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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I'm out of age range and can't message a person, can they see a status I put up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm out of age range and can't message a person, can they see a status I put up? "

Yup...

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"If I'm out of age range and can't message a person, can they see a status I put up? "

Why are you asking the same question you asked a few days ago

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"If I'm out of age range and can't message a person, can they see a status I put up?

Why are you asking the same question you asked a few days ago "

Must not have gotten the answer he wanted

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If you mean in the updates section, nope he/she/they won't. Updates only show 'fab new tailored to your age limits and location.

Only when they visit your profile, but why should they? You're outside their preferences.

So your best chance is waving frantically with your arms on the forum to draw attention - what you seem to do - just be aware it can badly backfire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP here is a helpful link to your thread from a few days ago incase you forgot the answers

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/930867

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeatedly posting about such a thing on the forum isn't in the least weird and stalkerish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeatedly posting about such a thing on the forum isn't in the least weird and stalkerish."

But she may not have seen the first post or update silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeatedly posting about such a thing on the forum isn't in the least weird and stalkerish.

But she may not have seen the first post or update silly"

My bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see lots of things repeated over and over again on the forums. Guess it depends on whose doing the repeating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of things repeated over and over again on the forums. Guess it depends on whose doing the repeating."

Repeaters are in high demand you have been here long enough to know that

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I see lots of things repeated over and over again on the forums. Guess it depends on whose doing the repeating."

Not usually same person and same question in a matter of days though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of things repeated over and over again on the forums. Guess it depends on whose doing the repeating.

Repeaters are in high demand you have been here long enough to know that "
You probably know better than me as you reply to most threads here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of things repeated over and over again on the forums. Guess it depends on whose doing the repeating.

Not usually same person and same question in a matter of days though. "
Maybe the last one was taken over by the keyboard warriors.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Nope. Your local updates are tailored to your specific preferences, so if you're not looking to meet anyone over 50 for example, you will only see photo uploads, status messages, etc., for people under 50 in your local area. Same with gender, if you're not looking for men, you won't see all their updates.

Posting a status update demanding that someone to mail you because you can't mail them is completely counter-productive. They won't see it, but everyone else who's preferences you do actually match will see how entitled and disrespectful of people's choices you are. It's not likely to endear you to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of things repeated over and over again on the forums. Guess it depends on whose doing the repeating.

Not usually same person and same question in a matter of days though. Maybe the last one was taken over by the keyboard warriors. "

Or by maryann

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of things repeated over and over again on the forums. Guess it depends on whose doing the repeating.

Not usually same person and same question in a matter of days though. Maybe the last one was taken over by the keyboard warriors.

Or by maryann "
No I believe she had runaway with Harry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of things repeated over and over again on the forums. Guess it depends on whose doing the repeating.

Not usually same person and same question in a matter of days though. Maybe the last one was taken over by the keyboard warriors.

Or by maryann No I believe she had runaway with Harry. "

Oh yes Harry too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of things repeated over and over again on the forums. Guess it depends on whose doing the repeating.

Not usually same person and same question in a matter of days though. Maybe the last one was taken over by the keyboard warriors.

Or by maryann No I believe she had runaway with Harry.

Oh yes Harry too.... "
Well it's good to see a love story that started on fab.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


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Posting a status update demanding that someone to mail you because you can't mail them is completely counter-productive. They won't see it, but everyone else who's preferences you do actually match will see how entitled and disrespectful of people's choices you are. It's not likely to endear you to anyone "

Yeah I think you're bit too harsh there. For most preferences aren't set in stone. I certainly have made exceptions. So it's understandable that some try and why not.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

When I click on updates, I see a long list of status updates. This includes all status updates from women who are looking for men AND even if I am outside their age range

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"When I click on updates, I see a long list of status updates. This includes all status updates from women who are looking for men AND even if I am outside their age range"

Yes of course, it's your age limits that defines your update news and not their age preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Posting a status update demanding that someone to mail you because you can't mail them is completely counter-productive. They won't see it, but everyone else who's preferences you do actually match will see how entitled and disrespectful of people's choices you are. It's not likely to endear you to anyone

Yeah I think you're bit too harsh there. For most preferences aren't set in stone. I certainly have made exceptions. So it's understandable that some try and why not. "

What prompted you to make an exception, was it seeing a request for a mail in a status update?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"

Posting a status update demanding that someone to mail you because you can't mail them is completely counter-productive. They won't see it, but everyone else who's preferences you do actually match will see how entitled and disrespectful of people's choices you are. It's not likely to endear you to anyone

Yeah I think you're bit too harsh there. For most preferences aren't set in stone. I certainly have made exceptions. So it's understandable that some try and why not.

What prompted you to make an exception, was it seeing a request for a mail in a status update?"

Na he got a friend to message me. But most of the times I initiate the exceptions myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Posting a status update demanding that someone to mail you because you can't mail them is completely counter-productive. They won't see it, but everyone else who's preferences you do actually match will see how entitled and disrespectful of people's choices you are. It's not likely to endear you to anyone

Yeah I think you're bit too harsh there. For most preferences aren't set in stone. I certainly have made exceptions. So it's understandable that some try and why not.

What prompted you to make an exception, was it seeing a request for a mail in a status update?

Na he got a friend to message me. But most of the times I initiate the exceptions myself. "
Fair play to both of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What prompted you to make an exception, was it seeing a request for a mail in a status update?

Na he got a friend to message me. But most of the times I initiate the exceptions myself. "

Is it an approch that would work for you?

I think it is safe to say it would put more people off than it would attract which is the point I think most people were trying to make.

If you take out words like respect etc....

Its just straight up not a great way to present yourself.

Although I would have said the same for the "my friend thinks your a ride" approch too

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"

What prompted you to make an exception, was it seeing a request for a mail in a status update?

Na he got a friend to message me. But most of the times I initiate the exceptions myself.

Is it an approch that would work for you?

I think it is safe to say it would put more people off than it would attract which is the point I think most people were trying to make.

If you take out words like respect etc....

Its just straight up not a great way to present yourself.

Although I would have said the same for the "my friend thinks your a ride" approch too "

Let's say it like this, if the status update is addressed to you, and you come across it, you certainly go and have a closer look at said profile. And you never know you might find some gold nuggets there. Nothing is impossible on here. I've seen women/couples on here preaching personality and chemistry but once a seemingly handsome lad comes along with a six pack but unverified (one pic on the profiel) all their principles go through the window. So you never know what works, sure you'll put off some others with your update because they're not the chosen ones but most of those animosities are short lived respectively pathetic.

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