FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s every one views on time wasters boils my blood

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

It is annoying & frustrating but unfortunately, it happens. Chalk it down,move on & don't let it put you off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not that full convo then say nope we can’t meet after saying they can air heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them! They make the Fab world go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that full convo then say nope we can’t meet after saying they can air heads "

So ye had chatted about meeting and then they said no?

Plenty people here have actually sat in hotels waiting for people to turn up, plenty have paid for hotel rooms to be completely ghosted, or travelled miles etc

So just cause you chatted to someone doesn't mean your entitled to an actual meet or ride.

As someone else said, let it go, their loss and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tyre kickers as I sometimes call them. The type that want wank fodder material and have no intention of ever meeting.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

There's a lot of them both male and female. Happens everywhere. Some maybe have no intention of ever meeting and others well real life stuff pops up or they got a Better offer.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Maybe her sister was involved in a life threatening car crash or her granny suddenly past away ? Always best not to make assumptions and give her another go.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"What’s every one views on time wasters boils my blood "

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Time Wasters can come under a few guises here

but after a while you generally sense

who's a time waster

and who's a sound swinger

---

First, there's the "Professional Coffee Drinkers Club"

who meet and get dozens of verifications

but who have no intention of persuing things any further

than that. On their profiles, they let on that their seasoned swingers

...yet truth be known they get less sex than a stranded Panda

---

Then, there's the lowest of the low

The "No Show Club" who organise meets with

singletons

& couples

here

(who have organised baby sitters, hotel rooms & travelled)

...only to let down by a "No show"

---

Lastly, there's the 40 year old virgins

with the box of kleenex at home by their keyboards

who impersonate women

and couples

here

to get their jollies...

Sad, sad, sad...

but like I said time wasters come in many guises

HOWEVER... at the end of the day,

they don't cum while we do!

Now, where that funky emoji with the middle finger ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s every one views on time wasters boils my blood

-----------------

Time Wasters can come under a few guises here

but after a while you generally sense

who's a time waster

and who's a sound swinger

---

First, there's the "Professional Coffee Drinkers Club"

who meet and get dozens of verifications

but who have no intention of persuing things any further

than that. On their profiles, they let on that their seasoned swingers

...yet truth be known they get less sex than a stranded Panda

---

Then, there's the lowest of the low

The "No Show Club" who organise meets with

singletons

& couples

here

(who have organised baby sitters, hotel rooms & travelled)

...only to let down by a "No show"

---

Lastly, there's the 40 year old virgins

with the box of kleenex at home by their keyboards

who impersonate women

and couples

here

to get their jollies...

Sad, sad, sad...

but like I said time wasters come in many guises

HOWEVER... at the end of the day,

they don't cum while we do!

Now, where that funky emoji with the middle finger ?

Never heard anyone put it better

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

If I had a euro for every time I've been cancelled on, flaked on, ghosted, treated as an on-demand sex chat line I'd be a rich lady.

If you're angry because someone had a conversation with you and decided not to fuck you, you might need to examine why you feel entitled to something from them. Ultimately nobody owes you anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m pissed of cause they said they would meet then changed there mind then blocked me for asking the reason why

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

Yep all of the above but it's always worth it when you meet real people

That enjoy the lifestyle which those tests they actually loose out on thank fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far to many time wasters on here there all looking for models not normal. Men like me it's Ment to be fun swinging .

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Id offered to meet someone for a coffee to get his first verfie but 4 times he cancelled on me then blocked me....unlocked me after a few mts when i messaged to ask why he'd blocked me he blocked me again yet hes still on here banging on about being a lovely lad who just needs a chance total time waster

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

What's normal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id offered to meet someone for a coffee to get his first verfie but 4 times he cancelled on me then blocked me....unlocked me after a few mts when i messaged to ask why he'd blocked me he blocked me again yet hes still on here banging on about being a lovely lad who just needs a chance total time waster

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I’m pissed of cause they said they would meet then changed there mind then blocked me for asking the reason why "

The reason is they didn't want to. End of story.

This concept of "time wasters" makes me laugh, as if we're all on here putting 100% of our best quality energy into finding a ride... most of us are idly fabbing pics and sending the odd message when we've nothing better to do. It's not that deep. Chill.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

4 out of 5 on here are timewasters or fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a piss taker not a time waster though

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

"I’m pissed of cause they said they would meet then changed there mind then blocked me for asking the reason why "

That's not a time waster. That's someone who changed their mind which they are allowed to. They don't owe you anything nor you them. Is is rude? Absolutely. But it's their choice. Wasting your time would be if they did it on the day of the meet. But a person changing their mind when nothing has been finalized is not time wasting. It's just frustrating.

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By *urlyloverMan
over a year ago

n Ireland

Yea agree

It makes up for it when you do get that genuine person

They are out there and you do find them if your patient.

1 in 10

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By *orny guy !Man
over a year ago

waterford / tipperary

Yep. There here , there & everywhere

even when given another chance & maybe even another.

Time to draw the line then.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I don't mind them, generally I am looking to waste some time anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tyre kickers as I sometimes call them. The type that want wank fodder material and have no intention of ever meeting. "

This is so interesting and true.

When I start talking to someone new on fab I explain that I don't do pic swapping or vid swapping. It's fascinating how quickly the conversation becomes quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tyre kickers as I sometimes call them. The type that want wank fodder material and have no intention of ever meeting.

This is so interesting and true.

When I start talking to someone new on fab I explain that I don't do pic swapping or vid swapping. It's fascinating how quickly the conversation becomes quiet. "

I am the same Tiny I have plenty of photos on my profile so no need to send any. After I send face pic I don't send pics. It's a great way to cull the people who only want to chat for wank bank material only.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have been let down bye a lady whom i went to meet 3 times not once and a couple whom we were just arranging a meet and they just dosapeared off the site but think they are back on ..i just move on feic them i say .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tyre kickers as I sometimes call them. The type that want wank fodder material and have no intention of ever meeting.

This is so interesting and true.

When I start talking to someone new on fab I explain that I don't do pic swapping or vid swapping. It's fascinating how quickly the conversation becomes quiet. "

I'd never go quite ...once it's an interesting conversation for both ...no pics required...gotta be a mental stimulation too...sounds crazy on a site like this maybe but there ya go ...gotta stimulate one's mind here ..both ways ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m pissed of cause they said they would meet then changed there mind then blocked me for asking the reason why "

Id hardly call that a time waster. They decided against meeting.u werent for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always and always said a time waster is a time waster when you let them waste YOUR time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always and always said a time waster is a time waster when you let them waste YOUR time "
Don't understand that sentence.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"What’s every one views on time wasters boils my blood

-----------------

Time Wasters can come under a few guises here

but after a while you generally sense

who's a time waster

and who's a sound swinger

---

First, there's the "Professional Coffee Drinkers Club"

who meet and get dozens of verifications

but who have no intention of persuing things any further

than that. On their profiles, they let on that their seasoned swingers

...yet truth be known they get less sex than a stranded Panda

---

Then, there's the lowest of the low

The "No Show Club" who organise meets with

singletons

& couples

here

(who have organised baby sitters, hotel rooms & travelled)

...only to let down by a "No show"

---

Lastly, there's the 40 year old virgins

with the box of kleenex at home by their keyboards

who impersonate women

and couples

here

to get their jollies...

Sad, sad, sad...

but like I said time wasters come in many guises

HOWEVER... at the end of the day,

they don't cum while we do!

Now, where that funky emoji with the middle finger ?

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best bet is not to let anything on here actually annoy u as its not worth it,only go for well verified people (difficult for newbies I know )maybe meet through socials meet and greets 1st and above all if it sounds too good to be true it probably is.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

The only people who's time I waste are those who don't read profiles

I had a conversation with a vanilla friend recently, where we were booking a weekend away. With a wry expression she asked 'should we ask x and y if they want to come?' My reply was 'yeah sure no harm asking them, they won't turn up anyway, they never do, but at least they won't be in a huff because they weren't asked'. It suddenly dawned on me that timewasters and fantasists are not limited to Fab... We all know people who prefer to live life in their heads than out in the real world.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I remember that episode, he was going to come back with lots of veris and prove us all wrong, guess we're still waiting

OP, I think it's better they contacted you in advance than left you hanging at the meet. Sometimes people change their minds for whatever reason, don't take it to heart, this can sometimes be a marathon not a sprint but worth it in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best bet is not to let anything on here actually annoy u as its not worth it,only go for well verified people (difficult for newbies I know )maybe meet through socials meet and greets 1st and above all if it sounds too good to be true it probably is."

that is solid advice

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By *leasureGuy17Man
over a year ago

City Center

"What’s every one views on time wasters boils my blood

-----------------

Time Wasters can come under a few guises here

but after a while you generally sense

who's a time waster

and who's a sound swinger

---

First, there's the "Professional Coffee Drinkers Club"

who meet and get dozens of verifications

but who have no intention of persuing things any further

than that. On their profiles, they let on that their seasoned swingers

...yet truth be known they get less sex than a stranded Panda

---

Then, there's the lowest of the low

The "No Show Club" who organise meets with

singletons

& couples

here

(who have organised baby sitters, hotel rooms & travelled)

...only to let down by a "No show"

---

Lastly, there's the 40 year old virgins

with the box of kleenex at home by their keyboards

who impersonate women

and couples

here

to get their jollies...

Sad, sad, sad...

but like I said time wasters come in many guises

HOWEVER... at the end of the day,

they don't cum while we do!

Now, where that funky emoji with the middle finger ?

Brilliantly put lol

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By *ipskyMan
over a year ago

: An Autumn Haze

"It is annoying & frustrating but unfortunately, it happens. Chalk it down,move on & don't let it put you off

I imagine your Tipp jersey is popular around Waterford KallyWally

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