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"I just read an update from a person I have on my hotlist. It stated how much they were hurt by a recent hate mail. While reading their update I felt genuinely sorry for them and I know we always rally around and say these people who send these mails are not worth discussing. But Christ almighty surely something can be done" Unfortunately even if blocked and reported, these nasty people just can rejoin under a different profile. At end of day anyone that sends a nasty mail I'd just a nasty person and they are the one with the issue. Not nice been on the receiving end of it though. | |||
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"Well name calling is like water off a ducks back to me, and I think free speech is worth more than someones hurt feelings. For me you can say the most hurtful things you like. I draw the line at what I think of as "calls to act", ie "kill yourself", or "someone should murder you". Saying comments like that around me to people is a one way trip to a physical confrontation with me. However I realize that not everyone can let such bad comments just roll off their back. For some people its the same as them being slapped about, and I think these people need to come up with solid ways to manage it." Most people brush it off. And am sure this lady normally does. Just sensed that this one really got her | |||
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"Unfortunately there's no cure for being a cunt" Totally agree | |||
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"People who send messages like that just want a reaction. Don’t give it to them" spot on | |||
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"For abusive messages I think you should be able to copy it and the senders name onto the forum. No debate on the content is needed but just show the type of message the person sent. " Agree. Absolutely no justification for hate mail, or messages sent with the sole purpose to insult or hurt someone. | |||
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"People who send messages like that just want a reaction. Don’t give it to them" Too true. They are only here to spoil it for others. There is something missing in their life, a joyless existence that only has respite when they hurt others. Anonymity makes them very brave, just dismiss them as you would a bit of fluff of your clothes. | |||
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"I just read an update from a person I have on my hotlist. It stated how much they were hurt by a recent hate mail. While reading their update I felt genuinely sorry for them and I know we always rally around and say these people who send these mails are not worth discussing. But Christ almighty surely something can be done" I got some disgusting messages similar to that lady. People that send messages like that seriously have issues. I was more annoyed than upset tbh. I would hate to think that they would send messages to more vulnerable people so I reported the profile 7 times and there was nothing done about it. | |||
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"I just read an update from a person I have on my hotlist. It stated how much they were hurt by a recent hate mail. While reading their update I felt genuinely sorry for them and I know we always rally around and say these people who send these mails are not worth discussing. But Christ almighty surely something can be done Unfortunately even if blocked and reported, these nasty people just can rejoin under a different profile. At end of day anyone that sends a nasty mail I'd just a nasty person and they are the one with the issue. Not nice been on the receiving end of it though." 100% true Steph, those type of people need to take a good look at themself | |||
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"Just got one right now cause I didn't want to see his cock in person. He's straight and unverified in the area. It seems I'm an overweight mess lol" I really want that T-shirt | |||
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"Just got one right now cause I didn't want to see his cock in person. He's straight and unverified in the area. It seems I'm an overweight mess lol" Should I set batman on him steph? | |||
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"Just got one right now cause I didn't want to see his cock in person. He's straight and unverified in the area. It seems I'm an overweight mess lol Should I set batman on him steph? " Lol thanks Scotty xx | |||
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"Just got one right now cause I didn't want to see his cock in person. He's straight and unverified in the area. It seems I'm an overweight mess lol Should I set batman on him steph? Lol thanks Scotty xx" Welcome steph.... Ah the whole swing thing is gone yo hell too many nasty ppl on it this past while, bring back the good ole days of the swing scene. | |||
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"Well name calling is like water off a ducks back to me, and I think free speech is worth more than someones hurt feelings. For me you can say the most hurtful things you like. I draw the line at what I think of as "calls to act", ie "kill yourself", or "someone should murder you". Saying comments like that around me to people is a one way trip to a physical confrontation with me. However I realize that not everyone can let such bad comments just roll off their back. For some people its the same as them being slapped about, and I think these people need to come up with solid ways to manage it." "Saying comments like that around me to people is a one way trip to a physical confrontation with me." Has to be up there with some of the funniest shit ive read on here | |||
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"I hate cowards like this. I've been on the receiving end of a nasty mail from a couple I'd never even spoken to , They blocked me so I couldn't even respond to them. Nasty people out there . " Sometimes the pen ( keyboard ) is mightier than the sword and can really cut into people...these type of people that send these dispicable Messages are just the lowest form of human waste in the Western World. | |||
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"Just got one right now cause I didn't want to see his cock in person. He's straight and unverified in the area. It seems I'm an overweight mess lol Should I set batman on him steph? Lol thanks Scotty xx Welcome steph.... Ah the whole swing thing is gone yo hell too many nasty ppl on it this past while, bring back the good ole days of the swing scene. " Problem is it is mostly populated with single guys who seem to think it's like shooting fish in a barrel and when a woman or couple has the temerity to turn them down they are ridiculed or abused. (There are exceptions!) Easy to say ignore and block but it is difficult for some folk and the owners/admins of this place don't seem to care too much either. | |||
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"Just got one right now cause I didn't want to see his cock in person. He's straight and unverified in the area. It seems I'm an overweight mess lol Should I set batman on him steph? Lol thanks Scotty xx Welcome steph.... Ah the whole swing thing is gone yo hell too many nasty ppl on it this past while, bring back the good ole days of the swing scene. Problem is it is mostly populated with single guys who seem to think it's like shooting fish in a barrel and when a woman or couple has the temerity to turn them down they are ridiculed or abused. (There are exceptions!) Easy to say ignore and block but it is difficult for some folk and the owners/admins of this place don't seem to care too much either. " Well I'd a guy take a pop at my weight in the forums last night. thread is gone now. Admin must have done something about that. | |||
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"Just got one right now cause I didn't want to see his cock in person. He's straight and unverified in the area. It seems I'm an overweight mess lol Should I set batman on him steph? Lol thanks Scotty xx Welcome steph.... Ah the whole swing thing is gone yo hell too many nasty ppl on it this past while, bring back the good ole days of the swing scene. Problem is it is mostly populated with single guys who seem to think it's like shooting fish in a barrel and when a woman or couple has the temerity to turn them down they are ridiculed or abused. (There are exceptions!) Easy to say ignore and block but it is difficult for some folk and the owners/admins of this place don't seem to care too much either. Well I'd a guy take a pop at my weight in the forums last night. thread is gone now. Admin must have done something about that." I dont think that was the inly comment that was an issue in the thread to be quite honest..... | |||
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"Just got one right now cause I didn't want to see his cock in person. He's straight and unverified in the area. It seems I'm an overweight mess lol Should I set batman on him steph? Lol thanks Scotty xx Welcome steph.... Ah the whole swing thing is gone yo hell too many nasty ppl on it this past while, bring back the good ole days of the swing scene. Problem is it is mostly populated with single guys who seem to think it's like shooting fish in a barrel and when a woman or couple has the temerity to turn them down they are ridiculed or abused. (There are exceptions!) Easy to say ignore and block but it is difficult for some folk and the owners/admins of this place don't seem to care too much either. Well I'd a guy take a pop at my weight in the forums last night. thread is gone now. Admin must have done something about that. I dont think that was the inly comment that was an issue in the thread to be quite honest....." No it sure wasn't. | |||
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"Just got one right now cause I didn't want to see his cock in person. He's straight and unverified in the area. It seems I'm an overweight mess lol Should I set batman on him steph? Lol thanks Scotty xx Welcome steph.... Ah the whole swing thing is gone yo hell too many nasty ppl on it this past while, bring back the good ole days of the swing scene. Problem is it is mostly populated with single guys who seem to think it's like shooting fish in a barrel and when a woman or couple has the temerity to turn them down they are ridiculed or abused. (There are exceptions!) Easy to say ignore and block but it is difficult for some folk and the owners/admins of this place don't seem to care too much either. Well I'd a guy take a pop at my weight in the forums last night. thread is gone now. Admin must have done something about that." Forums are slightly better at being moderated. In general though there does not seem to be much of an appetite at removing abusive folk or just trolls. That's only my experience right enough. | |||
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"Well name calling is like water off a ducks back to me, and I think free speech is worth more than someones hurt feelings. For me you can say the most hurtful things you like. I draw the line at what I think of as "calls to act", ie "kill yourself", or "someone should murder you". Saying comments like that around me to people is a one way trip to a physical confrontation with me. However I realize that not everyone can let such bad comments just roll off their back. For some people its the same as them being slapped about, and I think these people need to come up with solid ways to manage it." you can't say you believe in free speech and then say you you draw the line at somene saying kill yourself etc, you do know hate speech is a form of bullying and has led to people killing them selves. | |||
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"Well name calling is like water off a ducks back to me, and I think free speech is worth more than someones hurt feelings. For me you can say the most hurtful things you like. I draw the line at what I think of as "calls to act", ie "kill yourself", or "someone should murder you". Saying comments like that around me to people is a one way trip to a physical confrontation with me. However I realize that not everyone can let such bad comments just roll off their back. For some people its the same as them being slapped about, and I think these people need to come up with solid ways to manage it. you can't say you believe in free speech and then say you you draw the line at somene saying kill yourself etc, you do know hate speech is a form of bullying and has led to people killing them selves. " Saying kill yourself does not equal free speech. There are all sorts of laws that govern free speech so it is a bit of a misnomer. | |||
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"Well name calling is like water off a ducks back to me, and I think free speech is worth more than someones hurt feelings. For me you can say the most hurtful things you like. I draw the line at what I think of as "calls to act", ie "kill yourself", or "someone should murder you". Saying comments like that around me to people is a one way trip to a physical confrontation with me. However I realize that not everyone can let such bad comments just roll off their back. For some people its the same as them being slapped about, and I think these people need to come up with solid ways to manage it. you can't say you believe in free speech and then say you you draw the line at somene saying kill yourself etc, you do know hate speech is a form of bullying and has led to people killing them selves. Saying kill yourself does not equal free speech. There are all sorts of laws that govern free speech so it is a bit of a misnomer. " point being laws that govern, free speech doesn't exist | |||
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"This has happened to me on here in the past, iv always considered myself a strong woman and let things roll of me but the constand abuse was soul destroying and knocked my confidence . It didnt matter how many times i blocked them they would set up a new profile.. think its makes them feel better about themselves to put other people down" Don't ever let a small minded person who probably has no goals or perspective on life get to you. They more than likely have nothing to do all day than troll the internet and scratch themselves.. hiding behind a computer all day long. Very sad life | |||
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"Its happened to me a tonne of times too. And its hard to take in the beginning but eventually you grow a thicker skin, although you shouldn't have to. Free speech is very important, no doubt about that. But so is people getting what they deserve and I just hope that anyone who thinks free speech gives them the right to humiliate and dehumanize a person based on weight or anything else really, gets exactly what's coming to them. " Perfectly said, it's not really free speech giving an opinion on someone without being ask, it's just nasty and vile | |||
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