FabSwingers.com forum: Does ANYONE like bi guys?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’m back after a long break from fab and it seems now that single women and couples really have no interest in chatting to, let alone meeting bi guys? Are guys just putting up straight and playing straight to get meets? What is your biggest hang up about meeting bi guys? Honestly?

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By *ligoGuy19Man
over a year ago

Town

All I'll say to this is that this website proves my theory that no man is 100% straight. Despite what their profile might say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’m back after a long break from fab and it seems now that single women and couples really have no interest in chatting to, let alone meeting bi guys? Are guys just putting up straight and playing straight to get meets? What is your biggest hang up about meeting bi guys? Honestly?

Are you bi? Your profile days straight

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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago

some where in outer space

Hhmmm Ur profile says straight

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Could imagine taking me by the hand to meet your mom

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Bi guys tend to like bi guys.

But in all seriousness, for a bi guy, Fab is a terrible place to be because the biphobia on this site is extreme. The judgement laid out on guys who play with guys, no matter how they identify, is constant. Like, daily threads almost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the problem is bi. I tend to contact couples that have a bi male on profile. Some reply, some don't.

I see straight men, women and couples having the same issues.

I see no response as no interest and much preferable than back and forth messages leading no where.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single girl , my preference is for bi guys & I know I'm not alone with that . Obviously, there has to be an attraction there so not gonna meet every bi guy that messages me . Everyone has preferences , bi, straight & everything in between . We all have our own tastes & attactions & we have to respect other peoples , whether we agree with them or not.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I find this odd.

The amount of women here that say they fantasised about a bi MMF and then aren't winking/ messaging the said bi guys is confusing.

Then again, if the OP has straight on his profile but is bi, then tough shit Paddy!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Hhmmm Ur profile says straight"

Then the OP is right...even he "doesn't like" bi guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning all, thanks for all the replies. So just to clear up I am bi but had switched to the description straight on here to see if it makes a difference. It’s nice to see I’m not the only guy on here that noticed the “biphobia” but it’s refreshing to see that there are women who still want guys who play with guys

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Biphobia is certainly rampant and very frustrating as it makes it much harder to find the bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all, thanks for all the replies. So just to clear up I am bi but had switched to the description straight on here to see if it makes a difference. It’s nice to see I’m not the only guy on here that noticed the “biphobia” but it’s refreshing to see that there are women who still want guys who play with guys

If I wanted to look for a bi guy i'd look for a bi guy, everyone has their preferences why lie/omit the truth on your profile. Yes there is bi-phobia here but just be honest about what your are and what you want and leave the phobia people to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your dead right, I’m not switching it again... if someone doesn’t want you for being bi then they are not the person you want to be meeting anyways. Thanks

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

How is someone's preference for not wanting to meet a bi guy suddenly "bi-phobia"??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is someone's preference for not wanting to meet a bi guy suddenly "bi-phobia"??

It's the reason why someone prefers not to meet a bi-guy, not a "preference" itself.

Show me one single person who has issues with and has a preference not to meet a bi-woman.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've met bi guys... and I'm now in a long term relationship with a very sexy bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bi guys.. I think it’s hot. A bi mmf is definitely on my fucket list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I'll say to this is that this website proves my theory that no man is 100% straight. Despite what their profile might say. "

Your theory is wrong

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"All I'll say to this is that this website proves my theory that no man is 100% straight. Despite what their profile might say.

Your theory is wrong"

Thou dost protest too much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How is someone's preference for not wanting to meet a bi guy suddenly "bi-phobia"??

Well if a couple is willing to meet a guy because he hasn’t played with other guys but has issue with meeting a guy because he admits to having met other guys, isn’t that a judgement based completely upon sexual preference and therefore a phobia of sorts?

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula

No problems meeting bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is someone's preference for not wanting to meet a bi guy suddenly "bi-phobia"??

No not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is someone's preference for not wanting to meet a bi guy suddenly "bi-phobia"??

No not at all. "

What is it then? Please explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I'll say to this is that this website proves my theory that no man is 100% straight. Despite what their profile might say.

Your theory is wrong

Thou dost protest too much

No protest here! All I'm saying is a massive generalisation coming from a theory by a guy basing it on the fact that met 1 guy 4 months ago is inaccurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is someone's preference for not wanting to meet a bi guy suddenly "bi-phobia"??

No not at all.

What is it then? Please explain "

I don't want to eat butter cause I don't like it, I prefer my bread without it, I wouldn't eat a sandwich that had butter on it but scraped off. That doesn't mean I have a phobia of butter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is someone's preference for not wanting to meet a bi guy suddenly "bi-phobia"??

No not at all.

What is it then? Please explain

I don't want to eat butter cause I don't like it, I prefer my bread without it, I wouldn't eat a sandwich that had butter on it but scraped off. That doesn't mean I have a phobia of butter."

In theory it's a solid logic.

But...

As I asked before - how come nobody ever minds meeting bi women?

Surely same logic would apply?

Also if your logic would apply to bedroom activities, anyone could say "I don't like the look of one of your exes, so now you can't play with my partner" (assuming it's a straight mfm scenario).

Now that I'm rambling...

I keep getting amazed by how most straight men assume that if a guy is bi or gay - he's automatically attracted to all men, so they try to stay away from them as God forbid that gay or bi guy will ever try anything with them.

Bi and gay people do have their own types and preferences too.. and very far and few would overstep a boundary of disrespecting someone else's sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with this.

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By *wingpeterMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

I'm a bi guy and being with couples where the guy is bi.Certainly adds extra spice to a 3some.Have also met females who love bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a fan of bi guys too! Still searchin for a 3some MMF all bi or MMFF all bi

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"How is someone's preference for not wanting to meet a bi guy suddenly "bi-phobia"??

No not at all.

What is it then? Please explain

I don't want to eat butter cause I don't like it, I prefer my bread without it, I wouldn't eat a sandwich that had butter on it but scraped off. That doesn't mean I have a phobia of butter.

In theory it's a solid logic.

But...

As I asked before - how come nobody ever minds meeting bi women?

Surely same logic would apply?

Also if your logic would apply to bedroom activities, anyone could say "I don't like the look of one of your exes, so now you can't play with my partner" (assuming it's a straight mfm scenario).

Now that I'm rambling...

Bi and gay people do have their own types and preferences too.. and very far and few would overstep a boundary of disrespecting someone else's sexuality.

As a wise young man on here once said to me... There's a difference between having a taste in men and a taste for men. Something that stuck in my mind and applies to any gender or sexual orientation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is someone's preference for not wanting to meet a bi guy suddenly "bi-phobia"??

No not at all.

What is it then? Please explain

I don't want to eat butter cause I don't like it, I prefer my bread without it, I wouldn't eat a sandwich that had butter on it but scraped off. That doesn't mean I have a phobia of butter.

In theory it's a solid logic.

But...

As I asked before - how come nobody ever minds meeting bi women?

Surely same logic would apply?

Also if your logic would apply to bedroom activities, anyone could say "I don't like the look of one of your exes, so now you can't play with my partner" (assuming it's a straight mfm scenario).

Now that I'm rambling...

Bi and gay people do have their own types and preferences too.. and very far and few would overstep a boundary of disrespecting someone else's sexuality.

It's like everything else on here, it's personal preference. If a guy would prefer not to have a 3 some with a bi guy, it's not a phobia, it's a preference.

There's couples only want to meet women, does that mean they have a man phobia?

Look up the term phobia before you start labelling anyone that has a different opinion that you as phobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct me if I'm wrong but a phobia is irrational fear of certain encounters imaginary or not. Be it spiders, ghosts, certain actions or even strawberries (yes, some people have a genuine phobia of strawberries!)

Now I still haven't heard a single RATIONAL explanation why and what makes a bi guy so undesirable.

"Just because I said so" isn't a reason.

P.s. not trying to change your mind, you do you, boo, just genuinely want to find out wheres the logic behind this whole thing.

Deep down inside you know and I know that only logic behind it it's because some people find the idea of a man being with a man "icky".

Difference is - if you were so afraid to touch something or someone who touched another man surely you would start with not touching a woman in a first place as it is guaranteed that she touched more men than your any given bi/bi curious guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I'll say to this is that this website proves my theory that no man is 100% straight. Despite what their profile might say. "

I'd say this attitude, which I've seen a lot of, would be giving people an 'irrational' fear. The 'fab straight' attitude. That some people, whether it be women, gay men or bi men, sees men as bi no matter what their profile states. That you are somewhat un-enlightened cause you haven't tried it, your preference means nothing (although that preference means you've a phobia now apparently) A lot of messages I get on here are from bi men or gay men trying to turn me - if I was in a couple, wanting a mfm, why would I risk inviting someone of thay opinion into my bed?

Why bother putting yourself in that position where it could possibly happen?

And for the record, I'm straight, I'm not in a couple, and my name is not boo

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"All I'll say to this is that this website proves my theory that no man is 100% straight. Despite what their profile might say.

Why bother putting yourself in that position where it could possibly happen?

And for the record, I'm straight, I'm not in a couple, and my name is not boo"

100% valid point.

But you're talking about the "don't knock it till you try it" type and not about bisexuality in general.

Women get this kind of type of people in their inbox all the time. i.e. "yes, I'm 20 years outside your preferred Age, but don't knock it till you try it", "I want you to use me as a toilet, don't knock it till you try it", you get the gist.

If I decide to meet a guy, who has some fetish I don't agree or participate in - I'll make sure to set my boundaries and let him know what exactly not to do. Obviously if I will agree to meet such person - they'll have to go through personality check first and foremost.

As a single straight guy - yes, there's not a single reason for you to ever meet any bi guys.

I am taking it from a single female and straight couples perspective.

As if you do decide to invite someone to your bed - you'd find out weather a person is going to push their own agenda on you or not way before inviting them as more often than not bi guys are more than happy not to touch a man who doesn't want to be touched.(couples scenario).

Single women who are scared of single bi men (this one baffles me )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a bucket list for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re looking at the wrong profiles .

We love bi guys joining us . In fact we had a great threesome this morning . He topped Kevin and I fucked him with my strap on . I believe he enjoyed himself very much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’d love to mail ye to find out more about that meet but I’m not in yer age group... would love to hear from ye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re looking at the wrong profiles .

We love bi guys joining us . In fact we had a great threesome this morning . He topped Kevin and I fucked him with my strap on . I believe he enjoyed himself very much

Wow, id love this! So hard for bi single guys to find people like this, or maybe im looking in the wrong places. Ps im in mayo alot hah

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"As a single girl , my preference is for bi guys & I know I'm not alone with that . Obviously, there has to be an attraction there so not gonna meet every bi guy that messages me . Everyone has preferences , bi, straight & everything in between . We all have our own tastes & attactions & we have to respect other peoples , whether we agree with them or not. "

At last a very intelligent person

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