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By *kd2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

North

Hi I’m very interested and keen to go to vanilla niteclub and I’m wondering would any female on this be interested in teaming up with me and be my partner to go to it as it’s easier to get an invite doing it this way as opposed to being a single guy I’m new to this fab but I want to dive straight in I’m funny and witty and run my business and I’m up for anything I have a very high sex drive and have no problem proving look forward to a response from some females happy fabbing

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

So you're looking to use this woman so you can get access to a club ?

And I assume you want to gain access to the club so you can fuck other women ?

Can you see how this might not appeal to women who probably have no trouble getting the invited to a club without you ?

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"So you're looking to use this woman so you can get access to a club ?

And I assume you want to gain access to the club so you can fuck other women ?

Can you see how this might not appeal to women who probably have no trouble getting the invited to a club without you ?"

This, and also - posting about circumventing club rules on the forum where the club organisers can see it isn't that clever.

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By *kd2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

North

Well what other way should I go about it I’m just putting it out there if they want to go they want to go if they don’t they don’t and I know it’s far harder to get an invite if you’re a single male fact

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By *r MercMan
over a year ago

dublin

Wow so you have the brains to run your own business ? But not the brains to get an invite to Vanilla

Instead you want to use a woman for your own gratification

Says a lot about the man you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and maybe there is a lady who is nervous about going alone and would be happy to go with another newbie. Helping each other out so to speak. Quickness to judge others doesn't endear you to others.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

This is an odd post, OP you need to get a few verifications, maybe a reference from some established members and then request an invite. You'll enjoy it more in the long run that trying to get someone just to get you in. Also not sure if you'd actually get an invite going this way about it.

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By *oryou47Man
over a year ago

carlow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an odd post, OP you need to get a few verifications, maybe a reference from some established members and then request an invite. You'll enjoy it more in the long run that trying to get someone just to get you in. Also not sure if you'd actually get an invite going this way about it."

Constructive and helpful.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

So basically let me get this right you are just looking to use a woman to get you into a club then leave her so you can go and have fun with others nice kind of guy not but hey good luck with the search you maybe looking for a while me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he's going to be violent to her, mug her, steal her ankle chain and knickers.

Mind you here didn't say that either.

A lot of people with victim complexes.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Get together with another guy but you'll have to prove you're a couple and have to decide who's going to be the little spoon. Remember to tell him to use lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to laugh at the almost aggressive responses, to what looks like just a genuine albeit very naive post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to laugh at the almost aggressive responses, to what looks like just a genuine albeit very naive post.

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Glad someone else can interpret this post differently

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By *r MercMan
over a year ago

dublin

It’s funny how the lads supporting this carry on don’t have verifications either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Equally funny how people think they have a few meets on a sex site, they think their an authority on swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. This escalated real fast.

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"So you're looking to use this woman so you can get access to a club ?

And I assume you want to gain access to the club so you can fuck other women ?

Can you see how this might not appeal to women who probably have no trouble getting the invited to a club without you ?"

Don't get me wrong but we have seen this happen all over the world in swing clubs at least he is trying to be up front about it

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Get a job for the sunday world..

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

And the amount of couples who go to party's and go there seprate ways the min the doors shuts behind them, does this make it different? I dono.. this happens a lot as in 2 people team up to get into places...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree

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By *kd2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

North


"And the amount of couples who go to party's and go there seprate ways the min the doors shuts behind them, does this make it different? I dono.. this happens a lot as in 2 people team up to get into places..."
Thanks for understanding what I’m trying to do I’m just putting it out there and if someone wants to go with me great and if they don’t they don’t thanks ?? a lot of negative people on this but sure look it’s part and parcel of it I suppose

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By *eelum1988Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"So you're looking to use this woman so you can get access to a club ?

And I assume you want to gain access to the club so you can fuck other women ?

Can you see how this might not appeal to women who probably have no trouble getting the invited to a club without you ?"

that true..he need to make so effort to get an invitation not use a women with that..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Jaysos there's a lot of anger on this forum recently. Op asked a simple honest and polite question and got a hammering.

There's quite a lot that team up here for parties and meets, nothing wrong with that imo. The teaming up normally works both ways with different benefits for both sides.

Now the op's approach to do so might not be the ideal one, but in principle I can't see anything wrong with it.

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By *urlyloverMan
over a year ago

n Ireland

I would n do large get togethers.

The press is likely to be there.

Remember last weekend

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I would n do large get togethers.

The press is likely to be there.

Remember last weekend"

Being to loads of larger gatherings never once encountered a hack well not one with a trilby and a press card stuck in the ribbon. Every weekend there are large gatherings somewhere on this island u don't see them reported it was a slow sunday and there was no more in the paper than u could have found out on the interweb.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"I would n do large get togethers.

The press is likely to be there.

Remember last weekend"

I've had large and very large gatherings with no incidents, that's why socials are ticket n invite only. L

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

This happens all the time and I’ve seen party organizers recommend to single males that they find a female to buddy up with for an invite. I don’t see the big deal

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I see nothing with the OPs post.

He is perfectly clear in what he has asked and I assume any further details would be discussed privately with any lady who may perhaps be looking for someone to accompany her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me......

I think we better double check any couples that havent married, had kids or bought a house together...they might be taking advantage of each other to explore the world of swinging too.....

OP your post and intentions are very clear dont stress the negative feedback. As long as your honest and upfront you will be fine

As someone said above you could take the option to slow down have a few one on one meets get a few veris and get accepted to Vanilla more organically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can all the haters back of OP two faced or what.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"I see nothing with the OPs post.

He is perfectly clear in what he has asked and I assume any further details would be discussed privately with any lady who may perhaps be looking for someone to accompany her "

This ^^,singles couple up all the time to get party invites so what's the problem ???

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"And the amount of couples who go to party's and go there seprate ways the min the doors shuts behind them, does this make it different? I dono.. this happens a lot as in 2 people team up to get into places..."

My thoughts exactly, it was maybe worded bad, but he is new to swinging and not the first time people put up here looking "help" thought that said I also see how it looks like it maybe just looking to use someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...and maybe there is a lady who is nervous about going alone and would be happy to go with another newbie. Helping each other out so to speak. Quickness to judge others doesn't endear you to others."
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus Christ!! Is there anyone willing or available??? That is the question pure and simple!! Fuckin keyboard warriors

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By *kd2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

North

That’s exactly what I’m doing maybe I should of said we could meet for a coffee ?? first and see how we get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the negative comments are off putting. seen this done a million times. only thing different is this gent went and asked on here. says a lot about some of the forum users

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"the negative comments are off putting. seen this done a million times. only thing different is this gent went and asked on here. says a lot about some of the forum users "

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

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