don’t fuck up if you’d do get the reply lads, speaking from experience unfortunately

Cos then you'd have to harass her until she literally blocked your number from her phone, and then start messaging her friends about her?

Bro. Wow. The irony in posting this on a thread titled Desperation..."

Well this thread was fun while it lasted....

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Those are the ones that I block, not cause they bother me but for there own good. I can understand the odd repeat to replies but when there’s more then 3 it’s just weird, or worse you have no thanked them and they continue to messages.

A lot of guys seem to have the no means keep asking until they cave mentality. It don’t work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those are the ones that I block, not cause they bother me but for there own good. I can understand the odd repeat to replies but when there’s more then 3 it’s just weird, or worse you have no thanked them and they continue to messages.

A lot of guys seem to have the no means keep asking until they cave mentality. It don’t work "

This is called the notebook effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those are the ones that I block, not cause they bother me but for there own good. I can understand the odd repeat to replies but when there’s more then 3 it’s just weird, or worse you have no thanked them and they continue to messages.

A lot of guys seem to have the no means keep asking until they cave mentality. It don’t work "

You haven't blocked me yet.. Maybe I should have shut my mouth

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever


"Just don’t fuck up if you’d do get the reply lads, speaking from experience unfortunately

Cos then you'd have to harass her until she literally blocked your number from her phone, and then start messaging her friends about her? "

Well this just got awkward

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Its just the same when woman want a man they cant have....

I only need to be told once and then its bye bye never to ask again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point in harassing people? If it's not exceptable in the real world why should it be here? Pinch of salt and All that lads..

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh.

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work??? if your not happy about it use the tools the site offers you and block people from messaging you and do your own search for those you are seeking "

Don’t be silly - if you did this you wouldn’t be able to start threads crying about receiving unwanted mail on Fab

#firstworldproblems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yeah I'd personally want it to be a mutual want. If I feel a person isn't into me I just don't try.

Another reason why I don't mail first as I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea. "

100% this. There is almost nothing (fab related) that I can think of worse than a pity meet.

Woeful.

If the genuine mutual want is missing the meet is pointless. Its never going to end well. Creepy for the person who gives in and, in my opinion, ultimately harmful to the person pleading. Not to mention the other fabbers they try the same craic on.

Message read/deleted but no reply? Use that private note feature. 'messaged, no reply. Not interested'. Then keep positive and move on. Lots more out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find desperation in a woman to be extremely attractive. "

Ofcourse you would

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

Now, can you imagine the same situation in real life? I have a client who is calling or popping into the office to invite me for a date. Everybody, including my boss is laughing at me that I should have mercy on him and go out.

Funny? Not so much for me. I know a few karate tricks to put him down and see he cries like a baby but he might like it! No thanks!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I find desperation in a woman to be extremely attractive.

Ofcourse you would "

I am indeed an open book

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

It reminds me of Dumb and Dumber

Lloyd Christmas:

What are the chances of a guy like you and a girl like me... ending up together?

Mary Swanson:

Not good.

Lloyd Christmas:

Not good like one in a hundred?

Mary Swanson:

I'd say more like one in a million.

Lloyd Christmas:

So you're telling me there's a chance?

Some guys are hoping theres a chance when you dont reply, if I message a couple or lady, I make the point that if I dont receive a reply I'll assume theres no interest and not bother the person again, plus FAB warns you that you messaged and didnt get a reply previously so why stick your neck out on the blo k for chopping a second time, I guess theres no fixing stupid, what I cant figure out is at that point some get rude and insulting, and women talk, it's pretty much like putting nails in your own coffin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot.. but have also had guys saying in the message I’m re messaging as it then sends them to the top of the message list. They’re aware of many messages a lady on here is likely to get per day! Perseverance I suppose?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh.

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work??? if your not happy about it use the tools the site offers you and block people from messaging you and do your own search for those you are seeking

Don’t be silly - if you did this you wouldn’t be able to start threads crying about receiving unwanted mail on Fab

#firstworldproblems"
Thats so true lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It reminds me of Dumb and Dumber

Lloyd Christmas:

What are the chances of a guy like you and a girl like me... ending up together?

Mary Swanson:

Not good.

Lloyd Christmas:

Not good like one in a hundred?

Mary Swanson:

I'd say more like one in a million.

Lloyd Christmas:

So you're telling me there's a chance?

Some guys are hoping theres a chance when you dont reply, if I message a couple or lady, I make the point that if I dont receive a reply I'll assume theres no interest and not bother the person again, plus FAB warns you that you messaged and didnt get a reply previously so why stick your neck out on the blo k for chopping a second time, I guess theres no fixing stupid, what I cant figure out is at that point some get rude and insulting, and women talk, it's pretty much like putting nails in your own coffin.

"

Exactly! It's so funny like.

Oh, this woman isn't interested in me. I know!! I'll make myself less attractive and see if that changes her mind...

Where is the logic???

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I think its sexy, when the girl can hardly control herself she is that desperate for my cock.

Sometimes it is a bit annoying, specially when youre in work and youre like "look i cant take the day off to give it to you", and they are in a bit of a mood when you call around later and have to leave after 3 hours of fucking.

but its good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think its sexy, when the girl can hardly control herself she is that desperate for my cock.

Sometimes it is a bit annoying, specially when youre in work and youre like "look i cant take the day off to give it to you", and they are in a bit of a mood when you call around later and have to leave after 3 hours of fucking.

but its good."

Yes. I also like fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh.

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work??? "

People (guys and girls) do it, coz it's a quick, hassle free way of chancing their arm again. Takes a few seconds and it might work that time. Pretty understandable really and definitely not worth reading any more into it.

Browsing profiles isn’t nearly as time-consuming as mixing with people in a social context.

It's simply a convenience and the opportunity to meet others that you possibly never would otherwise (in the normal social setting).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair! I just haven't personally heard of any women going to those lengths."

It absolutely does happen and is not an exclusive action for men only

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fair! I just haven't personally heard of any women going to those lengths.

It absolutely does happen and is not an exclusive action for men only "

Shurrup u.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair! I just haven't personally heard of any women going to those lengths.

It absolutely does happen and is not an exclusive action for men only

Shurrup u. "

Shiver me timbers

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I've one woman on my block list for repeatedly mailing me but there is a much longer scary story behind that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've one woman on my block list for repeatedly mailing me but there is a much longer scary story behind that. "

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath


"I've one woman on my block list for repeatedly mailing me but there is a much longer scary story behind that. "

I've several blocked, for constant bombarding me with pussy pics and stating "I'm in Ratoath today,wanna fuck at lunchtime?"

Im like try a conversation first, us fellas aren't that easy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've one woman on my block list for repeatedly mailing me but there is a much longer scary story behind that.

I've several blocked, for constant bombarding me with pussy pics and stating "I'm in Ratoath today,wanna fuck at lunchtime?"

Im like try a conversation first, us fellas aren't that easy lol"

No? I would've thought that approach would appeal to your sense of opportunism!

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"I've one woman on my block list for repeatedly mailing me but there is a much longer scary story behind that.

I've several blocked, for constant bombarding me with pussy pics and stating "I'm in Ratoath today,wanna fuck at lunchtime?"

Im like try a conversation first, us fellas aren't that easy lol"

Believe me if you knew the story you'd have her blocked too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've one woman on my block list for repeatedly mailing me but there is a much longer scary story behind that.

I've several blocked, for constant bombarding me with pussy pics and stating "I'm in Ratoath today,wanna fuck at lunchtime?"

Im like try a conversation first, us fellas aren't that easy lol

Believe me if you knew the story you'd have her blocked too."

I really really wanna know the story. Am I allowed to know?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I get this a lot.. but have also had guys saying in the message I’m re messaging as it then sends them to the top of the message list. They’re aware of many messages a lady on here is likely to get per day! Perseverance I suppose? "

For once, I'm guilty of this today.

A lady messaged me as a result of my response to the Hotlist thread, with a note that she'd like to meet me sometime.

I responded with a humorous message.

She hasn't read it yet.

I winked her and she winked back.

I have since sent a message to say I would be delighted to meet her for coffee.

I understand that her mailbox is probably mental, which is why I sent a second message.

It's not something that I normally do within a week or more of an initial message.

Just saying, sometimes there's a reason for multiple messages.

I will not be mailing again though, if theres no response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get this a lot.. but have also had guys saying in the message I’m re messaging as it then sends them to the top of the message list. They’re aware of many messages a lady on here is likely to get per day! Perseverance I suppose?

For once, I'm guilty of this today.

A lady messaged me as a result of my response to the Hotlist thread, with a note that she'd like to meet me sometime.

I responded with a humorous message.

She hasn't read it yet.

I winked her and she winked back.

I have since sent a message to say I would be delighted to meet her for coffee.

I understand that her mailbox is probably mental, which is why I sent a second message.

It's not something that I normally do within a week or more of an initial message.

Just saying, sometimes there's a reason for multiple messages.

I will not be mailing again though, if theres no response. "

Yeah this is obviously a completely different scenario though. She showed her interest so you know you're onto a winner.

I don't even necessarily mind the multiple messages. I mind the..

"hey how r u"

"do u wanna meet"

"wanna watch me wank on cam"

"I'm gonna fuck your ass so hard"

"why won't you reply"

"fucking snob"

"what's your problem, I tick all your boxes"

"seriously, why won't you reply"

"please, I'll show you a great time"

That is gross.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I get this a lot.. but have also had guys saying in the message I’m re messaging as it then sends them to the top of the message list. They’re aware of many messages a lady on here is likely to get per day! Perseverance I suppose?

For once, I'm guilty of this today.

A lady messaged me as a result of my response to the Hotlist thread, with a note that she'd like to meet me sometime.

I responded with a humorous message.

She hasn't read it yet.

I winked her and she winked back.

I have since sent a message to say I would be delighted to meet her for coffee.

I understand that her mailbox is probably mental, which is why I sent a second message.

It's not something that I normally do within a week or more of an initial message.

Just saying, sometimes there's a reason for multiple messages.

I will not be mailing again though, if theres no response.

Yeah this is obviously a completely different scenario though. She showed her interest so you know you're onto a winner.

I don't even necessarily mind the multiple messages. I mind the..

"hey how r u"

"do u wanna meet"

"wanna watch me wank on cam"

"I'm gonna fuck your ass so hard"

"why won't you reply"

"fucking snob"

"what's your problem, I tick all your boxes"

"seriously, why won't you reply"

"please, I'll show you a great time"

That is gross. "

those responses

How could you not reply?

I know! The Block button is larger than all the other ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

those responses

How could you not reply?

I know! The Block button is larger than all the other ones "

Yeah, unfortunately you just can't always block them on time!

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

All of those are visible without opening so easy to delete or block. Maybe it's an age thing but I have never had 200 or more messages in a day not even on the day I joined many years ago and most women I know here would say similar so take the volume as a cimpliment. As to why people send repeat messages, it's most likely that they send to a large selection daily and don't keep track of rejections.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Fair! I just haven't personally heard of any women going to those lengths.

It absolutely does happen and is not an exclusive action for men only "

But my persistence will wear you down someday right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All of those are visible without opening so easy to delete or block. Maybe it's an age thing but I have never had 200 or more messages in a day not even on the day I joined many years ago and most women I know here would say similar so take the volume as a cimpliment. As to why people send repeat messages, it's most likely that they send to a large selection daily and don't keep track of rejections."

Actually they're not visible without opening. I don't pay for fab so can only see one page of messages at a time. Often a few hours goes by and I don't check my messages and when I go back into them, I've a whole new page.

And once again, I'm not complaining that men send repeat messages.

I'm really just commenting on how little self respect *some* men seem to have when they start begging for a reply.

And the argument that they don't keep track of rejections would be fair enough - except that they often ask why I won't reply! So...

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

I have sent women numerous messages . They were neither read nor replied to. Weeks later I got a reply out the blue with an apology . She got so many messages they were either bulk deleted or simply not read. And I got a meet out of it ( and a repeat). So I message someone until I get a reply or get blocked or a message is read and not replied to. And no I’m not desperate . It’s just the way the site is with women getting hundreds of messages even with the use of filters .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work??? "

Please use the block button and save yourself some time and energy. Every lady has 100's of mails awaiting them each day.Remeber this is not a real world situation and although I do not condone a mans behaviour and insulting is not cool I can understand the frustration but again this is the online world not real world so it's unfortnueltly part of the territory. For a lot of ladies it's the first time they have had the power to pick and choose who and when they speak to guys and the shoe is now on the other foot and they now become condescending and ignorant. Pick 10 profiles now and read the demands ladies have in order to get a response from a guy. Again not real world and actually laughable.

Everyone needs to cop on and see the site for what it is. Like minded people having fun with like minded people. Here to have fun with like minded people.

Feel free to block me xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work???

Please use the block button and save yourself some time and energy. Every lady has 100's of mails awaiting them each day.Remeber this is not a real world situation and although I do not condone a mans behaviour and insulting is not cool I can understand the frustration but again this is the online world not real world so it's unfortnueltly part of the territory. For a lot of ladies it's the first time they have had the power to pick and choose who and when they speak to guys and the shoe is now on the other foot and they now become condescending and ignorant. Pick 10 profiles now and read the demands ladies have in order to get a response from a guy. Again not real world and actually laughable.

Everyone needs to cop on and see the site for what it is. Like minded people having fun with like minded people. Here to have fun with like minded people.

Feel free to block me xxx "

Jeeeeeeze. Must have hit a nerve there...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have sent women numerous messages . They were neither read nor replied to. Weeks later I got a reply out the blue with an apology . She got so many messages they were either bulk deleted or simply not read. And I got a meet out of it ( and a repeat). So I message someone until I get a reply or get blocked or a message is read and not replied to. And no I’m not desperate . It’s just the way the site is with women getting hundreds of messages even with the use of filters . "

Once again, it's not necessarily the repeat messages that bother me. I understand what that's about and I get it. What I'm talking here is about desperation.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"All of those are visible without opening so easy to delete or block. Maybe it's an age thing but I have never had 200 or more messages in a day not even on the day I joined many years ago and most women I know here would say similar so take the volume as a cimpliment. As to why people send repeat messages, it's most likely that they send to a large selection daily and don't keep track of rejections."

I agree no one gets 100s of messages a day. They accumulate over a period of time if women don't bother to delete their messages.

Repeat messages are unfortunately part of it so just block after the 2nd/3rd message. Gotta take the crap with the good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All of those are visible without opening so easy to delete or block. Maybe it's an age thing but I have never had 200 or more messages in a day not even on the day I joined many years ago and most women I know here would say similar so take the volume as a cimpliment. As to why people send repeat messages, it's most likely that they send to a large selection daily and don't keep track of rejections.

I agree no one gets 100s of messages a day. They accumulate over a period of time if women don't bother to delete their messages.

Repeat messages are unfortunately part of it so just block after the 2nd/3rd message. Gotta take the crap with the good "

Well this is awkward but I definitely have done... If you upload a pic and it ends up in that hot pics yoke, or you put up a particularly slutty status u can easily get 200 messages in a day!

And once again, I'm not really complaining about repeat messages. More so about desperation when men beg you to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work???

Please use the block button and save yourself some time and energy. Every lady has 100's of mails awaiting them each day.Remeber this is not a real world situation and although I do not condone a mans behaviour and insulting is not cool I can understand the frustration but again this is the online world not real world so it's unfortnueltly part of the territory. For a lot of ladies it's the first time they have had the power to pick and choose who and when they speak to guys and the shoe is now on the other foot and they now become condescending and ignorant. Pick 10 profiles now and read the demands ladies have in order to get a response from a guy. Again not real world and actually laughable.

Everyone needs to cop on and see the site for what it is. Like minded people having fun with like minded people. Here to have fun with like minded people.

Feel free to block me xxx

Jeeeeeeze. Must have hit a nerve there... "

My father always said "Presumtion is the mother of all fucks ups" so I never presume anymore

I am merely putting my point of view across and that's it. How it's taken I up to the individual.

Thank you for your reply

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"All of those are visible without opening so easy to delete or block. Maybe it's an age thing but I have never had 200 or more messages in a day not even on the day I joined many years ago and most women I know here would say similar so take the volume as a cimpliment. As to why people send repeat messages, it's most likely that they send to a large selection daily and don't keep track of rejections.

I agree no one gets 100s of messages a day. They accumulate over a period of time if women don't bother to delete their messages.

Repeat messages are unfortunately part of it so just block after the 2nd/3rd message. Gotta take the crap with the good

Well this is awkward but I definitely have done... If you upload a pic and it ends up in that hot pics yoke, or you put up a particularly slutty status u can easily get 200 messages in a day!

And once again, I'm not really complaining about repeat messages. More so about desperation when men beg you to reply. "

Filters my dear become you best friend ive made the top 5 many a time and those lovely filters do wonders for me.. I've nearly the filters filtered at this stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work???

Please use the block button and save yourself some time and energy. Every lady has 100's of mails awaiting them each day.Remeber this is not a real world situation and although I do not condone a mans behaviour and insulting is not cool I can understand the frustration but again this is the online world not real world so it's unfortnueltly part of the territory. For a lot of ladies it's the first time they have had the power to pick and choose who and when they speak to guys and the shoe is now on the other foot and they now become condescending and ignorant. Pick 10 profiles now and read the demands ladies have in order to get a response from a guy. Again not real world and actually laughable.

Everyone needs to cop on and see the site for what it is. Like minded people having fun with like minded people. Here to have fun with like minded people.

Feel free to block me xxx

Jeeeeeeze. Must have hit a nerve there... "

In Fairness to Dathai there is an element of truth in what he is saying. Some women can become very rude to guys here as they feel they can pick and choose who they want. Its not right if men are obnoxious if they don't get a reply or if they don't get the response they hoped for . One easy way of solving this is to press the block button then its simple they can't repeatedly message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work???

Please use the block button and save yourself some time and energy. Every lady has 100's of mails awaiting them each day.Remeber this is not a real world situation and although I do not condone a mans behaviour and insulting is not cool I can understand the frustration but again this is the online world not real world so it's unfortnueltly part of the territory. For a lot of ladies it's the first time they have had the power to pick and choose who and when they speak to guys and the shoe is now on the other foot and they now become condescending and ignorant. Pick 10 profiles now and read the demands ladies have in order to get a response from a guy. Again not real world and actually laughable.

Everyone needs to cop on and see the site for what it is. Like minded people having fun with like minded people. Here to have fun with like minded people.

Feel free to block me xxx

Jeeeeeeze. Must have hit a nerve there...

In Fairness to Dathai there is an element of truth in what he is saying. Some women can become very rude to guys here as they feel they can pick and choose who they want. Its not right if men are obnoxious if they don't get a reply or if they don't get the response they hoped for . One easy way of solving this is to press the block button then its simple they can't repeatedly message you.

"

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work???

Please use the block button and save yourself some time and energy. Every lady has 100's of mails awaiting them each day.Remeber this is not a real world situation and although I do not condone a mans behaviour and insulting is not cool I can understand the frustration but again this is the online world not real world so it's unfortnueltly part of the territory. For a lot of ladies it's the first time they have had the power to pick and choose who and when they speak to guys and the shoe is now on the other foot and they now become condescending and ignorant. Pick 10 profiles now and read the demands ladies have in order to get a response from a guy. Again not real world and actually laughable.

Everyone needs to cop on and see the site for what it is. Like minded people having fun with like minded people. Here to have fun with like minded people.

Feel free to block me xxx "

Yeah some profiles are like war and peace ..... zzzzzzzzz after the 5th page of demands, do’s, donts, must

Haves , musnt haves , I lose the will to live and immediately block the stuck up idiots

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

In Fairness to Dathai there is an element of truth in what he is saying. Some women can become very rude to guys here as they feel they can pick and choose who they want. Its not right if men are obnoxious if they don't get a reply or if they don't get the response they hoped for . One easy way of solving this is to press the block button then its simple they can't repeatedly message you.

"

I dunno. I feel like you're saying that girls specifying they're type on their profile gives men permission to throw all self respect and dignity out the window. Which, I'm sure isn't what you mean cos like... That's a bit mad.

All I know is, I'm way too proud to ever message a man asking him why he doesn't like me. Regardless of what it says on his profile. I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It feels ridiculous to even have to say this... But desperation is NOT sexy!

I regularly have guys message me over and over again without ever getting a response from me. With every message they get more desperate, asking me why I won't reply and why they're not good enough. Often, they'll outright beg. It's stomach churning tbh

I'm sure some women do this too, but given that my experience is only of men, I dunno.

Why do people do this though? On what planet do they think that kind of approach could possibly end well for them? Does it ever work???

Please use the block button and save yourself some time and energy. Every lady has 100's of mails awaiting them each day.Remeber this is not a real world situation and although I do not condone a mans behaviour and insulting is not cool I can understand the frustration but again this is the online world not real world so it's unfortnueltly part of the territory. For a lot of ladies it's the first time they have had the power to pick and choose who and when they speak to guys and the shoe is now on the other foot and they now become condescending and ignorant. Pick 10 profiles now and read the demands ladies have in order to get a response from a guy. Again not real world and actually laughable.

Everyone needs to cop on and see the site for what it is. Like minded people having fun with like minded people. Here to have fun with like minded people.

Feel free to block me xxx

Yeah some profiles are like war and peace ..... zzzzzzzzz after the 5th page of demands, do’s, donts, must

Haves , musnt haves , I lose the will to live and immediately block the stuck up idiots"

Using the block button see it's easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In Fairness to Dathai there is an element of truth in what he is saying. Some women can become very rude to guys here as they feel they can pick and choose who they want. Its not right if men are obnoxious if they don't get a reply or if they don't get the response they hoped for . One easy way of solving this is to press the block button then its simple they can't repeatedly message you.

I dunno. I feel like you're saying that girls specifying they're type on their profile gives men permission to throw all self respect and dignity out the window. Which, I'm sure isn't what you mean cos like... That's a bit mad.

All I know is, I'm way too proud to ever message a man asking him why he doesn't like me. Regardless of what it says on his profile. I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride. "

So coffee @10 in Costa ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

In Fairness to Dathai there is an element of truth in what he is saying. Some women can become very rude to guys here as they feel they can pick and choose who they want. Its not right if men are obnoxious if they don't get a reply or if they don't get the response they hoped for . One easy way of solving this is to press the block button then its simple they can't repeatedly message you.

I dunno. I feel like you're saying that girls specifying they're type on their profile gives men permission to throw all self respect and dignity out the window. Which, I'm sure isn't what you mean cos like... That's a bit mad.

All I know is, I'm way too proud to ever message a man asking him why he doesn't like me. Regardless of what it says on his profile. I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride.

So coffee @10 in Costa ? "

Only if you beg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In Fairness to Dathai there is an element of truth in what he is saying. Some women can become very rude to guys here as they feel they can pick and choose who they want. Its not right if men are obnoxious if they don't get a reply or if they don't get the response they hoped for . One easy way of solving this is to press the block button then its simple they can't repeatedly message you.

I dunno. I feel like you're saying that girls specifying they're type on their profile gives men permission to throw all self respect and dignity out the window. Which, I'm sure isn't what you mean cos like... That's a bit mad.

All I know is, I'm way too proud to ever message a man asking him why he doesn't like me. Regardless of what it says on his profile. I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride.

So coffee @10 in Costa ?

Only if you beg "

I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In Fairness to Dathai there is an element of truth in what he is saying. Some women can become very rude to guys here as they feel they can pick and choose who they want. Its not right if men are obnoxious if they don't get a reply or if they don't get the response they hoped for . One easy way of solving this is to press the block button then its simple they can't repeatedly message you.

I dunno. I feel like you're saying that girls specifying they're type on their profile gives men permission to throw all self respect and dignity out the window. Which, I'm sure isn't what you mean cos like... That's a bit mad.

All I know is, I'm way too proud to ever message a man asking him why he doesn't like me. Regardless of what it says on his profile. I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride. "

Thats absolutely not what I am saying. What I am saying is that if women don't want to be repeatedly messaged by certain males who they feel are acting out of desperation. A simple thing to stop that happening is to block . Problem solved.

We all are allowed to specify what we like that is the whole object to being here to find just that. There is nothing on my post to say that anything I've said would indicate that I'm saying that specifying thatjust gives guys the permission to throw themselves at women losing their self respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Only if you beg

I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride.

"

If only there were more like u!

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Only if you beg

I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride.

If only there were more like u! "

I'm a one off see you at 10 Costa a Dublin road Belfast

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Only if you beg

I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride.

If only there were more like u!

I'm a one off see you at 10 Costa a Dublin road Belfast "

Yeah sure...

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Only if you beg

I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride.

If only there were more like u!

I'm a one off see you at 10 Costa a Dublin road Belfast

Yeah sure... "

I'm running 10 mins over this is how I take my coffee : My fave kind of 1 on 1 play is very slow, sensual and teasing. I looooove to be dominated and edged until I'm begging. Then make me orgasm over and over until I'm begging for a break and I'll be a very happy boy

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In Fairness to Dathai there is an element of truth in what he is saying. Some women can become very rude to guys here as they feel they can pick and choose who they want. Its not right if men are obnoxious if they don't get a reply or if they don't get the response they hoped for . One easy way of solving this is to press the block button then its simple they can't repeatedly message you.

I dunno. I feel like you're saying that girls specifying they're type on their profile gives men permission to throw all self respect and dignity out the window. Which, I'm sure isn't what you mean cos like... That's a bit mad.

All I know is, I'm way too proud to ever message a man asking him why he doesn't like me. Regardless of what it says on his profile. I can't think of anything more mortifying tbh. And I almost feel sorry for this dudes cos clearly, they have no pride.

Thats absolutely not what I am saying. What I am saying is that if women don't want to be repeatedly messaged by certain males who they feel are acting out of desperation. A simple thing to stop that happening is to block . Problem solved.

We all are allowed to specify what we like that is the whole object to being here to find just that. There is nothing on my post to say that anything I've said would indicate that I'm saying that specifying thatjust gives guys the permission to throw themselves at women losing their self respect "

Here here

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