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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

New Brown Thomas Ad giving me all the feels...

So......the great kiss.

Is it purely chemistry? Can it be taught? Can a bad kiss be worked on? Is it a deal breaker for you?

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I don't think it can be thought it's all down to the chemistry between the two people at that time. I adore kissing nothing better to get the juices flowing.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Definitely a deal breaker. Bad kiss and I’m done! Not sure a bad kisser can be fixed apart from the ones who just go too fast and might be convinced to sloooooow down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a real deal breaker for me.... I believe you either click or you don't. If you havent got to grips with it in 20+ years, I'm not sure there's much hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry is vital...

I am not sure there are bad kissers just bad matches....

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The great kiss is just another piece of the jigsaw. Its true we all know what works for us but I think you need that spark and chemistry with someone. The wanton desire and being able to make someone feel like that. You can tease someone's mind and desires on the build up to that first kiss and with it you know all you need to know. The thing with the great kiss is you don't need to teach it, it comes naturally and the secret is how you react to someone kissing you and how you kiss back. Then again its not the great kiss because done properly it doesn't stop at just one kiss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The great kiss is just another piece of the jigsaw. Its true we all know what works for us but I think you need that spark and chemistry with someone. The wanton desire and being able to make someone feel like that. You can tease someone's mind and desires on the build up to that first kiss and with it you know all you need to know. The thing with the great kiss is you don't need to teach it, it comes naturally and the secret is how you react to someone kissing you and how you kiss back. Then again its not the great kiss because done properly it doesn't stop at just one kiss."

But when the first ever kiss is truly great..... For me that's "The Kiss"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New Brown Thomas Ad giving me all the feels...

So......the great kiss.

Is it purely chemistry? Can it be taught? Can a bad kiss be worked on? Is it a deal breaker for you? "

I have to say the kiss is a deal breaker for me. It has to be good for anything to progress further. Nothing better than two people who kiss well together.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"The great kiss is just another piece of the jigsaw. Its true we all know what works for us but I think you need that spark and chemistry with someone. The wanton desire and being able to make someone feel like that. You can tease someone's mind and desires on the build up to that first kiss and with it you know all you need to know. The thing with the great kiss is you don't need to teach it, it comes naturally and the secret is how you react to someone kissing you and how you kiss back. Then again its not the great kiss because done properly it doesn't stop at just one kiss.

But when the first ever kiss is truly great..... For me that's "The Kiss" "

That's the one you always refer back to as the great kiss

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I broke up with a girl who was crap at kissing. There was just no passion there.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Kissing brings out the passion and brings people together better . Without sensous kissing sex is crap i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think sometimes you can just meet someone an be compatible with them. An it becomes so hot. An meet someone an they tell you your a good kisser. An you think their shit. An someone can think that your shit to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think you can work on it really. If u kiss someone for the first time and u don't enjoy it, say your goodbyes and move on.

Kissing is life. You can't settle for it if its not giving you goosebumps.

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By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I love kissing , it's the first and most important foreplay, if kissing doesn't get the heart racing and juices flowing then nothing will. Everyone didn't start by being great kissers from their very first kiss so I think it is something that is developed over time and done so by sensing and reacting to the other person's actions and reactions. It does take two to have a great kiss!

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

Yes kissing is the initial key

I adore it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without chemistry there is nothing

Its basic science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all in that first kiss, you just know your going to get naked lol

I won't say I've had bad kissers going to say there was no chemistry but the good kissers makeup for it. When you can feel that rush of energy course through your veins, as you kiss and they pull you closer, pulling your body body closer mmmmm

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

A kiss can really make the difference from, nice guy, good looking etc to OMFG.. I want you now!!

I LOVE kissing.. biting my lip thinking about a recent kiss.. mmm... that will keep me warm for the day..

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

plenty of very bad kissers around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is bieng an amazing kisser not a basic requirement on the swing scene?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah it can be thought, and picking a long term partner based on initial chemistry is for Disney films and fairytales.

This is why so many girls end up with guys who gas light them, or mentally abuse them, cause chemistry is easy to trick.

If chemistry worked, there would be no single people on this site.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Taught not thought

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've met one or two bad kissers. A little guidance can improve things immensely though

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By *oey4somefunMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

I nice set of lips can make a great kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kiss that makes you bite your lip as it sexually arouses youso much, you want more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fixed a few bad kissers so definitely can be worked on and sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do we know if we are good or bad kissers ourselves?..just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm some kisser girls just sayin

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Total deal breaker for me!

If the kissing is bad then nothing else is happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A soft sensual kiss that builds through passion and chemistry serves as a prelude for a lot more to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a deal breaker

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
over a year ago

Lucan

If the kissing is bad ...total deal breaker!!!

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By *oleinone2020Man
over a year ago

hungtown

If it's a bad first kiss, it will always will be a bad kiss. Bit of coaching definitely would help

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Love kissing.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss is the start or the end to a fun night .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New Brown Thomas Ad giving me all the feels...

So......the great kiss.

Is it purely chemistry? Can it be taught? Can a bad kiss be worked on? Is it a deal breaker for you? "

I simply ADORE kissing ...to me it totally defines and shows your want and desire for the lady ...let's her know how much you desire her...there is nothing like deep and passionate kissing ..like l said ..l just ADORE it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love kissing.x"

It's gotta be part of it hasn't it ?...it's the spark that ignites the fireworks...a lady knows exactly how a man feels about her through his kiss...shur hey,didn't even Cher sing about it ?..." It's in his kiss "...

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath


"New Brown Thomas Ad giving me all the feels...

So......the great kiss.

Is it purely chemistry? Can it be taught? Can a bad kiss be worked on? Is it a deal breaker for you? "

I think the kiss is pure chemistry, if I'm really attracted to someone, and their equally attracted me me the kiss is magic.

If it's a "he/she is a bit of alright" the kiss isnt as magical, maybe more of an ingredient you have to put in, like you have to break eggs to make an omelette.

I recently met a single female from another site and I didn't want to stop kissing her, it never got boring and time flew.

I dont think it can be thought....its kinda like trying to fix stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing will ever happen if the kissing isn't great. It's how you show your desire for that person.

For me it's all about chemistry.

If I tremble at the kissing stage which is a rarity, then my sexual desire for that person is immeasurable. That's chemistry.

That's not something you can teach.

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over a year ago

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath


"Nothing will ever happen if the kissing isn't great. It's how you show your desire for that person.

For me it's all about chemistry.

If I tremble at the kissing stage which is a rarity, then my sexual desire for that person is immeasurable. That's chemistry.

That's not something you can teach. "

Tiny, I recall the trembling, I thought you were just nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the kiss, that spark of excitement when that first kiss happens, you just know that the sex is going to bed so good mmmmmm

Love those kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tiny, I recall the trembling, I thought you were just nervous"

No that was fear.

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