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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great reading in it today lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something about swinging?

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By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

Another expose we suppose? What it on this time?

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

If it says that men are on fabswingers and getting lots of sex its not true.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Some men are getting a lot. I made a thread a while ago and for some guys this is their main or only way to get sex and they had sex with 2 or 3 different women etc.

That's good going by any standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me were famous!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha. Made the national news

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

Paper won't refuse ink guys

They must have ran out of drug pushers to write about

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Think people need to be more careful who they let into these events it may well be tabloid junk but could cause alot of people alot of problems loose tongues cost lives

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Think people need to be more careful who they let into these events it may well be tabloid junk but could cause alot of people alot of problems loose tongues cost lives "

We’re they in the actual event?

I refuse to pay for that rag Lol

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By *lavemale66Man
over a year ago

Carlow

I don't buy that rag, what event were they at?

PM if it needs to be kept hush hush

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

also, I havent seen the article, I may go for a walk now and might pick up a paper in a shop to look, but wont be buying it.

If the worker in the shop sees me look at the story and put it down they might figure out I am a sex freak though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me were famous!!"

Can we get our paper autographed ?

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Think people need to be more careful who they let into these events it may well be tabloid junk but could cause alot of people alot of problems loose tongues cost lives "

Ppl Are vetted as best as they can be on here. How does one know a mole way easier said than done.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

These guys are scum. Reporting what consenting adults do for fun, so that those who havent the balls to do it can tut tut into their cornflakes. Terrible excuse for journalism.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in "

As far as I'm aware the mole was veri'd. Ever here of going under cover. It's not as black and white come one you must realise that.

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By *urlyloverMan
over a year ago

n Ireland

That's why bigger events or large parties with lots of folk are not descreet.Way to risky no matter how hard you try to them out.

The scum will find there way in.

Then the filthy press get it to sell there scummy newspapers which I never buy,I must add.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's easy enough for a reporter to get verified. Impossible to identify them

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

You have to give all these clubs and play parties credit. The amount of tireless work behind the scenes to make sure their guests as looked after including their privacy is constant. It obvious they care and work hard to keep it that way these clubs aren't in the papers constantly. I mean all the club nights that happen very week and the paper manages to get info once in the blue moon is that not evident enough that they aren't careless and do right by their guests always..

It's very easy to sit behind a keyboard and be very judgemental when you don't see or work behind the scenes.

Of all the more serious matters to cover they pick an adult party go figure thats Ireland for ya..

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom

What does the article actually say?? Consenting adults met up for frolics and the possibility of consentual sex? Shock horror. Sunday world need to realise that old backward Catholic Church run Ireland is dead and buried thank fuck.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

How is this news ? Good lord. All the boring vanillas getting a thrill reading about our sex lives lol.

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By *umpkinnMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in "

Whats to stop them from getting all the other media employees to make accounts, photo verified and then verifying each other just to get an easy invite to a real party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does the article actually say?? Consenting adults met up for frolics and the possibility of consentual sex? Shock horror. Sunday world need to realise that old backward Catholic Church run Ireland is dead and buried thank fuck. "

It's got nothing to do with Catholic Ireland I don't think..Swinging is a minority lifestyle/interest. Most people think it's taboo and slightly obscene. There is a natural curiosity about it, and most people on here want to keep it secret..of course the papers cover it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consenting adults having fun , how is this news With all the shite that is going on in this country. Our taisiogh takes it up the arse for gods sake. Why don’t they write something about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wonder what made them tackle the swinging community again after the crap they got for the killing kittens "expose" last time.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"i wonder what made them tackle the swinging community again after the crap they got for the killing kittens "expose" last time. "

What crap was that? Didn't hear about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they got someone into the kk parties. big two page spread. they got lambasted by people on facebook over it basically saying how the hell was this newsworthy etc. was laughable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They weren’t at the event hence why there’s no pics from inside our club . Try reading the article. It’s pretty mundane most info taken from our website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does the article actually say?? Consenting adults met up for frolics and the possibility of consentual sex? Shock horror. Sunday world need to realise that old backward Catholic Church run Ireland is dead and buried thank fuck. "

I read the article its crap just talks about how u get a ticket, what the organisers provide etc wipes and condoms , that your not guaranteed sex. Blah blah blah

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"they got someone into the kk parties. big two page spread. they got lambasted by people on facebook over it basically saying how the hell was this newsworthy etc. was laughable "

I guess they got enough of an sales uplift to think it was worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These guys are scum. Reporting what consenting adults do for fun, so that those who havent the balls to do it can tut tut into their cornflakes. Terrible excuse for journalism. "

Exactly ??

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"What does the article actually say?? Consenting adults met up for frolics and the possibility of consentual sex? Shock horror. Sunday world need to realise that old backward Catholic Church run Ireland is dead and buried thank fuck.

I read the article its crap just talks about how u get a ticket, what the organisers provide etc wipes and condoms , that your not guaranteed sex. Blah blah blah

"

Glad I didn't waste me euros on the paper..

How is that even news worthy ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex sells especially in this backwards country.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Sex sells especially in this backwards country."

And backwards it truly is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do yous us need a doorman for the next 1 lol

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom


"What does the article actually say?? Consenting adults met up for frolics and the possibility of consentual sex? Shock horror. Sunday world need to realise that old backward Catholic Church run Ireland is dead and buried thank fuck.

I read the article its crap just talks about how u get a ticket, what the organisers provide etc wipes and condoms , that your not guaranteed sex. Blah blah blah

"

Usual Sunday World shite so. Does anyone actually read newspapers anymore? Can think when last I bought one.

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom


"What does the article actually say?? Consenting adults met up for frolics and the possibility of consentual sex? Shock horror. Sunday world need to realise that old backward Catholic Church run Ireland is dead and buried thank fuck.

It's got nothing to do with Catholic Ireland I don't think..Swinging is a minority lifestyle/interest. Most people think it's taboo and slightly obscene. There is a natural curiosity about it, and most people on here want to keep it secret..of course the papers cover it!"

Ah I think it does. That small minded view point. That "il judge you cos I'm better than you" kinda shite.Ireland has moved on in alot of ways. Glad to say sex is included in that. Swinging isn't as taboo as it was 10 years ago. Give it another 10 to 15 years and it will be even less taboo again because the younger people coming up are more open minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the life of me I don't know why any paper would waste the ink writing about the stuck up c@@@s on fab.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Jasus what would the parish priest say.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. "

Can I join in probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. "

I'm thinking "knock, knock. Are ye finished in that playroom? There's a line out here you know!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. "
Why the need to bring religion into it.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

No one has noticed that bespeckeld mild mannered reporter and sex fiend devil u know are never in the same room together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one has noticed that bespeckeld mild mannered reporter and sex fiend devil u know are never in the same room together?"

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it."

A priest is not religion. He's a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. "
Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Can I be one of the group that's interviewed on the late late ? Always wanted to be on telly and with Ryan Tubridy next to me I'll look like I've filled out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share. "

For someone with fun in their username you really have a chip on your shoulder don't you? Up in arms for someone mentioning a priest, women on fab are c***s...

Chill. This is supposed to be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share.

For someone with fun in their username you really have a chip on your shoulder don't you? Up in arms for someone mentioning a priest, women on fab are c***s...

Chill. This is supposed to be fun. "
Well im enjoying myself.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share. "

No you're alright thanks. it's a public forum I choose to keep my opinion to myself for now. Sorry I insulted you Father.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share. "

He’s possibly anti-church given that it’s riven with paedophiles and has oppressed women for centuries.....

Then again I may be wrong .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share.

No you're alright thanks. it's a public forum I choose to keep my opinion to myself for now. Sorry I insulted you Father. "
That's a good boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share.

He’s possibly anti-church given that it’s riven with paedophiles and has oppressed women for centuries.....

Then again I may be wrong .....

"
Is it fab your taking about sounds just like what's going on here. Then again I might be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share.

He’s possibly anti-church given that it’s riven with paedophiles and has oppressed women for centuries.....

Then again I may be wrong .....

Is it fab your taking about sounds just like what's going on here. Then again I might be right. "

You don't happen to work for the sunday World by any chance?

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share.

He’s possibly anti-church given that it’s riven with paedophiles and has oppressed women for centuries.....

Then again I may be wrong .....

"

Also could be right

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

When the hubby in that cuckolding couple

asked me if he could take a few photos, got a little suspicious

...But when he shoved a mic in my face

and asked for any comments over tea & biscuits after, I

should have known

Just as long as they need a double page spread

to show how hung I am

...they may write what they want!

Another "deadly societal issue"

fully exposed by Irelands biggest scrag paper

S.W.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"When the hubby in that cuckolding couple

asked me if he could take a few photos, got a little suspicious

...But when he shoved a mic in my face

and asked for any comments over tea & biscuits after, I

should have known

Just as long as they need a double page spread

to show how hung I am

...they may write what they want!

Another "deadly societal issue"

fully exposed by Irelands biggest scrag paper

S.W. "

They offered me a 3 page fold out

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share.

He’s possibly anti-church given that it’s riven with paedophiles and has oppressed women for centuries.....

Then again I may be wrong .....

Is it fab your taking about sounds just like what's going on here. Then again I might be right. "

Hmmmmm unverified profile with no pics and a confrontational attitude - block methinks

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

usual shite printed in that rag not fit to wipe your hole with..a swingers party is news now is it..garda newspapers is all they are full of rumours and gossip a lot of it is very innocent indeed like reporting on swingers parties

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

My arm was in the Sunday World once after some journos got into a fetish night I worked at! They didn't get to stay long, crew figured them out quickly and booted them out. It was a terrible article, really mean spirited, not just about the night but horrible comments about how some of the attendees looked etc.

It's all part of having an active and thriving scene though, and organisers really do everything they can to prevent it - but they can't ever eliminate the risk. It's up to individuals to decide whether they are comfortable with that risk or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did no one notice the guy in the trench coat and hat with press tucked in the side

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Did no one notice the guy in the trench coat and hat with press tucked in the side

"

That would actually be a gas costume to wear to a fetish night

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share.

He’s possibly anti-church given that it’s riven with paedophiles and has oppressed women for centuries.....

Then again I may be wrong .....

Is it fab your taking about sounds just like what's going on here. Then again I might be right.

Hmmmmm unverified profile with no pics and a confrontational attitude - block methinks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. Why the need to bring religion into it.

A priest is not religion. He's a man. Why bring priests into it than so or is there something you have against the Catholic religion that you want to share.

He’s possibly anti-church given that it’s riven with paedophiles and has oppressed women for centuries.....

Then again I may be wrong .....

Is it fab your taking about sounds just like what's going on here. Then again I might be right.

Hmmmmm unverified profile with no pics and a confrontational attitude - block methinks "
Me don't care who blocked me.

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland


"Fuck me were famous!!"

Strange the way that paper writes about sex, then it sells adds advertising phone lines that are considered sex lines. Is that a paradox or plain double standards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol evertime that something is written in the papers about this the same people start whinging about it.Buld a bridge and get over it.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Fuck me were famous!!

Strange the way that paper writes about sex, then it sells adds advertising phone lines that are considered sex lines. Is that a paradox or plain double standards?"

-----------

Great observation & you're dead right!

Very same scrag paper that used to show

pictures of topless women in the 1980's

while Playboy was banned in the country

So damn you S.W

You led us astray with your soft porn

into a sordid world of swinging

and then condemn us for our choices...

...SO, WHATCHA GOT TO SAY ABOUT THAT THEN S.W??!

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By *urlyloverMan
over a year ago

n Ireland

Best way fabbers.

Do not buy there newspapers.

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best way fabbers.

Do not buy there newspapers.

Simple"
Look the reason they complain about the newspapers is because it makes them feel important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They weren’t at the event hence why there’s no pics from inside our club . Try reading the article. It’s pretty mundane most info taken from our website. "

you got lucky enough in that case. they had pictures of inside the kk party. i know that the organisers weren't happy as they are fairly rigous in their vetting

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

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By *eankaren88Couple
over a year ago

By the sea

Is it not the case that all these events, clubs, socials just state in the vetting promoting stage that journalists of any kind are not allowed to the events,

photography is banned, recordings of any kind are banned and disclosing of information is banned from the media with out paying a fee of 1 million euro for example. Then if the rags print information about the event. Any solicitor would be happy to take on the case and get a hefty commission from it.

Has to be some sort of come back for the organised PRIVATE events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. "
he didn't say much he was plastered at the bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jasus what would the parish priest say. he didn't say much he was plastered at the bar "
They must have had the painter and decorators in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me were famous!!"

Isn't that what you've been after for quite sometime? Doesn't this response not demonstrate that you've no real concern for anyone elses privacy? I'd have expected to have read comments from you as organisers to show more concern about it and demonstrate what measures you had in place and what you're doing about it to prevent this happening in future. I'm sure there are many who'd be rethinking about attending such a party in the future. This isn't just about you but the face of fab NI.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I for one a had freaking awesome night!! I would have loved them to have pics of what I got up to!!

So I could put them on fab

Plus I was dressed in a school uniform!

One of the best Hedonism nights for me yet!

Typical Northern Ireland ruining anything fun

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

Once a year they put this in, didnt one of the members here get alot of publicity for only going for uniform men, if anything it will attract new members

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By *p4itduoCouple
over a year ago

santry

The sunday world articles have been going on about swingers as long as we have been swinging ten years or so in that time we have seen their articles lots of people in the vanilla world have become swingers it a lifestyle choice and thats in ten more years i dont think will be that big a deal anyway,sex and so called scandal have been the sunday world trademark for years ,no longer the shocking revelation it once was it will run out of steam ,we have seen a lot of changes in the years we have been here , people a lot more open and that is only way to deal with the sunday world ,until its no longer news

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By *p4itduoCouple
over a year ago

santry

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Is it not the case that all these events, clubs, socials just state in the vetting promoting stage that journalists of any kind are not allowed to the events,

photography is banned, recordings of any kind are banned and disclosing of information is banned from the media with out paying a fee of 1 million euro for example. Then if the rags print information about the event. Any solicitor would be happy to take on the case and get a hefty commission from it.

Has to be some sort of come back for the organised PRIVATE events."

Thats not how the law works.

The judge will ask them is the story "newsworthy". They will reply yes, that its a social commentary of the area, that people need to know the event is on as the people who attend have sex in public areas, flash on the streets etc.

The judge will agree with them. It is newsworthy.

However, and this is a big however.

If you are identified in a photo. You can take a case to court, not the event planners.

The judge will then ask the paper "Is it newsworthy that Paul has consensual sex?"

And they will say "Yes", but the judge will say "No its not, pay paul".

So they can write what they want about the event, show photos of outside, inside, write about everything that happened in there. Organisers can do nothing. They can then add a photo of you, a clients face, and still the organisers can do nothing. However you personally can now sue them for a couple of hundred grand.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Once a year they put this in, didnt one of the members here get alot of publicity for only going for uniform men, if anything it will attract new members"

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We dare not say that name three times!

...but you're right, loads of new people usually flood onto the site after "a story" like that...

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

No such thing as bad publicity

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By *itenurse69Couple
over a year ago

Fermanagh/ Monaghan,

Did anyone hear the radio interview over the summer with the girl that created the KK nights?

I have to say i think it was brilliant. The interview with her was open and honest on the whole swinging scene and why it has really taken off these last 20 or so yrs.

To me the interview demonstrated and explained how events like kk and hedonism help people to express and forful there sexual desires in a safe and consentual environment and is in no way seedy or exploitative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me were famous!!

Isn't that what you've been after for quite sometime? Doesn't this response not demonstrate that you've no real concern for anyone elses privacy? I'd have expected to have read comments from you as organisers to show more concern about it and demonstrate what measures you had in place and what you're doing about it to prevent this happening in future. I'm sure there are many who'd be rethinking about attending such a party in the future. This isn't just about you but the face of fab NI."

They did reassure everyone who went on Saturday and stated what they had done and know.

The article states nothing more than what's on the website and emails when tickets are purchased. Plus a screen grab of chat.

Any event can have a reporter attend or someone who'll pass on info despite organisers structures to avoid it, look at how news of things get out, by leaks, insiders or someone undercover. It's how alot works...

There isn't a way of definitively stopping it, just ensuring those attending have their personal details secure.

But maybe it'll allow people to more open and less judgemental about sex or sex clubs if it's talked about freely.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

The Sunday World were writing about swinging parties 30yrs ago when the members were dropping their keys in a fruit bowl.

Hopefully what ever aul shite they wrote it might bring some new blood about the place....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did anyone hear the radio interview over the summer with the girl that created the KK nights?

I have to say i think it was brilliant. The interview with her was open and honest on the whole swinging scene and why it has really taken off these last 20 or so yrs.

To me the interview demonstrated and explained how events like kk and hedonism help people to express and forful there sexual desires in a safe and consentual environment and is in no way seedy or exploitative. "

can't say i heard the interview but i have read a few articles and interviews online with her. she comes across as a very savvy business woman as well as a great spokeswoman regarding the lifestyle in general

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By *eankaren88Couple
over a year ago

By the sea


"Is it not the case that all these events, clubs, socials just state in the vetting promoting stage that journalists of any kind are not allowed to the events,

photography is banned, recordings of any kind are banned and disclosing of information is banned from the media with out paying a fee of 1 million euro for example. Then if the rags print information about the event. Any solicitor would be happy to take on the case and get a hefty commission from it.

Has to be some sort of come back for the organised PRIVATE events.

Thats not how the law works.

The judge will ask them is the story "newsworthy". They will reply yes, that its a social commentary of the area, that people need to know the event is on as the people who attend have sex in public areas, flash on the streets etc.

The judge will agree with them. It is newsworthy.

However, and this is a big however.

If you are identified in a photo. You can take a case to court, not the event planners.

The judge will then ask the paper "Is it newsworthy that Paul has consensual sex?"

And they will say "Yes", but the judge will say "No its not, pay paul".

So they can write what they want about the event, show photos of outside, inside, write about everything that happened in there. Organisers can do nothing. They can then add a photo of you, a clients face, and still the organisers can do nothing. However you personally can now sue them for a couple of hundred grand."

Ah yes. I get that.

But if everyone who attended signed / agreed to go based on the the fact that they would not publicize/ tell the rags or are journalists in any form them selves, unless they paid a large 6 figure sum.

Would that not put them off ?

But i do get where you are coming from.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"The Sunday World were writing about swinging parties 30yrs ago when the members were dropping their keys in a fruit bowl.

Hopefully what ever aul shite they wrote it might bring some new blood about the place...."

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Someone who is looking to fulfill a fantasy but can't really speak about it or someone who's after great sex wthout the drama might have read that article and said...

"You know what, I'm gonna check out that site"

...& we might get some new people on the site this week

So guys...

for the next week just pretend and try to act a bit normal!

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Sunday World were writing about swinging parties 30yrs ago when the members were dropping their keys in a fruit bowl.

Hopefully what ever aul shite they wrote it might bring some new blood about the place....

---------------------

Someone who is looking to fulfill a fantasy but can't really speak about it or someone who's after great sex wthout the drama might have read that article and said...

"You know what, I'm gonna check out that site"

...& we might get some new people on the site this week

So guys...

for the next week just pretend and try to act a bit normal!

Thanks. "

Hello.new users welcome to fa....

Neeeeewwwwwww tttiiiìiiitttttsssss..............

Sorry I was normal as long as I could be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people get up to is their own business! Why is it so interesting to others? Why do they find it so amusing? Cause they are jealous and wish they were actually able to take part???

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"What people get up to is their own business! Why is it so interesting to others? Why do they find it so amusing? Cause they are jealous and wish they were actually able to take part??? "

Probably. Going that's disgusting while setting up a fab account on their phone

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is it not the case that all these events, clubs, socials just state in the vetting promoting stage that journalists of any kind are not allowed to the events,

photography is banned, recordings of any kind are banned and disclosing of information is banned from the media with out paying a fee of 1 million euro for example. Then if the rags print information about the event. Any solicitor would be happy to take on the case and get a hefty commission from it.

Has to be some sort of come back for the organised PRIVATE events.

Thats not how the law works.

The judge will ask them is the story "newsworthy". They will reply yes, that its a social commentary of the area, that people need to know the event is on as the people who attend have sex in public areas, flash on the streets etc.

The judge will agree with them. It is newsworthy.

However, and this is a big however.

If you are identified in a photo. You can take a case to court, not the event planners.

The judge will then ask the paper "Is it newsworthy that Paul has consensual sex?"

And they will say "Yes", but the judge will say "No its not, pay paul".

So they can write what they want about the event, show photos of outside, inside, write about everything that happened in there. Organisers can do nothing. They can then add a photo of you, a clients face, and still the organisers can do nothing. However you personally can now sue them for a couple of hundred grand.

Ah yes. I get that.

But if everyone who attended signed / agreed to go based on the the fact that they would not publicize/ tell the rags or are journalists in any form them selves, unless they paid a large 6 figure sum.

Would that not put them off ?

But i do get where you are coming from.

"

Where the fuck are kink event organisers getting the hundreds of thousands of euro it costs to bring a civil suit to the Courts?? Also in order to win you have to prove harm... Nobody is actually directly harmed by this kind of reporting (as long as nobody is identified)

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By *eankaren88Couple
over a year ago

By the sea


"Is it not the case that all these events, clubs, socials just state in the vetting promoting stage that journalists of any kind are not allowed to the events,

photography is banned, recordings of any kind are banned and disclosing of information is banned from the media with out paying a fee of 1 million euro for example. Then if the rags print information about the event. Any solicitor would be happy to take on the case and get a hefty commission from it.

Has to be some sort of come back for the organised PRIVATE events.

Thats not how the law works.

The judge will ask them is the story "newsworthy". They will reply yes, that its a social commentary of the area, that people need to know the event is on as the people who attend have sex in public areas, flash on the streets etc.

The judge will agree with them. It is newsworthy.

However, and this is a big however.

If you are identified in a photo. You can take a case to court, not the event planners.

The judge will then ask the paper "Is it newsworthy that Paul has consensual sex?"

And they will say "Yes", but the judge will say "No its not, pay paul".

So they can write what they want about the event, show photos of outside, inside, write about everything that happened in there. Organisers can do nothing. They can then add a photo of you, a clients face, and still the organisers can do nothing. However you personally can now sue them for a couple of hundred grand.

Ah yes. I get that.

But if everyone who attended signed / agreed to go based on the the fact that they would not publicize/ tell the rags or are journalists in any form them selves, unless they paid a large 6 figure sum.

Would that not put them off ?

But i do get where you are coming from.

Where the fuck are kink event organisers getting the hundreds of thousands of euro it costs to bring a civil suit to the Courts?? Also in order to win you have to prove harm... Nobody is actually directly harmed by this kind of reporting (as long as nobody is identified) "

Its not a out harm. Its about a signed agreement between the event organiser and the guest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What people get up to is their own business! Why is it so interesting to others? Why do they find it so amusing? Cause they are jealous and wish they were actually able to take part??? "
Ah come on jealous of what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in

Whats to stop them from getting all the other media employees to make accounts, photo verified and then verifying each other just to get an easy invite to a real party?"

All the other media employees? U mean literally everyone who works in the media in Ireland is gonns go undercover and stsart verifying each other like mad just so 1 of them can get into a club? Really???

I think people need to chill about this. If you're not ashamed of your sex life then you've nothing to worry about. The clubs do their best but that's all they can do. So if you're so petrified of someone finding out that u, an adult, attending night clubs where some people have sex... Maybe stop going to them? We're all grown ups here. We know what we're doing. We know the risks. And we have full control of our choices and the positions we put ourselves in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in

Whats to stop them from getting all the other media employees to make accounts, photo verified and then verifying each other just to get an easy invite to a real party?

All the other media employees? U mean literally everyone who works in the media in Ireland is gonns go undercover and stsart verifying each other like mad just so 1 of them can get into a club? Really???

I think people need to chill about this. If you're not ashamed of your sex life then you've nothing to worry about. The clubs do their best but that's all they can do. So if you're so petrified of someone finding out that u, an adult, attending night clubs where some people have sex... Maybe stop going to them? We're all grown ups here. We know what we're doing. We know the risks. And we have full control of our choices and the positions we put ourselves in. "

Amen sista!

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in

Whats to stop them from getting all the other media employees to make accounts, photo verified and then verifying each other just to get an easy invite to a real party?

All the other media employees? U mean literally everyone who works in the media in Ireland is gonns go undercover and stsart verifying each other like mad just so 1 of them can get into a club? Really???

I think people need to chill about this. If you're not ashamed of your sex life then you've nothing to worry about. The clubs do their best but that's all they can do. So if you're so petrified of someone finding out that u, an adult, attending night clubs where some people have sex... Maybe stop going to them? We're all grown ups here. We know what we're doing. We know the risks. And we have full control of our choices and the positions we put ourselves in. "

Preach . We're all consenting adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex sells especially in this backwards country."

Massive respect for you guys. Love CLAIRE x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It usually people that preach there discrete that are the most lose lipped bragging about how well known they are events organizers can't be held responsible for every one that go to there events Sunday world probably offered someone€50 for a quote and added the rest simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in

Whats to stop them from getting all the other media employees to make accounts, photo verified and then verifying each other just to get an easy invite to a real party?

All the other media employees? U mean literally everyone who works in the media in Ireland is gonns go undercover and stsart verifying each other like mad just so 1 of them can get into a club? Really???

I think people need to chill about this. If you're not ashamed of your sex life then you've nothing to worry about. The clubs do their best but that's all they can do. So if you're so petrified of someone finding out that u, an adult, attending night clubs where some people have sex... Maybe stop going to them? We're all grown ups here. We know what we're doing. We know the risks. And we have full control of our choices and the positions we put ourselves in. "

Think you're being a bit contrite here, and typical of popular forumite you laugh at other in a passive bullying way instead of listening to another view. Don't think they meant literally all but to mock them you've taken that stance to defend some moral high ground.

Yet you use the very extreme example of if you're not ashamed then you've NOTHING to worry about. The real possibility of loosing ones job if one is in the public sector or working in an environment of child protection, of ones young kids seeing or hearing that you were out fucking strangers, the results of that could be catastrophic, and it has little to do with being ashamed of being a swinger or being on a sex site.

Many of you do forget that most on fab are not swingers, as in a life style, some of you are not either.

For those with families, especially young, and with such a tight but community in the north it doesn't take long for fire to spread.

Some of you are obviously unaware of what happened at swingfields a few years ago with some very catastrophic results to a couple families involving primary school children coming home with photos on their phones of parents in very explicit positions with strangers. Its not fantasy but is reality and the organisers and a few others here might want to consider how it can effect others.

For those who think it'll bring in new blood, yes it may bring in a few naïve newbies but conversely it will have put off many well verified fabbers, not because they are ashamed as some seem to suggest that they are, but I'd say some who know the potential consequences.

I had considered going but would seriously think twice now simply on the back of what's been said about others and how you come across by those who obviously went to it and how those here seem to mock those who consider the exposure less beneficial than the potential fall out results.

I thought season fabbers were more inclusive, but there seems to be an element who are much less so than they shout about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in

Whats to stop them from getting all the other media employees to make accounts, photo verified and then verifying each other just to get an easy invite to a real party?

All the other media employees? U mean literally everyone who works in the media in Ireland is gonns go undercover and stsart verifying each other like mad just so 1 of them can get into a club? Really???

I think people need to chill about this. If you're not ashamed of your sex life then you've nothing to worry about. The clubs do their best but that's all they can do. So if you're so petrified of someone finding out that u, an adult, attending night clubs where some people have sex... Maybe stop going to them? We're all grown ups here. We know what we're doing. We know the risks. And we have full control of our choices and the positions we put ourselves in. "

This is at best disingenuous bollocks. There are hardly any "swingers" on this site and those that are, most probably, don't want their personal lifestyle choices splashed all over the front pages. What amount of full control is that?

I know for a fact that whilst people I would class as friends are not ashamed about the choices they make regarding lifestyle, it would lead to many problems both in personal situations and in a business sense. All because some sneaky bastard reporter managed to work their way into a party to report on the "shocking" antics.

It's fine to sit there and say if you're not ashamed you have nothing to worry about but there are wider implications than your little bubble.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in

Whats to stop them from getting all the other media employees to make accounts, photo verified and then verifying each other just to get an easy invite to a real party?

All the other media employees? U mean literally everyone who works in the media in Ireland is gonns go undercover and stsart verifying each other like mad just so 1 of them can get into a club? Really???

I think people need to chill about this. If you're not ashamed of your sex life then you've nothing to worry about. The clubs do their best but that's all they can do. So if you're so petrified of someone finding out that u, an adult, attending night clubs where some people have sex... Maybe stop going to them? We're all grown ups here. We know what we're doing. We know the risks. And we have full control of our choices and the positions we put ourselves in.

Think you're being a bit contrite here, and typical of popular forumite you laugh at other in a passive bullying way instead of listening to another view. Don't think they meant literally all but to mock them you've taken that stance to defend some moral high ground.

Yet you use the very extreme example of if you're not ashamed then you've NOTHING to worry about. The real possibility of loosing ones job if one is in the public sector or working in an environment of child protection, of ones young kids seeing or hearing that you were out fucking strangers, the results of that could be catastrophic, and it has little to do with being ashamed of being a swinger or being on a sex site.

Many of you do forget that most on fab are not swingers, as in a life style, some of you are not either.

For those with families, especially young, and with such a tight but community in the north it doesn't take long for fire to spread.

Some of you are obviously unaware of what happened at swingfields a few years ago with some very catastrophic results to a couple families involving primary school children coming home with photos on their phones of parents in very explicit positions with strangers. Its not fantasy but is reality and the organisers and a few others here might want to consider how it can effect others.

For those who think it'll bring in new blood, yes it may bring in a few naïve newbies but conversely it will have put off many well verified fabbers, not because they are ashamed as some seem to suggest that they are, but I'd say some who know the potential consequences.

I had considered going but would seriously think twice now simply on the back of what's been said about others and how you come across by those who obviously went to it and how those here seem to mock those who consider the exposure less beneficial than the potential fall out results.

I thought season fabbers were more inclusive, but there seems to be an element who are much less so than they shout about."

I think she's right if u hold a position as u said above and could be jeopardised by being exposed for being at such an event its up to u and u alone to protect ur self.there is only so much a club or event holder can do, remember in twenty short years we have come from a total out cry at the first article published in a sunday rag to the only conversation I heard about last sundays article was here on a popular swingers forum with Irish only pics section an Irish forum and an Irish chat room

We are evolving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if someone who wasnt verified started showing an interest in your event even though they have never done before and didnt have adult parties down as one of there interests would you let them in

Whats to stop them from getting all the other media employees to make accounts, photo verified and then verifying each other just to get an easy invite to a real party?

All the other media employees? U mean literally everyone who works in the media in Ireland is gonns go undercover and stsart verifying each other like mad just so 1 of them can get into a club? Really???

I think people need to chill about this. If you're not ashamed of your sex life then you've nothing to worry about. The clubs do their best but that's all they can do. So if you're so petrified of someone finding out that u, an adult, attending night clubs where some people have sex... Maybe stop going to them? We're all grown ups here. We know what we're doing. We know the risks. And we have full control of our choices and the positions we put ourselves in.

This is at best disingenuous bollocks. There are hardly any "swingers" on this site and those that are, most probably, don't want their personal lifestyle choices splashed all over the front pages. What amount of full control is that?

I know for a fact that whilst people I would class as friends are not ashamed about the choices they make regarding lifestyle, it would lead to many problems both in personal situations and in a business sense. All because some sneaky bastard reporter managed to work their way into a party to report on the "shocking" antics.

It's fine to sit there and say if you're not ashamed you have nothing to worry about but there are wider implications than your little bubble."
well done for not getting caught up in the bullshite fab life if we want to keep fab life a secret we should be allowed too without being belittled some profile on here make me cringe with the stuff they sprout out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now the dust has settled, i would like to once again reassure all parttygoers and fab members that we vet people as best we can. it is easy enough, especially for a girl to meet for a coffee and get verified. we apologise to anyone who feels this article has effected them but we will continue to run events for everyone. your (and our) privacy is of our upmost concern, and we do our best to provide an open and safe environment for members to meet. with that all said, i would like to point out that i work in a number of pubs. on sunday i made a point of going to 4 of them, having a chat with regulars and bar staff and NOT 1 of them mentioned the sunday world story. this to me shows how little people think of this story. it is somewhat disappointing that the SW decided to give more front page colum inches to our website photo than the the new GAA all ireland winners.

please feel free to contact us directly with any questions or concerns any off u may have

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