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By *an For You OP   Man
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

So what do men really want from fab!

I’ll start;.... sex and lots of it

Over to you GUYS.......

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Question answered. Close the thread

We’re simple beings

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By *an For You OP   Man
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

C’mon guys.... only 2 women said what they wanted from fab....

What do u want?... months of chat going nowhere?...... months of chat leading to a coffee meet going nowhere?.... messages deleted without being read?.... women who after some chat , some sexy chat, face pics swap, more chat, they really really really really want to meet you- then don’t

Or maybe some chat , banter, attraction and sex without the endless endless endless bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do men really want from fab!

I’ll start;.... sex and lots of it

Over to you GUYS......."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im happy with months of chatting about bullshit, even if it never ends in a meet as it often doesnt.

I like the type of people I end up interacting with on here.

Yes I also want sex every now and then too

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

C’mon guys.... only 2 women said what they wanted from fab....

What do u want?... months of chat going nowhere?...... months of chat leading to a coffee meet going nowhere?.... messages deleted without being read?.... women who after some chat , some sexy chat, face pics swap, more chat, they really really really really want to meet you- then don’t

Or maybe some chat , banter, attraction and sex without the endless endless endless bullshit

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person. "

Absolutely spot on.. I've chatted to loads of guys.. Sometimes for quite a while before their true weirdo has shown themselves... Safety is the nó 1 concern for most women.. Something you guys don't have to worry about so much..

If you can't be arsed to chat to me. I definitely can't be arsed to come and meet you

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards

Liverpool to win the league would be great start for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C’mon guys.... only 2 women said what they wanted from fab....

What do u want?... months of chat going nowhere?...... months of chat leading to a coffee meet going nowhere?.... messages deleted without being read?.... women who after some chat , some sexy chat, face pics swap, more chat, they really really really really want to meet you- then don’t

Or maybe some chat , banter, attraction and sex without the endless endless endless bullshit

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person. "

Do agree with ladies wanting the time they feel they need to see if the guy is all he says he is .. Absolutely ..but sometimes they go way beyond what seems reasonable but like l said each are individual...and to answer the OP's question ..it's quality sex ..for me Sex is both mind and body ..sex for the sake of sex is not for me ...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"So what do men really want from fab!

I’ll start;.... sex and lots of it

Over to you GUYS......."

Yeah you see there it already parts: quantity versus quality. I'd love to have loads of sex but i don't compromise on quality. I had my fair share of shite sex over the last 33years, I'm done with that. Anyhow day to day life gets also into the way of having loads and loads of good sex.

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By *ubsSlipsandlilyminxCouple (FF)
over a year ago

dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Riding like a sailor on leave for me anyway

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person.

Absolutely spot on.. I've chatted to loads of guys.. Sometimes for quite a while before their true weirdo has shown themselves... Safety is the nó 1 concern for most women.. Something you guys don't have to worry about so much..

If you can't be arsed to chat to me. I definitely can't be arsed to come and meet you "

Exactly this. Some just don't understand we need to feel safe no matter where we are

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

So what do men really want from fab!

I’ll start;.... sex and lots of it

Over to you GUYS.......

Yeah you see there it already parts: quantity versus quality. I'd love to have loads of sex but i don't compromise on quality. I had my fair share of shite sex over the last 33years, I'm done with that. Anyhow day to day life gets also into the way of having loads and loads of good sex.

Yep exactly this

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By *an For You OP   Man
over a year ago

belfast/holywood


"

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person.

Absolutely spot on.. I've chatted to loads of guys.. Sometimes for quite a while before their true weirdo has shown themselves... Safety is the nó 1 concern for most women.. Something you guys don't have to worry about so much..

If you can't be arsed to chat to me. I definitely can't be arsed to come and meet you

Exactly this. Some just don't understand we need to feel safe no matter where we are "

Yeah it’s so dangerous going for a coffee meet with a guy with 10 or so glowing verifications . Terrifying . I mean, good god. He’s obviously cunningly hiding his true, dark, CSI type ambitions .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person.

Absolutely spot on.. I've chatted to loads of guys.. Sometimes for quite a while before their true weirdo has shown themselves... Safety is the nó 1 concern for most women.. Something you guys don't have to worry about so much..

If you can't be arsed to chat to me. I definitely can't be arsed to come and meet you

Exactly this. Some just don't understand we need to feel safe no matter where we are

Yeah it’s so dangerous going for a coffee meet with a guy with 10 or so glowing verifications . Terrifying . I mean, good god. He’s obviously cunningly hiding his true, dark, CSI type ambitions . "

I had a verified guy message me completely out of the blue with extremely nasty messages do just cause someone is verified doesn't mean they not dangerous or nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah it’s so dangerous going for a coffee meet with a guy with 10 or so glowing verifications . Terrifying . I mean, good god. He’s obviously cunningly hiding his true, dark, CSI type ambitions . "

Says it all... You dont understand... I'm not necessarily talking about someone with 10 veris... Plus as a man you would rarely have the concern that the person you are meeting is physically bigger and stronger than you. Would you?? Wouldn't cross your mind at all...

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person.

Absolutely spot on.. I've chatted to loads of guys.. Sometimes for quite a while before their true weirdo has shown themselves... Safety is the nó 1 concern for most women.. Something you guys don't have to worry about so much..

If you can't be arsed to chat to me. I definitely can't be arsed to come and meet you

Exactly this. Some just don't understand we need to feel safe no matter where we are

Yeah it’s so dangerous going for a coffee meet with a guy with 10 or so glowing verifications . Terrifying . I mean, good god. He’s obviously cunningly hiding his true, dark, CSI type ambitions . "

Actually some have been caught out this way. You would be very surprised to learn there is a dark side to fab and glowing veris means fuck all when you look at the bigger picture. Come on be real here you know very well In this world we live in the most highly respected of ppl have done unspeakable crimes.

You do live in the same world right..

Get a grip man its not as black and white as you think it is

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

How about some fun always with respect

And yes you have to get to know someome first

Or my food fast and my woman slow

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

I wouldn't mind winning the lotto and helping out some local families with some financial help, then sort out my family with some money maybe after that live a long and happy life,

As for fab I wouldn't mind finding a local fbw and meeting when we can as I'm looking for quality over quantity in my meets, I'm here to enjoy myself and tick some boxes off my bucket list not to fuck the whole of ireland,

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By *an For You OP   Man
over a year ago

belfast/holywood


"

Yeah it’s so dangerous going for a coffee meet with a guy with 10 or so glowing verifications . Terrifying . I mean, good god. He’s obviously cunningly hiding his true, dark, CSI type ambitions .

Says it all... You dont understand... I'm not necessarily talking about someone with 10 veris... Plus as a man you would rarely have the concern that the person you are meeting is physically bigger and stronger than you. Would you?? Wouldn't cross your mind at all... "

Actually, a lot of women I’ve met have been considerably bigger than me lol..... literally taking my own life in my hands when they ask to sit on my face !!

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By *an For You OP   Man
over a year ago

belfast/holywood


"

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person.

Absolutely spot on.. I've chatted to loads of guys.. Sometimes for quite a while before their true weirdo has shown themselves... Safety is the nó 1 concern for most women.. Something you guys don't have to worry about so much..

If you can't be arsed to chat to me. I definitely can't be arsed to come and meet you

Exactly this. Some just don't understand we need to feel safe no matter where we are

Yeah it’s so dangerous going for a coffee meet with a guy with 10 or so glowing verifications . Terrifying . I mean, good god. He’s obviously cunningly hiding his true, dark, CSI type ambitions .

Actually some have been caught out this way. You would be very surprised to learn there is a dark side to fab and glowing veris means fuck all when you look at the bigger picture. Come on be real here you know very well In this world we live in the most highly respected of ppl have done unspeakable crimes.

You do live in the same world right..

Get a grip man its not as black and white as you think it is "

Same old same old, women distrustful of us nasty men lol

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person.

Absolutely spot on.. I've chatted to loads of guys.. Sometimes for quite a while before their true weirdo has shown themselves... Safety is the nó 1 concern for most women.. Something you guys don't have to worry about so much..

If you can't be arsed to chat to me. I definitely can't be arsed to come and meet you

Exactly this. Some just don't understand we need to feel safe no matter where we are

Yeah it’s so dangerous going for a coffee meet with a guy with 10 or so glowing verifications . Terrifying . I mean, good god. He’s obviously cunningly hiding his true, dark, CSI type ambitions .

Actually some have been caught out this way. You would be very surprised to learn there is a dark side to fab and glowing veris means fuck all when you look at the bigger picture. Come on be real here you know very well In this world we live in the most highly respected of ppl have done unspeakable crimes.

You do live in the same world right..

Get a grip man its not as black and white as you think it is

Same old same old, women distrustful of us nasty men lol"

And rightly so as men should be with nasty women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies, i think you are going off topic.

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By *an For You OP   Man
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Anyway, who wants fucked ? ( as in sex as opposed to what happens if I dig a big hole somewhere )

PS- if you insist on facesitting, please don’t suffocate me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Same old same old, women distrustful of us nasty men lol

And rightly so as men should be with nasty women...

Exactly and yes there are nasty people on here so I will continue to be careful one bad experience from a veried guy is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's this got to do with what men want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do men really want from fab!

I’ll start;.... sex and lots of it

Over to you GUYS......."
I tell you what they want what they really really want.

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By *an For You OP   Man
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Exactly.... bloody women interrupting, stamping their feet, scaremongering, when they should be in the kitchen ffs, letting us men debate important stuff. Why oh why did we allow them the vote , equal pay and sex equality, when they should be concentrating on the important stuff; like pleasing the dominant sex !!

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

I want to chat and feel comfortable with the woman, there has to be some craic as if there is no connection the sex isn’t worth it and you would be better off with a blow up doll!

I want the woman to engage and not have the messages like an interview where I’m asking questions and they are answering and if you do get a response to messages sent that they send the odd message off their own back and not just a response to my messages.

If this happens the sex will take care of itself.

I agree that women have to treat their safety as priority as there are some serious weirdo’s out there. But there are equally the same amount of weird women out there too

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By *erversionist13Man
over a year ago

Belfast

A fun time with a fun lady as for me it's a social thing that leads to the rest.

(Where all humans who are looking for a fun time)

Unfortunately some of these humans spoil this fun for the rest.

I noticed this on both sides communication is the key so we both understand what we want.

I'm not here to fulfil your porn fantasy as a adult you should know it's a movie. (Forget that and start relying on your imagination)

Coming down to that part it's about a exchange of energy and emotion what makes sex good.

But then again this is different for everyone on here.

Just enjoy and be nice to eachoter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah it’s so dangerous going for a coffee meet with a guy with 10 or so glowing verifications . Terrifying . I mean, good god. He’s obviously cunningly hiding his true, dark, CSI type ambitions .

Says it all... You dont understand... I'm not necessarily talking about someone with 10 veris... Plus as a man you would rarely have the concern that the person you are meeting is physically bigger and stronger than you. Would you?? Wouldn't cross your mind at all... "
..

Well all I can say is whatever about a guy being bigger and stronger than you is that any guy that gets to meet you will have to bring a ladder with him to climb those legs of yours ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do men really want from fab!

I’ll start;.... sex and lots of it

Over to you GUYS......."

1) Arrive naked.

2) Bring beer.....

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Have fun enjoy there company then indulge them and slowly sucduce them then give them a memorable time

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

To have fun, share my lust, compassion, my time, friendship and mutually desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three things I like about Fab are

* Escapism: don't get me wrong I lead a very content life but Fab is a good break from the norm.

* Networking: where else offers access to so many local likeminded folk, yes a majority are time wasters and idiots, but the juice is worth the squeeze, tense why I always return lol.

* Lust & Play: it's self explanatory really.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

All men want stuff n things, it's simple really.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"C’mon guys.... only 2 women said what they wanted from fab....

What do u want?... months of chat going nowhere?...... months of chat leading to a coffee meet going nowhere?.... messages deleted without being read?.... women who after some chat , some sexy chat, face pics swap, more chat, they really really really really want to meet you- then don’t

Or maybe some chat , banter, attraction and sex without the endless endless endless bullshit

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person. "

Agreed. Sometimes it takes a little while for the mask to slip, and the alarming or selfish traits to start to show. But also, taking a little more time builds the anticipation more and makes for a much more successful meet. Microwave meets are rarely satisfying

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"

I think the endless bull as you call it is essential to out the creeps. I chat for a while not ages before I meet so I can try and get to know the person. And those chats have set off alarm bells at times where I know the guy I'm talking to is not someone I want to meet. The one time I met a guy quickly off here he scared the crap out of me and I thought I was in serious trouble.And I know other women stuff like this has happened to as well. So yes while most of the people on here are on here for sex you also have to be careful not everyone on here is a decent person.

Absolutely spot on.. I've chatted to loads of guys.. Sometimes for quite a while before their true weirdo has shown themselves... Safety is the nó 1 concern for most women.. Something you guys don't have to worry about so much..

If you can't be arsed to chat to me. I definitely can't be arsed to come and meet you

Exactly this. Some just don't understand we need to feel safe no matter where we are

Yeah it’s so dangerous going for a coffee meet with a guy with 10 or so glowing verifications . Terrifying . I mean, good god. He’s obviously cunningly hiding his true, dark, CSI type ambitions . "

Not all of us have the time to go to coffee with everyone who asks (because hey, it's only coffee right? What's the worst that could happen?), so we have our vetting processes to ensure that the ones we do meet are ones who excite and intrigue us, and are what we specifically want in a meet, not because they've 10 glowing verifications from others (who maybe might meet anyone who asks at the drop of a hat, or might not have the same preferences or interests). Coffee meet veris really just confirm that a person exists and wasn't a psychopath in a public setting. A glowing coffee meet veri given one week may be regretted the following week when a second meet in a more intimate setting has taken a dark or disturbing turn.... or even without a follow-up meet, when the person you met face-to-face for a perfectly civil 20 minute coffee starts to search for you on social media, or starts turning up in places you frequent, and trying to insinuate themselves into your life, despite you having said you didn't feel a connection or didn't wish to pursue things further. I've since had to block a few people I've met for coffee and verified in the past. I doubt I'm the only one.

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over a year ago

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