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By *Sparkie. OP   Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Over the last week I saw a post from a single Male,complaining about lack of meets or questioning do people meet single males, I'm going to stick my neck on the block and offer a little advice, I'm only here a short while but I've been on another site quite a while.

What I want everyone to remember is there is a real person, with feelings at the other side of the computer or phone, it's important to remember that and act accordingly. Do not be rude, women here to talk to one another and you'll be black listed. If your rejected, take it on the chin and thank them for replying to you.

This is a virtual nightclub or online meeting place, you need to seduce women here just like anywhere else. The "I'm driving through Carlow tomorrow, are you free for a quickie does not work"

Firstly and foremostly you need to jazz up your profile, dont write it in a hurry, put a little effort into it, and they say, you get out of something what you put into it, and I believe thats true. Tell people a little bit about yourself, why your here and what your looking for, identify yourself as what you are, straight, bi etc, dont say straight and then reply to advertised meets looking for a bi guy.

Post some pictures on your profile,no...not cock pics and dont have a cock pic as your profile picture, yes some women want to see them, no harm in having one or two.

Dont say you've met a few people from the site unless you've been verified, it only makes you look like a liar if your not meet verified, if you have met people, ask them to verify you, a verification goes a long way.

Try to attend a few Meet and Greets, shake hands with people and get your name and face known, have a chat with those attending and let them see your real and maybe you'll find that spark with someone and take it further at some stage, least you could expect is to get verified and maybe a comment from someone who spoke to you and thinks your a nice guy.

Dont send those winks, they just spell BORING I think, take the time to read everyones profile, dont just look at the pics and write a polite well composed personal message to them, and not the usual, "hi Im in dublin, nice pics, wanna fuck" it doesnt work. And if someone sends you a mail, try and have the manners to reply, even if your not interested, a simple thanks for the mail/interest but no thanks or your not my type. Do not bombard someone who hasn't replied to your first messsage, their either not interested or are bombarded by messages and havent time to reply to everyone.

Finally, if you agree to meet someone, do not let them down and not turn up, people put a lot of effort into organising a meet, especially if they have kids or busy lives, do not let them down at the last minute saying your cat died after eating your goldfish.

At all times, respect the person your contacting or those who contact you, have manners, always reply and above all try and enjoy yourself

Feel free to correct me or add to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well written Dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.......UHHH, what time is it? I think i dozed off

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


".......UHHH, what time is it? I think i dozed off "
nearly missed the football and rugby phew

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

This is VG advice

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

All in all good advice though what about the bad boy michivous element that many women find attractive ? Needs to shine through somehow in the single male profile don't you think ?

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By *Sparkie. OP   Man
over a year ago

Ratoath


"All in all good advice though what about the bad boy michivous element that many women find attractive ? Needs to shine through somehow in the single male profile don't you think ?"

I agree, and like I said I'm happy to be corrected here on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is VG advice "

Vegetable Glycerin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is VG advice

Vegetable Glycerin "

Vagina Guarantee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is VG advice

Vegetable Glycerin

Vagina Guarantee "

This is look at me, i'm a fab wizard

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"This is VG advice

Vegetable Glycerin

Vagina Guarantee

This is look at me, i'm a fab wizard "

Sure but he's also right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is VG advice

Vegetable Glycerin

Vagina Guarantee

This is look at me, i'm a fab wizard

Sure but he's also right "

Right? Lol yeah he's right to assume it will help with some, but not for all. You could easily say 'right' about any profile, it doesn't mean others are wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is VG advice

Vegetable Glycerin

Vagina Guarantee

This is look at me, i'm a fab wizard "

I look forward to his next post

Fantastic Vaginas and where to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks OP

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Great advice. This should be pinned at the top of the forum. Hopefully some will read it and take your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the last week I saw a post from a single Male,complaining about lack of meets or questioning do people meet single males, I'm going to stick my neck on the block and offer a little advice, I'm only here a short while but I've been on another site quite a while.

What I want everyone to remember is there is a real person, with feelings at the other side of the computer or phone, it's important to remember that and act accordingly. Do not be rude, women here to talk to one another and you'll be black listed. If your rejected, take it on the chin and thank them for replying to you.

This is a virtual nightclub or online meeting place, you need to seduce women here just like anywhere else. The "I'm driving through Carlow tomorrow, are you free for a quickie does not work"

Firstly and foremostly you need to jazz up your profile, dont write it in a hurry, put a little effort into it, and they say, you get out of something what you put into it, and I believe thats true. Tell people a little bit about yourself, why your here and what your looking for, identify yourself as what you are, straight, bi etc, dont say straight and then reply to advertised meets looking for a bi guy.

Post some pictures on your profile,no...not cock pics and dont have a cock pic as your profile picture, yes some women want to see them, no harm in having one or two.

Dont say you've met a few people from the site unless you've been verified, it only makes you look like a liar if your not meet verified, if you have met people, ask them to verify you, a verification goes a long way.

Try to attend a few Meet and Greets, shake hands with people and get your name and face known, have a chat with those attending and let them see your real and maybe you'll find that spark with someone and take it further at some stage, least you could expect is to get verified and maybe a comment from someone who spoke to you and thinks your a nice guy.

Dont send those winks, they just spell BORING I think, take the time to read everyones profile, dont just look at the pics and write a polite well composed personal message to them, and not the usual, "hi Im in dublin, nice pics, wanna fuck" it doesnt work. And if someone sends you a mail, try and have the manners to reply, even if your not interested, a simple thanks for the mail/interest but no thanks or your not my type. Do not bombard someone who hasn't replied to your first messsage, their either not interested or are bombarded by messages and havent time to reply to everyone.

Finally, if you agree to meet someone, do not let them down and not turn up, people put a lot of effort into organising a meet, especially if they have kids or busy lives, do not let them down at the last minute saying your cat died after eating your goldfish.

At all times, respect the person your contacting or those who contact you, have manners, always reply and above all try and enjoy yourself

Feel free to correct me or add to this"

This is really great advice and well done on posting it .

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Short: treat others the way you like to be treated. It applies to couples and single ladies too, not only single man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Short: treat others the way you like to be treated. It applies to couples and single ladies too, not only single man. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is VG advice

Vegetable Glycerin

Vagina Guarantee

This is look at me, i'm a fab wizard

I look forward to his next post

Fantastic Vaginas and where to find them"

Complete with eircodes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Short: treat others the way you like to be treated. It applies to couples and single ladies too, not only single man. "

Absolutely

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"This is VG advice

Vegetable Glycerin "

Someone Vapes

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"Short: treat others the way you like to be treated. It applies to couples and single ladies too, not only single man. "

Exactly !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could shorten this to...

Don't be a dick.

The rest of the frilliness is not required

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"You could shorten this to...

Don't be a dick.

The rest of the frilliness is not required "

Yes, it is required. Some people need to have it spelled out for them. It's a formula, if you follow all the OP's points your chances of meeting someone, whether here on Fab or socially are bound to improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could shorten this to...

Don't be a dick.

The rest of the frilliness is not required

Yes, it is required. Some people need to have it spelled out for them. It's a formula, if you follow all the OP's points your chances of meeting someone, whether here on Fab or socially are bound to improve. "

The ones that need it tend not to heed it........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is VG advice

Vegetable Glycerin

Someone Vapes "

Not Kaizer

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"You could shorten this to...

Don't be a dick.

The rest of the frilliness is not required "

There's way, way more to success on Fab than not being a dick. Most guys aren't dicks, and yet they are not getting meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all relative...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the last week I saw a post from a single Male,complaining about lack of meets or questioning do people meet single males, I'm going to stick my neck on the block and offer a little advice, I'm only here a short while but I've been on another site quite a while.

What I want everyone to remember is there is a real person, with feelings at the other side of the computer or phone, it's important to remember that and act accordingly. Do not be rude, women here to talk to one another and you'll be black listed. If your rejected, take it on the chin and thank them for replying to you.

This is a virtual nightclub or online meeting place, you need to seduce women here just like anywhere else. The "I'm driving through Carlow tomorrow, are you free for a quickie does not work"

Firstly and foremostly you need to jazz up your profile, dont write it in a hurry, put a little effort into it, and they say, you get out of something what you put into it, and I believe thats true. Tell people a little bit about yourself, why your here and what your looking for, identify yourself as what you are, straight, bi etc, dont say straight and then reply to advertised meets looking for a bi guy.

Post some pictures on your profile,no...not cock pics and dont have a cock pic as your profile picture, yes some women want to see them, no harm in having one or two.

Dont say you've met a few people from the site unless you've been verified, it only makes you look like a liar if your not meet verified, if you have met people, ask them to verify you, a verification goes a long way.

Try to attend a few Meet and Greets, shake hands with people and get your name and face known, have a chat with those attending and let them see your real and maybe you'll find that spark with someone and take it further at some stage, least you could expect is to get verified and maybe a comment from someone who spoke to you and thinks your a nice guy.

Dont send those winks, they just spell BORING I think, take the time to read everyones profile, dont just look at the pics and write a polite well composed personal message to them, and not the usual, "hi Im in dublin, nice pics, wanna fuck" it doesnt work. And if someone sends you a mail, try and have the manners to reply, even if your not interested, a simple thanks for the mail/interest but no thanks or your not my type. Do not bombard someone who hasn't replied to your first messsage, their either not interested or are bombarded by messages and havent time to reply to everyone.

Finally, if you agree to meet someone, do not let them down and not turn up, people put a lot of effort into organising a meet, especially if they have kids or busy lives, do not let them down at the last minute saying your cat died after eating your goldfish.

At all times, respect the person your contacting or those who contact you, have manners, always reply and above all try and enjoy yourself

Feel free to correct me or add to this"

Someone has far too much time on their hands. Guys ignore that crap above.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Over the last week I saw a post from a single Male,complaining about lack of meets or questioning do people meet single males, I'm going to stick my neck on the block and offer a little advice, I'm only here a short while but I've been on another site quite a while.

What I want everyone to remember is there is a real person, with feelings at the other side of the computer or phone, it's important to remember that and act accordingly. Do not be rude, women here to talk to one another and you'll be black listed. If your rejected, take it on the chin and thank them for replying to you.

This is a virtual nightclub or online meeting place, you need to seduce women here just like anywhere else. The "I'm driving through Carlow tomorrow, are you free for a quickie does not work"

Firstly and foremostly you need to jazz up your profile, dont write it in a hurry, put a little effort into it, and they say, you get out of something what you put into it, and I believe thats true. Tell people a little bit about yourself, why your here and what your looking for, identify yourself as what you are, straight, bi etc, dont say straight and then reply to advertised meets looking for a bi guy.

Post some pictures on your profile,no...not cock pics and dont have a cock pic as your profile picture, yes some women want to see them, no harm in having one or two.

Dont say you've met a few people from the site unless you've been verified, it only makes you look like a liar if your not meet verified, if you have met people, ask them to verify you, a verification goes a long way.

Try to attend a few Meet and Greets, shake hands with people and get your name and face known, have a chat with those attending and let them see your real and maybe you'll find that spark with someone and take it further at some stage, least you could expect is to get verified and maybe a comment from someone who spoke to you and thinks your a nice guy.

Dont send those winks, they just spell BORING I think, take the time to read everyones profile, dont just look at the pics and write a polite well composed personal message to them, and not the usual, "hi Im in dublin, nice pics, wanna fuck" it doesnt work. And if someone sends you a mail, try and have the manners to reply, even if your not interested, a simple thanks for the mail/interest but no thanks or your not my type. Do not bombard someone who hasn't replied to your first messsage, their either not interested or are bombarded by messages and havent time to reply to everyone.

Finally, if you agree to meet someone, do not let them down and not turn up, people put a lot of effort into organising a meet, especially if they have kids or busy lives, do not let them down at the last minute saying your cat died after eating your goldfish.

At all times, respect the person your contacting or those who contact you, have manners, always reply and above all try and enjoy yourself

Feel free to correct me or add to this Someone has far too much time on their hands. Guys ignore that crap above."

And what would you advise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the last week I saw a post from a single Male,complaining about lack of meets or questioning do people meet single males, I'm going to stick my neck on the block and offer a little advice, I'm only here a short while but I've been on another site quite a while.

What I want everyone to remember is there is a real person, with feelings at the other side of the computer or phone, it's important to remember that and act accordingly. Do not be rude, women here to talk to one another and you'll be black listed. If your rejected, take it on the chin and thank them for replying to you.

This is a virtual nightclub or online meeting place, you need to seduce women here just like anywhere else. The "I'm driving through Carlow tomorrow, are you free for a quickie does not work"

Firstly and foremostly you need to jazz up your profile, dont write it in a hurry, put a little effort into it, and they say, you get out of something what you put into it, and I believe thats true. Tell people a little bit about yourself, why your here and what your looking for, identify yourself as what you are, straight, bi etc, dont say straight and then reply to advertised meets looking for a bi guy.

Post some pictures on your profile,no...not cock pics and dont have a cock pic as your profile picture, yes some women want to see them, no harm in having one or two.

Dont say you've met a few people from the site unless you've been verified, it only makes you look like a liar if your not meet verified, if you have met people, ask them to verify you, a verification goes a long way.

Try to attend a few Meet and Greets, shake hands with people and get your name and face known, have a chat with those attending and let them see your real and maybe you'll find that spark with someone and take it further at some stage, least you could expect is to get verified and maybe a comment from someone who spoke to you and thinks your a nice guy.

Dont send those winks, they just spell BORING I think, take the time to read everyones profile, dont just look at the pics and write a polite well composed personal message to them, and not the usual, "hi Im in dublin, nice pics, wanna fuck" it doesnt work. And if someone sends you a mail, try and have the manners to reply, even if your not interested, a simple thanks for the mail/interest but no thanks or your not my type. Do not bombard someone who hasn't replied to your first messsage, their either not interested or are bombarded by messages and havent time to reply to everyone.

Finally, if you agree to meet someone, do not let them down and not turn up, people put a lot of effort into organising a meet, especially if they have kids or busy lives, do not let them down at the last minute saying your cat died after eating your goldfish.

At all times, respect the person your contacting or those who contact you, have manners, always reply and above all try and enjoy yourself

Feel free to correct me or add to this Someone has far too much time on their hands. Guys ignore that crap above.

And what would you advise?"

This is not a site for giving out advice it's a sex site.If I wanted advice I would ring citizens information.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Over the last week I saw a post from a single Male,complaining about lack of meets or questioning do people meet single males, I'm going to stick my neck on the block and offer a little advice, I'm only here a short while but I've been on another site quite a while.

What I want everyone to remember is there is a real person, with feelings at the other side of the computer or phone, it's important to remember that and act accordingly. Do not be rude, women here to talk to one another and you'll be black listed. If your rejected, take it on the chin and thank them for replying to you.

This is a virtual nightclub or online meeting place, you need to seduce women here just like anywhere else. The "I'm driving through Carlow tomorrow, are you free for a quickie does not work"

Firstly and foremostly you need to jazz up your profile, dont write it in a hurry, put a little effort into it, and they say, you get out of something what you put into it, and I believe thats true. Tell people a little bit about yourself, why your here and what your looking for, identify yourself as what you are, straight, bi etc, dont say straight and then reply to advertised meets looking for a bi guy.

Post some pictures on your profile,no...not cock pics and dont have a cock pic as your profile picture, yes some women want to see them, no harm in having one or two.

Dont say you've met a few people from the site unless you've been verified, it only makes you look like a liar if your not meet verified, if you have met people, ask them to verify you, a verification goes a long way.

Try to attend a few Meet and Greets, shake hands with people and get your name and face known, have a chat with those attending and let them see your real and maybe you'll find that spark with someone and take it further at some stage, least you could expect is to get verified and maybe a comment from someone who spoke to you and thinks your a nice guy.

Dont send those winks, they just spell BORING I think, take the time to read everyones profile, dont just look at the pics and write a polite well composed personal message to them, and not the usual, "hi Im in dublin, nice pics, wanna fuck" it doesnt work. And if someone sends you a mail, try and have the manners to reply, even if your not interested, a simple thanks for the mail/interest but no thanks or your not my type. Do not bombard someone who hasn't replied to your first messsage, their either not interested or are bombarded by messages and havent time to reply to everyone.

Finally, if you agree to meet someone, do not let them down and not turn up, people put a lot of effort into organising a meet, especially if they have kids or busy lives, do not let them down at the last minute saying your cat died after eating your goldfish.

At all times, respect the person your contacting or those who contact you, have manners, always reply and above all try and enjoy yourself

Feel free to correct me or add to this Someone has far too much time on their hands. Guys ignore that crap above.

And what would you advise? This is not a site for giving out advice it's a sex site.If I wanted advice I would ring citizens information."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Guys ignore that crap above.

And what would you advise? This is not a site for giving out advice it's a sex site.If I wanted advice I would ring citizens information."

They didnt have a fucking clue what Fab was... thanks for nothing....

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Guys ignore that crap above.

And what would you advise? This is not a site for giving out advice it's a sex site.If I wanted advice I would ring citizens information.

They didnt have a fucking clue what Fab was... thanks for nothing...."

Well 95% of the people on it don't what it for.

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over a year ago


"Short: treat others the way you like to be treated. It applies to couples and single ladies too, not only single man. "

Yes......totally agree

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

It will work. The quickest way to get laid is to sell a "persona" that you think they want.

This kind of generic persona will work for a lot of girls.

The best thing about these personas is that a guy like me can come along and tell a girl "Well he is actually a bit of an asshole", and they will say to me "I like him", and I can then list a bunch of ways he was an asshole, and they will say "well i can only go on what I know of him", and imply I or anyone else saying different is jealous.

Then you just wait until they have fucked and the "You were right he is a bit of an ass" message a few months later.

If your goal is to get the most sex you can, then sell yourself, and sell a persona of the best version of you.

If your goal is to get the best sex of your life, then hang your balls out the window and be yourself, even if that means a dick pic for your avatar.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Great advice OP! Sadly its a waste of time.

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By *Sparkie. OP   Man
over a year ago

Ratoath


"This is VG advice

Vegetable Glycerin

Vagina Guarantee

This is look at me, i'm a fab wizard

I look forward to his next post

Fantastic Vaginas and where to find them"

If I find them I think I'll keep it to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It will work. The quickest way to get laid is to sell a "persona" that you think they want.

This kind of generic persona will work for a lot of girls.

The best thing about these personas is that a guy like me can come along and tell a girl "Well he is actually a bit of an asshole", and they will say to me "I like him", and I can then list a bunch of ways he was an asshole, and they will say "well i can only go on what I know of him", and imply I or anyone else saying different is jealous.

Then you just wait until they have fucked and the "You were right he is a bit of an ass" message a few months later.

If your goal is to get the most sex you can, then sell yourself, and sell a persona of the best version of you.

If your goal is to get the best sex of your life, then hang your balls out the window and be yourself, even if that means a dick pic for your avatar."

Perspicacity indeed

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