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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do couples/ladies look at single men if they have no interest in them

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

Why do you have to have an interest in meeting someone just to look at them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the point in looking at something you have no interest in its like looking at tractors when you want to buy a car,pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you not have to look to decide if ur interested..also some ladies or couples state if they r ever interested in males they will contact them rather than been bombarded with messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They hoping that by looking they just might change their mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind that but one's who say no single men and emphatically ment it as in no no no no single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the simple reason, they are stuck in the virtual world, as the vast majority here are just displaying their photos, people are only limited to seeing and displaying photos! while the large minority are looking for a date, the site name should be changed to insta fab or face fab as long as people remain afraid of a real date.

more attitude and less bla bla

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Some couples and women put the option up of no single men to stop single men from mailing. It doesn't always mean they aren't looking for single men. It just means if they want one. They will ask them. It stops random mails from guys.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Why do couples/ladies look at single men if they have no interest in them "

You're bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the simple reason, they are stuck in the virtual world, as the vast majority here are just displaying their photos, people are only limited to seeing and displaying photos! while the large minority are looking for a date, the site name should be changed to insta fab or face fab as long as people remain afraid of a real date.

more attitude and less bla bla"
In a nutshell! Sites full of wannabes and facebook mams with little to no intentions of ever meeting anyone

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"For the simple reason, they are stuck in the virtual world, as the vast majority here are just displaying their photos, people are only limited to seeing and displaying photos! while the large minority are looking for a date, the site name should be changed to insta fab or face fab as long as people remain afraid of a real date.

more attitude and less bla bla In a nutshell! Sites full of wannabes and facebook mams with little to no intentions of ever meeting anyone"

Add a bit of sugar to that lemonade. It seems a bit bitter

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"For the simple reason, they are stuck in the virtual world, as the vast majority here are just displaying their photos, people are only limited to seeing and displaying photos! while the large minority are looking for a date, the site name should be changed to insta fab or face fab as long as people remain afraid of a real date.

more attitude and less bla bla In a nutshell! Sites full of wannabes and facebook mams with little to no intentions of ever meeting anyone"

But you met a lovely girl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There might be a couple of reasons.

They might have seen a forum post or update status they thought was interesting or weird and just checked out who said it.

They might actually have some interest in single ment but have the emphatic no on the profile to avoid excess mail...

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"Why do couples/ladies look at single men if they have no interest in them "

Because its their profile, as long as they aren't hurting anyone they can use it as they see fit.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I get that mostly with couples that ain't looking for single males checking my profile out, no big deal about it.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Because they wanted too. Who knows or cares why. There are many reasons and unless they contact you to say, then you'll never know. If you don't want them looking block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no interest in men but often view nearby men to check out the ladies that verify them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have single men currently blocked from messaging. I can't cope with the heah hun wanna fuck messages. I was just permanently rolling my eyes at some of the messages.

So if I do want to meet a single guy I will message him. It's kind of like headhunting I find the candidate myself.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Why do couples/ladies look at single men if they have no interest in them "

Because maybe the single guy verified someone they actually are interested in, and they just want to check out the kind of person they like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be anything.. Even a wee slip of the finger

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I often look at tractors and dont want to buy one.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Also look at boats and wont buy one of them.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

If Im feeling in the mood I browse online for private jets too.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Who knows.... I had some filthy chat this morning which I was convinced was leading to a meet (mainly cos that’s what she said about meeting and told me roughly where she lived ). But no . Another yellow brick road leading nowhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have single men currently blocked from messaging. I can't cope with the heah hun wanna fuck messages. I was just permanently rolling my eyes at some of the messages.

So if I do want to meet a single guy I will message him. It's kind of like headhunting I find the candidate myself."
women paint all fellas with same brush we are not all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have single men currently blocked from messaging. I can't cope with the heah hun wanna fuck messages. I was just permanently rolling my eyes at some of the messages.

So if I do want to meet a single guy I will message him. It's kind of like headhunting I find the candidate myself.women paint all fellas with same brush we are not all the same "

Generalise much??

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are on the fab menu you have to be prepared to be looked at..Its part of the territory..

Perhaps don't look at your 'who viewed me' tab and it won't bother you as much who is looking at you..just a thought..

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I've looked at male profiles even though I have no interest whatsoever in meeting them.

Humans are curious creatures.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

I’m on another site and the same couple view my profile many times every day . I politely message them, but they never reply. There’s no accounting for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which site?

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By *argar90Man
over a year ago

lucan

Nobody is forced into meeting anyone if the interest is there it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it as flattering that the had a peek at my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it as flattering that the had a peek at my profile "

I take it as flattering that THEY had a peek at my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I look at porn but that doesn't mean I want to be in porn..... Wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wemons always looking at me but I can't meet yas all girls

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Does it matter? Helpful hint op..., you not going to have sex with everyone on fab... it would likely fall off if you did....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck it up buttercup

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By *aughtyglintWoman
over a year ago

Any


"If you are on the fab menu you have to be prepared to be looked at..Its part of the territory..

Perhaps don't look at your 'who viewed me' tab and it won't bother you as much who is looking at you..just a thought.."

I don’t look at it or winks. If they are interested let them send a message

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By *aul 100Man
over a year ago

Galway/Limerick

There was me thinking I had real worries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There might be a couple of reasons.

They might have seen a forum post or update status they thought was interesting or weird and just checked out who said it.

They might actually have some interest in single ment but have the emphatic no on the profile to avoid excess mail..."

In a nutshell, I often look at a profile just because of a status update or form post so am sure ladies and couples do also and lots you don't even know they have looked as they don't show it.

They don't want contact single guys as it floods their inbox and makes it impossible to keep track of the conversations they do wish to persue as they get lost in the abyss. Doesn't mean they don't necessaryly play with single guys just if they so want to they will go looking themselves when the need arises

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"There might be a couple of reasons.

They might have seen a forum post or update status they thought was interesting or weird and just checked out who said it.

They might actually have some interest in single ment but have the emphatic no on the profile to avoid excess mail...

In a nutshell, I often look at a profile just because of a status update or form post so am sure ladies and couples do also and lots you don't even know they have looked as they don't show it.

They don't want contact single guys as it floods their inbox and makes it impossible to keep track of the conversations they do wish to persue as they get lost in the abyss. Doesn't mean they don't necessaryly play with single guys just if they so want to they will go looking themselves when the need arises "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK point taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the simple reason, they are stuck in the virtual world, as the vast majority here are just displaying their photos, people are only limited to seeing and displaying photos! while the large minority are looking for a date, the site name should be changed to insta fab or face fab as long as people remain afraid of a real date.

more attitude and less bla bla"

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I have single men currently blocked from messaging. I can't cope with the heah hun wanna fuck messages. I was just permanently rolling my eyes at some of the messages.

So if I do want to meet a single guy I will message him. It's kind of like headhunting I find the candidate myself.women paint all fellas with same brush we are not all the same "

If you had a bowl of sweets and you knew 50% were poison would you eat away or refuse the whole bowl?

Guys who are upset about men all being tarred with the same brush need to take action with other men to deal with that - if the standard of behaviour was higher, it wouldn't be an issue. Don't just moan about women protecting themselves as if THAT'S the problem. It's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If you had a bowl of sweets and you knew 50% were poison would you eat away or refuse the whole bowl?

Guys who are upset about men all being tarred with the same brush need to take action with other men to deal with that - if the standard of behaviour was higher, it wouldn't be an issue. Don't just moan about women protecting themselves as if THAT'S the problem. It's not.

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I dont think most guys care about being Tarred with the same brush as it doesnt really happen. And the argument that single men acting like asshats making it harder for the rest of us is utter toss.

They set such an incredibly low bar and level of expectation that its easy to look somewhat sane/charming/normal in comparision.

The only thing I would ask from your post is exactly what action do you expect other men to take when we dont recieve the abuse to report. There isnt much that you can do other that tut tut at others and lets face it the people acting like dicks either really dont care or get kicks out of the "good guys" condeming their behaviour

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By *adBountyMan
over a year ago

Northside ;) D7

In fairness, some guys would've engaged themselves in a couple account to reach guys out by saying "wanna fuck my girl". There isn't really a way that you can avoid that unless just meeting women and good luck with that because seems that everybody's gotten a fwb already and mostly peps aren't meeting.

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