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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeeeeee! Not in Donegal though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to think I am and the people I’ve met would say the same about me

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


" "

Mmmmuaaaaa Kaizer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Mmmmuaaaaa Kaizer "

Thank you Miss Hood

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Likewise, up to others to say one way or the other.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Ah I don't know... I can be a bit of a bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah I don't know... I can be a bit of a bollocks "

At least you admit it lol

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"Ah I don't know... I can be a bit of a bollocks

At least you admit it lol "

See too bloody honest is my problem!

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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

To quote Burns, oh the gift to gie us,to see ourself as others see us.

So I hope that others see me as a good guy.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

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By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

There's a few good men (left)

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

You don't want the truth because deep down in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that wall -- you need me on that wall.

We use words like "honor," "code," "loyalty." We use these words as the backbone of a life spent defending something. You use them as a punch line.

I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very freedom that I provide and then questions the manner in which I provide it.

I would rather that you just said "thank you" and went on your way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon and stand the post. Either way, I don't give a DAMN what you think you're entitled to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a few good men (left)"

A "few"

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There are decent guys on here I'd like to think a lot are but you do have to through the cockwombles to find them. It usually starts to show within a few messages if they are genuine or not I find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define good

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Yeah I'm one of the good men... With the exception of painting... I'm shit at painting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do my best and can say no fairer than that.

Some mornings yeah I might wake up and think I'm going to drive in the outside lane on the M50 and no matter what I'm not moving.

But I mean that's the height of my indecency

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Obviously me.

If you're not using me as the gold standard of nice, then you need a new gold standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think i am 100% Genuine Man x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yeah I'm one of the good men... With the exception of painting... I'm shit at painting!

Ah no and painting is high on the lists of requirements on so may profiles as well. Ah well can't win them all I guess

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By *sa_curiousMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Tá mo lámh suas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should get the woman because I'm great. In fact, I think I should get both women, in case one of them doesn't work! Guess the tv show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite subjective and doubt any would admit otherwise, but ones good man may not be seen the same by another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I'm one of the good men... With the exception of painting... I'm shit at painting! "

Just as well I can do my own painting. Any good with a drill?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my best, like to think I'm good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d imagine there are some A1 men on here, I’d consider myself one!

Just a couple of maniacs attempting to ruin it for the lot of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im lovely... because of the effort of raising my hand I now expect a ride thank you.....

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By *inkyguyniMan
over a year ago

c


"I do my best and can say no fairer than that.

Some mornings yeah I might wake up and think I'm going to drive in the outside lane on the M50 and no matter what I'm not moving.

But I mean that's the height of my indecency "

pitch forks at the ready this is the man on the outside lane of the m50 driving at 30 kph lol

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Awk you guys ... alot of perving going on here...

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The trouble is a lot of the guys on here will say they are this and that, pretending to be something or someone they aren't in order to get exactly what they want. They say there is someone for everyone so be truthful, be yourself, be respectful. Its a question of that chemistry with who you are interested in to start. I don't mind being judged on who I am and am and hopefully those that know me smile and those that don't still smile and wonder

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"I’d imagine there are some A1 men on here, I’d consider myself one!

Just a couple of maniacs attempting to ruin it for the lot of us! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to step forward also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trouble is a lot of the guys on here will say they are this and that, pretending to be something or someone they aren't in order to get exactly what they want. They say there is someone for everyone so be truthful, be yourself, be respectful. Its a question of that chemistry with who you are interested in to start. I don't mind being judged on who I am and am and hopefully those that know me smile and those that don't still smile and wonder"

Those that have met and know you count, those that haven't can only speculate.

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By *immycorkhillMan
over a year ago

Derry

I’m a nice dude, manners cost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would raise my hand as a good man , but to be honest I can't raise my hand ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

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Well ,I've never sent a nasty Message or reply to any lady on this site ,100% respect to them always..so if that makes me a good guy ..well and good ...but thing is it's not really my decision that would confirm anything of the sort...that is ..like most things in this joint ,the decision of the lady .

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I suppose I'm alright.

Maybe just a little too quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

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Pity I'm in Dublin and not up home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sent a nasty message on here I respect others so I'm not that cruel. If I get a no it's a no or a non reply I ll leave them alone. Respect the other persons wishes no need to get nasty.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Did a Forrest Gump the majority of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waving both my hands in the air

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By *inkyguyniMan
over a year ago

c


"Awk you guys ... alot of perving going on here... "
we can’t help it lol

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I'd like to think I'm one of the OK ones.

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom

I try to be one of them anyway.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"You don't want the truth because deep down in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that wall -- you need me on that wall.

We use words like "honor," "code," "loyalty." We use these words as the backbone of a life spent defending something. You use them as a punch line.

I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very freedom that I provide and then questions the manner in which I provide it.

I would rather that you just said "thank you" and went on your way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon and stand the post. Either way, I don't give a DAMN what you think you're entitled to!"

"you can't handle the truth!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm one of the good ones. Why would anyone send nasty txt to people. Its childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

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I’m good

But only when you don’t make me do bad things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

I’m good

But only when you don’t make me do bad things "

Your bad

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

I’m good

But only when you don’t make me do bad things

Your bad "

You haven’t seen me at my worst .... yet

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand is raised, me miss me miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to be a good/nice guy.. Manners make the man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do my best to try and be decent and respect....but it seems to count for little here

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By *oathangerMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

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By *oathangerMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

A lunatic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can definitely be good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I think there are a few good men on here.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm good at what I do.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

A good man is not judged just by his words but by his actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good man is not judged just by his words but by his actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

He was d*unk definitely, next day read all the messages he sent and was brave enough to say "sorry".

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'd put my hand up but have to consider my visits to the Naughty Step, so most of the time I'm ok but not all of the time.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Here

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I haven't noticed any decline in 'good men' on here, but maybe I missed something....

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city

I think your on the wrong site my dear. This site is full of bad an naughty ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im alright i guess

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By *orethanenough73Man
over a year ago

City centre

I'm good.... When I'm asleep

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By *aughthycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Raised

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By *ransBoiTV/TS
over a year ago

Somewhere

Raised

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By *edro50Man
over a year ago

enniskillen

I can be so hand raised!"present miss".lol

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

The way he reacted when you nicely rejected him says it all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Raised "

I've got a stiffy too.

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Hand high in the air......

Good with other tools too....not just my own lol

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By *assionfruitfunCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

The way he reacted when you nicely rejected him says it all..."

Yip agree with little Miss Red there, look out for inconsistent behaviour. He sounds very imbalanced. Anyone on a liberal sex site who calls a woman a slut for being in here (When it's not part of kinky role play that is lol ) is definately not the kinda guy you wanna be meeting, apology or not. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

The way he reacted when you nicely rejected him says it all...

Yip agree with little Miss Red there, look out for inconsistent behaviour. He sounds very imbalanced. Anyone on a liberal sex site who calls a woman a slut for being in here (When it's not part of kinky role play that is lol ) is definately not the kinda guy you wanna be meeting, apology or not. Xx "

I politely declined someone recently when he sent a wanna fuck message. His response was to say he was better off as I looked like a slut riddled with every disease going.

Thankfully though there is a lot of funny smart genuine and big ridey handsome men on here that make up for the douchebags

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By *eelum1988Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm always good and gentle to the ladies..

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

hands up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

A better man than most. He recognised the errors and was big enough to both apologise and then respect your wishes. Both good qualities. We all without exception make split decision errors.

I always judge someone nor company by the way they deal and fix an issue, even if they created it in the first instance.

If one doesn't provide the option for them to sort it one never gets to know the real person inside. Well done for providing the chance. He's better for it because he knows he is capable of being bigger than the problem he caused and so are you for allowing it to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that. "

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion. "

Manners is simply a facade for many people, they use it to get what they want and the mask quickly slips when they are thwarted. His reaction shows both his own lack of control over his ego and his true feelings towards women - two red flags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

Manners is simply a facade for many people, they use it to get what they want and the mask quickly slips when they are thwarted. His reaction shows both his own lack of control over his ego and his true feelings towards women - two red flags. "

Hard to disagree with those two points ....one would get the vibe of " how dare you or who do you think you are to turn down my advances " coming from a guy like that.. rejection is something guys have to handle in this joint and if they find rejection hard to take ,then being honest, they shouldn't be here,yes the ladies here are looking for sex but they will ultimately decide who with and that is something no guy is ever gonna change and a guy getting all nasty about it ain't gonna help and only proves that the lady was right in her decision in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the unforgiving nature of most, generally a generated by an inflated option of themselves over others a society dictated by the idea that the individual is more important than the collective and the I'd never do anything like that approach. There's not a single person here who hasn't some form of ego and succumbs to it. If we all to an approach of recognising and accepting we all make mistakes and focused on how they are rectified, all of us, fab and this country would be living in a very different light than we currently do.

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over a year ago


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

Manners is simply a facade for many people, they use it to get what they want and the mask quickly slips when they are thwarted. His reaction shows both his own lack of control over his ego and his true feelings towards women - two red flags. "

Very true

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

My hand is a loft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t understand why people get nasty or aggressive on here or anywhere else. We are all deserving of basic respect. You give it, and certainly expect it. Rejection should be expected, it’s part of this life. Being a dick about it won’t get you any success, it’s not just guys though, I’ve come across some pretty obnoxious couples and females too. That said only a tiny minority

By and large Fabbers are Fab

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

No need for nasty stuff iam definitely genuine and not into insulting any lady

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By *ornyrepMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Hey fabbers. Been away for a few days. What have I missed?

I'd definitely like to raise a hand here. Utter gentleman. If I do say so myself. I think were a dying breed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the unforgiving nature of most, generally a generated by an inflated option of themselves over others a society dictated by the idea that the individual is more important than the collective and the I'd never do anything like that approach. There's not a single person here who hasn't some form of ego and succumbs to it. If we all to an approach of recognising and accepting we all make mistakes and focused on how they are rectified, all of us, fab and this country would be living in a very different light than we currently do."

And the forgiving approach, coupled with ignoring red flags and acceptance of faux apologies, is what lures people into, and traps them, in abusive situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgiving a person doesn't mean you return for more of the same behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my best to carry myself with respect at all times. Only people whom I interact with can agree or disagree. I’d love to know how people I interact with view me. A nice guy or not?

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By *uxedoMan
over a year ago

city

I'm holding my hand fully erect.... ....woops, days not my hand

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

Manners is simply a facade for many people, they use it to get what they want and the mask quickly slips when they are thwarted. His reaction shows both his own lack of control over his ego and his true feelings towards women - two red flags.

I have to agree with this once a guy is that rude I won't meet them it is a major red flag to me. I've been called so many names on here because I politely declined to meet some guys. Quite a few guys think the women especially single ones are sluts to be used for their pleasure when they want us. I'm here for mutual pleasure and fun.The guys who resort to name calling etc are people I have no interest in meeting. And I don't care if they apologise I won't meet them they have shown their true colours in that crap response and it would make me think if we had a social and I didn't want it to go farther how would he react then. It's too risky for me to chance that anyhow.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It is the unforgiving nature of most, generally a generated by an inflated option of themselves over others a society dictated by the idea that the individual is more important than the collective and the I'd never do anything like that approach. There's not a single person here who hasn't some form of ego and succumbs to it. If we all to an approach of recognising and accepting we all make mistakes and focused on how they are rectified, all of us, fab and this country would be living in a very different light than we currently do.

And the forgiving approach, coupled with ignoring red flags and acceptance of faux apologies, is what lures people into, and traps them, in abusive situations.

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By *night999Man
over a year ago

ffrd

I’m ere too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good man here.. i even have a sense of humour.

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

plenty here one here.

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By *ames in LaoisMan
over a year ago

portloaise

I'd like to think I am and that my actions reflect that. Never sent a nasty message on here because I can't comprehend why anyone would do that, for any reason. Being respectful is something people believe in or they don't. Anyone who justifies not being respectful and blames others for their own behaviour does not have respect for others deep down, only when it suits them. You don't get to cherry-pick when you are or are not respectful.

Either you are or you aren't

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

I'd class myself as a good man

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By *otfuzz85Man
over a year ago

Terenure

I’d consider myself a decent fella.. I always try and be respectful of everyone on here. Much love to all you sexy fabbers.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Hello i consider myself a very respectfull guy easy going not shy type .

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By *ove2please44Man
over a year ago

Dublin 12

Yo! Right here!

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By *assionfruitfunCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

Manners is simply a facade for many people, they use it to get what they want and the mask quickly slips when they are thwarted. His reaction shows both his own lack of control over his ego and his true feelings towards women - two red flags. "

Fully agree there on the red flags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the unforgiving nature of most, generally a generated by an inflated option of themselves over others a society dictated by the idea that the individual is more important than the collective and the I'd never do anything like that approach. There's not a single person here who hasn't some form of ego and succumbs to it. If we all to an approach of recognising and accepting we all make mistakes and focused on how they are rectified, all of us, fab and this country would be living in a very different light than we currently do.

And the forgiving approach, coupled with ignoring red flags and acceptance of faux apologies, is what lures people into, and traps them, in abusive situations. "

Catch 22 I guess.

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By *iss_dont_tellMan
over a year ago

Clare

what accounts for a good man though? isn't that a matter of taste?

I mean im not talking about the people that are rude to others is never acceptable say abusive things! I do believe in here there are few nut jobs that think is press a button and instant fuck

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

I'd like to think I treat people the way I like to be treated. Manners and respect doest cost anyone a thing.

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

People take this site way to serious if they don’t float your boat rock on no harm done,rejection some people can’t take and then they get nasty but no all the men or women on here are the same well pointed by op not taring us all with the same brush,happy fabbing fabbers

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By *pringbok95Couple
over a year ago

Limavady

Hand raised. So come say Hi Pm anytime.

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By *osyMan
over a year ago

athlone

I would count myself as a good guy non pushy and respect the other person decision whether they reply to my messages or not but some women on here are really up there own hole.

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By *osyMan
over a year ago

athlone

I would count myself as a good guy non pushy and respect the other person decision whether they reply to my messages or not but some women on here are really up there own hole.

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By *oolguy4uMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Well I think I'm a great guy but you will never know until you try

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By *icklowhornMan
over a year ago

Dublin Wicklow

Ok then, I’ll admit I am one of the good ones. Don’t tell anybody though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to think I treat people the way I like to be treated. Manners and respect doest cost anyone a thing."

Ah you're alright, I suppose

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Guess I'm bad but respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the good guys are taken...the fun guys are on Fab...unfortunately so too are the bad guys...its the bad gus giving the Fun guys a bad press...if you want good go to the vanilla world

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By *ickspring123Man
over a year ago

kildare

Yep guitly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not a good man but I'm alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not too bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"
If you want a top class meal you go to a top class restaurant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me but I like to try to be a bad girl to

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By *oody500Man
over a year ago

Bray

I try my best to be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good men Good Women hmmmmm hard to know what side of the fence to stand on....

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By *mazballs69Man
over a year ago

Countryside


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"

There are still a few of us left believe it or not

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By *rct4Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"

I'm usually very good, but then again, it's difficult to know for sure if you cannot get into a dialogue with who you message. Such is the nature of this place..

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

I’m the best there is on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am good but i am right as well as left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reckon I'm up there if you catch me on a good day!!

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By *oad tripperMan
over a year ago

derry

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Nah!

Stay away.

Trust me, I ain't worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"

Where have all the good men gone ??... holding out for a hero..is it that the song you're looking for...

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah multi-tasking, the great challenge... trying to raise my hand and blow my own trumpet at the same time...

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By *oftgentle123Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Comolete and utter wanker here

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By *lashamMan
over a year ago

kildare

I don't want to be a good man

I don't want to find a good woman

So I'll just be a good man till a good woman wants me to be very very very bad

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Meh

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By *heRealDeal91Man
over a year ago

Banbridge

I can be dead on sometimes lol

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Some bad men have learned all they know from bitter nasty woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I raise my hand?;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yep, but just as invisible as the rest. So much choice for the couples and single ladies means the vast majority will sink without trace, no matter what. Have to be philosophical about it, but you probably have to be lucky enough to find the good ones in a sea of messages - either that or reply to every good message. Of course there's always the novelty of actually of sending a single guy the first message........but that'll never happen. ????????

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Nope....don't think so

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards

We are all bas@a#ds , thought everyone new that by now.

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By *onathan kMan
over a year ago

sligo ballymote

I am putting up my hand I am one of the good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"
Good men go where they can find a good woman and that an't here.

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm the very last one! ...so you'd better hurry before I'm snapped up!

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"

What's a good man in today's world? I'll put my hand up in any case

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By *un man 13Man
over a year ago

sligo

Loads of good men about but yes there is some nasty people on here but a diamond ?? will always shine

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By *hilled sexy guyMan
over a year ago

dublin

Putting my hand up. But unfortunately am outside your age range. Any chance of adding on a few years to your age limits. In Sligo for week from tomorrow. Only up the road to donegal. ??

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm a good man and I'd say there is loads of good men on here and in life in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anseo!

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

Good men go where they can find a good woman and that an't here. "

No they arent here

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By *lowersMan
over a year ago

Derry


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"

There are a few of us left yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

I put my hand up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many messers on here it takes from the genuine lads and it's not easy to be taken as real with all the dopes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of good guys out there . There are even some here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it`s worth, I`ll raise my hand

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By *reenfrogoMan
over a year ago

nearby


"You don't want the truth because deep down in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that wall -- you need me on that wall.

We use words like "honor," "code," "loyalty." We use these words as the backbone of a life spent defending something. You use them as a punch line.

I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very freedom that I provide and then questions the manner in which I provide it.

I would rather that you just said "thank you" and went on your way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon and stand the post. Either way, I don't give a DAMN what you think you're entitled to!"

I see what you did there....nice!! ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hand isn't the only thing raised up.... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of good guys out there . There are even some here "

There are some good guys here that I want to be bad for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my best to be a nice guy

Get nothing outta being a dick tbh

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

My hand is up I’d consider myself a nice guy

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"

I can't. My hands are busy.

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