FabSwingers.com forum: Play meets

By *rishcouple12 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cork County

So we have been discussing something as a couple and we were looking to get the fab perspective

on things.

How do couples or singles react when a play meet does not end in penetrative sex?

Over the years

we have been on fab some of our best experiences have been in the giving and receiving of pleasure

but without penetration as a result of either it not going that way or something standing down.

And it has had us wondering would people consider a meet without

penetration, a waste of time.

Personally we are at the point where as long as all parties have had fun it doesn’t really matter how we get there, but we are nosey and want to know what does the world of fab think?

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I’ve met quite a few that it never led to sex and they’ve been good craic. Penetration is a bonus

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By *rishguy3217Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny / Dublin

Some of my best meets have only involved oral and foreplay. I love the build up and teasing anyway. In general I never take play as given on meets so if something happens, great. If not, I just enjoy the chats and have a laugh. Win win

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Not for me....penetration essential

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Yup have had a few like that, usually great fun and relaxed situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple that does soft swing, penetrative sex isn't the be all and end all for us. We like to play alot and give pleasure in other ways. When playing with a couple, it's normally sex with our respective partners and others can join as they see fit. But not penetrative in the full swap sense. This seems to be satisfactory for all included in our opinion. And we haven't had a problem with a couple that is full swap playing with us in a soft swap situation, contrary to other people's opinions. For instance telling us that we are gonna find it hard to get a couple just to do soft swap. These kind of statements can really discourage people just trying to have fun. We all have a choice and should be respected for that choice.

Rant over!

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

As long as both parties involved had fun that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as everyone knows what is expected of a meet, why should it be a problem?

Soft play wouldn't really be our choice, C adores penetrative sex

,although we understand that sometimes men may have trouble rising to the occasion, whether through nerves or other factors. We would expect someone to tell us beforehand though if it was an ongoing issue.

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By *ivemeagosoMan
over a year ago

Tallaght/Naas

I love to do meeting with just

Lick kiss and rub

It’s no all about getting the ride !!!!

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Interested to see everyone's perspective on this as penetrative sex is off the cards with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full sex for us essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well all I can say is that if l were to partake in anything with a couple ,l suppose l would be going to it with the assumption that penetration would be a part of the meet...as in ,isn't that the idea of it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Full sex for us essential "

I'd be thinking on the same wavelength ,as in ,isn't that the jist of things in the first place ?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

"I’ve met quite a few that it never led to sex and they’ve been good craic. Penetration is a bonus

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have had a few brilliant meets but had one or two not so good meets . You will never have good meets all the time . One thing i have learned i wont travel far for a meet.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I dont know why lots of couples only do soft swap . Cos its the horniest scenario looking at your partner getting fucked bye another guy. My lady friend gave another guy a blow job but he could not fuck her but i was very turned on watching her suck him off and then i kissed her. I was never so horny in all my life .

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

Full sex; non essential. More often our meets are soft swap, only penetrating our own other halves. Nothing thats been planned, just how things have gone.. with no complaints i might add

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Most of my meets were just social anyway.

Only one girl told me she needed penetration. So a bunch of other guys fucked her and I didn't, problem solved.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

It's not something I've ever encountered, and personally speaking as a single I think I might have found it a bit frustrating if I did, but lots of couples seem to enjoy soft swinging (play without penetration), and as a couple, you still have your partner for penetration when you want it, so I can't see why soft swing couldn't work for all concerned

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"It's not something I've ever encountered, and personally speaking as a single I think I might have found it a bit frustrating if I did, but lots of couples seem to enjoy soft swinging (play without penetration), and as a couple, you still have your partner for penetration when you want it, so I can't see why soft swing couldn't work for all concerned

Yeah I suspect people who get sex in other ways, like couples, or men or women who can get sex on a night out will be less fussed about it.

And people who use this as their main way of getting sex, ie married men and women, or people who cant get sex in clubs and are a bit desperate, would be looking for mainly penetration and would see anything less as not for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind soft play. gives me a chance to keep my sensual massage skills fresh..

play is always fun.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

We would consider non penetration as a form of soft swinging, which is not for us. We always ask before meets what won't you do, what do you like to do, and that works very well for us.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"We would consider non penetration as a form of soft swinging, which is not for us. We always ask before meets what won't you do, what do you like to do, and that works very well for us."
Yes all about asking and respecting everyone wishes it's a bit Voyeuristic and that could be a good time in itself

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