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By *ugs Bunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

south Dublin

This morning I picked up the courage to message a couple whose profile I've been admiring for a long time with the hope of meeting this wkend. That didnt work out but they mentioned that we're on their hotlist. Nice one But that got me thinking wouldn't it be handy if fab notified you if you had eachother on your hotlists? Who agrees?? Maybe they'll do it if enough ask!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to do my perving from the bushes though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I like to perve on my hit list so prefer that the guys don't know lol stalker alert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it would be a good idea - saves the awkwardness of the initial message not knowing if you are their cup of tea or not.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

That is a good idea.

There was a post a few weeks ago where you could tell other posters on the thread if you were on theirs. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that I was on the HLs of a few people, who I always thought were out of my league!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I prefer that they don't know unless I tell them that is lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I prefer that they don't know unless I tell them that is lol "

I always tell myself that all women think like you and just don't want to tell me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is a good idea.

There was a post a few weeks ago where you could tell other posters on the thread if you were on theirs. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that I was on the HLs of a few people, who I always thought were out of my league!"

You're on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just checked mine , 6 guys on mine, two couples cause their pics are unreal.

I prefer that can't tell at least than I can imagine I'm on a few of mines hot list

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast


"That is a good idea.

There was a post a few weeks ago where you could tell other posters on the thread if you were on theirs. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that I was on the HLs of a few people, who I always thought were out of my league!

You're on mine "

That was another pleasant surprise, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is a good idea.

There was a post a few weeks ago where you could tell other posters on the thread if you were on theirs. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that I was on the HLs of a few people, who I always thought were out of my league!

You're on mine

That was another pleasant surprise, lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really need some new additions to my hotlist.

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

Sounds like POF!

Best to keep it secret could build up people’s expectations only for them to get knocked down..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really need some new additions to my hotlist. "

Same, need something to keep me warm this winter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really need some new additions to my hotlist. "

Redhot pics are great! Your after sliding onto my list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be a great idea, it could be an opt-in thing. Good luck trying to get Fab to innovate though Mrs. bugs! Never happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it would be a good idea - saves the awkwardness of the initial message not knowing if you are their cup of tea or not. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a hot couple . He has an amazing cock

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By *ugs Bunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

south Dublin


"I think it would be a great idea, it could be an opt-in thing. Good luck trying to get Fab to innovate though Mrs. bugs! Never happens."

Ah you never know Jay! The website cud do with a bit of updating really. Hope you and Mrs knots are keeping well xx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I prefer that they don't know unless I tell them that is lol

I always tell myself that all women think like you and just don't want to tell me!

Well I guess you'll never know

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I prefer that they don't know unless I tell them that is lol

I always tell myself that all women think like you and just don't want to tell me!

Well I guess you'll never know "

That's not entirely negative

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I tend to tell people they're on mine anyway.... I just blurt it out in a cringeworthly awkward fashion which usually results in an equally awkward 'ermmm... that's nice' moment for them

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

Would love it if the app would tell you when you on each others hot list.

It could make for interesting conversations

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I prefer that they don't know unless I tell them that is lol

I always tell myself that all women think like you and just don't want to tell me!

Well I guess you'll never know

That's not entirely negative

You're right it's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would make for an interesting feature and would be very handy for setting up potential meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure one of those three-letter-abbreviation competing websites had that feature when we were on them years ago, it was pretty cool... I mean you just had to say Hi once you knew you were eyeing each other up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two here on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are like yea and use the hotlist for couples we would love to meet but waiting for the day when the winds blow right and we have the courage to message them but an opt in feature would be fun and could throw up some interesting matches, maybe it only notifies you if bot have each other on the hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely fabbing peoples pics serves in a similar fashion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely fabbing peoples pics serves in a similar fashion? "

Not rwally becuse it's easy to get lost in the crowd especially with some of the hotter couples, like yea for example, when yea put up a pic I bet it gets loads of likes very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love to be on a few men's hotlist

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ive 6 on mine and they all know they are cause i keep dropping suttle hints and stalk there profile constant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely fabbing peoples pics serves in a similar fashion?

Not rwally becuse it's easy to get lost in the crowd especially with some of the hotter couples, like yea for example, when yea put up a pic I bet it gets loads of likes very quickly "

Believe me, we don't get so many fab's that we can't keep track!! But thanks for the generous compliment anyway.

But anyway, back to the subject of hotlists, why wouldn't you just message someone that appeals? Somebody has to make the first move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely fabbing peoples pics serves in a similar fashion?

Not rwally becuse it's easy to get lost in the crowd especially with some of the hotter couples, like yea for example, when yea put up a pic I bet it gets loads of likes very quickly

Believe me, we don't get so many fab's that we can't keep track!! But thanks for the generous compliment anyway.

But anyway, back to the subject of hotlists, why wouldn't you just message someone that appeals? Somebody has to make the first move. "

Easyer said than done, we used to be like that but got stood up one to many times so now a bit more nervous about mailing couples, we will look for signs, like flirting on forums, viewing our profile a few times and so on, we don't have many couples on our hot list but when the time is right we will message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone have me?? Lol

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By *ubyShuWoman
over a year ago

Nearby


"Anyone have me?? Lol "

Now that would be telling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't like to know if I am on anyones hotlist and can genuinely say to guys that they aren't on mine.....cause its empty atm! Lol

Need to get browsing me thinks

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By *ugs Bunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

south Dublin

I was thinking that if someone on your hotlist put you on their hotlist you'd get a notification. Ie so and so from your hotlist just hotlisted you. So no one sees your list and you only know if theres a match. Simple really. I just think itd be handy.

I guess fabbing pics etc kinda does the same job in a roundabout way, though i do fab pics of people ive no interest in meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking that if someone on your hotlist put you on their hotlist you'd get a notification. Ie so and so from your hotlist just hotlisted you. So no one sees your list and you only know if theres a match. Simple really. I just think itd be handy.

I guess fabbing pics etc kinda does the same job in a roundabout way, though i do fab pics of people ive no interest in meeting "

If only there was someway to contact someone you liked the look of directly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah that would be good i doubt they would change anything though no matter how many ask hahaha , if it’s not broke don’t fix it seems be their attitude unless you mention a different app then they find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking that if someone on your hotlist put you on their hotlist you'd get a notification. Ie so and so from your hotlist just hotlisted you. So no one sees your list and you only know if theres a match. Simple really. I just think itd be handy.

I guess fabbing pics etc kinda does the same job in a roundabout way, though i do fab pics of people ive no interest in meeting

If only there was someway to contact someone you liked the look of directly "

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By *ugs Bunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

south Dublin


"I was thinking that if someone on your hotlist put you on their hotlist you'd get a notification. Ie so and so from your hotlist just hotlisted you. So no one sees your list and you only know if theres a match. Simple really. I just think itd be handy.

I guess fabbing pics etc kinda does the same job in a roundabout way, though i do fab pics of people ive no interest in meeting

If only there was someway to contact someone you liked the look of directly "

Lol hee hee yeah i could be more like a lot of the single men on here and send out shit loads of copy and paste messages to everyone, not even caring whether or not they might return the interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few new additions to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think it's a great idea .was something we also said many moons ago.will it get you any more meets?

Probably not but might get the conversation started quicker which could lead to more.

We have many on our hot list for different reasons so would need to remove a lot to keep only the ones we would like to take it further

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By *akeitwildMan
over a year ago

dublin


"This morning I picked up the courage to message a couple whose profile I've been admiring for a long time with the hope of meeting this wkend. That didnt work out but they mentioned that we're on their hotlist. Nice one But that got me thinking wouldn't it be handy if fab notified you if you had eachother on your hotlists? Who agrees?? Maybe they'll do it if enough ask!! "

Kinda agree and kinda disagree.

1. I like the mystery when eople on my hotlist views my profile.

2. It would be kinda cool to have a match feature like Tinder if both profiles have the other on their hotlist.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

If it was known people would soon use it like another way of winking or a desperate attempted at getting someone's attention without mailing.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"If it was known people would soon use it like another way of winking or a desperate attempted at getting someone's attention without mailing.

"

That's a fair point... Some folk might just hotlist everyone in the hope of making a match.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"If it was known people would soon use it like another way of winking or a desperate attempted at getting someone's attention without mailing.

That's a fair point... Some folk might just hotlist everyone in the hope of making a match. "

Yup. It's probably why it is the way it is already. To stop that

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west


"If it was known people would soon use it like another way of winking or a desperate attempted at getting someone's attention without mailing.

That's a fair point... Some folk might just hotlist everyone in the hope of making a match. "

But it wouldn't matter if the other person didn't hot list them.. only when both put each other on the list would you get a notification.

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By *oversLusting!Couple
over a year ago

C


"Surely fabbing peoples pics serves in a similar fashion?

Not rwally becuse it's easy to get lost in the crowd especially with some of the hotter couples, like yea for example, when yea put up a pic I bet it gets loads of likes very quickly

Believe me, we don't get so many fab's that we can't keep track!! But thanks for the generous compliment anyway.

But anyway, back to the subject of hotlists, why wouldn't you just message someone that appeals? Somebody has to make the first move.

Easyer said than done, we used to be like that but got stood up one to many times so now a bit more nervous about mailing couples, we will look for signs, like flirting on forums, viewing our profile a few times and so on, we don't have many couples on our hot list but when the time is right we will message them "

Thanks for the message

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