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By *arrickcol78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin Cork Belfast

Hi all

Just curious as to if there is such a thing as a best opening message to get a reply or is it all down to name / profile

Not all messages ‘Read’ match a profile view so guessing it’s message but what is best

Suspect the females on here sick of cock pics but what about a casual hi how’s things / funny (attempted funny) opener, compliment or just perv lol

C

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

It depends on the person each one is different

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By *aughtyglintWoman
over a year ago

Any

Personally I like funny one liners especially if they give an indication you’ve read my profile or a humorous introduction to your self but that’s just me. Can’t speak for all the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one message suits all.

Wouldn't it be boring and a lot more tedious if it did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I here that sending a cock pic works every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Hi fancy a fuk?” ...works first time, every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Just curious as to if there is such a thing as a best opening message to get a reply or is it all down to name / profile

Not all messages ‘Read’ match a profile view so guessing it’s message but what is best

Suspect the females on here sick of cock pics but what about a casual hi how’s things / funny (attempted funny) opener, compliment or just perv lol

C

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Well first of all not all profile views show up if the lady in question is in ninja mode so I wouldnt rule that out.....

As for a mail its hard to.sy what mail is best but the rule I always use is if I cant think of something I would find interesting or funny myself its probably not worth sending a mail, dont force it.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Hi all

Just curious as to if there is such a thing as a best opening message to get a reply or is it all down to name / profile

Not all messages ‘Read’ match a profile view so guessing it’s message but what is best

Suspect the females on here sick of cock pics but what about a casual hi how’s things / funny (attempted funny) opener, compliment or just perv lol

C

"

There isn't any magic tactic, everyone is different in what attracts them.

Personally, I like it when there's an indication the person has read my profile and has given me something to respond to in their message too.

This is in conjunction with a good (ie filled out, informative, attractive) profile, and pics that give me an idea of what they look like.

A good message without a good profile is a waste of time (for me).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself maaan

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Simpy "Cut, paste and repeat" Op...

and remember it's just a numbers game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice legs what time do they open

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Your place or mine?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Just be yourself maaan "

The kaizer is a very wise man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice legs what time do they open "

I’ll have to use this one someday

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Hmmmm...I'd attempt to assist you but I notice you have me blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that suggests they’ve taken the time to read my profile, a bit of humour to suggest they aren’t boring, a fun fact about themselves..

Basically no ‘hi’ ‘how’s you’ ‘wanna fuck’ messages. Also really not a fan of being bombarded with dick pics..they are probably already on your profile so if I like what I read, I’ll choose to view them!

I did receive a complete essay from someone recently, some of the snippets were that he wanted to fuck me ‘until the lions and tigers left the jungle’ and ‘so hard and deep’ that my sky tv ‘flips through all the channels’. Unfortunately for him I don’t have sky tv and there are no jungles nearby, so it’s not a match!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something that suggests they’ve taken the time to read my profile, a bit of humour to suggest they aren’t boring, a fun fact about themselves..

Basically no ‘hi’ ‘how’s you’ ‘wanna fuck’ messages. Also really not a fan of being bombarded with dick pics..they are probably already on your profile so if I like what I read, I’ll choose to view them!

I did receive a complete essay from someone recently, some of the snippets were that he wanted to fuck me ‘until the lions and tigers left the jungle’ and ‘so hard and deep’ that my sky tv ‘flips through all the channels’. Unfortunately for him I don’t have sky tv and there are no jungles nearby, so it’s not a match!"

You would have thought that they could have applied some local sayings and used fuck you ‘until the cows come home’ instead

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Something that suggests they’ve taken the time to read my profile, a bit of humour to suggest they aren’t boring, a fun fact about themselves..

Basically no ‘hi’ ‘how’s you’ ‘wanna fuck’ messages. Also really not a fan of being bombarded with dick pics..they are probably already on your profile so if I like what I read, I’ll choose to view them!

I did receive a complete essay from someone recently, some of the snippets were that he wanted to fuck me ‘until the lions and tigers left the jungle’ and ‘so hard and deep’ that my sky tv ‘flips through all the channels’. Unfortunately for him I don’t have sky tv and there are no jungles nearby, so it’s not a match!"

I've had some of those fantasy 'essays' too. They really make me cringe, but at least they do show just how thoughtless and selfish someone would be in bed, because after all, without having ever spoken to you, their fantasy is 100% what they want and to their taste and has no regard whatsoever for your tastes or desires.

The worst opening texts start with 'I want to', because what they really want to do is give no thought at all as to what the person they're mailing may want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself maaan

The kaizer is a very wise man! "

If you build it they will come DH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell you the ones that dont work.. lol

kidding I don't send many messages at the moment but I think a good start is read all the profile.. and always when you can refer to their bio or if there is a photo that catches your eye compliment.. oh and always ask a question.

if it's a one liner when I was part of a couple we would just delete..

so in one word lol...EFFORT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy just say I loveeeee shopping instant panty dropper

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